Lool... I’m glad I opened a can of worms here and I think I got a battle on ma hands ..Remember this was about women in general not specific to the sisters so don’t take it personal. I presume much as we do our part, at some stage we are bound to be sabotaged by our loved queens. All you got to do is look around and you would see what I term as the "whatever’s and know what I means". Well since you ladies where taking the lion share of the piss I thought perhaps I would balance it with a re-dress of an encounter from the men’s perspective. If you look around the number of male bashing that goes on around here would surprise you. This ofcouse doesn’t mean I’m doing that but it is a general opinion of what has been observed. By the way nothing is comparable to a lovely passionate down to earth loving sister it is the other side of paradise ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

Observer i know that but topic has took another angle so me and brother jaber had to consider it. Thanks anyway for reminding, i hope other brothers and sisters will take this chances to give their opinion about the topic.Peace

Damnnnnnn Ooooo my God They Can sing & are Good looking, Kissable lipss the only thing I have to say Is Come to mama...(lol) brothers I just wanted to show you all some Real somalian SiSta Loving.........OO by the way Let me know If you going to tour in u.s this summer, Couse I would love to go to your concert...So you (ye Im talking about you Allan)Can give Me the kinda summer you never forget ( you feel me girls) looool Much And hugssss all the way from Europ Phasez Nr. 1 fan

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guys come on if you don't date her someone else will do, so like the sudani man said " our oil stays in our house" straight translation it might not make sense ..use your common sense loool any way guys if the girl is what you looking for and she is the one... why not .. it would be better for her and u and for ur friend cause you are going to treat her special way but as somalians we seem to live this imaginary life that my friends sister is my sister hey in tht case i would never marry cause even time i meet someone it turn she is a sister of my friend so guys yes i would date but with respect on consideration to my friends feelings.. loool forget this backward thinking which led to us as somalians being the smallest population in the world lets increase our population and forget this brotherhood yo yo style ... peace

How ticklish, yet some food for thought. That being said, its obvious you Nomad Brothers love us to death thats why you'r on our throat constantly - Can't live w/o us, and won't stop blaming us. Your Time has arrived to think outside of the willie (believe me am not obssessed with it either)for a change. Next time you start making assumptions and taking the cowardly way out before sheeko begins, try if you could treat us like queens until we show you that we dont appreciate it. If it doesn't work leave us alone and kick the dust off your shoes - Move on, stop weeping. And when it works out!! Ohhh You Lucky Doggg Youuuu. God Bless. ------------------ "He tried to be somebody by trying to be like everybody, which makes him a nobody."

hey mma, thx, ifound ma song(maryan mursal's song "somali udiida ceeb naftina u diida ciil") in benadir.net tana kuyu tana kuyu. luv that song. peace.

sis buubto u said you are not taking sides but you did already, how about the fathers who are trying so hard to keep his house together and who are so hurt because the police asked him not be close to his children 300 ft or he will be in jail, rabshada waxa wada waa dumarka and i know some men are hopeless too but if we talk about % xaawa ayaa qaska wada 85% and 15% might be Aadan , by the way buubto maahmaahda waa "waxii xun xaawa ayaa leh ama waxii xun aadam ayaa leh" ma aha faarax loool any way like u said sister alaha hanuuniyo our queens wey nadhibeen ragana noo jajabiyeen, odey baan maqlay intey xaaskiisi dibada utuurtay ayuu siduu ulahaa CAKU CIIL BADANAA ayuu wadnuhu istaagay. waxa ugu wacan this problem is that somali men marry young girls iyagoo odayaal ah, when the young girl getts to the west and sees hip hip iyo attitude iyo whatz up yo yo, iyo koofiyad waalan iyo timo ilaahey cirka kasoo riday ayey intey dib nolosheeda ufiiriso ayey dhihi yaaaa maxaa duqaan i ag fariisiyey i am young let me jumm'n and test life forgetting that this old man is the best thing in her life, any way i heard somali men older ones agreed not marry young girls again and it is becoming a rule or culture and i think it was written some where in somalinet, so ilaahey ha hanuuniyo our queeens "CAKU CIIL BADANAA yaa banadir noo soo celiya" peace

loool walaashiis the answer is muufo another question: 1. What is the word that a somali person will never says and should say? hint a polite word 2. what the meaning of afkudable? 3. what is the meaning of LAKABLE? 4. What is xaajiyo qamsiin and where this word was originated? 5. what is the meaning of Fara_kafalan good luck sis those questions has been asked many nations and translated into 11 languages, it was also in the final exam of history 102 second year university in University of TAXAS.. good luck it is not easy you might need to consult the oldest somali in the area you live in but i doubt he/she would be much help..loool love for the others what you love for yourself

loool walaashiis the answer is muufo another question: 1. What is the word that a somali person will never says and should say? hint a polite word 2. what the meaning of afkudable? 3. what is the meaning of LAKABLE? 4. What is xaajiyo qamsiin and where this word was originated? 5. what is the meaning of Fara_kafalan good luck sis those questions has been asked many nations and translated into 11 languages, it was also in the final exam of history 102 second year university in University of TAXAS.. good luck it is not easy you might need to consult the oldest somali in the area you live in but i doubt he/she would be much help..loool love for the others what you love for yourself

loooooooooooooooooool.....macruuf... mininka aqwaanka waa looga dambeeyi yaah...dabadeed ii tilmaam anaa kaga shaqeynaayo aaybo sheekp isku badashi!

Sister Bolo and Arawelo it seems to me you guys forget the point me and shaqsi are talking about and you took it personal and taking side thing, sisters we love our queeens, personaly i do i don't know about shaqsi but it seems to me he does too or he would not raise this issue and talk about it this professionalism and wisdom, sisters the exaample that shaqsi gave happen so many times that now adays somali men are reconsidering about jeexid and scared to go to the west and it seems somali women can not wait to get tot the west mainly because she is excited that she can kick the brotha out of the house anytime and even make his life a natural hell, I am not saying all somali women are like that i mean some are great and try to coup up with a looser husband and be patint for the sake of her children but some really had a great husbands and they lost them just because they wanted to find out how much poweres they got over the husband just like the one Shaqsi mentioned, so sisters my point is ofocurse every problem has both sides but our queens are getting out of control we need to find a solution and a quick one, or the nation is doomed,... loool no hard feeling just an honest opinion based on facts and seens..

Shaqsii, I see you @_@ writing down my receipe - Go on, no biggie, you'r not the first one. God Bless. ------------------ "He tried to be somebody by trying to be like everybody, which makes him a nobody."

it seems to me that shaqsi and og_motti take sides, you are defending men instead of looking the problem, every story has two sides. not all the blame belongs to women. there are good women and men. each story is unique. sometimes men do not fulfill their duty as husband, father, if you think things should be as they were back home, you are wrong.things are not the same.shaqsi according to religion it is mens' job to put food on the table, but look our community how many men are doing that? many men sleep at home and expect gov to raise their children.

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Oh Poster, wish I could see this message alot sooner - Well the Somali main dish is Rice - Here's my $1 receipe: Lunch: Rice (Basmati) with Stew Beef or Chicken. This is what you do: Fry Red Pepper (spice), Carrots, Onions, Garlic,Persleys, Salt,Pepper (black) with 1/4 cup of cooking oil (corn) - for 10 mins at a 250degree - or till the color gets brownish. Add the stew beef(5lb? depends how many servings) - cook for another hour - add the pre-washed rice (5lb)- add 2 full cups of water just to get it above the rice -cook for 30 mins - preheat oven(350degrees) -proceed to the oven(for another 30mins) - till it gets crispy. Serve it with Bananas. Thats it for now. Where are my Nomad sisters - help me out here. God Bless. ------------------ "He tried to be somebody by trying to be like everybody, which makes him a nobody."

Araweelo as long as I can run faster then there is achance of more kings but if Im any slower then we got more Araweelos and queens arriving......no wonder we got more women than men....this could be right ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

Any woman who says, "No means no." First, this marks her as a feminist. Second, it marks her as someone who believes more in theories in her head about how the world should be than she believes in reality. Anyone not steeped in feminist dogma knows that nobody, anywhere means no everytime they say no. Women who can't acknowledge this reality are trouble. Besides, it's a stupid thing to say to anyone. It's insulting to those who care and ineffectual against those who don't. Women who say things like this are simply trying to push responsibility onto your shoulders. What she's saying is, "It's now up to you decide when I really mean 'no' and when I don't really mean it, and act accordingly. If I'm ever vague or unclear and you misunderstand me, it will be your fault, not mine, because I told you that 'No means no.'" She wants to impose a rule, then never again have to work at making her intentions clear. She wants to make the extraction of clear meaning from day-to-day interaction your job. Meanwhile, she'll have no compuction about treating you in exactly the same way she's told you not to treat her. If you're a kind-hearted guy who cares, then the only way to avoid constant nervous tension and occasional, devastating fights is to be a jerk and pay no attention to what she says. This is why women who say stupid things like, "No means no," usually end up with jerks.. Any woman who complains that she "can't meet a decent man," or says that you're the "first decent man she's met." Remember that to most people "decent" means "OK" or "barely acceptable." What this person just said is that all of the men out there are beneath her consideration and (you lucky dog you) you're the only one she's found, out of thousands of men, who has even a chance of being adequate. Don't be flattered. Leave. Any woman who gloats that men "think with their willies." In my experience, women who say things like this are themselves obsessed with sex, but not in any way that I want to get involved with. Spending time with a woman like this means having every little thing you do interpreted sexually and means spending a lot of time apologizing for things you weren't even doing or thinking. Save yourself the confusion and anguish and let some other poor ******* "steal" her. Any woman who smugly states or implies that she shapes her men and makes them better. Sometimes women say this (mostly to each other), but more often they act it out by trying to "improve" you at a certain point in the relationship. Want to earn her respect? Want to earn the respect of other women? Show her that you're a man with his own personality and not a lump of clay to be shaped. Dump her and go find someone who likes you. Any woman who has ever taken a Women's Studies class, unless she had to take it and she talks about it as if it were a year in the gulag. Women's Studies could easily be renamed Hating Men. Just stay away. University or college-trained women. Universities and colleges are hotbeds of feminism. Most well-educated women are fine, but a good proportion of them hate men to some degree. Why increase your odds of ending up with a feminist ***** when you can chat up other women who are more likely to be reasonable? If you find a good woman and she happens to have a college education then don't let that stop you, but if you're still looking, why look for diamonds in a junk store? You're not immortal, and you can only chat up so many women. Why waste time on long shots? feminism. Amateur psychologists. Watch for this during your first fight. If she says something like, "You don't value my point of view because you have your arms crossed, which is symbolic of closing yourself off from me" then run for the hills. There's no winning with women like this. Every little motion you make, every nervous twitch, every choice of words contains hidden meaning which she will extract. The meaning depends upon how she felt about you at the time, how she feels about you now, whether she's on the rag, the season, the weather, and the direction of the wind over the South Pole. Get rid of her while you're still sane. Professional psychologists. See above, except she probably won't tell you what conclusions she's drawn. Besides, these days she must have been through Women's Studies, so that's two strikes. Labelers. All people label other people. It's a reflex. Some, however, use labels as weapons. Listen to how she describes other people. If she habitually attaches labels to other people and their behaviour, if she's often talking about "low self-esteem," "type A personality," "passive-aggressive," or other such ways of pigeon-holing people, then move on. It's only a matter of time before she classifies you, and then she will never be able to see you as a whole person again. Incidentally, this also goes for women who classify people in nice ways. If her world consists of a limited number of "personality types" then she has trouble dealing with real people and accepting them as they come, and that includes you. [Yes, I realize the irony inherent in making a list of types of women to avoid and labeling one of those types, Labelers, but I'm hoping that the men reading this aren't looking to date me. Besides, I'm Scared.] Activists. Any woman who spends time at protest marches and demonstrations is angry. All angry women are particularly angry at men. She'll tell you that you're different, but how long before you become just another man that she hates? Prima donnas. If the woman you're with starts strutting around with her nose in the air like she owns you, lose her for someone who's easier to deal with. Who cares that she used to be nice? She's not any more. Life is short. Why spend your limited time on this planet hanging around with assholes? Feminists. Period. At the basis of all feminism: equality-based feminism, men's-rights-too feminism, rabid feminism, is the theory that men once controlled the world and are responsible for all of the bad shit that has happened in the last 5,000 years. It doesn't matter how committed she is to "true equality." It doesn't matter how much she agrees with your causes. When the gloves come off, she'll blame you for everything that's gone wrong in her life and everything that's gone wrong in the world since Hammurabi. Divorced women. OK, some divorced women are divorced because they married snakes. Sometimes life just screws you over and you have to back up and try again. However, most divorced women are divorced because they chose badly, wanted too much, or screwed up their relationship. Why should you waste your time being her second crack at it? By dating a divorcée you've just lowered your odds of success. If she's been divorced more than once then she's either monumentally unlucky or has no idea what she wants, and it's likely the latter. Stay away if you're looking for a permanent relationship. No offence intended ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

I'll See if i can make one UP. ------------------

I'll See if i can make one UP. ------------------

oooooh I am feeling that walaahi... its tight, its xilow, wa dhac dhac ..... ya'll bettah bring your Album down to London! I don't think it was mainstream like opnionated said, U can feel the somali vibes in the lyrics... i hope ya'll keep it up .... best of luck!

Libaax, that mighty decent of ya .... how sweet lol I think wiseman thinks commonsense is a lad .. an old lad lol (sorry I don't mean to laugh at this) I have thirty plaus old cousin .. who insists on being 25 .. am like cool... u wanna be 25, you are 25. I think some people, just have a negative self image.... in our society we place a lot emphasis on age and achievment .. i.e a girls needs to be married by a certain age.. u oughta be working by a certain age etc. I really don't see that point in liying... somebody somehwere knows Ur real age and it's not as if people care is it.... but oh well, waa iska xaal aduun. However, I just remembered I was reading this interesting article today .. about ageing and how to beat it (some ppl are weird like that). Anyways, it said (this is for the oldies btw 50+) if choose a particulare age and tell ya brain that your that age and cosntantly repeat that to yourself, then your brain send signals to your body, which in return will start to feel as young as the age youv'e picked and hence function they it does at that age. I am not entirely, convinced but hey, it give some hope to those craving their youth. I say your as old as you feel .... me feels like a 5 year old .... and me likes that .. then i remember all the bills that i gota pay ..... do U think, i can get away with it if I told them I was 5? hmmmmmm