Originally posted by Che-Guevara: We cheat for the thrill of it.Every new affair is challenge, and conquest. N if we get caught, it is very easy to turn everything around and blame the woman for our infedility. Women have invest alot of emotions in the relationships, usually blame themselves, or atleast it takes awhile before they realise it is not their fault. P.S. Hormones or no hormones, people make conscious decisions when they cheat. Blaming everything on one's boiligical makeup is cheap shot. i feel terrible 4 ur poor girlfriend......if u have one that is.... :rolleyes: peace

Originally posted by Mombasa_QUEEN: qac u asked me what i think,,, i think its not good to put ya buisness out there so everyone can see wt ya upto. wat business..... :confused: :confused:

just a joke...... Men are like ........ Laxatives ...... They irritate the shit out of you. Men are like ........ Bananas ...... The older they get, the less firm they are Men are like ........ Vacations ...... They never seem to be long enough. Men are like ........Weather ...... Nothing can be done to change them. Men are like ........Blenders ...... You need One, but you're not quite sure why. Men are like ........Chocolate Bars ...... Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips. Men are like ........ Coffee ...... The best ones are rich, warm, & can keep you up all night long. Men are like ........ Commercials ...... You can't believe a word they say. Men are like ........ Department Stores ...... Their clothes are always 1/2 off. Men are like ........ Government Bonds ...... They take soooooooo long to mature. Men are like .....! ... Mascara ...... They usually run at the first sign of emotion. Men are like ........ Popcorn ...... They satisfy you, but only for a little while. Men are like ........ Snowstorms ...... You never know when they'recoming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last. Men are like ........ Lava Lamps ...... Fun to look at, but not very bright. Men are like ........ Parking Spots ...... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped. ps.....i saw this....and i thought it was hilarious.......

the most interesting class i took was 4 my psych. major....it was called " human sexuality"...it was ...huh....pretty interesting...... and the worst one i took was this histroy class called " european witchcraft...something"....it was so bad i don't even rememer the name... :confused: peace

salaama u'all, all of u sound like u r hella motivated ppl...ma'shaallaah... the biggest motivations in life are my mom's expectations....my mom went through alot for us....and i would like nothing but to surpass all the expectations she has for me, and make her realize all the she worked 4 was not for nothing......i get my motivation from my mother's happiness..... respect

oh plz.... there was obviously a need for such a movement to start...and horn....u've taken a very complex movement and brought it to the lowest....it is not about " wanting to be like men".....it is about being treated fair....in situations like the work place where women would be doing the same job as a man and then getting paid less....its for sitautions like where women r not allowed to take the necessary time off 4 maternity leave....are u saying that this situations are ridiclous....and they don't deserve attention....well ....some femininsts r a bit extreme....but every ideal has a down side.....besides i think men tend not to listen to whispers....they only hear SHOUTS..... peace

b4 i left .....i would have to know .....what is a head of us, and what to expect.....and as long as we have planned and r not just going on an impulse.....then ..hella yeah....there just has to be a reason.... ps....there is no place like home.....and queenie...sis...regardless of where u were born ...u r still a second class citizen of whereeva u r....the only home u have is somalia.... peace

nice....y'all r very open minded.....i like that....to tell u the truth ...it has neva been an option for me....since other races just r not attractive to me....there is nothing like a somali man for me.....of course...there are certain requirements.....like has to be tall, good chocolate colored, smart, funny.....educated, etc......that just hits the spot for me....lol.. ps....a good head of hair...too.

lol.... ...i know....i like ur kooky sense of humor......

right...... :rolleyes:

don't be patronizing......

"but it isn't exactly the droppy-eyed, puppy doopy kind of marriage most folks, majority of them female wish for." ( devoid of that extra spicy or sweet sentiment call passion) horn it seems that u have mentioned totally opposite sides of emotional spectrums....u don't have to be in either spectrum....both seem so "hysterical"....too needy or too cold....i believe there is a happy medium....passion and love both exist....just not together sometimes....or in some happy cases together....but i do agree.....alot of ppl....and not just women :rolleyes: ...confuse lust for love....it happens..... peace

Originally posted by Legend of Zu: Besbaaso well done for agreeing with me!!! it wasn't personal... :rolleyes: ....it could have been anyone else out there..... :rolleyes: peace

Originally posted by Dangerous: 2 years ago when I was taking this English Writing class the professor to pick any topic for our final essay which will be published on the class homepage, some 4 Xalimoos and 1 Farax who were taking the class with me chose to talk about FGM in Somalia.. they disgusted me to my stomach… I mean did you really run out of things to write about??? As much as I denounce FGM practices in Somalia I believe heifers like Waris and Iman usually exploit this epidemic for publicity,,, why should that disgust u.....it is reality for many sisters out there...its unfortunate because ppl like those women above have exploited the situation....alot of ppl don't take the issue seriously anymore.....instead of disgust....try compassion....not for those "heifers"....but for all the others..... peace

Originally posted by Legend of Zu: [/qb] Nice witout Principles is weak..Nice with strong principles Strong Seriously tho, if a gurl you spoil.. doesnt spoil you back?? I would say U r bloody weak... coz you will want the same respect that you gave her and she should be thoughtful as well...otherwise it is one sided which means you are on the losing side.. Dont let your self become a prey!!!! There are mean ppl out there !!! [/QB] of course...exactly....i don't believe in being sheep and having someone walk all over u....u shouldn't cater to a person who is not deserving and in turn doesn't take care of u....if u do that for a person....they will realize that u r weak and use and abuse u and neva respect u.... Don't become someone's dormat!!! respec

Originally posted by HornAfrique: No offense, but I can't stand "feminists". I mean what's the deal? Is having the right to wear pants, having "freedom"? :rolleyes: Why don't we men fight for the right to wear a skirt then? :rolleyes: ... :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: so...now...on top of everything u want our skirts.....i don't think so.....we earned our skirts ..they r ours and we r keeping them!!! ps. im a woman ....not a femanist..... respect

Originally posted by HornAfrique: no offense mombasa queen, but these days not a lot of guys spoil their women and for good reasons too. :rolleyes: next second she thinks she controls you u'all sound like u r playing games....that's not wat a relationship is about....there is no such thing as "spoiling" a person....u r grown up ppl...i hope...being nice and sweet....is now taken as being weak and easily controlled....well i disagree with all of u....and i believe being nice has its own rewards...

what do u base ur " truths" on?...... :confused:

hey...not to be misunderstood....i never said that is was wrong...cause we can only abide by God's word....no... wat i said was ..." it was not for me.."...

Originally posted by SHOOBARO: besbaaso, did i tell you bout the time i went with friend to a nice indian restuarent, i ordered this spicy looking dish that was on the menu, so the food came in time as i was eating it this spicy dish, i sneezed and this fat black greyish booger from my nose fell right into my meal , i looked around at everybody picked the booger and ate it....i got standing ovation from every one ....pravo pravo ....booy was that dish tasteful with the booger in it......uuuuuuuuuuummmmm i looofis it asxantu :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

right....sweetie....that is so sad ...wat r they teaching in this places this days....some one should have talk with ur "handlers"....and make them aware of ur severe addiction to spanking...in order for u to behave well....u need ur daily dose....haven't had it yet?....so sad...i feel 4 u... maybe i should do something about it...huh...

why would u hit ur wife or husband?...to me that was left behind with ur parents...they r the only ppl that have a right to punish u this way....because this is wat it come to...punishment....and that is something that shouldn't exist in a marriage...u r my husband not my daddy?....like aeryn said it is humiliating to beat on someone weaker than u physically....and wateva u tell urself the intent behind it is to subjugate and dominate a person...besides if u let a person get away with that, they won't stop with once or twice ...but they will go on....and a person who has done that to u ...doesn't respect u.... ps...of course i don't judge anyone into any erotic s&m or fetishes or wateva gets u off...don't get it ...but that is ur business ... :rolleyes:

plz...right like u expect us to believe nothing grosses u ppl out right.....4 real...just admit... :rolleyes: Originally posted by Aeryn Sun: Touchy feely people. hey aeryn ...i like how u took the character name as well as the personality...lol...all stoic and non emotional...works 4 ya.... Originally posted by Gediid: ^^^^Ma aragtaa.Grow some croc skin,that should do the trick.......? Khaaaaaaakh tuf and a few feet away lands a yellowish.............. grow up....we left such things in grade school....opps my bad bro...r u still in grade school?

plz....stereotypes...ppl... :rolleyes: im suprised at y'all...there is no such thing as a playa....what does that mean...that a man who is " playa"...know who to handle women as we r "toys"...girls tell the truth...u know that any of this self proclaimed playaz...r tired and lame....and mostly we r just laughing at them.....a little advice try talking to women like ppl...try saying hello...i heard that works wonders...none of the bulls### lines like....girl, ur daddy must be a thief....cause i think he stole u right from heaven... lol... that was lame right... peace

wow...i tried it is impossible to hold 4 that long, how do u guys survive :eek: ...u just have to adjust ....it takes at least several minutes to make the toilet user friendly with all the cleaning and neat placement of the toilet tissue and i always carry a water bottle in all this situations....u've to learn how to function in any given environment.....besides holding pee is painfull and ...i hate pain of any kind......