Hi kamila, thank you sister and welcome to Somalia Online if you are new to it. Thank you for the poem you posted about love, love is life. [This message has been edited by JamaaL-11 (edited 04-28-2002).]

sis fartun, let me tell u my perspective in this issue sis the sisters told u everything but let me say something too, sis men love a free kiss without marrage but see when u marry him " car dadka hortooda kudhunko" he will kill u and he will say what are u doing, so be smart let the brother get is act together and marry u or else no free kissing, maybe u might end up giving up other things and then it will be time for him to hunt around again, sorry brothers i got to warn the sisters it is not i am killing the brothers chances in life lool sisters by the way you made somali people bahalo hey i would not care if u kiss ur boyfriend or dhagax but i got to say it is not ok for u and it is against ur religion, OG_Moti

Alhamdulillah, I'm finished mine. I was recuperating this past week. And Libaax I can answer your question.... yes, most of them were what I expected, except one..agh! I got my marks already so I can say I did well. I am not really looking forward to Sept. and all the stress. ======================== Barasho horteed dad ha nicin. [This message has been edited by Ilhaam (edited 04-28-2002).]

Alhamdulillah, I'm finished mine. I was recuperating this past week. And Libaax I can answer your question.... yes, most of them were what I expected, except one..agh! I got my marks already so I can say I did well. I am not really looking forward to Sept. and all the stress. ======================== Barasho horteed dad ha nicin. [This message has been edited by Ilhaam (edited 04-28-2002).]

It is a wear topic to post in this section but i am asking the sisters to comment in this... In the west women have all the control on men, she is not happy she picks up the phone and the man is to be blamed for whatever she says her words is stronger than his, in Middle East men is in the top and women has no rights and they are to be blamed if the man is looser and treat them wrong they will always say it is her .. she is no good. In Somalia we had blance, we had the perfect tradition if the two people have a problem no one to blame we talk about it " gogol baa ladhigan " ninkasto xaqiisa buu qaadan, we went to the west men lost dignity they have no word in the house so some stay and feel insulted just to keep their family together and let the female run the house and some walk away and try to save some of the dignity he hasleft with, and a somali man has nothing else but dignity and that is in treat in the west so divorce increased among somalians in the west, that is the way i saw it what is happening in the west and i am not generalizing, this theory of mine does not reflect on all families and i am not saying all our sisters are using the west system which is designed for them to take control in the house but a large number do unfortunatly, u can disagree but i am just saying my theory of the reasons our brothers are leaving there wives in a young age.. it is loosing dignity... OG_Moti

One more to go, and then I can celebrate.

One more to go, and then I can celebrate.

ExDane: Hoooolllllyyyyy!!!! they make u do that in UK. Bisinka iyo yaasinka.. It gets on my nerves when you're applying for jobs or filling out applications that these questions are asked. It's like they are already classifying you. What if you're quarter this,and quarter that? what category would you fit it? To answer the poster's q: Knowing what race I belong to helps. Its like you're born into a family!!! But that factor doesn't shape entirely of who I am. ------------------ "The shortest distance between a problem and a solution is the distance between your knees and the floor. The one who kneels to the Almighty can stand up to anything."

Assalamu Alaikum, I know one thing: there's no room for suicide in Islaam, even if you're pushed to your limits. However, I understand why the palestinian people are forced or what drives them to this alternative. These people were born into a life of struggle, the war began with their forefathers. Have you noticed something though: why do you only see young people blowing themselves up, and not the elders who believe in this? Shouldn't anyone who's able to sacrifice do it? All I know is, one day these people will get what's owed to them, justice is coming. Maybe Allah won't change their situation until they change their state of heart or their way of dealing with Isrealis. I don't know, am just speculating. Alaahu Aclam.

Kiss ya man in public .... Lord have mercy gal ... privatkii baa la isku haystaa and u is chatting kissing in public, in front of Soomaali .. yaaahuuuuuuu, I feel odd! My Hooyo always tells me ... haduu xishooddku kaa tagoo waxaad rabtid ayaad sameyn kartaa ... i think that rings true in this case! Some things are just best left private .. hope dat helps!

lol Libaax_Sankataabte ask me that question like at the end of june....my finals aren't even close....but my midterms were aight, and yes i'm looking forward to summer samester....though i have couple more months to change my mind p.s good luck to anyone who is taking their finals this week ------------------ "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" --Eleanor Roosevelt

lol Libaax_Sankataabte ask me that question like at the end of june....my finals aren't even close....but my midterms were aight, and yes i'm looking forward to summer samester....though i have couple more months to change my mind p.s good luck to anyone who is taking their finals this week ------------------ "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" --Eleanor Roosevelt

If any1 else is from the UK I'm sure u've all filled in forms which ask u to state ur ethnical background. Which to me really aint a big deal as I'm a Black African/Somali, 1 thing I cant stand however is when the choices are as such; (How would u describe ur ethnic origin?) Asian or Asian British-Bangladeshi Asian or Asian British-Indian Asian or Asian British-Pakistani Asian or Asian British-Any other background Black or Black British-African Black or Black British-Caribbean Black or Black British-Any other background Mixed-White and Asian Mixed-White abd Black African Mixed-White and Black Caribbean Mixes-Any other Mixed Background White-British White-Irish White-Any other White Background Any Other Not Known/Not Provided Now sum1 please tell me whats wrong with dat? I mean sum1 please tell me I aint de only person to notice, dat sumthin is wrong and extremely biased about a question like dis! I mean come'on how would a Black person who happens to have an Irish passport (nationality) describe themselves? I mean I know ethnicity and nationality is completely different or is supposed to be, but how come u can state whether ur Irish, Pakistani, Indian or Bangladeshi? Those a nationalities right? Opposite to dat u've got African, which is a continent, now dat can be quite right can it? I might have these questions because I've only been in de UK for 4yrs and wasn't used to fill in forms which asked u about ur ethnicity at all only nationality, perhaps there's a reason behind dis, which I'm unaware of, so if there's any1 out there with a little more knowledge on dis subject PLEASE tell me why! Regards ExDane

The Real Story of the Love between Somali Men and Somali Women is yet to be told(Other then bash one another.) Here's your chance to eradicate pessimism and Tell the World about your Love for a special Somali Woman or Woman in general, and Express the Sunshine of Hope - Unity and Love for the future of Somali Male/female relationships. Here I'll start for you guys (Pretending i'm a man):- She is the center of my joy - She is why I find Pleasure in the simple things in life. She is the only Woman that can Hurt me and Heal me at the same time - When I'm out of touch with my emotions she is there to put me in my place - She is blood of my blood flesh of my flesh - Oh that is why I love Somali Women... Your Turn now God Bless. ------------------ "He tried to be somebody by trying to be like everybody, which makes him a nobody."

somethings are meant to stay behind doors...let me ask you this what's ur purpose of doing such thing in front of people.....i believe whatever you do is betwean you and Allah but when you do infront of muslims...you are forcing them to share your sins.....cuz you know they will talk about you...so do what you gotto do..but try to be discreat...i mean i just don't see the point of going in front of people and to do something that you know is not right....to answer your question whether i kiss my boyfriend or not is beside the point but i would never do it infront of people...somali or non-somalie peace ------------------ "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" --Eleanor Roosevelt

i think they are justified, isreal kills all kinds of people and last of their massacare was jenin. and what world did about it, still america is talking palestinian terrorist.why when jews dies it is big deal, but when palestinian dies, it is nothing. i think there is no innocent jews in isreal, they all come to steal some one else's land and home, if they are innocent, then let them go back where they come from.if they had tanks and f16, they would not kill themselves, but thanks to america they are not allowed to have any kind of weapon while isreal has nuclear.

W'sup Sudectrezz, I just have a hard time when you say that "the poor brought it onto themselves". Ok let me ask you this, who has it easy: the child born into poverty...or one that's born into a wealthy family? The answer is so obvious right? So tell me who has to work twice as hard to get out of the vicious cycle, the poor one or the rich one? Who needs support and encouragement to succeeed to reach a dream? Yes everyone is born equal into this world in God's eyes, laakin we're also born into a world that helps us along the way. That's why we got families. "It takes a whole village to raise a child". Now of course am not going to blame the rich for the misfortunes of the poor. Doesn't society have a duty to help those who cannot help themselves? And believe me majority of folks born into poverty don't want to remain in that state for the rest of their lives. I think these difference existed and will always exist.....maybe there's a lesson to be learned in all of this. Maybe its meant for us to see that this world is nothing but a temporary passage to eternity, a test,and that having lots $$$ isn't the thing that will ultimately make us happy or satisfied with our lives. I have a feeling what you are refering to people from HERE, and maybe you generalized it without realizing. You want stats...hmmmm, how about I do my research and get back to ya on that. Girl, if I sound like am jumping all over the place, pls forgive me am in the middle of exams and am not all there. I am flattered..lol, I looaf u too!!! SoulLady: Hey sista, I know we side-tracked...I apologize!!! Peace in the Middle-east. ------------------ "The shortest distance between a problem and a solution is the distance between your knees and the floor. The one who kneels to the Almighty can stand up to anything."

knock knock; may i please come in? anyway me tink this ting shoulnt be spoken in public...man u guyz are bringing everyting out...wat is next:> my husband/wife did this to me...huh really this is not the way true nomadz speak. sorry to bother

How do you put in a pic it doesn't work

How would you fight tanks and planes that attack you from all corners that kill innocent pple including children?? Whats the alternative of not fighting for your rights? whats the alternative of not having any rights in your own backyard? How do you justify a massacre? There are many forms of weapon and many other forms of death...could by aburrel of agun ...planes raining bombs or exploding yourselves..... Just thought perhaps you would think of a reason for someone going to the desperation of losing their lives by being torn into smithrens. It has to be desperation at its height. Non of us can put ourselves those pples shoes. ------------------ There is no Sin Greater Than Ignorance R.Kipling ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

Aaamiin rabul caalimiin. Sista, Jazakallah for posting the dua, you made me cry!!!

waryaaNo.1 I Personally think suicide killings are wrong, nevertheless I can't help but justify it in the case of palestine. Because i cant ignore the fact every suicide bommer in recent history had his brother killed, his father killed or his whole family humiliated and terrorized in their own homes by the Israeli army so these suicides are out of desperation and there is no other alternatives. Because peace talks never produce any substance solution and palestinian authority don't have any military power to defend it self from Isreal invasion. take care.

oooooooooops!! liverpool are out the race..hahaha.. and Utd won at poor portman road..hahahaha.. Van the Man for the topscorer of the season.. what do you gunners think of that:wink: its time for leader to drop points now.. Adidas 4Eva

waryaa: abaayo is waran? ma i taaqaanaa, aniga..... waryaa: maye aboowe, weligay kuma aan arkin intaan ifka ku noolaay waryaa: hadalee i inkiray miyaa waryaa: runtii aboowe ku ma aqaano waryaa: waa yahay, iska illoob barashadey hore hada maxaa ka qabtaa hadii aan isbarano waryaa: aboowe xoog badnidaa, barashada qasab miyaa waryaa: abaayo macaanto xooga ma'ahe,horta isdeji gabar reer magaal ah waad u agtahay .......inkale adigalee waaye

waryaa: abaayo is waran? ma i taaqaanaa, aniga..... waryaa: maye aboowe, weligay kuma aan arkin intaan ifka ku noolaay waryaa: hadalee i inkiray miyaa waryaa: runtii aboowe ku ma aqaano waryaa: waa yahay, iska illoob barashadey hore hada maxaa ka qabtaa hadii aan isbarano waryaa: aboowe xoog badnidaa, barashada qasab miyaa waryaa: abaayo macaanto xooga ma'ahe,horta isdeji gabar reer magaal ah waad u agtahay ...........inta kale adigalee waaya