Why America?.... Easy, opportunities opportunities opportunities opportunities opportunities opportunities opportunities and a lot of it!! Ma'salaama

Okay Okay Okay.... The damn Thing does exist, but where the h*ll is it??....lol Ma'salaama

Observer.... Stop Observing things!...lol on a serious note though, I do believe in Love and life is nothing I mean Nothing without It!! Ma'salaama

Salaama, Sista even though you may not need it, let me give you some advice!...... Don't fall in love with someone you met online... If the only way you know him is through this Forums especially? if you know him in real life, then that is another situation!..also don't make the first move. Keep cool, always think with your head first... You probably have a "crush" on him, I don't think it's love... but... Don't get out of your relationship for something that may not be, or can never be!! Ma'salaama..... and good luck.

I go to Golden gate Univ... in SF,CA.... Major is R.N Nursing! Ma'salaama

I go to Golden gate Univ... in SF,CA.... Major is R.N Nursing! Ma'salaama

Jamaal iyo Idil...... Forgive me, I just couldn't stay out of this lil discussion of yours..lol...... You guy's make sure you let me know when the Wedding Date is? me and Unixguru will come...lol Even though I'm not a big fan of Poetry, I think you guy's have talents!...Keep it up.

Idil........Your mother was Right 110%... they always have other agendas on mind! Nothing is Free, whatever you receive will cost you something else at the end! Ma'salaama

There is no such things as LOVE! Love doesn't exist and as Buubto said already, People marry each other for reasons only or Common interest! Like Qabiil, money, looks, Saacada oo kadhacayso! etc.. So my people marry whoever has the same common goals as you, Cuz you can wait but "love" won't Come!! Ma'salaama

I learned that " SEEING IS BELIEVING".... Don't believe anything about anyone unless you see it for yourself!! Ma'salaama

lol@jaber..... Red & Blue..Now I know why! Raula=Zedy? unaishi wapi? Just curious!!

Xafsa, Parents are human too, Just like you and I they make mistakes too.. What I mean is they may not know what is Best for you! since each one of us is individual, However, in most cases they're right usually! anyway, as all the other posters already told you COMMUNICATE with them, make sure they know what you want and don't want.....Walaalo, if you don't communicate with them, there is no way for them to know whether you're unhappy with their choices or not! Good luck , hopefully everything will work out for the best.. Insha'alaah! Ma'salaama

Salaama All, Qalanjo sis, the best advice I can give you is to Fallow your heart as you said, "you can't build a relationship/marriage without the Main ingriedient "This is what I believe too, Anyway.....If you don't love him Now, I hardly think you will later, so don't waiste your time with him any longer then you did already. Tell him to "Hit the Road Jack, Don't you come back No More No More"........ Ma'salaama

MMWA and Caydiid......You guy's are funny Too bad, I can't share much about my name since it's Common among Somalis Ma'salaama

Matrix Gladiator Lord of the Rings!(new, but I like it) Titanic When Harry met Sally! Abdinur, are you related to Italians?...Just curious

Salaama all, Honesita? where is he gona cook for you? Sista I'm sure you have heard the term Picnic@the Park? ..... 'Once a man said'.... Thx! Ma'salaama

Good Question.... Barliin .... Yeah men what do you want?.....lol Ma'salaama

lol@MMA........... Damn you!, Calool xanuun aa ku ridee walaahi...Canbuula aa?...No thanks! lol@ Jaber.... I think a Nomad has other Options too, that is if he is not being selfish! and one of 'em is Trying to Learn how to cook!! for instance say you got married and all of a sudden mrs.Jaber got sick or something and she can no longer cook... What will happend then? Cuz technically you have to feed her and by that I don't mean Fast food! What I mean is to cook....for that reason alone and some others too, I think the Nomad-male Needs also to learn how to cook!.....If not for Xawo? for his own good then. Practice makes things perfect...I wouldn't suggest a book but I would recommend that you ask some Somali women to teach you how to cook a simple Bariis with Suugo or Pasto and Suugo..Even Laxoox or canjeelo is Easy! Walaahi...you will probably make a mistake or two but eventually you will get it! Hibo Thx for the recipe...Plz do write more easy one's! Ma'salaama

Salaama all, "On the other hand, "buying a Somali girl a "thong" or a "V-Sting" aint nothin' wrong wit it. That's kinda tight and you can get FREAKY wit it".... A/nuur that is exactly the kind of disrespect I was talking about...... This is how it goes......and Plz do correct me if I'm wrong...... First you buy the lingerie for her, then you say, "try it on girl I wanna see how good you look on it" or something similar to that matter ....and then the next thing we know..you be Trying her on....lol..... and all hell breaks from there on!...I don't wanna tell you what kind of Danbi you're both in cuz I'm assuming you already know...2ndly, you played with her Gabarnimo! and 3rdly, You degraded her by buying her things that are only appropriate for your WIFE to a girl your not even married to and probably won't..... However, I don't Blame you, Cuz as they say it takes two to tango!!..... Now brotha....me cooking?...lol that is funny...ehmm hmmm, let me clear my throat ... Anyway!...... I recommend you read Hibo's post "Cooking for that special nite"!! I'm sure you will get Ideas on what to cook for that special nite.... Ma'salaama

LoL@ Jaber.... You got some taste I gota give it to ya... "blue diric and Red Googarad" Who will wear that together?...lol Ma'salaama

Salaama all, "buying a Somali girl a"thong" or a "V-Sting" is a veeeeerrrry,very,bad Idea"............I AGREE WITH JABER 110%.... Extremely a bad Idea... It's Ok if she is your Wife or your Fiancé but don't buy it otherwise. That is very Disrespectful!! What do we want?.... Personally, NOTHING!!....Just be yourself, Be honest, Be respectful! They say Best things in life are FREE!!....Be creative you can be romantic w/out buying or spending anything!! for instance Make a Nice dinner for two and Surprise her with it...and if you don't know how to cook? Learn it for God sake! for your own good.... Anyway, Abdinuur...I'm just curious...which one is it? Are you married? Since you said on another post you were "expecting a girl"Namin my baby"...and here you're Looking for advice on what to get this "new gal"...?? Ma'salaama [This message has been edited by LadyFatima (edited 01-14-2002).]

Thx buubto..... You know I've seen guy's Named Warfaa, that is why i had to ask! Thx again... Ma'salaama

No Abdinur..... Farah or Farrah or Farax is a Girls name! however you spell it..And Faarah or Faarax is a guy's name

Salaama, buubto... I thought WARFAA was a guy's name? and what is Jihaan?.... I'm just curious since I've never heard it b4.... Ma'salaama

Faiza, Fartun, Fadumo, Fathia, Farah, Fahma, Or Fowsiya..........will do Ma'salaama