hmmmm blond hair that would look really bad! but two summers ago I was dying my hair and it turned out copper when I wanted light brown and you know what I looked good with it, I always got these compliments from people that my hair and skin colour matched and they said it would look scary on some people but great on me. But for me blonde hair is too drastic I dont wanna be seen as lil kim gray eyes are nice, blues too much but for me light brown or my actual dark brown does the trick

Unfortunetly theres gays of every nationality every colour and every creed.....Actaully my mom use to live in an area of xamar where a gay waiter worked.And he always complained about women and said hes better thatn a woamn cuz he dosnt bleed my mom also toldme she use to run by the restaurant as a young girl and say audubillah.

....."no sin is greater than ignorance", precisely my sentiments and its never been much more apparent than now .. Ahh by the way you wouldnt get the reaction you looking for. Im not going to lower myself to your level thank you very much. ------------------ There is no Sin Greater Than Ignorance R.Kipling ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

wlahai those were funny especially #6 it just shows how wack the church is

Meoooow....saucer of milk for you two...gettin a lil catty huh?...take a room and work of all that tension folks...might help with the agro. *Cat quickly ducks out of room, hoping to avoid the flying objects coming her way from jaber and commonsense*

God bless the dead, Allaha u naxariisto. He was born, he grew and he ruled and today he passed away. Samir iyo Iiman

Brilliant topic BTW...just discovered it Lady F...well said...I'm ashamed to say I too feel the same...it's tough going being a cynic ain't it? OG_Moti...agreed...somali guys definately ARE romantic...but maybe a little *too* romantic is the point...it scares the shidh out of us westernised cynics Cat proceeds to *gasps at Moti's insight*...it was *them* that sent you wasn't it?...you've talked to my therapist about me haven't you?...that's who you're so called "consultant" is I'll bet! Speaking for myself...there's something to what you said about fear of hurt and disappointment...I've a meticulously well hidden "soft" streak which must be fiercely protected from harsh realities at all costs...if you promise the world to it (which our somali romantics might) it's liable to swallow whole every bit of mush and nonsense you throw at it! So yes OG_Moti...behind some of the most seemingly hard hearted b!tches...lies a well protected vulnerable child who just want's to be cuddled ...but alas...somali guys are deceivers too accomplished to be entrusted with this vulnerability...they talk the talk extremely well...but do they deliver the action?...maybe some other of my nomad sisters have nicer stories to tell? ----------------------------- And remember...be careful out there.

Tamina, lol yeah it may sound odd but i was once a equivalent to tupac rapping like wow, but these days i've given a rest. Hey kind kamila say no more honey, let me be the one singing your praises. I am certain you've won your respect with me, the way you look, the way you behave, the way you talk, the way you greet and they way you preserve you dignity? waw you are a role model for real at least as i see you. Keep being sweet, kind, beautiful and respectful. I adhore you so much that isha-allaah i'll call my daughter your name see you later [This message has been edited by JamaaL-11 (edited 05-06-2002).]

Once again ya'll are arguing over NOTHING! MJ and XM, I don't think neither of you have met Mataan so i'd be easy with the assumptions if I was you .... fact is, not every 'somalilander' is crazy about the state of affairs in Somaliland... it dosn't make them any lesser then yous lot! I think it is time that somalis / S.landers started to conceive the notion of opinion ... everyone has one and should have the right to express it....! Don't beat the brother for not seeing things YOUR way .. Salaaaams,

I think the best person to ask is yourself. My advice to you would be to follow your heart. Sometimes we want what we can't get .... so maybe theres is more to this then wanting to be a model... maybe it's cos U don't enjoy studies .... what ever .... U need to think about it! As far as modeling goes, you must bare in mind the Islaam forbids such things, walaalo Allah has blessed you with beauty, intelligence and caring parents, who are concerned with your future and you show gratitude by disobeying both Allah and your parents. You also, need to consider what you are getting yourself into, despite the apparent galamoure, modeling is not what is cut up to be is it? I mean models arn't exactly the happiest people in the world are they? This is a whole industry designed to take advantage of women and make other feel shitty about them selfs. I personally, think that moddeling is an insult to women .... There is more to us then the eye can see .... and feel saddened by the fact that women can be so enthusiatic about thus whole thing .... My God, excuse my subjectivity sweety .. erm ... where was I lol my advice to ya ... I wouldn't advice you to go into it, but bottom line .. it's your life, your decision!

I hear about it and I see 'brothers' that aren't as manly looking as they did before.... but maybe it's something in their diet lol..... Allahu yaclam (i am just giving benefit of the doubt). I am stress that tehre arnt many of these people arround! Subxaan Allah, its sad to see muslims get influenced so easily in this society. It isn't about being Somali or not ... it is about loosing connection with Allah and imitating the kufaar.... we do too much of that and need to think about it as it will affect our children! Allah forbid ....may Allah protect us from the evils of our selfs and our evil actions ... theres nothing more we can say or do! I feel sick now,

Sup my fellow nomads..Id like u to give me an answer to my question. I´m studying natural science but that wasn´t my choice.my parents want me to be a doctor but I think I want to be a model...Everyone that i meet(even some ppl at the street)complemented my body and looks and they say that I should be a model..EVEN my teachers. Ive tried out an auditioning and im modelling now at my free times(NOT nudemodell)Its advertisment modelling. And if I tell my parents...they are gonna freak out..They want my best but are afraid that I will bring shame to them. I really need your advice AND aflagaadada iga dhaafa!!!! peace

yaa salaaaaam... beautiful indeed... Alxamdullilaah for blessing us and 4 blessing ya with the talent sistah .. keep it up

lady fatima man i have consulted my consultant who is very old but his knowledge in somali females is updated all the time, he told me a lady who says what u said is a lady who is full of love and pation she is just afried that if she gives it away she might end up hurt or disappointed but sis how would you know unless you try, don't keep the love give to someone check it out if it turns he deserve it well happy forever but don't use ur women powers in the west against him loool if not keep trying till u find the right one but u sound carrying a heavy cargo full of love through some on a brother and let the brother through some too, by the way i have read in a well known magazine that somali men are very romantic and full of honesty and pation, it was said by non somali lady who when asked who would you want to end your life with she said somali men and she added only if somali women realie that.. it is a fact and maybe some of you read that i can not remember the magaine name but i have it some where and when i get the article i will asked it and post here.. love to all...

looooooool me too..thanx mataan

lady fatima you are right sis but accept the reality that women created the problems, and funky sista and hibo, why do i feel a white lady is talking loool man since when a somalian lady treated bad and since when a somalian man marry a lady for sexual purposes or house cleaning and cooking hayaay ala kuwan maxaan bur ladhicilahaa hadaan ag joogi lahaa, war cusub .. any way i conclude my topic that everyone agreed my theory of the increasing devorce of somali families in the west and only in west because of women somali women testing their powers that are misused and forgetting if a good somali man turns his back will never come back, any way dear sisters we will still love you and hope to have u as awife thou Sudanesse is an option since i heard lots of good stuff about them, but Somali queen still come first, looool funky_sita dear sista 79% that is all i give sorry .. and that is being mean to the good men somali men are... Allah bless you all and may Allah return our women to their senses and make them forget the fake uncle tom promises... like the old man said Gaalo **** xumid uun baa laga keenaa... maanta sidii odayaasha baan uhadli iga raali ahaada ciil baa iga keenay .. waryaadahee waan gabyi hadii kale iga dhaafa dhibaatada qirta qaladkiina kuna dhaqaaqa sida loo hagaajinlahaa, gabadhii rabta waano odey iyo wisdom i will be available 24/7 and willing to help the sisters to overcome this problem of loosing good men, i have developed 10 solution during the past few months which might help let me know if u need them .. lots of love sisters

Daq daq daq daq

I am always last to arrive in the topics that are hot. Anyways here is my two cents. A friend of mine, whom I greatly admire once said, " Marriage is an interest" Although I disagreed with him at the beginning but now as I examine it closely, I think he is right. Earlier nomads, married each other for different reasons than most of us do. To elaborate I will give u examples. 1.Women got married, b/c the men was gonna provide for them n their children. 2. Men married women, b/c they needed women to reproduce, especially boys. And they married women b/c they needed someone to cook and clean for them, at the same time satisfy their sexual appetite. However the present day women have changed their view of the world and their ineterst in marriage as well. We can even say, its total opposite to the interests of our mothres n grandmas. For example 1. Women marry men, b/c they need someone to satisfy their sexual desires n to reproduce with. And a partner that stands tall with them,an equal not a dominator. 2. men marry women, for the same old reasons. The reasons why divorce rate among somalis is increasing is because, women have progressed and r no longer dependent on men for their success in life. This is mainly, b/c of the educational opportunities and the civilization of womenhood. Men failed to adopt to these sudden changes in women's attitude towards marriage and life as a whole. This ordeal can be solved, only if men valued women more than the machine they assumed women were. I am not trying to be a feminist. But to me that is the main reason why divorce rate is so high. It has nothing to do with a man's dignity rather his openness to change and his adoptation skillz. With our civilization and our independency we do deserve to be seen more than sex objects. Its time u have embraced the reality that the new generationof women have nothing in common with your mothers. We know ever man looks for a wife who resembles his mom in behavior and thoughts, and every woman looks for that father figure in a husband. Its time you have opened your eyes and seen the reality that shines so brightly, making it impossible for one with eyes to ignore. So brothas n sisters..don't stand up n create unneccasary gender warfare, rather work together and make spiritual connections. ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

ALI SOMALI: people whom i call despicable are the people who circulated lies that cigaal is dead .. the pple who say a country that live in peace and has no any claim other pple homeland are not dispicable but honourable people.. a people who didnt live with respect are dispicable.. people who day and night say that somaliland people doesnot exist and have no right that and that are evil and dispicable.. mataaan: i dont care if you dont answer or not , but to see some one like you is just an other shamefull part of life .. somalia isnot my country, somaliland is .. i respect those who respect others. if you belong somalia no one is saying you dont belong ..... mj

I love the dirac but I just wish it wouldnt drag on the floor and no ur not the last funky I am...I always have to have the last say

hey mataan my date of birth is january the first! whats that supposed to mean?

Soul_lady you made cry it is a beautiful story and it made me re-evaluate my whole thinking of why women cry, i use to say they cry to get attention but now i have changed my mind and when i read your reply I called my mom who i did not seen for years and told her how much i loved her and how much i miss he and guess what she cried and this time i know why BEAUSE SHE WAS HAPPY .. thanx sis for the story, and to the rest of the sisters hear me well... this is my story of love, but before i talk and tell the truth let me say to the brother abdi nuur brother if you said those words to non somalian lady she might cry for a week but my brother many somalian ladies will not even understand what you mean .. so now let me tell the truth do my dear queens i met a somali girl by the way the sista who said somali men are good in writting rather than face to face you are right but did u ask why? if you want to know why i tell u next time, but hear me for now, sisters i met this girl, and I just could not stop having strong feelings for her i told her when i am with me i feel i own the world, you made me feel wanting to become a better man, my life just started to have a meaning and i start to feel a life with you, and guess what she said waryaa jileeeca iska dhaaf is adkey waamaxay sidaan, and i am sure if i told those words to Asian girl she would cry for a month and I would be treated like a king, loool it is just our dear sisters are dhagax and unfortunatly our brother have no choice except keeping their feelings, but the good news is we still love our queens and hope one day they will be jileec and feel the love we are feeling for them, and by the way the African or was it Arab saying of "fill his stomach with fried chicken and he will be romantic" is not true, the somali brothers do not care about food they want to be treated well that is all peace and love

Soul_lady you made cry it is a beautiful story and it made me re-evaluate my whole thinking of why women cry, i use to say they cry to get attention but now i have changed my mind and when i read your reply I called my mom who i did not seen for years and told her how much i loved her and how much i miss he and guess what she cried and this time i know why BEAUSE SHE WAS HAPPY .. thanx sis for the story, and to the rest of the sisters hear me well... this is my story of love, but before i talk and tell the truth let me say to the brother abdi nuur brother if you said those words to non somalian lady she might cry for a week but my brother many somalian ladies will not even understand what you mean .. so now let me tell the truth do my dear queens i met a somali girl by the way the sista who said somali men are good in writting rather than face to face you are right but did u ask why? if you want to know why i tell u next time, but hear me for now, sisters i met this girl, and I just could not stop having strong feelings for her i told her when i am with me i feel i own the world, you made me feel wanting to become a better man, my life just started to have a meaning and i start to feel a life with you, and guess what she said waryaa jileeeca iska dhaaf is adkey waamaxay sidaan, and i am sure if i told those words to Asian girl she would cry for a month and I would be treated like a king, loool it is just our dear sisters are dhagax and unfortunatly our brother have no choice except keeping their feelings, but the good news is we still love our queens and hope one day they will be jileec and feel the love we are feeling for them, and by the way the African or was it Arab saying of "fill his stomach with fried chicken and he will be romantic" is not true, the somali brothers do not care about food they want to be treated well that is all peace and love

What will you do if you were palestinian citizen..personally this effects every muslim in the world is just frustrating to see how pple dying every minute...plzzzzz read this facts below and give me your feedback. The Israeli policy toward Palestinian FACTS ABOUT ISRAEL Did you know that: non-Jewish Israelis cannot buy or lease land in Israel Palestinian license plates in Israel are color coded distinguish Jews from non-Jews? Jerusalem, both east and west, is consider entire world community, including the United States, to be occupied territory and NOT part of Israel? Israel allots 85% of the water resources for Jews and the remaining 15% is divided among all Palestinians in the territories? For example in Hebron, 85% of the water is given to about 400 settlers, while 15% must be divided among Hebron's 120,000 Palestinians? the United States awards Israel $5 billion in aid each year? (Further, most major corporations also donate millions to Israel) yearly US aid to Israel exceeds the aid the US grants to the whole African continent? Israel is the only country in the Middle East that has nuclear weapons? Israel is the only country in the Middle East that refuses to sign the nuclear nonproliferation treaty and bars international inspections from its sites? Israel currently occupies territories of two sovereign nations (Lebanon and Syria) in defiance of United Nations Security Council resolutions? (Jordan=E2??s land is separate from this) Israel has for decades routinely sent assassins into other countries to kill its political enemies? high-ranking military officers in the Israeli Defense Forces have admitted publicly that unarmed prisoners of war were executed by the IDF? Israel refuses to prosecute its soldiers who have acknowledged executing prisoners of war? Israel routinely confiscates bank accounts, businesses, and land and refuses to pay compensation to those who suffer the confiscation? Israel blew up an American diplomatic facility in Egypt and attacked a US ship in international waters, killing 33 and wounding 177 American sailors? (The US did not retaliate) the second most powerful lobby in the United States, according to a recent Fortune magazine survey of Washington insiders, is the Israeli AIPAC? Israel stands in defiance of 69 United Nations Security Council Resolutions? today's Israel sits on the former sites of more than 400 now vanished Palestinian villages, and that the Israelis renamed almost every physical site in the country to cover up the traces? it was not until 1988 that Israelis were barred from running "Jews Only" job ads? four prime ministers of Israel (Begin, Shamir, Rabin, and Sharon) have taken part in either bomb attacks on civilians, massacres of civilians, or forced expulsions of civilians from their villages? the Israeli Foreign Ministry pays two American public relations firms to promote Israel to Americans? that Sharon's coalition government includes a party =E2?? Molodet, which advocates expelling all Palestinians from the occupied territories? Israel's settlement building increased in the eight years since Oslo? settlement building under Barak doubled compared to settlement building under Netanyahu? Israel once dedicated a postage stamp to a man who attacked a civilian bus and killed several people? recently declassified documents indicate that David Ben-Gurion in at least some instances approved of the expulsion of Palestinians in 1948? We often hear of Ehud Barak's generosity about an alleged return of 95% of the Palestinian Occupied Territories. When Palestinians refused, they were blamed for "missing an opportunity." (Actually, Israel offered 48% of the 22% of Palestinian territories) the Palestinians have already accepted Israel's existence on 78% of what was Palestine. Bible: God said to Abraham, "Unto thy seed, I will give thy land." Abraham had two sons. Ismael, the Arab so, and Isaac, the Jewish son. So even if one wants to go to the Bible, the land would belong to both. Palestinian Christians are considered the "living stones" of Christianity because they are the direct descendants of the disciples of Jesus Christ? despite a ban on torture by Israel's High Court of Justice, torture has continued by Shin Bet interrogators of Palestinian prisoners. Palestinian refugees make up the largest portion of the refugee population in the world? To top it all the Government if USA pumps in as aid to Israel US$ 3 Billion each year 0r US$ 3,000,000,000.00 which can be used for much needed Programs on Health, Education, Housing and Welfare for the "poor" in USA. By a.d.osman.

Guys is commonsense a female, war hayaay and i always thought it was a brother now i know, i was always saying why the brother always take females side when ever we discuss and why is he sometimes hard on the brothers, man i should guessed i guess i am a bit slow, any way nice to know, the name is a bit general and far from being female loool hey i don't mean bad so do not pick on me, peace