Originally posted by sheherazade: If u need to test him, it is u that have failed already. I guess it depends on your intentions and your insecurities. A bunch of girls having a giggle over this should expect the same/worse to happen to them. I bet they'll take it harder than the guys. i agree whole heartedly....it is never good news....sometimes ppl could playing around, doesn't mean he is cheating on u....he could be just flirting...he isn't dead...besides if u need to test him, u don't trust him....and how do u survive like that in a relationship....do u keep track of him constantly, call him all the time ask him wat he was doing all day.....inorder to be happy together u also need to be happy separately..... ps. playing games always brings drama and that is neva good for u :rolleyes: ramadhan kareem

serv.....lol...girl...u can't eat after u cook...all the smell gets to u....don't get me wrong i luv cooking 4 my family....but i would like one day of break.....someone to serve me.....just sit and then be called to the table....hey i can dream atleast.... peace

too juvenile...not enough substance..... :rolleyes:

two girls; asma and amira two boys; fahad and fuad boy & girl; amin and amun inshallah..... ps...sheh.....i plan on doing all kinds of cute things like making them wear identical outfits and same shoes...it is part of the package they should get used it earlier on...they can do wateva they want when they grow up ....until then... peace

qacx2 u can't possibly believe that u could know a person so well.....and wat does who ur parents r have to do with anything....ur parents don't make u who u r.....learn a person 4 who they r now not b4....ppl change all the time and mostly for the better.....who care what they did b4...it only matters what they've made of themselves....i look to someone's future goals rather than past mistakes..... peace

in this day and age sex is not the only way to contract these diseases....so just to be carefull u both need a full physical....just to be on the safe side....besides i don't think that it is difficult to ask him to get tested and then just to be fair u get tested as well....as for the implications of asking this question...am sure u can take care of it....either tell the truth or don't ....if u don't think he can handle it... peace

oh my god...i almost feel out of my chair....hahahaha

to cut down on all the excesses of my life....pray regularly....all through and after.....cut down on boo time.....no phone calls to certain ppl....cut down on gossip.....inshallah..... ramadhan karim

iman.....just kidding as if....i really admire carawello....cause she taught us as a somali woman u don't always have to be a sub. ....u can take on a leadership role...and do it well...for all the independent chicks out there..... ramadhan karim u'all

it sounds like a epidemic.....well....i recently forgot the name of my bf's mom....i still don't have the guts to ask him to tell me...im hoping he'll mention it soon....b4 it comes up in a confersation.... ramadhan karim

there is nothing better than a genuine person....a person who is original and keeps it real....regardless of the situation or the place a person who is himself ....and doesn't change for others....who u can count on......and of course sexy and attractive.....who smells good and has a sense of style and humor.....ok ...also intelligent and ambitious....

i could take the injections for birth control ... so i could get 4 periods in a year.....but taking unnecessary medication isn't my thing....i do go to the mosque on eid....but i don't pray.....it isn't the best ....but it could be alot worse....its all good...thanks for the suggestion...farxan... ramadhan karim

how unluck am i that i got mine just yesterday.....i always hate missing the first day of ramadhan....u know what that means i won't pray on Eid..... i like all the ideas and they all work....although exercise works ...who wants to work out..not me...and the best thing that works 4 me hagendaaz chocolate ice cream....girls it is great....cool and chocolatie.....the mood swings r the worst for me...i become a totally confrontational ....and snappy....well it is just for 4 days and well its not my fault ....blame the hormones..... ramadhan karim

oops.....

u could've added to ur 1st statement ...how u guys were saving 4 a home...that makes more sense...its all good.....and 4 ur wife if guys have plans ...she should do her share of the sacrifacing..... peace

i believe if u don't want to tell the truth ...don't say anything at all..... peace

LOL....Y'ALL THAT IS SO CUTE.... i remember i was 12...and he was early 20's ....he was my cousine's friend.....u guys he was soooooooooooo hoooooooooooot...im sure he knew i was sprung off him...i used to follow around like a puppy...used ask atleast 100 times if he wanted tea or juice....or me...just kidding....that is wheneva he came over...it was the best memory..... peace

wow...so sad... ....she shouldn't have to ask u to give it to her...u should want to...as much gold is necessary in a somali woman's life.... then what the difference between yall and the other lady selling her love at corner! shame on yall sistas! rudy and r u comparing ur wife to a person who sales herself for gold or other materials, cause she asked for a simple gift? NO FOR SURE MAN SHAME ON U...FOR MAKING UR WIFE ASK FOR GOLD....INSTEAD OF KNOWING BETTER.... ps. u sound selfish and greedy....you said HEART OF GOLD...sounds like u've a HEART OF IRON..... respect

sensual sis there is no need 4 u to explain urself to these ppl...it is true u were asking for our opinion...but nobody has the right to critisize u ...cause truly they don't know u....and they shouldn't compare any given situation to urs....not any are the same.....good luck in ur life.....be happy... "I'm sure he won't abandon his mother for some Xalimo(no offence)".....glasseyegirl... oh plz r u married? regardless of being his mother....she should not punish her for being to her son.....instead of welcoming her new daughter, as a grown woman she ought to know better....i mean really give the girl a break...grow up (mother in law) let go of the apron strings to ur son....she has no right to interfer in their lives..... :rolleyes: :rolleyes: respect

it is joke.....but im glad that it doesn't apply to nomads....

mashallah....on ur nuptials....congrats sis....from wat i have seen mother in laws are always fussing with thier son's wives.....but u have to remember that this person is his mother and u don't want to come btw a man and his mommy....so i would advice u to chill...it can't be that bad....accomodate her....and just be the best u can be....i'll bet she won't be able to find fault with u and will let u be .....try finding some common ground with her, there must be something u can do together...like cook for ur husband together....take her to lunch.....gossip with her....do wateva it takes to make ur home happy....u might end up in the future looking after her....besides ur poor hubby must be feeling all the tension in the house....try taking him and having a nice wkend out of the house....it must be putting a strain in love life....being in the house with his mom peace

lol....i love a good smelling man.....i love Calvin kline's contradiction....burbery brit......it makes me want to snuggle even more.... respect ps. what is that smell u loved so much......

lol...as we all do..

Originally posted by Legend of Zu: LoL@ hair..hehehe..besbaaso u have been bugged by Bald men huh??... What about Chinese monk kinda Gottie? or whiskers?.... Anyways..I have alot of stories to tell about this subject..but then again..why would I wanna tell you?? Cheers u know wat zu....u r a tease......u've stories....but u won't share.....naughty...naughty....huh... ps. hair is very important....u might want to hold onto something at any given moment... respect

Originally posted by *Diamante*: having control over a man sounds quite boring, it would just mean to me that he's weak, besides where's the fun in that when all he would do is waggle his tail every time u stare Besides i like my man rough and big, someone i could look up to physically and morally, and even when a i let the tongue slip is not afraid to manhandle me, pin me agains the wall and...uhum...anyway i musnt get ehm get carried away now so ill leave it at that As for the age...younger Hell No...the older the better, i got a thing for grey hairs on the temples...segsi ...besides there's an old saying that goes like this Nin ku dhalikaro, wuu ku dhaqi karaa hmmmmmmmmmm :confused: why does it have to be either way......can't we just hang?...no control....no issues...... peace