Originally posted by Ghanima: ^^^lool. Zenobia; lool, I see you have changed colours since I saw you last. How bored are you guys?? For those of you who were expecting a show! shame on you!!! You know I'm not a bully... so get a life you big kids! NB: Did you miss my underlining sarcasm, ( erm I was kidding about being jealous oh well never mind. Good luck with your tea ahem *men* I mean. its COFFEE woman, C O F F E E .. :rolleyes: Tea Drinking Duqyaal!

Hahahaha Funny pics, Zenobia, what can I say, I dont wanna upset islaanta dee, dont wanna get an ASBO cos of her and as for that 16yr old comment, young at heart is all I can say (and in looks 2!)

Lol I would have to say you have excellent attention to detail.. have you tried going for data entry job? You got everything right except for 1 thing.. I do not keep a collection of 24yr olds, I like my men like my daily qaxwo.. Rich, Dark(marin lol), and hot

Originally posted by Ghanima: lool @ Zenobia. quote: I do sense a bit of hostility coming from GHANIMA! Bring it... you want me 2 act 16? Aight we'll see about that Who me?? :confused: Are you okay dear, I've been uncharacteristically nice thus far. Some people being nice to them waa uugaa taartah. :rolleyes: I do not do cyber kuu dirir. I thought you were already acting 16...you mean there is more? Go right ahead and knock yourself out, I could not care less. :rolleyes: :cool: Thats just what I observed, a bit of tension from your sides, to be honest you need to loosen up a bit walal, it's only the net, not some contest over god knows what.. :rolleyes:

Your in Denmark, yet you know every local cafe ! What were you doing in Clapham J?

Nephthys LooooL, to be honest most women will always feel threatened by other women if they're slightly better looking, better personality, job, etc etc.. unless they're your true friends they won't. To be honest my closest friends will never feel that way and vice versa even -if your friend is the most gorgeous person ever, you shoulnt feel inferior/jealous but rather content Most my friends are single, so its cool

Its cool, nothing personel I know, However, certain people are getting personel.. I do sense a bit of hostility coming from GHANIMA! :mad: Bring it... you want me 2 act 16? Aight we'll see about that

loooooooooooooool LLPP, no thnk you, I'd rather not .. Itnt Savanah a merfish?

Ghamina, 15/16? those were the days! Oh well! Funny you stated the following "You act like 15/16".. Have u met me or something? You need 2 rephrase your sentence and choose your words more wisely in future, it would be better if you just said "from what I gathered by the way YOU WRITE.."

Ngonge, You're absolutely right it's to do with age and working full time which slows down socialising .. me personally my socialising from 18-22 was absolutely CRAZY!! Oh the gud' ol' days! Now, its kinda more quiter, mainly because there isnt much for people 23+ to do .. (obviously i wont go clubbing or anything like that) Only the things I listed above to be honest.

Lol Ghanima, Thats hiralious, you said "She is busy worrying about her hair, nails, looks and uunis".. have u not seen how much of a slob some people become once they get married, men and women alike. They're probably thinking "yes! I've bagged the *****, finally! lemme relax" Nimanka become obese and start growing afros and foolxumo beards whilst hablaha either become a baby factory or just desperate housewifes. Ms D&D..iTS true prioties become a must, especially when one has a baby

Zenobia.. Well thats what I've seen of friends who are married, the lifestyle they lead.. and thats not a "scedule" of my future life, but inshallah just about 10% of it... the rest wont be laid out here on public forums.

wow! Im just thinking I'd probably spend Sundays at home with the Hubby but weekends, either he should take me out or go somewhere with friends (be it Spa, shopping, movies, dinner, friends houses anything) Ms D&D, is it also true girls tend want to go out A LOT to weddings after they settle down?

Mornin' ppl I just thought I'd come up with a new topic, How important is a social life to you all? Its just that I heard / seen many people after marriage GIVE UP on a social life completely, weekends are spent at home (dont get me wrong I like relaxing at home on some weekends too) but not every weekend. Also why is it girls tend to limit their going outs with friends when they get married, so much so that they end up losing / drifting apart from their friendS? (bear in mind these are not mothers yet) :confused: This has made me want to make the most my time while Im still "free" lol

Waxaaba iigu daran .. people (NGONGE) saying 24/25 yr old gals are 2 old and missed da train / bus.. hell, i'll catch da plane and wat??!! I honestly do not wanna advertise myself here, but I'd give any gal younga a run 4 her ££$£ People even if Im 20,25,30.. its all da same mashallah I've been blessed with the "unaging, young somali gene" Im forever being asked for ID and getting thrown out of places! It must be something in the water, most somalis I know look young/about their age.. (unlike many ajanabi people.. when their 18 they look 28) Anyways people the only one who seemed 2 have a logical solution here is.. Zenobia Did I hear decent, educated, working young fine brothers? In London? lol

Yeah I aint got a CLUE about getting a bus 2... Bristol!! Come off it, I aint visiting no1 locked up there.. hence why you wont find me going there.. Another thing, I aint interested in a 25 yr old MAN getting a BUS or Coach, Uff

Lol send him straight to Wood Green .. Whats wrong with you? R you Bold , Broke or both??

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: They all moved to Canada...lol NB, you're still young, so what if there isn't a guy who meets your standards in London...If you stop looking so hard, he might be right under your nose... lOL@ Canada.. Imma come over there next summer inshallah..

Umm Zakaria.. I know.. Im sure he just took a wrong turn, probably does know which "corner" he's supposed 2 turn.. chubacka are you serious? I have met 2 guys younger than me (one was 2 months and the other 5 months) and both were drop dead gorgeous! But after finding out their ages I was put off and cut all contact.. 1 even lied 2 me saying he's 1 year older! -Serenity- lol I've lived in london practically all ma life and lets just say theres isnt an end of london I havent reached (u kno 4 work, studying , socialising reasons! hey- I live here remember!!!!! lol) Anyways I do not see any mali brothers 2 be honest and the ones I see r lil kids .. where on earth did u spot them @??

Originally posted by Resistance: while u girls have issues with limited choice we the brothers have issues with too much ( not being too arrogant ) but sometimes get to know more than one sister means is hard to settle 4 one and therefore u end upsetting all of them, so u move on the routine just reapeats itself. serious u meet one sister then another comes along who makes u realise hang on there is other qualities , sometimes u just wanna take pits and peaces from 4 sisters and creat ur own version. P.S I Resistance, I couldnt agree more.. there are too, too many somali girls in london

Hi Everyone, This goes out to ROOBLEH.. Walalo you dont know 2 s***s about me so Im just baffled how you think Im confused or wotnot. I couldnt DISAGREE more with what you said below "You seem someone who wants to settle down soon but is unable to choose whom she wants to marry without the approval of her friends. " a)I said I aint looking for marriage or anything, my post was merely stating that there arent any normal/good brothas left b)I cant believe you assumed I wouldnt be with someone my friends disaprove of.. gimme a break.. come 2 think of it my friends always disaprove of the ppl I get 2 know.. that never stopped me, I live my life 4 me and not others thank u! You seem a bit weird mostly because you are amused at my statement that I will never go for a guy younger than me or even coupla months older .. Thats my personel choice and probably evry woman on this planets choice 2 (who in their right mind would be with a young guy?) HELL NO!! You really cracked me up @ I need 2 address some "issues" just because I want a guy a bit older, thats just the STANDARD so get used it.

Khalaf, I heard in the states most malis have been there for.. say... 3 yrs.. fresh from kenya camps! (hence why they wear outdated FUBU/PHATFARM baggy jeans and stuff)

I will NEVER EVER allow myself to get 2 know a guy even 5 months older than me let alone one younger than me! Please... There are still other guys out there you know I just aint interested in them.. Im just saying gals ma age (24+) have extremely limited options when it comes to guys and marriage in london.. every1 knows that .. P.s I dont think i'll chat 2 anyone from outside london, merely because they are all EUROTRASH!(dutch/scandanavians)

Valenteenah.. Well the guys that have all moved out of london.. have been transfered to state prisons lol trust me.. i.e. bristol, kent, portsmouth and various other locations...

Khalaf Lol I aint desperate.. I aint looking for marriage bloody hell! Im just saying I have extremely HIGH Standards (which I used to have when I was 19.. and dropped them when I turned 22.. and now Im going BACK 2 MY PREVIOUS HIGH EXPECTATIONS!) You seem 2 all have the typical somali mentally of a 60yr old.. just cuz a sister socialises with a brother dont mean wey cayrsanaysaa! lol@ go for a mature 23 yr old! AKHAS .. P.s people dont be thinkin a sista dont get harrased on a daily basis! Cuz I do.. but I wud never stoop that low to converse with such ppl