Bess.

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  1. stop it missy...u luving the attention.... ....exotic looking indeed...
  2. Bess.

    FINDING A BRA

    that is sad....but hilarious...lol...i had a friend with a similar build to twiggy...we used to call hers "bee stings"...
  3. Bess.

    Isn't she hot?

    who knows if she is enjoying it or not...we shouldn't join the band wagon and contribute to her ignorance...by enjoying ourselves and some how...adding to the idea that wat she is doing is ok...by calling her hot...and so forth...regardless of her looks ...
  4. Bess.

    Isn't she hot?

    i feel bad for her... ...she did put herself out there...but i doubt she would enjoy being talked about as if she was on display at the local market...feels a little exploitive...and meat market like....
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    f

    right... :rolleyes: ...u don't need to be in the middle east to enjoy islamic culture...all i need to do is go home or to a mosque...and as for the arabic culture who cares....oh by the way dear....we r in summer...and the rest of our future atleast doesn't depend on how much we kiss up to the US of A...
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    Physical Beauty

    Originally posted by Wordette: Dhumaashi Pili Pili . why did I feel like that comment was directed at me horta? My definition of physical beauty is myself. (Mansha'allah.) Sweetie...the sister of the love of my life...other than myself...I think u r the most gorgeous woman out there...
  7. horn...that is not true...the city is indeed ugly...and by saying so...I wasn't at least implying anything about the people who live there...as for the tribal connotations....I have nothing but love for that particular tribe...
  8. Bess.

    Physical Beauty

    Originally posted by OG_Girl: If you are tall and slim , you are beautiful, if you are light skinned just extra bones <--- Somali definition of beauty. Salam Ridiculous…as if…so if u r not tall u r not beautiful according to who?…the only thing being tall guarantees is that u can pick up stuff that is on the top shelf …nothing else…. and sometimes u can bball...but not even that is a guarantee... :rolleyes:
  9. I doubt anyone would talk about ur body ...unless it was revealed in someway or accentuated with tight clothes....besides i find that the way u carry urself and talk to others determines how others talk to u or about u...if u behave respectably...u will be treated the same way back...
  10. Ancient Chinese Torture A young man was lost wandering in a forest, when he came upon a small house. He knocked on the door and was greeted by an ancient Chinese man with a long, grey beard. "I'm lost," said the man. "Can you put me up for the night?" "Certainly," the Chinese man said, "but on one condition. If you so much as lay a finger on my daughter, I will inflict upon you the three worst Chinese tortures known to man." "Ok," said the man, thinking that the daughter must be pretty old as well, and entered the house. Before dinner, the daughter came down the stairs. She was young,beautiful, and had a fantastic figure. She was obviously attracted to the young man since she couldn't keep her eyes off him during the meal. Remembering the old man's warning, he ignored her and went up to bed alone. But during he night, he could bear it no longer, and sneaked into her room for a night of passion. He was careful to keep everything quiet so the old man wouldn't hear. Near dawn he crept back to his room, exhausted, but happy. He woke to feel a pressure on his chest. Opening his eyes he saw a large rock on his chest with a note on it that read, "Chinese Torture 1: Large rock on chest." "Well, that's pretty crappy," he thought. "If that's the best the old man can do then I don't have much to worry about." He picked the boulder up, walked over to the window and threw the boulder out. As he did so he noticed another note on it that read: "Chinese Torture 2: Rock tied to left testicle." In a panic he glanced down and saw the rope that was already getting close to the end. Figuring that a few broken bones was better than castration, he jumped out of the window after the boulder. As he plummeted downward he saw a large sign on the ground that read, "Chinese Torture 3: Right testicle tied to bedpost."
  11. Bess.

    Bad Habits

    and don't forget smelly....
  12. the only things that were attractive and worth while about columbus, ohio...were the malls...everything else was dry, crusty and vacant looking.... :rolleyes: ps...i luv ur website and somali mall concept ...it looks beautiful....probs
  13. LOL...strongly believe in budgeting...balancing check book...make a list of what I need...like food and shoes...and save the rest...I think the best way to deal with money is to prioritize...and know what ur limits are...don't go to the mall for any reason if u know u can't afford it...instead of eating out ...have a potluck dinner with friends and be creative with a few bucks...that way when u want to get that special shoe ...u can afford to get it...ohhh what a feeling ...and when u want to treat someone to a special ...u can make it extra special cause u can afford it....PRIORITIZing between the needs and wants...and u can be happy with ur money....it works for me...
  14. Second jobs.....PLZ:rolleyes:...am still escaping the 1st one...here is to graduate. School, scholarships and grants....I LUV BILL GATES...U HAVE MADE LIFE EASY FOR ME....
  15. Have any of u thought...that they are afraid...as bad and as horrible these men might be ...there might be someone more terrible out there...â€the devil u know ...†and all that ... besides its a conditioned behavior....they relay on the abuse of these men to mean that they r thinking of them and paying attention to them....and at some point they start believing that the abuse is deserved as they are being punished for doing something wrong and the abuser is doing it for their own good...its quite a dilemma...and its sad and tragic...how some men take advantage of these poor and vulnerable women who need help....and practically enslave them...with their fists….
  16. Of course, it matters, though to what extent is up 2 u. The level of education, is one thing and not everything, its about being comfortable around each, its about being able to learn new things together...also being smart enough to appreciate one another…..and most important is being confident in urself that u don’t need another to validate u, so that u r not intimidated by them. Weather they r ivy league educated or street learned….its about how u carry urself and deal with others…..although there is nothing like someone who stimulates ur mind.. an educated Somali man …..is quite a catch..
  17. Bess.

    Bad Habits

    Lol… true, my OTHER bad habits withstanding….I just found out recently that something I have always considered to be a great habit of mine…to be quite annoying and could be classified as a “bad habit†by others….since I was young I was always extremely organized and a bit of a neat freak…u might say I am bit neurotic about it….I hate messes…and I always clean them or put them to order…but apparently this has been driving my family and friends crazy and I have been recently told to stop as it makes them feel “badâ€â€¦.well, I can tell u my sol mates something…I personally refuse to stop it…as I don’t think it’s a “bad habitâ€â€¦at all….as the renowned Ngonge has said… Maybe there is no such thing as bad habits and it’s all relative!
  18. oh...sad...i get it u poor dear tried the "magical" diana and are now reaping the rewards.... ..
  19. is MSA a rehabilatation camp?.... :confused:
  20. Wonderful to see such young, intelligent and progressive young Somalis who don’t judge people by the colour of their skin. Conversely though, how sad it is to see such a young nomad who has fallen prey to the “light is beautiful†syndrome. If only she knew… [Wink] knew what?...that lighter isn't necessary more beautiful....?
  21. lol....just about to enjoy my friday night ...
  22. As arabs say, an hour for you and an hour for the lord. Bada bim bada bum.
  23. that is hot....who is it?...sheego band?...
  24. Bess.

    somali prince.

    am just suprised at wat part of him is made up...is it the colgne wearing?....the job having?....not chewing qaad?....wat part is made up....i wonder... :confused: ps...he is not fake....he is based on the real thing...i don't write fiction dear... :rolleyes: ...welcome to the new real....