looooooooool@ Dahia istagfrullah. On a serious note tho i heard the sheikh say in a lecture those who take welfare money (u know they lie about husband ect) are feeding their children haraam, and eating haraam.

I don't understand the somali or topic really.... but is there any doubt that "Shirka Asmara" or the oposition to TFG itself is infiltrated by intelligent agencies? Just think about that.

Originally posted by Laba_Xiniinyood: Maakhir State of Somalia is something not recognised by the residents of Sanaag. Having come back this week from Badhan itself, majority of the residents are neither aware of its existance nor are they in any way interested in its creation. The idea of MSS is the brainchild of only a few individuals and with Jibril Ali Salaad Aadan as its head, what is to be exoected from it? Could it be another one of those strategies to segregate and seprate people and create animosity between clans perhaps? well said. i think a big dilema that faces somalia is regions ect are all along clan lines, duulka reer hebel ba iska leh sort of speak....this in my opinion is an obstacle to peace and needs to change if somalia is to have a better future, repopulate/move people to change realities/demographic on the ground so no clan/clans claim a specfic land. Its feasable.

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^^^Lets for the sake of arguement say it does fall under the category under the shade of Allah. You with me so far? Okey then lets say that same person who obeyed Allah in that area (refused a woman), disobeys or is negelectful in their islamic duties in other areas. What then? I see where u heading with these sort of questions, but the point of the matter is, islam is a complete system, a complete way of life defined from small things to larger things....our nabi scw is the example to follow, learn the seerah of nabi scw... we fall short sometimes but should seek forgiveness, even the Prophet who is guraanteed Jannah and was Messenger of Allah always sought forgiveness and prayed until his feet were swollen, but look at us. @ fat boy. good one brah good one.

Video One ISNA: Video 2 Video Three attend ISNA convention.... its all about the music, dancing...."Islam Hip-Hp" ect ect. Mecca to Madina, Sami Yusuf ect....not that much different then the kufar gatherings....What is up? What do you guys think about this?

Originally posted by -: quote:Originally posted by Khalaf: Where is my boy Rudy? War ninyahow anigu dhociilo ma af aqaan, marka imminka brotherhood duty calls: Operation: Free a Farah. Mission: Dholciilat edeeb baar. Your Target: Andromeda. Good luck good solider on this mission, its a tough one. That was completely unnecessary. Hadalka wax nafci haduusu la aheen in la isku haru fiican. You don't have to have the last word.You are a man saaxib, grow up! Sxb what is or is not necessary is not for you to decide. Mida kale considering her uujeydo with that comment, my response was very much relevant. Marka ii sheeg wax kale. Originally posted by rudy: II sir! rudy reporting for duty...lol.. long live ffm...down with fgm..lol.. ......yo Rudy dats classic bro, classic

Where is my boy Rudy? War ninyahow anigu dhociilo ma af aqaan, marka imminka brotherhood duty calls: Operation: Free a Farah. Mission: Dholciilat edeeb baar. Your Target: Andromeda. Good luck good solider on this mission, its a tough one. _______________ Umu ukhti, first diapers/xaar then mataag...ahhh that sounds very fun .....u dont want know my first and last time of changing a diaper ya Rabi....but Inshallah abaayo, inshallah, parenthood is big responsiblity that's for sure. btw ur english and other Scandinavia nomads is good..i didnt know u spoke english over there. salaamun

Yo some fishy going on what’s up ladies...u not getting what u believe u deserve miya? Marka u taking out all ur frustrations on the innocent brothers here on SOL? Garthay, wayahey. And if I wasn’t a gentleman (I hate to be rude in particular to gabdaha) walaa!......Sis Ummu: On topic are u a husband? No, neither am I a father not close or anytime soon, maybe in a few yrs or so God willing when I do become a husband/father my views can change who knows (tho I doubt it )....however at this moment in time from my knowledge/experience Allah created men and women for different roles, shaqada wa la kala leeyahey. House/Kids-diapers/laundry/cleaning=wife not husband. Get it? Good. As a man my job is to protect and maintain the livelihood of my family with wife or no wife, family is priority number 1, to respect and honor my wife, to discipline and teach the kids ect ect..what more do u want? Hmm what was that Hadith about ungrateful women?. North: U change diapers miya? lol....sxb of course jokes...no one can declare haram what is halaal...just showing my extereme dislike namean Originally posted by Andromeda: I don't believe Khalaf...I bet it's all an act. Khalaf I bet your the type who washes their kid's butt with their hands. So sheekada naga dhaa. Grow up ukhti, Grow up. Thanks.

Originally posted by Ms Dhucdhuc & Dheylo: I have started fasting today and I am already suffering. I keep fantasising about me attacking one juicy hamburger. I dont even like the stuff! How can I last till 8pm tonite? [/QB] ..... I have noticed tho when the niyah is towards Allah Most High nothin in this world is hard, everything is easy. I love everything Ramadan. I don't know if anyone has this problem i have told the imam also, when my ibaadah is low ect.....i get sick and nitemares no joke walaalhi....its like im susposed to be high on islam 100%...i have noticed friends/family that don't pray...but are happy....i get sick, anxiety and depressed without constant ibadaah. :confused: listening to the Quran now of the Sheikh now mashallah Allahu Akbar. Quran is beautiful! :cool:

Originally posted by Northerner: But will make sure to take the family on a regular basis :cool: [/QB] ^^Sheikh from UAE didnt know that,.... mashallah my favorite reciter. Ramadan Kareem to all the Muslims. May Allah Most Great forgive our sins, and grant us bounty from His Mercy. May Allah Most Great Help and Aid our ummah. amiin. Salaam

^^^May Allah Most Great bless the mothers in particular my hooyo she is the greatest, none can compare to moms, thats why jannah is at her feet. but the point i was making was is changing diapers, thats the woman's job capiche ladies?. Unless in severe situations when the mother or no one else is around then its okey to change diapers, otherwise no way.

Originally posted by Nephthys: [QB] L0L@ina heblaayo. In this day and age, I think it's fine for the man to do housework. It's just another thing that's been past down from generation to generation with the woman doing the cooking and cleaning and the man all the talking. Housework, helping ur wife cool, cool...... lakiin changing the diapers? :eek: Can i get a UFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF! Unless there is a hadith from the sunnah that tells us nabi scw changing diapers, i declare it haraam!

Why we don't hear about the conflict in Somaligalbed

I believe the Muslim world itslef is bitterly ideologically divided, divided period. Here's interesting article about the war on "terror". Do you think the current conflicts would start World War 3? And what about the Muslims in West? At what cost, and for how long, will the United States, Europe and Israel continue to support the splintering, occupation and exploitation of the Islamic heartland they had imposed during World War I? At what cost - to themselves and the peoples of the Islamic world? There are times when it is smarter to retrench than to hold on to past gains. That time is now: and that time may be running out. Another turn of the screw - another attack by the United States or Israel - and this window may close irrevocably. If wars, civil conflicts or revolutions sweep across the Islamic world - unlike the Chinese revolution, most likely this turbulence will not be confined to one segment of Asia. In one way or another, this violence will draw the whole world into its vortex. One cannot even begin to imagine all the ramifications, all the human costs of such a conflagration. The most vital question before the world today is: Can the United States, Israel or both be prevented from starting an apocalypse? source

^^^LOOL Kool....ukhti dats just somali culture talk....i have uncle whose good to his wife, Guess what his name is? ina heblaayo Originally posted by Muj: Red Sea: Dahia Kahin, You are wonderful sister. What a gabadh soomaliyeed you are. Keep it up. i agree with you on your points. [/QB] I co-sign that Red....she is amazing mashallah.

Originally posted by roobleh: To SOLER men, which one do you prefer, younger or older ones? [/QB] Roob sxbow I gotta agree with Legand on this on. How can u be a man with an older woman lol? When woman has higher status (ie age, education, money lol) wey ku yaasaysa and would want to control u sxb....it would be hard at least in the long run, for relationship to have any respect its either I as a man must have the higher status lol or at least equal. Tho cliché age aint nothing but a number, its about individual and their character, waayo u see older women who are low class and bad character....I prefer elegance, intelligence, modesty, feminity not masculine, hood rat chicks lol....apart from looks that’s most attractive in a woman, young or older.

Kool-Kat nothin wrong with ur schedule ukhti, balance and helping ur wife at the house, easing her burden, making ur wife happy ect is sunnah of the nabi scw and that is rights of dumarka, marka waa caadi taas, lakiin my way or high way well waan ku sheegay markii horeey taas nah. caadi ma thid. still laughing @ afafka qurunkooda maxaan isu taabsiinaynaa .

Originally posted by Ducaysane: quote:Uma Zak said: Husband arrives home , gets his lunch n strait to bed what is he doing in the bed. loooool...just kidding, I know what the grown up people do in the bed. This topic reminded me a conversation I had with my granba. I asked If he ever kissed any of his four wives, He told me "afafka qurunkooda maxaan isu taabsiinaynaa" that is how reall geeljire used to treat his wifes, and ya demanding Attention, Romance iyo wixii nin xumeeya. ^^^Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool, qosol badaana

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: I just can not understand why commit yourself to someone for so long without seeing them... I want him there when i need him, when I am happy, when I need a shoulder to cry on, and when I just feel like seeing him for no special reason... I want him there in person, not 1000s of miles away...That's just me... [/QB] When I when I when I, when I....its all about you, dang your one selfish girl. Good Luck. yo Skip i can't answer ur question, but there many ppl in ur situation akhi, what Allah wills happens, marka best of khayr bro and i wish u and your girl a happy ending inshallah.

Ahhh come on ppl thats sad ur all just like me cant remember or tell the full stories?

^^^^MMA maad adiga sheegtiid um sure u know a lot of stories..... somali stories i know from childhood are dheegdheer, dalqaltoo, vampire stories...can't retell it tho. And Hooyo used to tell us this story....good wisdom. peace out loooooooooooooooool@ Nep....caruur kulaha ....share stories it dont make u caruur....the vampire stories are my favorite somali stories i searched online but couldnt find it. Once there were three men from the children of Israel, a leper, a blind man and a bald man; whom Allah wanted to test, so He sent an angel to them. The angel asked the leper, ‘What would you most like to have?’ the leper said, ‘Good complexion and good skin, because the people consider me to be filthy.’ Then the angel touched him and he was cured. He was given a good complexion and good skin. Then the angel said, ‘Which property would you most like to have?’ The leper said, ‘Camels.’ So he was given a pregnant camel, and the angel said, ‘May Allah bless you with it.’ Then the angel came to the bald man and said, ‘What would you most like to have?’ He said, "Nice hair, and I wish to be cured from this disease because people find me repulsive.’ The angel touched him, and he was given nice hair.’ Then the angel said, ‘Which property would you most like to have/’ He said, ‘Cows.’ So the angel gave him a pregnant cow that had plenty of milk. The angel said to him, ‘May Allah bless you with it.’ The angel came to the blind man and said, ‘What would you most like to have?’ He said, ‘I wish Allah would restore my sight so I can see the people.’ He touched his eyes and Allah gave him his sight back. The angel said, ‘Which property would you most like to have?’ He said, ‘Sheep.’ So the angel gave him a pregnant sheep. The angel said to him, ‘May Allah bless you with it.’ Later, all three pregnant animals gave birth to their young. They multiplied and brought forth so many (animals) that one of the men had a herd of camels filling a valley, one had a herd of cows fillings a valley, and the other one had a flock of sheep filling a valley. Then the angel, disguised to appear as a leper, visited the leper and said, ‘I am a poor man, who has lost all means of livelihood while on a journey. So none will satisfy my need except Allah and then you. In the Name of Him Who has given you such nice complexion, such beautiful skin, and so much property, I ask you to give me a camel so that I may reach my destination.’ The man replied, ‘I have many obligations (so I cannot give any to you).’ The angel said, ‘I think I know you, were you not a leper who the people shunned? Weren’t you a poor man and then Allah gave this to you?’ He replied, ‘I inherited this from my family.’ The angel said, ‘If you are lying, then let Allah make you as you were before.’ Then the angel, disguised as a bald man, went to the bald man and dais the same as he had the leper. He too answered the same way. The angel told him, ‘If you are lying, then let Allah make you as you were before.’ Then the angel, disguised as a blind man, visited the blind man and said, ‘I am a poor man and a traveller, whose means of livelihood have been exhausted while on a journey. I have nobody to help me except Allah, and after Him, you yourself. I ask you in the name of Him who has given you back your eyesight to give me a sheep, so that with its help, I may complete my journey.’ The man said, ‘I was once blind, and Allah returned my sight to me, I was once poor and Allah made me rich. So take anything you like from what I have. By Allah, I will not praise you for leaving anything (you need) of my property which you may take for Allah’s sake.’ The angel replied, ‘Keep your property. You (three men) have been tested. Allah is pleased with you, but He is angry with your two companions.

I like this story, and somali stories hooyo used to tell us but can't find em. share ur fav stories, or fav childhood stories....peace and early Ramadan Mubarak ummahta Islamiya. There was a pious worshiper from the tribe of Israel. He was the most pious person of his time. During his time, there were three brothers who had a sister. She was a virgin. And they had non sister other than her. They were all about to leave the town to go to war. They did not know with who to leave their sister and who they could trust to look after her. They all agreed to leave her with that pious person. They all trusted him. They went to him and asked if they could leave her with him. She would be in the building next to him until they return from the fighting. He refused their request and sought refuge in Allah from them and their sister. They persisted until he finally acquiesced. He said, "Put her in the house next to my place of worship." So they put her in that house, and they left, leaving her there. She remained living next to that pious person for some time. He would put food for her in front of the building of worship. Then he would lock the door and return to his place of worship. He would then tell her to come out of her house and take the food. Then shaytan (satan - a general term in Arabic 'shaytan' that refers to any arrogant rebel) approached him softly. He encouraged him to treat her kindly. He told him that it was not good to make the woman come out of her house during the day as someone may come upon her. If he took the food directly to her door that would mean a greater reward for him. He continued for some time to go to her door and place the food at the front of her door without speaking to her. Then Iblees (this word means 'that there is no good in him', and 'ublis' means 'despaired, lost' - Allah named him so because he was despaired of having the Mercy of Allah for the crime he committed)came again and encouraged him to do good and get more reward. He said, "If you took the food and placed it in the house for her, you would get a greater reward." He continued like that for some time. Then Iblees came again and again encouraged him to do good. He said, "If you talk to her for a while she will be put to ease by your conversation as she is in a state of fear and she is all alone." Then he started talking to her from atop his place of worship. Then Iblees came again. He said, "If you were to come down and talk to her while she sits at her door and talks to you, that would be even more comforting for her." He continued to encourage him until he came down and sat at the door and would talk to her. The girl would come out of her building and sit at the door and they would talk for a while. Then Iblees came again and encouraged him to get great rewards for treating her well. He said, "If you were to go from the door of your place of worship and sit close to her door, that would be even more comforting for her." He continued extorting him until he did so. He continued that act for a while. Then Iblees came again. This time he said, "If you enter her house and talk to her, and not make her show her face in public it would be even better for you." He continued extorting him until he entered her house and spent the while day talking to her. Then when night fell, he returned to his place of worship. Then Iblees came to him after that and continued to make her more appealing to him. Until the worshiper got upon her and kissed her. And Iblees continued to make her look nice in his eyes and desire her until he finally had sex with her. She got pregnant and gave birth to a boy. Then Ibless came to the worshiper, "Do you not realize what the brothers of the girl will do to you when they see that she has given birth to your son? You will not be safe if your matter becomes clear. You should go to the boy and kill it and bury it, that way you can conceal your affair and they will not do anything to you for what you did to her." Then he said to him, "Do you think that she will conceal from her brothers what you did to her and the killing of her son? Take her, kill her and bury her with the son." He continued spurring him on until he killed her and threw her into the ditch with her son. Then he put a large rock over them and leveled it. Then he returned to his place of worship and worshipped therein. He stayed in that state for as long as Allah willed until the brothers came to him and asked him about their sister. He mourned her loss and started to cry. He said, "She was the best of women and that is her grave." The brothers came to the grave and cried over their sister and asked Allah to have mercy on her. They stayed at her grave for a few days and then went to their families. When the night overtook them and they were in their beds, shaytan came to them in their sleep in the form of a traveler. He started with the eldest and asked him about their sister. The brother told him what the pious man had stated and how they were shown her grave. Shaytan told him that the pious man had lied. He said, "He did not tell you the truth about your sister. He got her pregnant and she had his son and he killed and buried her out of fear of you. Then he threw them in a ditch he dug behind the door of the house she was staying in, to the right of the entrance. Go and enter the house in which she stayed and on the right entrance you will find everything I told you about." Then he went to the middle brother and did the same. Then he went to the youngest brother and did the same. When they woke, they were all surprised at what they had seen. When they met each other, they all said, "I saw an amazing thing last night," and they informed each other of what they had seen. The eldest said, "The dream has nothing to it so just ignore it." The youngest said, "I will not leave it until I go and look at that place." They all went until they reached the door of the place where their sister had stayed. They opened the door and looked for the place that was described to them in their dreams. They found their sister and her son buried in a ditch, as they were told. They asked the worshiper about it and he confirmed what Iblees had told them. They then took him and were about to crucify him. When they had him on the wooden cross, Shaytan said to him, "You know that I am your companion who tempted you by the woman until you got her pregnant and you killed her and her son. If you obey me today, and deny Allah, who formed and shaped you, I will rescue you from your predicament." The worshiper then belied Allah, Shaytan left from being between him and the others and they were able to crucify him. "Or the likeness of shaytan when he tells man to disbelieve, then, when he disbelieves, says to him: 'Lo! I am innocent of you. Lo! I fear Allah, the Lord of the worlds." (al-hashr, 16) (From Wahb ibn Munabbih, as quoted in the book of Dr. Umar Sulaiman al-Ashqar called 'The world of the Jinn and Devils' as translated by Jamal al-Din Zarabozo.)

What the hell should I do? Buy a car! Public transportation maskiin But on the real, dont let ppl crowd ur space if they annoy u ,that aint cool ur too nice..... give em evil xalimo look i know its there....majority of somali females have evil look peace