:rolleyes: @ Devil's advocate :confused: , lolz @ pleasure lol@ other misconceptions about pad. Hon, it went from rags>>>to pads>>>to tampons. Tampons, break the trend,(they are inserted)... do i need to go into deatils???

Foxy, you exercise too much...what motivates you??? I like burning oils when i am stressed out, and also surrounding myself with positive people who believe in me. I like all oils but lavender is the best. One of my classmates has given me an amethyst gemstone, which lies in my room; I need to wear it often. Gold is good for our health and wellbeing (I can't remember the title of the Islamic book i read this from) but good reason for me to stock up on dhahab ^^^^ Does anyone know about this????

Psych student :confused: more like psych patient to me.

Beesbaso and warrior, you make me laugh. I don't need an explanation of the reproductive system as i know that inside and out, (and when i say that i mean that). I feel privileged knowing the fact that you guys lack in experience and not only that you lack in the anatomy of the tampon. No one said that the tampon passes through the cervix; hon we are not talking about sperm or a sperm sized tampons here. What you guys need is me to explain the anatomy of the tampon. As you know the tampon has a string, no we are not talking about the sperm's tale structure. Gurls plz stay with me. DO NOT USE THE SAME PRINCIPLE. Anywayz, you see the string can get inside the vagina, and the female has trouble retrieving the tampon, so she seeks medical assistance. You guys have seen nothing. This lady walked in ER once where she had two tampons stuck more like "lost" according to her words. She knew it was their but could not find it. The word "lost" in not appropriate as the tampon can be retrieved using the right equipment (not fingers). As for the smell, we are talking about a tampon being there for days Not the shedding of the uterus lining every month :rolleyes: Jeez~

Thanks pucca, i was gonna suggest besbaaso to google it. Brown you tend to lose it where you placed it FIRST Besbaaso: Hon, i worked in ER(as a student last year), trust me the smell will put you off. So i wouldn't suggest anything to you since you think that i am making stuff up PS: since you haven't seen what i have, i suggest you do some reading around the topic :rolleyes:

:eek: @ Australia (sad one) Tuujiyee, no love life??? It doesn’t only exist in movies. My life is betta than a love movie Thank You "Wow Nazra, it's just because you are so stunningly beautiful and irresistable, I think." You should know :rolleyes: Tukaale: "This is rather entertaining than telling the truth behind the scenes. Yes, I believe stalkers do exist but strangertly, as I continued to read the post I sensed that the sister was complaing not only one or two but few stalkers in her life, or may be more. There was hint(at least for me) that the male gender was the main suspect here including us SOL members loooolz Simple issue that need not to be overestimated, deal with the facts on the ground and do not be ruled by your emotions, think wisely decide and act upon that decision if unless you are on the wrong track. Hmmmm! Stop being paranoid, If you have all it takes, sure men will be intrested and real man won't do silly stalking but would make all the magic that a dude gota do to score goals. Lol, the thing is...the whole town knows who I am dating. Sometimes I wonder how news travels so fast. The stalkers suffer from low self-esteem and confidence...so they should if they gonna approach me. They know what I will say. How I can I word this nicely... Most of them are "unfortunate looking" By the way I could be interested, If I just checked your profile, read few posts and somehow looking forward to PM, would I be considered to as a stalker! Nope! Remember is always good to beloved, cared and looked for! Just a suggestion: Hmmm! Socod badne: Whats with the two-sentence reply to every topic??? A way to boost ur posting or perhaps your ego. Get a life??? What's missing with my life... ??? Yeah, I wonder too Ps: lexus has no time to respond to ignorant teenage boys Underdog, why not. If my mom taught me one thing is that: man envy a successful/pretty girl. Sorry to make you uncomfortable. I just love myself too much. "waxaan uqaana mida pHd iyo masters isku wadato oo cimrigeeda career inta kuxirtay hadana nin la'aan iyo ciyaal la'aan heeyso....thats some distress for you right there" :rolleyes: and who says fertility is guaranteed in life :confused: ? Or for anything else???? I really don't want to brag in public. As for pete, are u threaten or something lolz??? I need a major translation. By the way your quote is deceiving to others. As far as I am concerned ...wasn’t that topic deleted???? You quote is out of context :rolleyes: Brown, lolz...Pete is not the issue here. Why are u guys diverting the subject???? Miss Brown: have u ever come across NarcissisTic-Sista on chat with the pink writing???? You should know me by now. Modesty, we should catch up for a coffee I don’t know about the rest!

^^^ Thanks for informing us about that. The west is also having trouble with this new tampons being in. Alot of girls are coming to the emergency department, because they have lost their tampons, (u know where) Talk about infection...

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"The big fuss should be more about the big HEALTH THREAT this little thing poses" lol so true , maybe ‘denying tampon users’ can benefit from your informative piece their. lol@ Lexy, Hon they say Ignore the ignorant. They grave for attention you know! PS: You know how you can block ppl from sending you a private message... I wonder can you do the same when it comes to replying topics???? Some of the non-sense garbage :rolleyes: is just a waste of time to read or respond to.

You are doing well, for someone who signed on last year.

Uchi, I'm not stalking anyone. My whole posting is about cyber stalking with some reference to my reality stalkers. My older brotha’s think I am a drama queen :rolleyes: Abaayo, I don’t have any prove he is the one on the phone. But his odd behaviour has indicated that he knew something. Some of my stalkers have not seen me, this guy once try to describe me lol. I knew he heard of me. Why on earth do u wanna call someone you have not seen? The cyber stalker that I am talking about in this post, comes to SOL I don’t know if he is registered but I know he sits behind his computer and gets a kick out of my postings and god knows what else. How on earth do you change ur IP? Maybe I need to consult pete (this Zambian computer freak guy in my campus who does anything I say ) As matter of fact, i might introduce him to this site so he can tell me whose got tabs me on me.

This might sound weird but I feel like there is this guy who reads all my postings and observes me too much. I am starting to feel uncomfortable being here I know I stalk this guy from this website, I just happen to like all his postings. I even go to the point where I click on his profile and check out all his reply’s everyday. It’s been a year when I decided to send him a pms just to say hi. Cause I know him well sort of. Well we use to be good cyber friends. But he has no idea what I do. I already have enough stalkers and prankers in my life. At one point my stalkers have almost threaten my psychological and physical safety by asking my number for my lil sista and older sista and brotha when I changed it. Oh yeah, they have tried the home phone but this time they had the connections or effort and guts to call them from thier cell phone. This might even sound bizarre...this married guy was hitting on me and I told him politely "what makes you think that I would go for you when there are guys who are half your age and who might one day have the same level of education as you" I mean the man was 33yrs old with so called masters that does not impress me along with three kids. So what.... he was the same tribe as me? I should file for harassment when he actually called me and told me "you are with this guy from this tribe, at this uni and doing this job". Not only that he claims to be my big brother who has the right to know everything I do. My grandmother’s advise is not working. He’s aggressive and has no respect for my privacy. The other day I was shopping, when this Somali guy was sitting with his uncle and started to stare the hell out me. I was quite shocked. I mean he got up and followed me. I knew somehow he was one of my stalkers (cell phone wise) who hardly sees me. Cause I don’t know whom the hell he is. I am really started to feel stalked all the time by guys. I really don’t know what their attention is. The married one being the worse. When I told my white friend about him and how scared I was she told me to call the police. I think that bit too much. It’s amazing what some of the guys do. This time, the married ones are freaking me out :eek: If one says hi, I start thinking about the nearest escape route My stalkers in reality are bit too much for me. But I am scared of this one in cyber I feel like he does more than stalk me.

That is so mean Johnny. Aeronwen that's all you can manage :eek: By the sounds of it, you seem to be unfit. Your case: I say join a gym hon

lol @ quruxleey I Love... being in love.

^^^ Are you hanged on every word I say? As for single mothers. Abaayo I try to include all SOL members when giving advise. In here, for the record we have underage kids, married men and women, single mothers and fathers, and single ppl. I try to specific at my target group Gediid, i think I like the plan Smart!

^^^ So much support for "usage" Not that I am against that. Personally it’s a big NO NO NO for me. Liibaan, thanks for cracking me up Even though I had enough laughs reading some of the posts here. You would be amazed to know how many girls go horse riding, seriously (not that we need to start another discussion about it, Naa go and hop on that horse... like i care! break that hymen) Rahima....Nac nac nac I’m guessing you are offended. Deals with the whole situation in a professional Nazra manner.

^^^ looooooooooooooolz

They are a waste of time and money especially if you have debt on ur back. I'm not obsessed with virginity. This must be the 2nd time i said it. Other...than my other topic I'm just trying to give handy tips. This post couldn't be for single mothers who would want to use the money for... whatever! I had to be specific. Some ppl happen to jump to conclusions :rolleyes: So i don't want them to use this idea when they are single mother I really do feel sorry for somali brotha's. Some have given the hope of ever getting married. Saving for 20k to 40k is alot. No wonder why some of them are not married and depressed. But then again, thats why we have spinisters demanding 30k weddings when they have nothing. People need to stop thinking about hollywood weddings and have some iman.

Some ppl just get offended when they create drama from themselves :rolleyes: , another advice: Stay out of the kitchen if you can’t handle the heat. Is this some sort normal habit for you? To jump to conclusions for the sake of replying? This is not the first time, I do recall you having to apologise to a brotha (I think in general) as you have misinterpreted him. I’m sure their more cases. Jeez! Woman! Just take the advice and care to improve. I don’t know how anyone (in reality) can get along with you.

Pucca Thanks Child of Dune, Female or male? Some ppl can have wack names like Medualla Oblongata i can't get over that one. lolz

The last two weddings i was a braid maids both families were running out of money. Last wedding believe this or not... i ended up paying for the bride's professional make-up and hairdresser which was $200. And she has not paid it back to me, its been 8 months :mad:

That was so good. I enjoyed reading that. I can easily identify my role. lolz But at the end you can conclude: that opposites attract, so does similarities.

I totally agree with it. Good article. It's useful.

When we think about our wedding day, we want to make our future hubby broke and count every penny towards the dress, venue, bridesmaids, food, cake, pictures and the video. Is this necessary??? Assume you have just finished your degree, or in the middle of your studies and you can’t wait to get married to the man you love. Here are some handy tips on how to make every penny worthy to you . Your wedding is YOUR DAY, how you do it is up to YOU. Okay, the man comes...asks for you hand. PayCheck 1 can go to the food and make it a small gathering for MEN. PayCheck1: The small gathering should consist of at least 15 men. Strong budgeting is needed here. And ca$h the savings into your account Gurl. PayCheck 2: Your Dhahab. Be honest how much dhahab have you already got? You don’t need it, you are married...Unless you plan to be a fat mother with three kids and wear "all the dhahab in ur jellewery box" just to attend and outdo other fat mothers at every weddings. :rolleyes: I say: Cheque the money... And pay off your uni fees and buy a simple diamond ring not five pair of gold. PayCheck 3: The wedding, this might be mix or not. End of the day we know that they cost hell of a lot. I say: give clear attention to ur baby, that you want a wedding. Transfer money to your account. And call off the whole wedding. Tell your family (who knew you always wanted a big wedding) that you have changed and wish for a better marriage and starting that with a party is UNHEALTHY. I say: Pay off any other debts. And Get yourself a car gurl. Ops! I don’t mean to make this sound so simple and easy. Hey don’t forget your wedding is your wedding. It’s about you. You make the call. If he wants a mix wedding, you decline and say a girls wedding (knowing that you will back up from that too). And how you spend the money is UP TO YOU. I suggest this to VIRGINS ONLY. So when your wedding night comes.... Oh... Will he be mad or what? I say: Say "honey, I was concerned for our future. What matters is that I have my uni fees paid off and have a decent vehicle. If it means not having a wedding, then I’m fine by it. Anyways, weddings are done for one reason, so: the bride can be envied by all the single girls, and so both families try to outdo each other, and also having fat women jumping up and down... And blowing thousands on them is not worth it honey. Now lets go to bed and see if you still want to talk over this" I guarantee you at the next morning when you make a wonderful breakfast, he will look at you and think: "I have married the most smartest, prettiest women who is debt free"

PS: Their is nothing wrong with this topic As you have noticed alot of gurls here were promoting the product yet they claim not to use it :rolleyes: Now, that is interesting but we won't go into it.