Sxb NGONGE or Professor NGONGE just curious man if u dont mind what was ur area of study?

Originally posted by -Serenity-: Have you not noticed the name change Xiin ? its Serenity . Say it with me, Serenity . Amelia is much better!!! What does changing names often say about a person? hmmmm? Salaam to u my sister

Originally posted by Khalaf: ^^^Don't let her fool u sxb....the ones that act like they dont care for romance are the soft ones yaa muminah i bet u cry reading love novels or watching love movies ^^^jokes really :rolleyes:

^^^Don't let her fool u sxb....the ones that act like they dont care for romance are the soft ones yaa muminah i bet u cry reading love novels or watching love movies

yaa Pucca u exist? aight ill be the annoying one make um say that is just a tire to my eyes Listen to me young ppl of 20s subhana! Originally posted by OneManGang: [Q] My advice to you is leave the nigga as soon as possible. I am a Somali guy and I know how we guys think. If a niga was with you that long and suddenly decided to cut the relationship its because he feels he fed up with you and decided to look around for fresh girl. I did the same with this girl I used to fcuk with. I just get tired of her, she was basically my wife and i figured i had enough of her. Sad, but thats the harsh reality in the States. [/Q] My brother those who think like that are not Somali brothers but “niggas†as u said. We are Muslims and Allah Most Great says: “Indeed in the Messenger you have a great example.†Marka we should treat women with respect and honor….and second it is one of the worst sins in Islam to have intimate relationships outside marriage. I know its 21 century, temptations, were young, easy woman available, ect….but it is not hard once u learn the deen and surround yourself with good ppl who remind you of Allah. If I can do it with all these girls around u can do it too As for sister who posted the topic no disrespect intended but I doubt a muslimah, a good sister who follows her deen and fears Allah Much would attract losers. Allah has saved u my sister….u still have your honor….learn from this inshallah.

Nur you asked: Could you elaborate on how you would use the Quraan and Sunnah alone (without any need to assess the current situation of your adversaries in the conflict) to reach an equitable settlement with the jews in israel? Now this may sound like preaching...I was on the speech team yo but heres what I think about the situation of not only the Muslims in the Middle East and their current conflicts but for the entire Muslim Ummah including what is happening in Somalia. During these times today- the 21 first century we the Muslim Ummah are in the meccan period as during the time of the Prophet Muhammad blessings and peace be with him. Now what does this mean? Um sure u are aware my brother that during the meccan period the Muslims were a persecuted minority, with neither a state or an army, no such thing as khalifah or shairah was in sight. Tho today we are vast in number….we are in the same situation! Marka what did they those whom we should follow do? They called the people to Islam and to make the people follow the commandments of Allah Most Great. Quran and Sunnah Alone. Not 80% nor 90% but 100% following the Quran and complete rejection and separation of anything and everything that is in conflict with Al-Islam. Thus they created a community of belief and we should do the same….instead of worrying about the external jihad or confronting the new world order……we must make jihad against our own selves first and go back to the basic fundamentals of Islam. As Allah says: Allah has promised to those among you who believe and work righteous deeds that He will of a surety grant them in the land inheritance (of power) as He granted it to those before them…..(Quran) You got Muslims today who do not pray nor keep fast nor are righteous nor know Islam well yet talk about the Muslim Ummah and jihad. This religion is simple: educate yourself, your families, your community, follow the Quran and Sunnah and Allah Help will be near. As you know my brother the Muslim Ummah are weak in materialism, centuries behind…..however Islam is superior morally never did the Muslims ever gain victory with superior strength but with religion. Once this is done a community of believers whose guide is only the Quran and Sunnah should form a Medina a state with righteous rule…. This is the difficult part…because the Muslims have no Abu Baker(ra) or an Umar (ra). But we have the Quran and Sunnah and possibly a medina for example-Xamar. Nur u said: Brother, this verse describes Jews at the time of the revelation and Muslims of today, which group do you plan to fight first? using verses out of context can lead to disasters. Can u tell me how this verse out of context? The verse describes bani Israel not only at that time but all times. Before anything hearts should be purified first. You said: Unless we separate racial hatred of Jews as a race, from our conflict of Aqeedah and faith with present day israel and Zionist Jews worldwide, we will fail to deliver Allah's message to the very Jews that we are at odds on land issues. Because that is exactly how Jews perceive Arabs and Muslims. But Jews draw racism from their falsely recorded religion that taught them that gentiles are like animals, but in islam, non-Muslims are respected and protected, devided into two groups, non combatants (should never be attacked) and combatants should be. However, in the present Mideast mess, we have a plethora of factors that wil make a boy grey in a day. A believer in Allah can never hate nor harm a human being….the toleration of the Muslims and the respect and protection they have provided to non-Muslims is unparalleled in human history. The Muslims controlled India for 1000 years, yet that nation is majority Hindu today, no Muslim solider in Indonesia, yet Indonesia has the largest Muslim population. Christian churches and synagogues still exist in Muslim countries. This modern violence against aggression of state terrorism is unislamic since there are strict guidelines when it comes to fighting. Inshallah I answered your questions my brother….its funny u mention present conflicts can turn a boy grey…. in High school I was very interested about these conflicts doing debates speeches…..growing old mentally! but now I feel like that meccan nomad worrying only of my camels. If u look at the world today….many conflicts involving Muslims.....the 21st will see big changes I think. But as the Quran says: let those who believe put their trust in Allah. Allah Alone is suffcient for the believers!

^^^Dude why u put me in there? :confused: I was sane and mature from the beginning! :cool:

Originally posted by Valenteenah: [Q] quote: Originally posted by Khalaf: Ahura , first insecure now “expectably†narrow minded :confused: ….u got anything good to say about me :mad: Khalaf, I was trying to tell you, as politely as possible, that your faarax-mentality leaves a lot to be desired. [/Q]a lot to be desired I don't think u will tell me then what that is...so I wont ask. If u knew me Ahura u wouldve never say that....but my words convey that message I guess. It must be the women and age thing it gots be um out salaamun

At the beginning of the clip I was like muthafers what :mad: ….then I saw the other dude kick and pull the punk off the girl alhamdu big relief!….I don’t think I could take seeing what I thought was going happen . U misled us dude! Those of you who mentioned this is result of “sexual deprivation†u are wrong! Islam encourages separation of the sexes and teaches ppl iman and morals within. Lower the gaze and have modesty….it dont matter if the woman is covered and wearing a niqaab or a bikini walking the streets….if u have morals within and noble u could never grab a woman not even if she is butt naked run away…..fear Allah! But not all men are noble…thus Allah Most Great set down guidelines for women such as not only covering yourself but having a mahram!

Originally posted by Socod_badne: May God have clemency on any woman who shares a life with you! I agree with u man…..may Allah have mercy on the woman that ends up with me! She will be in big trouble u get me….unleash a beast on her and its charity. Allahu Akbar! I will make much halal charity inshallah. Ahura , first insecure now “expectably†narrow minded :confused: ….u got anything good to say about me :mad: its the reality my sister …..woman at older age have less options….in somali culture particular. A brother can be 40 shit 60 can pick among many young woman….but does a 30 yr or 40 yr old woman have the same options….NO. Thus it is best to marry early in ur 20s….woman keep saying calaf….he will come to my door…..break down doors if u have to and get moving time is ticking everytime ur egg breaks thats a potential fetus I learned that in 8th grade health class!…..u wont find the “one†if you dont search it. As I told my cousin Ill tell yall: Get Going already….late 20s is old

What? A Wig? False Hair? you know this is haram right? Fake nails also haraaaaaaaaaaam! Its against the religion Wildcat.

Originally posted by Tyjwania: And just now that I'm two moons passed mid 20 [there you go, whoever was asking ] ready to have kids, can really afford to give them everything they need to be happy, healthy and have a good life, nin ma leh! Every guy I have met has this impression that I should be baking canjeero barefoot, and when they realize I don't fit that mold they start looking for someone else. Well, good riddance to bad rubbish, I say ! I believe Allah has plans for all of us, if we're meant to be alone so be it. I will be spending the rest of my life single with Gizmo. At least he accepts me for who I am, and doesn't try to change me. That means ur 27? Look walaalshiis a woman should get marriered early why? Cause yall have an expiration date! No hard feelings but its the reality. U may have lots of choices now keep saying uff to every brother….then bam u are in your 30s…still no man…and u will become a charity case…take any dude that wants u! U remind me of my cousin I dont know if u got her beauty, but damn this girl is so beautiful, talented, incredibly smart, professional job, good heart but every brother she says uff to…even tho she wants marriage. Calaf she says she doesnt c the one!….maybe but get moving time is ticking! Naden, that is the ugliest dude :eek: ….monkey looking dude.U like dark skin and big muscles? How about light skin..tall and skinny? U are joking….women specially our women don’t like younger men they want a man to tell them what to do and take control I c it walaalhi….would a 26 yr old Somali woman be with 19 or 20 yr old brother? NO! They c u as little kid!!! I like older women! Come on how stella i mean xalimo got her groove back!

Originally posted by J B: Khalaf, Castro demands one to think a little bit longer than the nose and sift the theological knowledge one posecess, how much of it is purely ones own and how much of it are carefully placed there by among other people our lovely " Parents". Sxb, its not our brother Castro but your Lord Allah Most Great that demands one to think longer and contemplate about the world, universe, creation. Islam is for men of understanding…..thats why u find men of knowledge preists, scientists entering this religion As Muslims we are told to seek knowledge, explore the universe Allah says: "Verily in the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the alternation of night and day - there are indeed signs for men of understanding; Men who remember Allah, standing, sitting, and lying down on their sides, and contemplate the creation of the heavens and the earth (with the thought) "Our Lord! Not for nothing have You created (all) this. Glory to You! Give us salvation from the suffering of the Fire."[Quran] And Islam is against blind faith or following forefathers: "Yet of mankind is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or a book giving light! And when it is said to them: "Follow that which Allah sent down", they say: "Nay, we shall follow that which we found our fathers following." [surah Luqman : Verse 20-21] and "Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibraheem (Abraham) and those with him, when they said to there people: "Verily we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allah: we have rejected you, and there has started between us and you hostility and hatred forever until you believe in Allah Alone" [surah Mumtahanah : Verse 4] Allahu Akbar....I am a follower of of Ibrahem, Ismeal, Issaq, Yacub, Nuh, Issa (Jesus), Muhammad and all the messengers of God Alone...not my forefathers!

Castro, its not the parents part um talking about....but how the message started...u get me? It didn't start with our "parents"....but came to many ppls across the world and they accepted this message and in turn spread it among themselves. Islam is unlike Christainity as it started with peasants, the presecuted and spread throughout the world in short span of time. WHile Christianity spread through states such as the Roman Empire.

Is LayZie for real or jokes? :confused: Originally posted by masa: Dean Jones Sacked After 'Terrorist' Remark damn what I need to do to get a big beard ...been shaving for year...nothing :mad:

^^^^Thank you sister. I knew that The Message of the Quran I shouldve said.

Originally posted by Urban Legend: [Q] Hi there.. As we all know, everything we say, good and bad, is written down by the two angels Raqeeb and Ateed, and will be presented to us in the Judgement Day.(everyone nodding in agreement so far...?) OK...but what about the stuff we say online? like writing in the forums and chat rooms, is that written down as well? Am I gonna be judged on everything I've written on a chat room/forum for the past few years? Can anyone point me to a reliable source that can answer this? I looked for a similar topic on this section but I couldn't find any. . [/Q] U answered your own question Just like to add sxb, that Allah is Most Merciful to His slaves. Allah created 100 parts of mercy islam says, and only one part was given to humanity...c the love of mother to her child...Allah Most Great love is greater for His slaves. We are human beings we say and do stup1d stuff....but Allah is Most Merciful thus seek forgiveness often and never tire of asking for forgiveness and mercy.

marka castro....how did Islam come to the world? was it because "parents" or did this message start with only one man, the Prophet of Allah blessings be with him, and few of his family members...u know of the presecution of the early Muslims and how Islam started and spread throught the world...to even the far east. Thats dumb thing to say sxb...we follow Islam just cause of our parents. Islam is the religion of Allah and Muhammad is His chosen Messenger...it has reached from East to West...and as Allah promises this religion will be victorous! Modesty WTF :eek: ....why ask such dumb question. No disrespect intendeded my sister read the Quran!

Originally posted by Xoogsade: Khalaf, I meant the job our girl here was bragging about. I wouldn't advise any man to sweat that much for a woman or learn patience he doesn't have to deal with their shenanigans. These days, you can line them up and choose the best out of them without raising a finger [/QB] I hear ya man..…but I never liked easy woman…the stronger, the more stubborn the more of a challenge, I likes. An example here: Tyjwania I can see ur in trouble here...good luck sxb. Send the girl some flowers and um sorry note. No wait….how about some tools to do her plumbing work.

^^^Come on man! No woman is out of reach….all it takes is patience…….they play hard to get….but with right kind of skills u can break um down! :cool:

Originally posted by Valenteenah: If a Somali woman marries a non-Somali she is cheap? Is that where we are at, Khalaf ? Your insecurities are showing. How is that insecure Ahura? Let me break it down to u like this. To you walaalshiis um sure not all men are equal in your eyes there are certain things of some brothers which makes them more honorable then others right? To me a woman who has her religion and also who knows and values her history her culture is more expensive then who doesnt care for her culture, her people….and whose boat can be rocked by anybody. Thats all um saying. Right about now, the none- Somali do sure look very appealing despite of false statement supposedly made by them.. Its not false statement. I have heard with my own ears. Divorces sister (s) wants another one…why cause they cook good rice or anjeera. He neither knows your history or your value, to him your just a “Somali woman†but to your brothers you have a name and a history….and are more important then just cooking rice! I know its not always like this and its by Allahs Will. Another wants to convert just so he can “taste a Somali womanâ€. Of course u wouldnt hear....its between the guys....I know we fought many blacks and even white converts who talk down our women! My sister don’t be dumb walaalhi….those non-Somalis even though Muslims do you think u as a somali woman are important to them? Who defends and comes to aid in your honor is it them? Nah we do marka your culture is important remember that. salaamulah

Originally posted by Naxar Nugaaleed: ^^you are right, they were not muslim, they were barbarians. but unless muslims tell people (Instead of coming up some conspiracy theory or wasting time with how a sovergien government conducts its affairs) that these 19, mostly wealthy saudis, do not represent the poor masses of the third world (the case brought about by will intended westerners) or the Islamic faith, then how will they know. using your intellect thats how one can know and don't listen to sources that feed ppl information. Things just dont add up! check this out sxb: web page

^^^^I do have high standards....I am a Muslim. Tell me what I said which is contary to that then?

For a women who is quick to question the principles of Islam such as Hadith of our noble Prophet…you sure do lack sincerity in telling me about proper adaab and what is encouraged in the faith. But advice is advice and I change if I am wrong….but I said nothing which is contrary to Islam. Excuse us for wanting higher standards for our women!

^^^^We are not “boys†my sister but your brothers. men of your nation marka respect us and be dutiful to us as women of other nations such as arab and indian women are dutiful to the men of their nation. you women cant c where we are coming from- its about honor and duty. I don’t view only the women I share blood with to be my sisters but those I share a common history, a culture, a language with…all Somali women are sisters….thus I care and I dont want our sisters to be cheap but to be expensive women with honor and pride. A cheap woman will take anything for the right price but an expensive- honorable woman is not about the price but the quality, the history, the future. Some of our women are cheap u c them with nigarians, jamicans, whites-yes be Muslim but still with their culture and they tell us…..my Somali woman is this and that. They come to us and ask us if a sister is available. What? How ee haweys san’kara a Somali woman but never an arab woman for example? Cause they think they cheap! Why some of these women give precedence to an outsider who can shame her and discuss her business in public to a brother who would fight for her honor? Cause they cheap!