Well, if the person who loves me doesn't fall in to the category of my DREAMGIRL I won't go after her but if she falls in to that category then it's dream came true, on the other hand if the person I love doesn't reciprocate the same love I wont bother loving her. I firmly believe in the Somali Saying which says: WAAN DHIMANAYAA BAKHTIGA LOOMA CUNO.

Salama Names for ur daughter,I would go with Jawahiir (lol)(means jewels) Maymuna( one of the prophets(P.B.U.H) wives) Suhair(i simply love this name) Ibtisam(means a smile) Sabrina (means patience)

Hi sis i agree with lulla u can't force ur self to love someone if its not there right know then u might as well just leave it. The other guy i wld say don't bother ur self sis chasing someone that is not into u as much as u are into them isn't so nice, so just remain friends with both of them and if something was meant to happen then let it be but don't force anything. I mean what if u try with this guy that loves u but u can't return his feelings then u might strat to feel gulty and unhappy.

A/nur and Buubto Thanks alot! I really appreciated.... Abdinuur walaahi, Aboowe I'm not being ungrateful, I really do appreciate his love for me! but I've tried to love him but I couldn't, I can't open-up my heart for him(I really would love to) but what can I say? It's not working. we went out on dates, talked for hours(almost 2yrs now) but it's not working, No matter what he does for me, I've No Love for him absolutely whatsoever! I see him as my own brother, not a man(I mean i don't see him as someone I would be attracted to) and I'm not the kind a person that can 'pretend' to be something or someone they're not. I can't just say I love you when I don't mean it, I don't want to hurt him further by laying to him. that is not right! I told him upfront how I felt and still feel but said he it doesn't matter he will love me regardless! I did and every night do my prayers and ask Allah to guide me but nothing is working so far. Walaahi I'm in a major dilemma. Also what I forgot to mention was that he is older then me. I'm 22 he is 32yrs old! I don't know if that is the reason, I don't feel him like that? or what?. Walaahi I'm not being ungrateful, It's just Chemistry that I'm lacking for him.

Hello Nomadz! Most women I know when asked about why they're not married, say "they'e waiting for Mr. Right" What if you found 'IT'? but Don't want it? There is a guy who has basically everything I asked in a man!, If it was Education, He got it, Diin, he got it, Personality, Politeness, Kindness, Romantic, Looks, Ambition, Respect for me and my family. you name it, he got it. On top of that, He loves me So much,I mean Deeply Head over hills in love with me. what is the problem you ask?. I have No love for him whatsoever! the guy loves me truly and I knows that but, I'm not Attracted to him at all.It's like your Favorite Food, only you don't have the appetite to eat it! My question is.... What would you ladies or gentleman's do in this situation Would you over look your own happiness to be with someone your heart desires and instead go for this person that Loves you more then Live it's self or. Would you Decline their Offer and take your chances with someone you love instead?? I'm really in a serious dilemma, If I decline his love for me and instead take my chance in perhaps someone else? I'm afraid that I will miss a chance for real love, but if I go with the man that truly loves me, also I'm afraid that in the long run I won't be happy with him, since my heart doesn't want him? PLease Give me your advices/opinions. I'm really a sister in need of good advice right about now. Waad mahadsantihiin Nomadz

He:Qofyahey waasoo dheeraatay maanta She: Hada aan sii gaabanaa Macalinka To be continued

ismahaaaaaneeeey waad naga qoslisaye god bless ya sis.... u got so many jokes. thanx sis one luv bro a.fatah

Very tough question mmmm...... I got to say I am not the type of person who runs after someone they know that won't return they love. I would go with the one that loves me deeply, because I know that person would cherish me and treat me as a queen. Besides as long as there is nothing wrong with that person and has some of the qualities that satisfies me, why not. I mean why waste your time with someone that doesn’t even love you? Maybe at the end you will properly realise that someone you loved wasn’t even worth it, and your true love was right there in front of you all the way and you didn’t even realise it. Salaamz

Ok, I know this sounds like something Abdinuur would ask.....lol....but I gotta ask it anyway! Here is the situation: Someone is madly and deeply in love with u, and u like them, but u don't feel the same way about them, but u also know that maybe u'll never find someone who will love u the same way again..........on the other hand.......there is someone YOU are deeply in love with, and they like u BUT they don't feel the same way bout u..... so what do u do? Who do you go for........would you settle 4 the person who loves you, secure in the knowledge that this person worships the ground you walk on and will cherish u........or do you take a risk and go after the one you love, knowing that they might never fall in love with you?

Loooooooool... Habo......Walaahi that was funny... small ears he... lol... Unix: If u live in MN.. I will certainly satisfy ur hunger... that is something easy...beleive it!!!

lol @ El~nino........walaahi u r a funny guy. I guess u haven't been out in hurricane since......

aight aight mine is little crazy and please do not laugh at me cuz i take it personal...well one day i was vacationin' in florida i think it three years ago and i woke up early u kow brush my teeth and turn on da news and there was a severe hurricane michele watch...u know me bein' a typical somali i started makin' fun of the hurricane and callin' it hurricane cambaro...lol...and then the news reporter adviced us to stay at home but once again u know me bein' that crazy nomad i went to da beach...when i went to da beach i saw these big signs that said PLEASE KEEP AWAY...but my dumb ass sneaked in the beach..so i took off my clothes with only shorts left in my body so i went to da public restroom(the once that are outside) and b4 i knew it this big ass hurricane took my bathrom and includin' me and guess what? i also lost my shorts, my clothes and my cell phone...lol...as i'm typin' this i can't go on cuz after this i might start to cry and one thing i learned was take things seriously... I hope u understand how i got my name oh yeah El~nino means hurricane in spanish since i was with my spanish girlfriend... ------------------ Aimin' for the SKY

Than you very much admin, thats good news

Than you very much admin, thats good news

good!!!

good!!!

It doesn't bother me in the slightest. Kaafirs can't harm our religion. As MMA said there will always be ppl like him.

Barwaaqo sister, thankx i did wrote that poem.

My favourite films are: Thelma and Louise Terminator 1 and 2 Silence of the Lambs Crouching Tiger

Jamal, you are truly talented. I liked 'my country men' best. Did you compose it?

My dad always calls me Barwaaqo, which is why I chose it. It is not my name but it has the same meaning as my name. It is not very creative, but I really love it.

Simply because America is a country that provides people with a lot of opportunities in the fields of education, job, life style etc... In other words it's an advanced and also fast growing country. And why can't we have all this in our country? Because our country is still divided up “clang”. until they get over that they won't get all this. Salaamz

My country men! My poets Those words you have cried Had made my mind sway near break! But those dreams i have had Show me a better place of Peace and fresh milk So keep your pen wet And your hopes ever high We shall pull through this For kings seek the force of swords Poets shall seek the force of words And standwith the might and strength Our homes may be burnt Our people may be destitute Our future may be unclear Our land may be up for sale Who we're shall never change Shame waits to take its shape Hell has already broken lose, and I am tired of cries of grieve Tired of fleeing and driftings, Though I see better things coming

The girl is ninteen and tender Fresh faced, veiled and uncut clean, smart with diamond smiles pretty eyes that steal hearts Bangles of gold, compounds of love Beauty for body and shyness And dignity for her parents

My princess Such a Sweet morning sleep but I'm dreaming deep, The cold morning dew is like the mattress' soft, suddenly I hear a sweet wisper, a shallow breath Pretty face's eyes half closed cutely angled Sensual she, so calm her ways so tender her touch. Her beauty naturally glows like a bright tavern, I kissed a cheek, soft and smelling of a perfume. Oh it is like an angel with a golden heart, She does What lovers do, or content in dreams She Rests on my chest to be secure and satisfied, With her fine looking figure curved to my desire. Round thighs, flowing hair and maturely loving eye Such baby skinned girl, is comfort to a kind soul Like the air we breath, she naurishes the soul Elegance is her look and boneless when she dances I love her easy ways and her perfume spray She Wears ud the midnights and Attar afterwards her Silk hair scented with rehan, dancing sideways