Here I come, Ka leexda yaan idinku joogsane.

Jaber: Although i found your assumptions and generalizations a bit exxagerating, let me try to address your q's. 1stly, some of women you happen to mention do sadly exist in our community. But you fail to understand that they were the first generation to arrive here and some of them did choose to stay home and look after their young ones. Can you for once address the problems that we seem to face in the somali community as a whole without blaming the females soley. I will tell you something, judging from my experience, you hardly see hard working somali men refraining from coffee shops and spending quality time raising their children. You hardly see families setting goals to either make it out here in the diaspora, or to go back home. I believe there is a break down in the family unit. And it starts with both parties. I don't want to point the finger at either gender, but both need to realize what their responsibilities towards their family is. Can you explain the high rate of divorce or single mothers in our community? So let me guess, its all about the women's fault? But I have hope, our generation is geared towards the right direction. There are few of us enrolling in higher education, because its the only way to make it. And those who make it, will someday inspire others. Jaber, don't base your judgements about somali women from the forum titles...have you picked up the latest Mademoiselle magazines...same titles!!! Iam sorry for the long essay, but unless there are nomads out there willing to discuss some productive solutions for our community, lets not start this whole war for nothing (we've all seen somalinet). ~*Peace n' Blessings*~ ------------------ "My Umi says shine your light on the world..." Mos Def

Question: What is the point of this page? My suggestion: SomaliaOnline Admins.. Ban this page.

Hey Hibo, that was cool... thnx

Hey Hibo, that was cool... thnx

Oh Jaber!.....that's such a hopeless way of looking at the world. Children r the best things Allah has given us in life. They offer hope....because u can always bring them up to be different, to value the important things in life, to make the world a better place. Babies r so innocent, so beautiful....and u mean the world to them, because they rely on u 4 every single little thing imaginable. U hold their very life in your hands....isn't that gobsmacking?! Jaber, I hope u experience wat it feels like to be a father, a real father....because it is the best thing that can happen to u.

jaber i dont agree with your naigh ideology that we dont need childeren coz the world is already overcrowded and with a lot of poor children. the quran has hinted the importance of children in numerous verses and i dont know why u should question Allah why he did not want to give children to childless families!!! it is like questioning Allah why he brought poor people on earth in the first place. if you have any grasp of the true religion Islam you will know that this world we are in is a trial for the eternal life hereafter. Allah made poor and rich to worship them and each of them is on trial whether the poor should be patient or if he is gona quetion why he is not rich. it applies to the rich person if he is gona be thankful to allah or if he is gona be in denial and commit kufr. we know the true happiness a child brings to his/her parents when is born and we cannot blind ourselves jaber that we dont need them and it is not good reason to say that it just spares those contraceptives. May be u will know some time in 60s when no one is there for ya to care and love. Those pple who cannot have children is not allah hates it just coz they are on trial and they have to be patient and thankful to allah what he has given them. them tahnks and i hope that is understood.

ya wanna know something i just recently met #3....the nigga was so nervous he had to take couple shots to calm his nervous down..buti had to get the hell out

Thats hot and real expo ceelaayo, keep it up

i'll be back to drop the rest......

i wrote this for the somaliman who was murdered by the cops in minneapolis. yow check this turned on the TV heared a brother got shot sixteeen times/all this neggaz listening to the chief read his bull shit lines/they say cops reinforce the law/hatred in their eyes is all i saw/killing blacks in legal ways/from seing what i saw thats what you would say/negga observe the actions in the streets/before you try to compose your own sheets/i'd gurrantee you'd realize how this game goes/cops shaped the hatred in my heart today/somali power is what we say as we lay/as we lay helpless in the grave/lost the batle but we still brave/they say we savages/dont they wonder manage/forming our own comunities/spreading the word of black unity/Mr.police who the **** is you/coming to my hood trying to scare niggas but you know i ain't scared of you/and in the past my people suffered alot of pain/punk politicians trying to do the same shit again/you ever wonder why niggas in the streets are being smoked out/soon the whole somalination will pass out/my lyrics fight for somalirights/in this dark hood i'm trying to turn on some lights/freedom of speech/i wonder where my goals would reach/

Soul_lady Afkaaga caano geel lagu qabay, it seems you are the only one who really understood my point, and Araweelo sorry sis how making a mistake in your name, it is a big mistake cause some men lost their wives because of such a mistake, loool any way Araweelo sis it is not about cooking and children, it is exactly what Soul_Lady said, our queens see their name in the cheque and they see the system supports them so they said why do we need this guy around so araweelo sis don't get me wrong i would love to cook for my wife my point is if the lady becomes the bread winner and the guy house keeper, it looks ugly to everyone even to the wife, so open minds guys and lets find a modern solution for this big problems we are facing as somalians in qurba, lots of love from OG_Moti to all somalians peace

lol..It amazes me no one could solve it.But is o.k. Hibo--->What makes you so sure you know me? Maybe, your thinkin of the wrong fella, could it be? I never met you!!! Well the Answer is 10 If the spider started at acorner diagonally on the same face as the ant the answer would be 9, and if the spider started at an adjacent corner the answer would be 7. Here are answers for other figures: Square: 4 Octahedron: 6 Dodecahedron: 35 Icosahedon: 15 ------Motivate your self, from negative energy--------

lol..It amazes me no one could solve it.But is o.k. Hibo--->What makes you so sure you know me? Maybe, your thinkin of the wrong fella, could it be? I never met you!!! Well the Answer is 10 If the spider started at acorner diagonally on the same face as the ant the answer would be 9, and if the spider started at an adjacent corner the answer would be 7. Here are answers for other figures: Square: 4 Octahedron: 6 Dodecahedron: 35 Icosahedon: 15 ------Motivate your self, from negative energy--------

Johnny Bravo that is my ultimate no.1 cartoon he is so funny!

Johnny Bravo that is my ultimate no.1 cartoon he is so funny!

Johnny Bravo that is my ultimate no.1 cartoon he is so funny!

Johnny Bravo that is my ultimate no.1 cartoon he is so funny!

That would be great if my best friend would marry my sister. Imagine then you are becoming relatives you and your best friend! On the other hand if I marry his younger sister(which I intend, I already took her to a movie) he should be happy. If he becomes mad so wahat I love Canab and she loves me and my bestfriend better accept that beacuse I will beat him up if he talks bad to my future wife! Canabey me and you will go to see the TAJMAHAL soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Divorce and Single Mothers among Somalis are becoming phenomenon. Thanks for bringing up one of the often un-addressed issues. Its merely my opinion - Women in general have psycological power over men - they can either bring the best out of them or snatch their sanity. There's only one factor mainly responsible for the never ending male/female relationship ordeal -"Women" - by discounting the importance of traditional Somali family values, completely falling for the misconception of "Women Power" and "Gender Equality" of the West. As such, women are enjoying being Single moms and the flexibility that goes with it(party all the time) - without worrying about their children's lack of guidance and loss of role models. Lets examine this case: As we all know, ever since the diaspora most Somali families in the qurbaha were and still getting Gov't assistance - her name is on the cheque - primarily making her the head of the household - she pays rent and bills - she's constantly nagging/humiliating/reminding him this is her roof. All she asks is "What have you done for me lately?" - without the understanding of what familial bond is, she chooses to throw any means of respect out the window (Zero respect.) - Next - He's kicked out. His crime solely being, a lag in his manly accountability - not because he was chewing Qaat/spending time in Donut shops with budds - but simply the end never justifies the means (he can't financialy fulfill her greed) all of a sudden he's less significant or another scenario he's got no job - language barrier be it the cause. Whick makes one wonder whatever happened to the 'thru thick or thin?' or there's no such thing in the Somali vows? Imagine how a simple queston in school like "It's father's day today, where is your dad?" can hurt a little innocent child. My heart Walahi goes out to the many children of such broken marriages who suffer much pain as a result of their moms' action. That explains why they can't keep their children, especially their sons, off the streets and away from gun violence. We'r becoming the next black American generation who only praises their Moms and Granmas - no Daddies. God Bless. ------------------ "He tried to be somebody by trying to be like everybody, which makes him a nobody." [This message has been edited by SouL_LaDy (edited 04-19-2002).]

Blue: I recently got this txt and it made me laugh! When French women hav sex, they say "oui, oui, oui!" When American women hav sex, they say "yey, yey, yey!" When Somali women hav sex, they say "cidna ha u sheegin!" It's jus a joke, so plz don't be offended

representing, Hodan warshada caanaha gadaasheeda.

Libaax under the Nomads law.....every1 can discriminate every1 and anyone i guess u don't have any laws protecting you...so kacarar dee intaan dhagaxyaheeygi soo qaadanin......weef weef qaldaan wiririf waaxid....... just joking okey bro don't take it seriously p.s do those places exist for real....or u humoring us there ------------------ "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" --Eleanor Roosevelt

hibooo.......that was nice buranbur girl.....lets see if Sacad can compete with the talented lady ha!!! Sacad hakugu taagnaato dee sxb buraanbur makaseesid lugahaas dhaadheerna makuboodi kartid....so i suggest u let the ladies do their thing no harm intended 1 luv to all my Nomads ------------------ "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" --Eleanor Roosevelt

Here we go again... Im the Ref. gotta be Impatial ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii