woow that is one of koolest q i have seen for the night. well i wouldn't be able to speak for the rest ladies out there but yeah i personaly wanna do both i feel i don't have to chose one over the other, im 20 now so insha'allah get in to kids lovely shit around 22 lol.. but for the ones who wanna go for the career i guess they thought of it and im sure they know what they doing. but i don't think society will see them as selfish. just hard working ladies that is... well i hope that answers ur q dear. and till then take care of urself and others around ya.. 1 luv... sallam... ------------------ peace in the middle east.

magnuuna is that crazy in egyptian language? any way even if you kiss your husband his parents will devorce you and why is another topic, and he will devorce u cause he will say naa maxaad sameyn ma gaajo baa kuheysa maxaad afka iilasoo aadi, somali men mostly care what others think about them thou to tell the truth in this world like the sister said if you doing it close dooors and god is seeing u why do u care if human **** xun uuga cabsan, hadaadan ilaahey kacabsan ama wax ilaahey ka soo horgeedo sameyn even if ppl think it is wrong .. do it and if they don't like it they have a problem, but again you need the respect of others so it is a bit complicated issue but the choice is yours no matter what you choose just do not choose what makes the creator angry, wa salaam.. dumarka somalida faruuryo oo qaboob baa kuyaalo laakiinse waxaan maqlay ilkaha ayey soo holreysiiyaan markey dhunkasho timaado, lool peace

GOOD Q.. I SAW ONE OF U GUYS SAID KISSING SOMEONE WHO IS NOT UR HUSBAND IS HARAM I TOTALLY KNOW THAT. BUT WHAT ABOUT IF U ARE HUSBAND AND WIFE? I DON'T KNOW HOW PPL DID OR WERE LIKE BACK AT HOME BUT I WOULD KISS MY HUSBAND IN PUBLIC UNLESS HE DOESN'T FEEL COMFORTABLE AND THAT IS DIFFERENT STORY. BUT TO ANSWER UR Q ABOUT KISSING UR B/F YEAH I HAVE KISSED HIM IN PUBLIC BUT NOT INFRONT OF SOMALIS LOL SO YEAH GIRL KEEP IT DOWN .. WELL THAT IS FOR THE MOMENT SO TAKE CARE YO'LL. AND HAVE FUN. 1 LUV ALWAYS.. ------------------ peace in the middle east.

let him? i'm thinking our wedding day to make him say he'll never marry lady besides me inside the masjid and make sure everyone witness that lol..... hey gotta say this but i hate to share specially my man (greeddy huh) well that is all i had to say for now so bye.. one luv.. sallam... ------------------ peace in the middle east.

hey..yall Dirac and Timz?(i get the dirac part.. the tmiz are they timberlands?...in any case i would lovve to see u trip on those heavy boots- i laugh @ ppl who trip-cracks me up). As for ur Q, i have to say that when u see ppl being treated below what we call "human" more than likely that person has put him/herself in that situation...some ppl are too nice and some are too arrogant and hence take advantage- in either case the "nicer" person always is under-appreciated and hence feels degraded.. for our society, women have always stayed "behind" man. literally speaking thats the islamic way of life.. but am guessing you guys are too smart for that and hence are talkin about the general socio-economic "behind"...all in all..our society calls for both the man and woman to be EQUAl as stated in the quran. whether this is followed or not entirely depends on the individual in Quetsion. Hibo-our "not so good " community is after all the one that we have bin raised in.. Abdinur-sxb what kinda evidence do u have for that?.did u come up with that? I hope u all have a wonderful summer! ------------------ I LOVE ME FOR ME

ahahha Buubaaye, that was a good one. Come to think of it how about we make a collection of Sheeko Xariiro for the Somali kids? God Bless. ------------------ "He tried to be somebody by trying to be like everybody, which makes him a nobody."

war up????

war up????

I don't think 2pac is dead, there is just too much evidence prooving him too be alive, and plus there isn't too much evidence prooving his death. But hey thats just my opinion. tupac's body was not shown on national tv, just pictures of his atopsy. Even 2pac's own family didn't see his dead body, just doctors. He was in da hospital for 7 days afta he wuz shot, and survived. And he was pronounced dead 7 days after he was shot. And den cremated immediately after the day he supposedly died. In all tupac's video's dat he died in he was buried, neva ceremated. There were several videos in which he died and he came back to live. And in the song "AIN'T HARD TO FIND" 2pac starts off verse one by rapping "I heard rumor i died, murdered in cold blood, dramatized pictures of me in my final stage, you know mama cried, but that was fiction, some coward got the story twisted, like i no longer exsisted, mysteriously missing...." And in the song Redemption off the album "R U STILL DOWN" which was released in 1997 one year after 2pac supposedly died he's on laughing saying "ONCE AGAIN! HAHAHAH, Y'ALL CAN'T KILL ME...." and keeps on reapeating it. ((When tupac was in the hospital, doctors were tight-lipped about his condition. But one nurse, made the public statement that tupac would live for sure. The fact that a trained professional stated clearly that 2pac would live shows that his condition may have been much better than what was reported at the time.)) One month after 2pac is shot, he released a new video "I ain't mad at cha" 2pac walks out of a Las Vegas club and is shot. He dies in an abmulance and goes to heaven. And in 1996 when 2pac released "All eyez on me" he had several tracks with the OUTLAWZ on it. Him and da outlawz were part of OUTLAWZ IMMORTAL. Where he changed his name to Makavelli, a pseudonym of the Italian Professor Nicolo Machiavelli, who wrote the book called "the prince" in which the main character fakes his own death, in order to fool his enemies. And on the booklet of the CD "EXIT 2PAC: ENTER MAKAVELLI" There is a 3 finger hand print on the side of the booklet (2pac had 2 fingers shot off, in the shooting on Sept 7th) Also, Suge Knight said in an interview that after the shooting occured 2pac was awake and making conversation in the vehicle. Apparently suge was trying to find a hospital and 2pac laughed before saying "Why are you taking me to the hospital, you're the one shot in the head." I got the 5th paragraph of a website, just wanted to make that clear, so i ain't plagerzing nothing. But i hope dats enuff proof to clear up your misconceptions of 2pac's death. But like i said thats just my opinion

I don't think 2pac is dead, there is just too much evidence prooving him too be alive, and plus there isn't too much evidence prooving his death. But hey thats just my opinion. tupac's body was not shown on national tv, just pictures of his atopsy. Even 2pac's own family didn't see his dead body, just doctors. He was in da hospital for 7 days afta he wuz shot, and survived. And he was pronounced dead 7 days after he was shot. And den cremated immediately after the day he supposedly died. In all tupac's video's dat he died in he was buried, neva ceremated. There were several videos in which he died and he came back to live. And in the song "AIN'T HARD TO FIND" 2pac starts off verse one by rapping "I heard rumor i died, murdered in cold blood, dramatized pictures of me in my final stage, you know mama cried, but that was fiction, some coward got the story twisted, like i no longer exsisted, mysteriously missing...." And in the song Redemption off the album "R U STILL DOWN" which was released in 1997 one year after 2pac supposedly died he's on laughing saying "ONCE AGAIN! HAHAHAH, Y'ALL CAN'T KILL ME...." and keeps on reapeating it. ((When tupac was in the hospital, doctors were tight-lipped about his condition. But one nurse, made the public statement that tupac would live for sure. The fact that a trained professional stated clearly that 2pac would live shows that his condition may have been much better than what was reported at the time.)) One month after 2pac is shot, he released a new video "I ain't mad at cha" 2pac walks out of a Las Vegas club and is shot. He dies in an abmulance and goes to heaven. And in 1996 when 2pac released "All eyez on me" he had several tracks with the OUTLAWZ on it. Him and da outlawz were part of OUTLAWZ IMMORTAL. Where he changed his name to Makavelli, a pseudonym of the Italian Professor Nicolo Machiavelli, who wrote the book called "the prince" in which the main character fakes his own death, in order to fool his enemies. And on the booklet of the CD "EXIT 2PAC: ENTER MAKAVELLI" There is a 3 finger hand print on the side of the booklet (2pac had 2 fingers shot off, in the shooting on Sept 7th) Also, Suge Knight said in an interview that after the shooting occured 2pac was awake and making conversation in the vehicle. Apparently suge was trying to find a hospital and 2pac laughed before saying "Why are you taking me to the hospital, you're the one shot in the head." I got the 5th paragraph of a website, just wanted to make that clear, so i ain't plagerzing nothing. But i hope dats enuff proof to clear up your misconceptions of 2pac's death. But like i said thats just my opinion

I don't think 2pac is dead, there is just too much evidence prooving him too be alive, and plus there isn't too much evidence prooving his death. But hey thats just my opinion. tupac's body was not shown on national tv, just pictures of his atopsy. Even 2pac's own family didn't see his dead body, just doctors. He was in da hospital for 7 days afta he wuz shot, and survived. And he was pronounced dead 7 days after he was shot. And den cremated immediately after the day he supposedly died. In all tupac's video's dat he died in he was buried, neva ceremated. There were several videos in which he died and he came back to live. And in the song "AIN'T HARD TO FIND" 2pac starts off verse one by rapping "I heard rumor i died, murdered in cold blood, dramatized pictures of me in my final stage, you know mama cried, but that was fiction, some coward got the story twisted, like i no longer exsisted, mysteriously missing...." And in the song Redemption off the album "R U STILL DOWN" which was released in 1997 one year after 2pac supposedly died he's on laughing saying "ONCE AGAIN! HAHAHAH, Y'ALL CAN'T KILL ME...." and keeps on reapeating it. ((When tupac was in the hospital, doctors were tight-lipped about his condition. But one nurse, made the public statement that tupac would live for sure. The fact that a trained professional stated clearly that 2pac would live shows that his condition may have been much better than what was reported at the time.)) One month after 2pac is shot, he released a new video "I ain't mad at cha" 2pac walks out of a Las Vegas club and is shot. He dies in an abmulance and goes to heaven. And in 1996 when 2pac released "All eyez on me" he had several tracks with the OUTLAWZ on it. Him and da outlawz were part of OUTLAWZ IMMORTAL. Where he changed his name to Makavelli, a pseudonym of the Italian Professor Nicolo Machiavelli, who wrote the book called "the prince" in which the main character fakes his own death, in order to fool his enemies. And on the booklet of the CD "EXIT 2PAC: ENTER MAKAVELLI" There is a 3 finger hand print on the side of the booklet (2pac had 2 fingers shot off, in the shooting on Sept 7th) Also, Suge Knight said in an interview that after the shooting occured 2pac was awake and making conversation in the vehicle. Apparently suge was trying to find a hospital and 2pac laughed before saying "Why are you taking me to the hospital, you're the one shot in the head." I got the 5th paragraph of a website, just wanted to make that clear, so i ain't plagerzing nothing. But i hope dats enuff proof to clear up your misconceptions of 2pac's death. But like i said thats just my opinion

Buubaayee.. markii arki sheeko xariir...waxaan sugaayey alaab la habeeyey, cusbo, xawaaji, qalfo iyo heel, walax kasto loo dhameyey laakiinse maba sugeynin sheeko caano eri oo barax oo kale u dhadhamaayo... waraa walax original la kooy..........unuka ciyaal ma nihin... sheekadii waxaas noo keeni yaxaas iyo dawacadii... carabka aan kaa deensado...sxb.. try again baliiiiiiiiiiiiish!! ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

Takbiir>>>> Alaahu Akbar. I wonder where it happened, and when? It's truly amazing walaahi. Thnks for sharing sista. ------------------ "The shortest distance between a problem and a solution is the distance between your knees and the floor. The one who kneels to the Almighty can stand up to anything."

loooooooooooooooooooooooo @ 'I WISH THESE WERE BRAINS'. guys u have been warned! Geeljire 4 real

I don't get it..why are we all acting suprised? Yes just like murderers exist in our community, gays do. As long as they stay behind closed doors and not being all open about it like folks from here, then I don't care!! We have more important issues to tackle in our community than worry about a small percentage of possible somali gays/lesbians.

W'sup MissL, I'm sure you're beautiful as alot of our nomad sisters are. However, I wouldn't be suprised if a non-somali tells you "you should be a model" since this society is based on image image and image!!! Do u get it? It's a big business and alot of products are dependant on models....or else how would it get consumers money? Realize that alot of folks from here get their self worth from how they look, the way they dress, and most of all the kind of attention people give them. Whatever happened to appreciating one's inner beauty. After that long essay, here's my advice to you: If studying natural sciences isn't your desire, its never too late to change your major and to fulfill your dreams. Just try to convince your parents and am sure they can't force you to do something you dislike. Just read about some of the models you see all the time. They have or had alot of personal problems as a result ranging from drugs to depression. I wish you all the luck.

by the way I was talking to that guy who says hes Amina sheiks brother in my other post that was recently posted

Ive never met a lebanese person who wasnt a liar, had a worse temper than a somali and was a chickhen but Im not going to stereotype all lebanese people to be this way because I know better than that...

Salam u all Damn wats up here, a lebanese girl actually dissing us lool. Honey before u see the ills of others look at your culture first.Lebanese girls are known as the numero uno sluts in the arab world, dont even try defending urself loool and even worse when they come "north america" Her behind must still be sore from the last ass kicking she got form one nomad Peace ( i cant believe this)

What city? what state or province? what country? what continet?(i think north america) it would help if you told us your location.

Cushtic_Cutie: why don't you enlight me and show me one that is not hot temper, haven't met one in my city and there is large Somali population as well.

How weird, Me and a friend of mine were just talkin about this the other day! I was telling her how I would never allow my husband marry another women while he's still married to me. And she had her point too. She said, that we already know that a man can marry upto 4 wives and that's his right just like the rights given to a woman by Allah. Under Islam, if he chooses to marry I have no right stopping it. So I thought about, and I realized that she's right. But you see the problem is what would I do if my husband every suggested such a thing? At this moment, if I was married I think I'd leave him just because I don't think I could handle the fact that our relationship isn't exclusive, but I wouldn't deny his right to marry someone else. I think that communication is key. Tell him how you feel about it before you get married and also afterwards. Peace N' Blessings.

you cant reason with somali people? thats a huge stereotype amina sheiks brother and where exactly has this happened? and of course you can reason with soamli people we are the most reasonable people on this planet and too quick tempered not everybody is the same human beings should not be stereotyped by where they are from because there are hot tempered somalis and mellow tempered somalis just like there are quick tempered lebanese people, rude lebanese people and then theirs the decent ones just like eveyone elses everyone is an individual and should not be judged by nationality.

I would put IndhadeeqFutureMate in that short tempter list as well.

SHORT-TEMPER? TRUE TRUE COZ TAQWA IS ONE OF THEM LOL