Originally posted by OG_MOTI: Brother your friend is a wise man, he said he needs a partner not a competitor, he said it all, those who live in the west, they forget the meaning of partnership, they race with you neck to neck and all they thinking is to show you she is better than you, brother, get to Syria before the supply shortens, ka gaar sxb, listen to your wise friend… and I hope these ones in north American will come to their senses one day before it is too late and found themselves they were in a competition that never existed. Degree and Certificates doesn’t make you educated, remember that… Allah kariim Peace u r so behind that u have no idea.....so chauvinist....have u though we are not competting with u( cause as u can see its not much of a fight, what were they thinking the better sex...plz...)...true we are not competting with u ...we are helping build our homes and families with u...have u heard of the phrase " two heads are better than one"....from all this i hear all of whining and *****ing....it seems that u guys are not ready to handle some educated and competant women in ur lives....luckily for us...not all men are like this and thank god for us.... and thanks caveman....i though a little force might wake u up from ur stupor..... peace

i think that sometimes love and lust run parallel and can't catch up with each other.....in some cases people expereince lust alone and love alone but when u get both is the best...having the hots for ur hubby.....or wifey.....the best.... ps....poor cilmi seems overwhelmed with the whole thing it seems possible that he was a little unstable to begin with....not being able to let go...i mean shit happens...its reality live with it....bro be a man....languishing away....sounds so medievel....and maidenly....reminds me of a romance book......

oh plz.....let it go...u can't erase all the decades of irresponsibility and incompetence that has brought this about....instead of going on about it find constructive ways to earn ur honor back..... peace

i guess u r forgetting that we are not home anymore....we all are in foriegn countries and things have changed....when all the somali men start taking care of thier families (after having 2-3 wives and 6 children from each)...lets not forget that he works some kind of minimum wage job or he has a depleted store or a taxi cab...then we will stay at home and not work, then maybe this statement won't sound so ridiclous “my wife is a partner, not a competitor in this hassling and wheeling World, and that is what I neededâ€. of course lets not forget that at least in america the government takes care of ur family bu giving them welfare and housing...so that automatically makes the men feel like they don't have to take of them anymore....so i say....take care of ur families and be a man....maybe then ur wife won't feel like she has to be the provider of the family because u r not taking care of ur job..... ps....i hope u realize that we r more than a vassel that cares ur seeds to term and takes care of them later...and we have our ambitions, dreams and goals that are beyond u.....maybe we enjoy being in the hassling and wheeling World.....think about it ..... WE ARE NOT WALKING WOMBS.... :rolleyes: PEACE

i guess i never got the appeal of the so called "bad boy".....what r the qualifications of a bad boy anyway....lazy, rude, unclean, liar.....sorry not my up of tea... :rolleyes: ...keep that away from me and bring on the good boys.... ....the educated, good job having responsible and most of all dependable men..... peace

thanks....4 that little glimpse of home.......

dream job...to be a writer....an author of fiction....and the second part of that job....a wifey and a mommy..... ....suprised y'all huh.... :rolleyes: ....

im assuming all these book stores are located in europe.....lol.....the place to buy books in the us...is the good old barnes and noble....its also a great coffee shop.....although the best places are the out of the way small book stores ...u find the best books there...they might be used...but they are well preserved.... ....and u meet the most strange and funny ppl in those places....

sheyhem....i don't think that is fair that should arm the men against us and not give us the same chance.....bro.....be an equal gender advice guru....

wiiilo....i see a pattern here.....does it remind u of elementary school....where the boys insult the girls to get thier attention..... :rolleyes: :rolleyes: .......i wish someone would tell them that it doesn't work.....

if it were only more than a dream...... huh...girls....

jalaqsan thanks sweetie....

isn't funny how know its coming...but u still get scared...i swear ....i got far away from the computer screen but was still scared.....

for me its shoes.....i luvvvvvvvvvvvv..... shoes ....heels, boots, sandals, flip flops.... everything.....i don't believe in wasting money...so i budget to buy my shoes.....no movies for month = shoes at the end of the month.... ....

Originally posted by Jalaqsan: amenah my sister tut tut tut.....sis you mark my words hon....It's either my way or the highway! the idea of him being with some1 else it's killing me let alone.....arghhh I don't even want to think about it thank you so much..... :mad: the idea was giving stomach cramps.....ideas r 4 sharing not husbands.... :rolleyes:

.......my checks hurt from trying to hold in my laughter......since am at work....keep em coming....

to all my fellow sol nomads& and aliens...... EID MUBARAK.....

Originally posted by Shabella: When someone says their heart aches...is it a physical pain? i have always wondered too......?......anyone want to contribute....from experience....

talk about cornyyyyyyyyyyyyy :rolleyes:

thank you so much....i can read arabic so its so easy....ma'ashallah...

Originally posted by Raami: quote:Originally posted by besbaaso: find someone ur own generation.....or age group...no woman wants to change her husband's diaper....ten yrs from now... cause he is sooooo old...... :eek: I read the meaning of the above and all I can see between the lines are these two words: How did you find out about my age, you fiery little minx? In twenty year’s time or so, if I happen to be a live and am ready to marry again, I expect to still be as fully functional as I am now. Still, I’ll take that comment of yours as a hint and add your name to my healthy list (can’t add your friend with the difficult name I’m afraid, too masculine a name for my liking). maybe am psychic......

i don't know about u ...but don't u think being raped is harsh?.....besides what kind of life can u have after rape....living with pity or sometimes contempt....and most of all shame and fear....is that a way to live?..... :confused:

find someone ur own generation.....or age group...no woman wants to change her husband's diaper....ten yrs from now... cause he is sooooo old...... :eek:

no.... :rolleyes: what said is ....i would rather die...than be raped at all....capiche....the thought of living with rape ...is unbearable i would think....don't get me wrong u can live with it...but the just the thought alone... :mad: :mad:

there might be truth to him being a rapist or a murderer....i wouldn't risk it....i think that rape might actually be worse than death.... :mad: ...