Originally posted by *-DaReDeViL-*: CooLer?And You determine this by the areas peopLe Live in?LoL..QQ you is qac. lolol..when u said u is qac, it hit me.…u just solved a puzzle. all this time i was like what is qac qac mean....tanag u very armajo ...clearly explains what has been going on his mind or lack there of..

Tamina: What I want to know is....why women ignore the signs before it escalates to point of murder? It was all there b4, the fact that he's controlling, whether he's the jealous type...etc. [/QB] i used to wonder that myself....walaalo these woman are striped of their haqq as a human being deserving of good treatment through years of mental and physical abuse. if a guy keeps telling u that ur ugly, fat, no man wants u, ur lucky am still here, am sorry i wont do it again etc, etc for years...then u start to believe it. Its all psychological brainwash, sadly most women who are in those situation actually feel like this person loves them and have hopes of him changing. one time i slept over my cuzins home and some guy was beating him wife on the upper floor of the building. u could hear the women screaming for help, and so we called the police, when the police arrived, the lady opened the door and said that everything was fine and that we were lying. the whole floor could hear her screams for heavens stake :rolleyes: I remember hearing few yrs back about a somali couple. The guy used to punch his wives uterus so that if she ever left him and married someelse her uterus would be too damaged to carry a baby. Acudu billah!…the level of madness ppl resort to is shockin note to potential copykats....u didnt read that!

This is the wrong track, and unfortunately many so called "Muslims" fall in it because they were Mulims by name with little knowlege of their faith, or they were rather educated Muslims who confronted an argument by an agnostic that they could not answer, or they may have read some material that casted clouds of doubt on the fabric of their faith, and as a result, their faith becomes like a file corrupted by viruses, and accordingly they act erratic and confused in their behaviour. Nuri...i think u might be missing a group here..which is the muslims who are neither muslims by name nor confronted by satan(referring to anyone who causes confusion and doubt in ur deen), but rather those muslims who get side tracked from thier ibaadah and instead indulge in sin causing it to weaken their faith. That sin continues till one is able to with the help of Allah get back on the siraadal mustaqin . I fall into that group. The problem is getting the drive to get back on the horse. what is one to do?

The church is afraid about extremist organizations who conspire to put clothes back on women beautiful bodies, specially the veil. The church thinks that if women are veiled, they will talk smart behind the veil, and no man can babe her anymore, this terrorizes the members of the church who can not tame their hormones. lolol...babe her anymore ma tiri

bisinkaa!!! is he in for some heavy duty lifting or what!...then again no need for a mattress...

u all maybe be opposed to these metro guys, but whats with the earings and necklaces u guys been sporting?...

its called flashing the credit card, and all of a sudden the guy feels like u have taken away his manhood and forces u to put that damn thing away. sucker! always works! q to guys: why is it that when u pay for all expenses u expect something in return?

Bill Smith," a 42-year-old high-school math teacher from Michigan, fired up his computer one night last fall and logged into Yahoo's Detroit chat room for a little sexual repartee before bed. The experience would bring him to the verge of suicide and change his life forever. Smith, who is married with three young children and wished to remain anonymous for this article, said he was having marital problems at the time and that online flirting was his way to "blow off steam" without having an affair. In the chat room, Smith sent instant messages to several participants with female screen names, including "keely_kandy69u": pbass1957b: hi kandy, care to chat? keely_kandy69u: asl? (age, sex, location) pbass1957b: m/42/grosse pointe ... you? keely_kandy69u: 13 f Ferndale pbass1957b: do you have a (web) cam? Although "Keely" had identified herself as a 13-year-old girl, Smith continued his erotic banter. He encouraged her to send him pictures of herself, and asked whether she'd had sex before and if she liked her "nipples sucked on and licked." "I could show you how to do your math and afterward show you how to enjoy the pleasures of good sex," Smith wrote. He told her his first name, his occupation and his cell phone number. She called it to confirm the number was real, hung up and then continued the virtual conversation: keely_kandy69u: check out this site in tha meantime keely_kandy69u: http://www.perverted-justice.com keely_kandy69u: Make sure you pay very close attention to it. keely_kandy69u: You might wanna bookmark that site. Your name, telephone number, photo, and a transcript of this chatlog will appear on the front page within 24 hours. keely_kandy69u: You are a sick, sick man... keely_kandy69u: And your life just took a serious turn for the worse. Smith quickly disconnected his Internet connection, but Keely's threat came true. And in a matter of days, Smith lost his job, received anonymous death threats and had reporters camped out in front of his house. As it turned out, Keely was not an adolescent girl, but a 29-year-old male volunteer with Perverted Justice, a vigilante group that trolls regional chat rooms for would-be pedophiles. The group's volunteers pose as kids, and when an adult hits on them, they publish the person's picture, phone numbers and e-mail address on the site so the group's supporters can hound the person by phone and e-mail. Perverted Justice has made more than 600 such busts since it was formed in July 2002, and many of its marks have lost their jobs and been scorned in their communities as a result of the exposure. Critics charge that the activists' controversial crusade rarely results in convictions, but the group insists that the public humiliation suffered by the men -- and two women -- they've busted is itself enough to make pedophiles think twice about victimizing children online. In Smith's case, Perverted Justice was able to pinpoint his identity after locating his picture on a high-school website; in it, he wore the same shirt he sported in the photo he sent Keely. They e-mailed the chat transcript to his colleagues, to parents of students at his school, to the local police and press. Smith, who's been a high-school teacher for 17 years, insists that he thought Keely was an adult role-playing at being a little girl. "This is a way people live out their fantasies," he said. "I never thought it was a 13-year-old girl. No one ever is who they say they are in these chats." He asked Perverted Justice to take his file off the site, but the group refused. His boss told him not to bother coming into school on Monday. And then the media circled in on his house. He grew so despondent, he said, that he found himself in his basement holding an old shotgun he'd received from his father, but it had a trigger lock and he couldn't locate the key. He called a suicide hot line, which alerted the Grosse Pointe, Michigan, police. The police confiscated his gun and brought him to a local emergency room to talk to a psychiatrist. The Perverted Justice volunteer who busted Smith has no sympathy for the teacher's plight. "(He) hung himself. All we did was make an example out of him," said "Beef the Troll," who like other Perverted Justice volunteers won't identify himself for fear of retaliation for his activities. "To this day, he is not allowed anywhere near a classroom. And I count that as a personal victory." One of Smith's former students who heard of the bust said she wasn't surprised. "He would make inappropriate comments frequently," said Laura Pankow, 20, who said Smith was her algebra teacher when she was 14 and 15. "If a boy was late for class, it was always, 'Did you have a date with Rosie Palma and her five friends?'" The Macomb County Sheriff Department did not charge Smith with a crime because no actual meeting occurred between the teacher and a minor -- and the chat transcript alone was insufficient evidence. "We don't know for sure that this teacher is the one who wrote these Internet messages," Sheriff Mark Hackel told The Detroit News. "That's like buying a bag of cocaine and then telling the police (who the seller is)." Although police routinely pose as minors in chat rooms to snare pedophiles, they follow strict guidelines to ensure their chat logs are admissible in court. Smith, whose teacher's union refused to support him, is now on paid administrative leave. He hired a lawyer to press invasion of privacy and harassment charges against the group, but the lawyer has been unable to ascertain the volunteers' true identities. Meanwhile, he's had to deal with the scorn of his colleagues and neighbors. "I have a long road to go with my wife, and my kids will eventually find out as well," Smith said. "I'll have to build a new life, find a new career. My life is ruined in many ways."

playmaker... r u my prof's middleman or somethin?....cuz my prof just had me take that test last week... 31 TO 40 POINTS---so true

i dont remember the exact hadith, but the story goes something like this " a woman was watching her husband hanging around other more good looking guys, and she decided that she wanted to divorce her husband simply because her husband was not so good lookin like the others. the prophet s.a.w. was told about her or she told him...that she wanted a divorce based on that and after trying to change her mind the prophet s.a.w, said if she wanted it soo bad, she could get it..ie. a divorce." now would that qualify as a good reason...i dont think so..i mean where were these guys when she was single and what happened to her marriage vows, do they just disappear when a hot guy is in town? if u really want the hadith, i will try and find it and let u know, but no garantees. if ur really interested in this issue go a person who is more learned about it.

Raxiil: quote: a little dirty history: a woman from the groom's side would be sent to check if girl is fgm or not. Is that a fact. :confused: ya some tribes used to practice it. Is FGM practiced outside of Somalia by somalis? its illegal in most parts of the world, so some parents resort to taking their daughter back home to get it done. my own cousin visited her grandmama in Holland, and the old lady decided to deceive her into going to to abu dubia for shopping only to get her fgm, alhamdualliah she heard it before they left for abu dubia and refused to go. sad thing is her parents in toronto actually wanted and supported the grandmama's decision. how cruel!

a little dirty history: a woman from the groom's side would be sent to check if girl is fgm or not. :eek:

joe...wonderin whatever happened to him?

i'll break it down to 4 groups serious and cool crew: nur,bashi,yasmin,rahima shopping crew: ameenah, x, opi, gediid, hibo,rudy future warlord :mr oodweyen pain in the a$$ crew: dont want to name ehm but...2 very deserving ppl...a sharp, hard slap in the face...guaranteed to show my hand print....then a free course of slavery for dummies courtesy of moi

719...i only few rab artists...and that aint one of them.... so sorry... I'm Standing on a bridge I'm waitin in the dark I thought that you'd be here by now Theres nothing but the rain No footsteps on the ground I'm listening but theres no sound Isn't anyone tryin to find me? Won't somebody come take me home It's a damn cold night Trying to figure out this life Wont you take me by the hand take me somewhere new I dont know who you are but I... okey...this one is not r&b...its alternative rock...canadian singer...that enough clues for now...

i think another and more sinister reason why the promote c section, is to limit the number of children a women can have. Bingo!...u hit it..any way to decrease population.. I honestly think the reason why she's accused of murder to set a precedence, so that in the future women wont refuse to get a c-section if the doc says so, cuz then it would be law and therefore illegal. my cousin just had a baby, and the nurse said how the baby is too big(9pounds) and she cant deliver in a few hours she's gona get a c-section. low and be behold, just after 2 hours she was ready to give birth naturally, the nurse was shocked cuz she was lookin for a fat pay cheque, and even more worse she lied about his weight, cuz he weighted a mere 7 pounds. so evil :eek:

what part of prove me with evidence, or save ur opinions for the less gullible cuz i aint having it. do u not understand. I cearly asked u to give me evidence from quran and/or sunnah, but u did just as i thought u would do....which is give me ur never ending opinions. shuttered my illusions kulha....if am in such an illusion kindly hit me upside the head cuz there is something so wrong with treating ppl with respect. and no...dont reply to me...cuz this convo ends right now....

Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar: who is she, and while ur at it find out who has given her a black eye...

No, wait: Don't ask my wife. She and I disagree on certain housekeeping issues, such as whether it's OK for a house to contain dirt. Also smells. If NASA scientists really want to know about life on Mars, instead of sending up robots that keep finding rocks, they need to send my wife, and have her take a whiff of the Martian atmosphere. If there's a single one-celled organism anywhere on the planet, she'll smell it. And if the other astronauts don't stop her, she'll kill it with Lysol. u must be refering to my mom. walaahi she is a neat freak! thank god for apartments

conversing with u is beneath me. i have ignored u and qac qac all this time, but this is unbearable. u show no respect for the sisters. u use islam to suite ur racist, sexist, ignorant motives, and that include qac qac as well. going back to qomoluud issue. am in no way comparing myself to the prophets, so dont put words in my mouth. if i chose to be nice to them its my choice, notin u or anyone says can change that. i would like to know where in islam teaches u to be rude, and disrespectable to ppl regardless of their creed and/or sexual preference? prove me with evidence, or save ur opinions for the less gullible cuz i aint having it.

here i was lookin for a training course :rolleyes: as long as tribal wars exist any hope of a having a united somalia is none imaginable to me. havin a corrupt ruler is better than not having one at all, unless there is better leader to replace them i dont think they should be overthrown.

yo hommie...am a little confused...why is everyone congratulating u when ur not even married yet.....so i will save mine till the deed is done.... if u happen to not find a shiekh...dont worry... this will do... Nag naga tun nikaaxatun nab Hadey kudiido diid Hadey kuyeesho yaal Ale ku siiyee Rab kusii

Originally posted by x_quizit: Rudy, its about time you told ppl about us, I wasn't sure how long I could keep such an important secret. So now everyone knows... p.s.-as a wedding gift, these are my choices... 1-money 2-perfume 3-house 4-car 5-all of the above... thxs! lolol...i didnt know that u would be interested in being wifey # 2....good luck sharing..and whatever u do....please dont pull ur hair out whenever u get pissed at wifey # 1, better yet pull his hair out.... :cool: ...

reminds me of another joke i heard and it goes something like this... Q: why isnt india part of the soccer world cup A: cuz at every corner kick they open a corner shop.... have u noticed there is soo many dollar stores, 7-11's...or what have u..

thanx u'll a bunch.....though i dont understand...but its really soothing... there is this other singer...i dont know his name nor his music...all that i know is that it was african mixed with french i think......i heard him just one time...and it took my breath away....it got played in a movie....called unfaithful....wondering if any of u know of him?