A suggestion perhaps.... As most of us cant deal with the idea of talking about Qabiil in acivilised manner, perhaps the Admin should find a place or create astring (QABIIL) for people who interested in that. That way anyone interested could go over there and do what they are good in (wrongful gossip) ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

Safi, I do agree to an extend what u have written n the incredible way u have presented, yet sis, don't u think its also the MIddle East to blame, for kissing the arse of the Papa. My believe have always been n will be, that if Muslims around the world, joined hands n stuck together, than the papa with his biggest toy, can't stop them. But the fear of the unknown is what is keeping us from going forward. Its sad indeed, to witness another form of Holocaust performed on the Muslims. From what I witness, I think the jews r out to taking their revenge of what they said, had been done to them by Hitler, on the wrong souls. Yet " the rest of the world", who have bestowed this incredible power n liberty to Israel, have their hands tied, by no one else but themselves, and r forced to watch, the suffering of the only ppl whose land they have given out to these inhuman/animal like creatures. I can't really do anything by myself, however, everyday I make sure I write an email to a different newspaper, hopping for some miracle to happen, to make the muslims realize their power when united! ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

Walaashiis, its Sahro Ahmed who sang the song, dulqaad. Waayaha is originally owned by Ahmed Mooge, but nowadays its sang by Abdinuur Saalax, aka Jazz. Its in his album " Heelo Laasqoray"..there plenty of good songs in there. My recommendations for songs well sis, me is qarami..I am not much into the new music, rather kaban is my call...so if u r interested in those..let me know I will hit u up with a list of songs.. Sisinta, I know that whole song, now I am in a hurry but certainly check for it in a day or two. ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

Sisinta: Atariisho....me is crazy about cambuulo...n my family were very well off back home n still r. So sis, its just a matter of choice in taste, rather than the amount of money u have. I have a cousin, he hates Hilib,..period. what is more somali than Hilib ari. He won't eat it...does that mean he is maskiin...no wiat "danyar"???..no its just his choice. To make a long story short, cambuulo is eaten by all kinds of ppl. Maybe ur family didn't like it, but I am telling u sis, u r missing one hell of meal!! MMA: Habarteeyo, ma u mudi jirin in intaas oo hadal eh uu kuugu jiray....abootooy, warkaada waxaa lagu soo raari karaa, in meehii jeceshahaa waran laga suro yahe.... haa sheekadaada hadaan garti... ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

Sisinta: Atariisho....me is crazy about cambuulo...n my family were very well off back home n still r. So sis, its just a matter of choice in taste, rather than the amount of money u have. I have a cousin, he hates Hilib,..period. what is more somali than Hilib ari. He won't eat it...does that mean he is maskiin...no wiat "danyar"???..no its just his choice. To make a long story short, cambuulo is eaten by all kinds of ppl. Maybe ur family didn't like it, but I am telling u sis, u r missing one hell of meal!! MMA: Habarteeyo, ma u mudi jirin in intaas oo hadal eh uu kuugu jiray....abootooy, warkaada waxaa lagu soo raari karaa, in meehii jeceshahaa waran laga suro yahe.... haa sheekadaada hadaan garti... ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

maskiin walahi, i never seen u like this, but i agree some people need to think outside the box. sisinta, Take the advice and leave it at that, there is no point in justifying your unnecesary coments, if our history is less-than perfect there is no need for us to keep repeating it. peace.

wow, wow, i have never seen MMA mad like this, whatever you said isii_sisinta, i bet it was so bad that the adm deleted it. worst food i ever eat was calool, i did not know it, but when they told me later on, i did not eat anything for 1 day.

safi: tell it like it is, sis. good job, humorous and truthfull. abdinuur good points, i wunder if decent US citizens know this.

isii sisinta you'r becoming the Female version of CAYDID, the most WANTED man on Somaliaonline. Please change your ways.

MMWA, well said brother. Two thumbs up. Waxaan kuu sheegaa saaxib, caruurta la iskuma hadal baro walahi. Soomaali waxay tiraaahaa dhalaan dheeshaada bartay, Heeee--- buu farta kaa geliyaa. Nin akhyaaraa tahay, qof walba sheeko looma bilaabo, wakaa sidaa ula soco. Keep your head up Nomads.

LOl abdinur..he is sick as hell.....

LOl nah..not funny homey

There is a need for moderation..thats what most other Webmasters do ....Most of the posts are checked out to see if they conform with the Topic or with the rules and would either be deleted or published. I would think the Admins should they want this site to prosper, to keep a leash on the dummies of our community. Im sure there are a lot out there who wouldnt want to see any stable site that people feel comfortable with. ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii [This message has been edited by Shaqsii (edited 04-05-2002).]

lulla: abaabalah, naag bidaarleh hadaan arki lahaa waa fagaareen lahaa nooh, ninbidaarleh aala isku heestay sheekada caadi miyaa mise maya, asaa noo keentay naag bidaarleh, walaahi bidaarteeda aa bun lagu duban lahaa raga qaarkiis. Muqayiliinta aa jecel naagaha bidaarta iyo shaarbaha leh, weey marqaan badanyihiin aan maqlay.

to the poster sista follow your heart and believe me you don't have nothing to prove in fact he is the one that's suppose to prove himself as someone put it earlier that happened to me couple years ago i was with this guy and i honestly thought i love him and had no idea he was dating other women....until this women walk up to me at a wedding talking about i heard you are with my man so what's up.....i couldn't believe her and i was actually discusted at the way she aproached me so i was like if he was "your man" as you put it you wouldn't worried about him right now and if you gotto problem you better check it with him and better get the f*** out of my face woman.....anyway the moral of the story is this had i knew he was messing around i would never put myself in the trouble of picking a fight with someone cuz your partner is the one to blame...once i found out it was true and she was not the only one.....it wasn't easy to just forget about him but i did it i just ditched him without explanation or anything...and when he asked i was like wasn't interested in you anymore...and i promised myself never to be in that situation i got other thing to wory about than fighting for a "man" shit he better fight for me...and

Ashwaq, can u tell me more about the author Safi. I have not heard of her. What is the name of the novel she wrote?

It's hard to know where to begin, so much ground is covered in your posting. My fondly admiration didnt last long either. When I first found this site, was trully captivated and intrigued by the contributions of the nomads. **Somali Intellectuals atlast** is what I said to myself. But my lucid dream slightly faded. I believe the Admins don't have control over how people behave and think, but they do have a control over the amount of vile language/Qabiil bashing nomads present. There's no question that this forum could use a little law&order before all hell break loose. Its simply running out of fuel. We'r all diverse, expecting everyone to agree on every issue/or see things eye to eye is like pushing an elephant up on stairs. Lets just get our points acrossed without getting personal. "Sticks and stones may break your bones, But words can break your heart" God Bless.

Man!! Guys you made laugh Bachelor I will hang till I forget the whole idea or something happens, loool man I have seen the kids, Know what and I don't mean to be rude but man one day a friend of mine visited me and he was holding 2 kids and his wife indho yar was behind him but to short to see, so I jumped to him and I was about to say where did you get those monkeys and suddently i said to myself wait the minute this can be happening those monkeys are human look a like, so now today I am thankful that i did not say the monkey thing to him or i would lost a good friend, man guys get away from chinese girls the product ain't good and the goods are not high quality, i repeat stick with somali queens they got it all and the product would be big head somali like you, loool peace

xishoo, in the process of telling Isii-sisinta to tone down her rhetoric, you have violated the rules of this site. Please don't swear or insult other on this forum. We just can have that. Thank You Somalia Online Isii sisinta, sidi ******* wareersan ha u hadlin abbaayo. Qabiilkaaga adigaa leh, waxaad rabtid guurso. Meel kastaan arko si baad u *******, ******* baad la wareegee. Caqli isku yeel af aamusan waa dahab. Behave kido. Marrying outside your race is not a bad thing as long as he/she is MUSLIM. [This message has been edited by Admin (edited 04-04-2002).]

lOLO..THAT WAS FUNNY KID!

Is it possible to have such a vast difference in the gentic make up of the women and men? I can understand why women tend to put on weight to acertain extent but then the men tend to be mostly skinny. As you know they already call us "Skinnies" the most feared when it comes to war. If I remember correctly back home when a lady gave birth to a kid it was always a custom to make sure the moms plate and glasses were always full. They made sure she was well fed and taken care so that the baby wouldnt starve. All well meaning but in the end a wee bit damaging when it came to the family onarment they carried behind them. Personally I appreciate it but just wanted the men to be given then same. so they let you girls have something to hold on to. ------------------ ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. ( ).`-.__.`) (_Y_.)' ._ ) `._ `. ``-..-' _..`--'_..-_/ /--'_.' ,' (il),-`` (li),` ((!.-` S-h-a-q-ss-ii

I'd like to think Food not being the factor dictating our 'Big and Beautiful size' Its partially by the genes we have inherited. Some people may have good metabolisms where even if they eat lots they don't get fat(i can eat a whole cow and not gain a pound), whereas with others they have to try very very hard with a strict diet to keep in shape. Most women gain weight after a kid or two - staying home moms, spending their days watching soap operas at home on the couch. So see pressure is on women more than men. Its true tho' there are plenty of skinny brothers - so skinny that their elbows are so sharb its like a pair of scissors - be it Qaat being the cause or not eating healthy. You men need to know ladies like something to hold on to, not to say having two Jumbo Jets within the same household is a great idea but a little Meat on you would greatly be appreciated. So go on, put some fat on you. God Bless ------------------ Live today to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised". [This message has been edited by SouL_LaDy (edited 04-04-2002).]

Great topic, but I believe nobody can be mistreated unless they let it happen. Most women seems like they predict their own failures and set themselves up. Forinstance, lately the Meher (the dowry money), women ask $10,20,40k believing the saying haduu i furo berri ma feer baa i jaban, Koleey waan Jabiyaye. The man also thinking to himself, Haa mar uun ha ii soo gacan gasho. Duh! what is the motives of getting married, if you've animosity and negativity built inside of you to begin with. I do not think that will lead to a healthy everlasting happy marriage. We should get married with a clean heart. No wonder so many women's pillows are filled with tears rolled down from her face everynight she goes to bed. To make my story short I'm not feeling sorry for Somali females as they'r the only ones to blame for their failures. Thats my story and am sticking to it. Peace out.

Mr.Jibril: If ur aim is to generate gender war...be my guest. I didn't really say anything about somali men in particular, rather i said, they stare..n they includes male n female alike. Somali socialization??... I think the word somalism was invented by me...coz..its their love that moved me from NC to MN. I am sure if u went around in MPLs...n asked them, who does Hibo socialize with.. I bet my life on it that I am more involved in somalis than u r. N for ur kind of information, The only guys I date r somalis, my heart won't give me the ge ahead signal in dating foreigners... U r twisting the whole topic... What I don't get is, I made this room, so that we all can know what pisses us off about ur own ppl...n then work on it... but than u all r taking it so personal. I am sorry but this is not personal. n When we say somalis, that INCLUDES us too. My God.. n please do me a biiiiiiiiiig favor.. read between the lines, b4 u respond... I bet most of u that r so pissed of at us, have just seen the heading of the subject...darrrrrrrrrn u! Shocked Whaeva: I am really glad u r pissed..that is the whole aim, now we can work on making it even better, how do u like that? and FYI, if college means something to u bro....it makes no one better than the other...if that is ur assumption of college kids..WE, the girls, can do so much better!! Naasir: Pleasure is all mine ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress

Here goes what pisses me off: - It pisses me off to see bunch of Somali girls, whom after attending One semester of College feel confident enough to bash Somalis all over. - Those girls who call Somali men Loosers, and think Gaalo are better. - It pisses me off this whole Somali this, Somali that, he said, she said subject. Hard to believe qaxooti talking this way after being Qurbaha for such a short time, u moving too fast to the wrong direction. Garabkiina allaha galo. I thank all the Waxgarad nomads who tried to educate our lost ones.