congrats....mabruk...

damn....diamnte...crack that whip....

maybe... she is still doesn't know u well enough to be open...u should give her time...and also I think the more u see her face to face....the more she would be comfortable with u... maybe take her to a comfortable coffee house....where she would be comfortable as there are other pal and u could talk ...talking on the phone when u don't know each other well could be awkward...public places should her make her save and hopefully more open to u... ps...i hope ur intentions are honorable...

less marqaan....

Originally posted by Modesty_Chick: I think the nicest gife she can ask for would be a collection of make-up set or a perfume set too.Or maybe a lingerie.girls kinda like them kind of stuff. ....i agree...my freind is getting married in a month ....and we are all( gurls) getting together going to VS...and we are going to get her the naughtiest lingerie...scented lotions and perfumes there.... ps...i found her this lotion at this boutique...the lotion is called... touch me and see if u can leave... ...

i hope this will explain....why would need another...when u have found the one for u... My dream man He's an original piece a master piece in fact the kind of man that furthers your mind elevates your soul promotes your dreams My dream man entices me wholly by the sway of his ways color of his eyes hypnotize my flow sending me to a different beat a different psyche a spot where all is real and at the same time a dream a spot where all is accepted for my dream man understands me knows me loves me unconditionally....

lol....am just glad i have my 4 sisters.... .. ps....u got a volunteer...hibo

lol.....that is mean....i thought he was her reward for not stepping on any ducks....

what a party pooper.... :mad:

so what! :rolleyes:

msword....it was just an example and i don't waste time with "bad boys".... ps... not all good guys are So basically Nice guys are safe,submissive, and act like our girlfriends? How nauseating! ... some good guys...are confident, strong and safe...wat is wrong with safe....it means u can count on him....

hibo....I get ya gurl....its quite sad the state Somali are in...and the worst is the attitude that comes with it....they are never willing to learn, they are so stubborn and they will stick with their ways, even if they are wrong, and if u presume to tell them otherwise...may God help u .... :rolleyes: ps... I hate those Somali chickas that are forever in funks....they think that they are better than everyone else....well....u know what they say about frowning....they are going to end up with wrinkles...by the age of 25...hibo dear, continue smiling and don't let those witches lead u into early wrinkling....

Originally posted by dawoco: Besbaaso, intresting topic. You know when i see a somali guy slighlty "bad boy-ish", i immidiately think that he is a push over that acts how he thinks "cool" ppl act, a show-off with not much to say and someone with little to no prospects in life, as he is most likely to do whatever his friends approve of, as opposed to whatever is in his best intrest. In short, someone i wouldn't waste a minute on... ... ...exactly....if someone is so obsessed with others think of them and they act according to others wishes of them...then they have nothing much to say or contribute....it just means that they are insecure in their own personality, that they feel...they don't measure so they imitate others to feel good about themselves....I have no time for an insecure man....who hasn't decided who he is yet...that he has become someone else entirely..... ps...to me "a bad boy"...is a wanna be...someone living a stereotypical or an imitation of someone else's life...someone u can't count one...cause they unreliable....player wanna be....gangster thug boy....who still by the way has an accent ...but acts like he was raised in the streets of Compton....or some other ghetto...a bad boy ...is the ultimate fake.....I don't know about y'all ...but I don't trust fake ppl...

well...Ceebla...starts looking at his shoe closely and says...."to state the obvious the shoe isn't noxious...so, I guess it means he is clean at least,...ok, remember when I said that he looked reasonable...I lied he was quite delicious looking...and so well dressed...quite the professional,...and from the shoe which is well worn, yet preserved quite well, he must dress professionally quite often..."...Ceebla blushing continues..."well....have u noticed the size of this shoe...you know what they say about a man' shoe size... ....its a size 11....which goes well with his height...of 6'2...".. You have seen the shoe....Caasha what do u think it says about him.....

Nice shoe....

Also, Somali men living abroad are increasingly getting frightened to tie the knot. They prefer to do it back home. What do you think this causes? i think that they have become too jaded and imagine that everyone else living abroad women included has become as deprived as they have...so they can't trust the women of thier area cause they imagine that they are as corrupt as they are....

cawo...what kind of shoe is it?....a sneaker, a loafer or a sandle?....In order to properly judge the shoe...we know what kind it is?...

Why it is that Somali woman never give the good men in their lives the chance to get to know them. What is the appeal of this stereotypical gangster wanna be Somali guy. I c a lot of nice guys at my Uni who don't have a girl who they can talk to or spend time with, just cause they are nice, sweet, kind and respectable....u don't have to be dating them....I m sure getting to know someone of the opposite sex isn't haram ( I digress from the topic)... But girls do u agree, that some women are more interested in these so called "bad guys"?... According to counselors in Columbia University's Go Ask Alice advice column, it's because we don't respect ourselves enough and don't feel deserving of the niceness. But I think it's more shallow than that. It seems that most women get bored when nice guys remove the element of excitement from the scene. The problem lies not with the nice guy, but with the women who won't give them a chance. It's time for a nice guy's resolution. Whereas a nice guy will walk you home from the library after a long study session and not demand anything of u as if he is entitled just because he helped u, like a bad boy would, Whereas a nice guy listens to hours of sobbing and tells you you're pretty while you scrutinize two sentences a bad boy said to you and shovel Ben and Jerry's Chunky Monkey into your red, swollen face, Whereas Mr. Nice Guy never sounds as appealing as Mr. Denali, Mr. baggy pants or Mr. Player, Let it be resolved that not all nice guys are pushovers. Let it be resolved that kindness is a positive personality trait, not an excuse for failure. Let it be resolved that women who fall for jerks are not worth falling for in the first place. The bottom line is that women want a man who is charming, sexy and a little mysterious. While bad can be sexy, it’s also unreliable, irresponsible and just rude. Women need to stop glorifying the bad boys in their lives and start appreciating the kind ones. Who says that nice guys aren’t all those things and more, if we give them the chance to show us what they are capable of… Ps…girls, it’s the good one’s who end up with the great jobs and the great educations….

that is why u should never date "shallow hals"...even if they r somali....brains over beauty....gurls... ...sometimes u r lucky like me and u get both....

no no no...i wasn't offering anything ....lets get this straight....bro....take it easy.....lol....see wat happens when u try help a farax...

aux...bro that was just bad luck...she didn't deserve u and u should be glad that u got away from her....u shouldn't give up....try harder....

We need a new Arowello.. I have never found the idea of castrating our men to be anything but highly offensive....we should pick up the slack ...if our husband, brothers, and fathers are not in a position to support us...don't y'all think that its time we supported them...without taking away their pride and humiliating them in the process....i have seen that some women are using this transitional period to take "revenge" on the men for them being "powerless" back at home....it seems some have taken the situation and run with in the process making a***'s of themselves....i think Somali women should be able to support their families and not expect to get "cookies" for the same thing men have been doing for centuries.... ....we are capable don't y'all think so?...

lol....or..."it"....they can't handle more than that... :rolleyes: ....u know they function on a much lower thinking scale than us....so lets keep it simple for them one subject at a time....lets not confuse them...

afro....do u imagine that everyone always agrees with u and is giving u high marks....sometimes people just don't agree with u and they let u know it by giving u low marks.....grow up and welcome to the real world ...it'sn't always pleasant....but its real .... ps... u shouldn't care that much about other's opinions....

what do you see? What imagery do you get? when I speak of fire rolling through a cylinder… is it of a murderer killing there bullets raining down like hail from the sky Killing innocents randomly Shedding blood indiscriminately or is your vision different do you feel the fury firing up pulsing through veins and arteries an anger so amazing your heart starts blazing pulsing & pounds pouring percussive pain as the jugular distends heated from the frenzied fire of anger in your head what’s the image of? what do you see… what I say of a silent speech spoken aloud is it of a woman standing with crossed hands trying to spit the words that could change her world the golden glow of truth can't escape her lips she had been so astute but didn’t see the tips of obstacles blocking her truth lost in the sound of voice, a robust vision of life is that what you see? do you see a man trapped in his mind taken back hidden from time locked in his hell living within a cell opens his mouth the words come out like stumbling mutterings nothing is anything but nonsense but in his universe he's a genius nobody else can see this in his shackled jacket if they heard it would be magic what’s the image of? What do you envision? when I tell you of a devouring darkness do you dream of an evil lurking from the shadows spreading through the hallows of society spreading greed and corruption equal to death and destruction like lungs of a smoker or an addict qaat chewer a sentient virus growing & growing with nobody knowing does it scare you not seeing or being aware of it…. Do you picture another outcome? is it a somber day the clouds brought about a cool breath blowing around a day for reflection as you think of your darkest days days of bleakness forgiven by introspection & prayer because the sun shied away, saving brightness for another day What is the image of? What do YOU see?