Haadeeeeey.....i am so not normal.....i can only see 1.....lol....!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

Haadeeeeey.....i am so not normal.....i can only see 1.....lol....!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

The best thing in this whole wide world is going to Jannah.....!!! Everything else u do it for a reason.....and ur happiness comes when u get the reward...........!!! Think of it........what is a better reward than Jannah.....!!! We can though list al those little thingz that make us feel good.....!!! Fallin' in love.....getting married.....getting pregnant...having a baby.....baby smilin', talkin' and walkin'......baby havin' a baby.....!!! List goes on an on......!! May we all meet in Jannah oneday.....insha allah....!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

I read this somewhere....love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear......!!! What love means.....it depends on u.......u can make love mean what ever u want it to mean.....!!!! To me it means happiness......feeling good those very few moments i'm around the man i love.....love to me is when i talk to one person for so long and still feel like we did not talk much.....also...love is when we stop talking but that smile seems to stay for another hour, day and sometimes week...!!! Yes i do believe real love comes after marriage......but oh well......i believe i'm in love.....so yes i am in love....!!! More than this waan waalan lahaa...!!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

Lord some of u really do take care of ur selves.......makes me feel like i'm not a woman.....but oh well.....i look okey....!!! I take care of my hair the most.....my mother hates it.....i've always used Pantene Prove.....the shampoo and the conditioner even even though its 2in1....!!! I'de like to know though.....r there anythin' u can use to help ur hair grow longer.....!! I stopped dyin' my hair like 2 years ago....but the color is all the ends of my hair.....i dont wanna cut it cuz i wanna have long hair....!!! Also mayonnaise conditioner is really good....say once a week or 2wice a week....i dont do that...but its good for ur hair.....!!! I dont believe in hair salons......when i'm goin' to weddings and spend my money at a salon.....my hair looks terrible.....but when i do it myself......anaaba iska hela....!! How come no one said they use Coconut lotion for thier face........i use it and it really does give ur face that glow......!!! Also for women right after birth....u know how thier skin gets darker while pregnant.....my sister lost all that darkness in less than 2 weeks with the help of the coconut lotion...!!! My mom told me that using honey on ur face will damage ur face later on........she says it'll make u have wrinkles early or somethin'....!!! For cleanin' i use Bio somethin' from Bath&Body Works.....a bit expensive but i like it.....!!! Some sistaz said they wear hijab so tinta way quruntay..........WHAT ARE YOU THINKING WOMAN.......!!! Quruxdaada is for ur own sake......not cuz no one is gonna see it whats the point of it........get ur a$$ outa here and do ur hair..... ....!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

Silent-Guy.......i so agree with u when u said all our problems start from the home........if u look at our culture....there r many, many things that should be changed......and probably wont change untill we all learn to deal with basic thingz at home.....!!! My father died ten years ago....i was told that he died while eating suugo iyo muufo by my little brother who did not understand what death was.......i remember the minute i saw my cousin's face somethin' was wrong.....i dropped my khubuz on the floor....then picked it up and resumed eating......i swear i fought myself so hard not to cry infront of her or my little brother....!!! I went to the bathroom and cried like no body's business......b4 i came out....i made sure i took a shower so they didnt ask me why my eyes were red....!!! I dont know why i did not cry....when i was young crying was the only trick i used to get what i wanted.....but when my father died i was too shy to cry.....i still dont know why...!!! What i dont understand is what that has to do with the way our homes functions....!!! U also said why do women reffer to thier husbands as the father of the kids....well i think women say that to strangers.....pple that abviously dont know the name of thier husbands......so it makes sense to say the father of the kids...!!! Wouldnt u think i was weird if i didnt know u well and i tell u oh 'Farah' did this.....u'll be like...who da hell is Farah?...!!! Ayaanic.......lol@death should be celebrated......we aint Mexicanos sistah....!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

I think we all should do this.....instead of looking at pple cuter than us....we should look at pple who r uglier....or should i say less attractive than ur self....!!! Iimaankaa kuu dagaaya....!!! Me....alxamdulilaah....everythin' that is wrong with me is somethin' correctable...but lazy asses like me dont put da effort....all they do is complain.....!!! It'll neva get me any where i'm sure....!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...!

Damn i luv that Kuluco girl......she said the truth the way it is.....and when i think of it.......me and her got too much in common....!!!! I'm happy with my weight.....yeah family nag and I sometimes nag about how i wanna lose it....i'm workin' on it....but hey......i still believe in myself......even if i have to fake it.....i luv everythin' about myself......and at the end of the nite when i'm in the bathroom, i just look at myself in the mirror and smileeeeee.....sometimes even laugh out loud....at how luvly my day was....and how many cute smiles i got....!!! Now tell me how many skinny sistaz feel that way at the end of the day.....deffinetely not much.....!!! One of my friends once told me and i quote her "God looked at you and said u've gotta be fat"....keep wonderin' why...!!! Salaamz p.s. that was another piece of my ultimate honesty....!!!

LadyFatima......i agree with u girl....but i have a question....when the guy cooks for me...where is he gonna do that....at his home i guess.....and i'm hoping his family is not there....what is gonna happen after u guys eat......abaayo macaanto...hee aboowe macaan......damn i betta get out of here....!!!! What i think is appropriate to give on the first date.....absolutely nothin'.....i mean this is first date....u shouldnt try too hard to impress....just be urself....and if u do wanna give me somethin' to remember u with it would not be flowers....cuz flowers die....my business teacher used to tell me never accept flowers....they die...but jewllery dont die....she was not somali by the way...!!! A lot of u forgot that Abdinuur said the first date....!!! Imagine givin' a girl gold on the first date.....walaahi i would think u r the biggest thief....!!! Nicest thing u can give me on the first date is a nice music tape......and no u dont have to go and buy it...it can be the one u were playin' nd i said it was nice....!!! When we date for a while....only on special occasions.....or surprisingly...a nice perfume...i luv to smell good...!!! Jewellery is after big commitment....i mean after engagement and marriage....b4 marriage in somali culture....so she can wear it the wedding nite....!!! Damn i talk too much...!!! Salaamz.... P.S. What is LMAO....!!!!

Okey this has got to be a stupid one rather than funny......and again i was young....foolish....and verrrrrrry un experienced....!!! I was in Toronto for my summer vacation in 98........and i did not have many friends there cuz i'm not from there right......well i used to go to the library next to my abti's house to go online and stuff.....i used to see this "okey" lookin' somali guy...he seemed in his late 20's...we would exchange smiles...thats it...!!! Then oneday i was really really bored.....we left the library at the same time.....so he asked me to go to the movies with him if i had nothin' to do that nite...!! I did not mind....and he took me to this mall my cousin took me to b4......so i was not so worried either cuz i knew the way to the mall and the way back...!!! We went and we purchused tickets to see Dr. Dolittle...I not II...!!! We had time till the movie started so i wanted to play some video games....!! Nice of him he gave me some quarters and instead of playin' with me he told me to play alone...!!! When i was so in the game..(street fighters my fav.)...he comes behind me in a way not very nice.....!!! I did not even have to think walaahi......i turned back and in an almost screamin' and disgusted way told him to get da hell away from my back....!!! I was mad i lost the game too....!!! He excused himself for a minute.....went up the escelator....came back and said his mother needs to go to the emergency room....!!! I was like okey fine....!!! The guy refused to even take me back home.......but he gave me money to take the bus.....!! I left and all the way back home walaahi i was laughing at my stupidity....!! Now when i look back.....i just laugh at myself....it was not a proper date.....i would not even date the guy...but i'de luv to know what made me go with a guy i did not know....!!! Abdinuur.......again brotha.......share urs too....!!! I like ur topics by the way...!!! Salaamz

looooooooooooool@Hibo......sistah walaahi u made my day......i was just havin' one of those really really bad days.....!!! Ama go home and honestly try that.......i have not cooked at home since Ramadankii......mama has a diff. attitude with me nowadayz so i betta start bein' good right....!!! Anywayz....about the skinny sistaz with TB...damn that was funny......but xaraam caleeki habo.....have u seen Queens of Comedy.....tell me what u think of it when u see it...!! On a second thought.....i cant cook it today.....cuz i dont have salmon fish....i dont even know where to get it.....!!! And if i do cook it......i'm gonna eat it....and if i eat it.....more fat acid.....i'm not cookin' nada.....stop temptin' me GABAR...!!! Salaamz P.S. dhagayare in english is simply Small Ears...lol...!! What was so hard about that..!!!

Abdinuur....why not start with ur self.....is it ur real name or a name u liked....!!! Mine.....i just luv mine walaahi.....!! It used to be HonestGirl.....i thought Honesita was a stylish and unique name...!!! Eva heard of the song...Mama cita...!! Some say honeysita....some say horneysita....i mind da second but its neva out of question...!!! Salaamz

Abdinuur....why not start with ur self.....is it ur real name or a name u liked....!!! Mine.....i just luv mine walaahi.....!! It used to be HonestGirl.....i thought Honesita was a stylish and unique name...!!! Eva heard of the song...Mama cita...!! Some say honeysita....some say horneysita....i mind da second but its neva out of question...

I just very much luuuuuuuv somali music.....i listen to it a lot....but i dont understand them......!!! Jaber........i dont like cuud songs either......but try listenin' to ----..damn i forgot the name....!!! But its a really nice album...it has the song indha deeraleey in it......and the 3rd song i think or the second one goes like....bal daya dadiyoow tan la igu --- dabeesha sidato ----...!!! I just luv it....even though its cuud.....my brotha in law was surprised i listen to music like that.....!!! Ameenah.........ya wiliya......eesh haadha....ana shaayfa naas hinna ka anahum itwaladu min jidiid......!!! Subxan Muqayir Al Axwaal....!!! Biyuulo...il qit candu 7 tirwaax...lol...!!! Hibo......bisinka habo.....waxaabad noqotay islaan gabayeeysee....!!! Salaamz

Ayan......finally some1 feels my pain...!!! I was 17 in 10th grade too one time....!!! My story is diff. though....no fake age or anythin'....!!! See when i first started school when i was young, i was always a year younger than my classmates....! When i finished 8th grade, we came to Canada....and i finished up to 11th grade....but i was takin' only ESL classes right....my senior year i came to the States.....guess what happend....instead of goin' to 12th grade....i was sittin' in class with punch of 15 year old sophmores....!!! Walaahi i cant describe to u my anger....i cried every single day....complained to my mother...this is not fair...this is not right....this is this..and this is that....!!! Till i got used to it.....i couldnt graduate cuz i did not have enough credits.....so i took the pain of beini' in class with very very immature americanos kids......!! I finally graduated last june.....and i go to college now.....and to be honest with u.....i was glad i was put back for 2 years....cuz if i think of it.....the 2 years i went to school in Canada, they were nothin'.....i was just learning the language....but they were the best 2 years of my life...!!! Plus.....all my friends from canada........almost none of them graduated.....and the ones that graduated, did it at the same time as i did....cuz they did not have enough credits....!!! So say Alxamdulilaah sis......u only lost 2 years.....think of those University students that had to start from ABC when they came here......how do u think they feel....!!! U're in a very good position now sistah....so enjoy ur high school life while u can......laugh it out.....and be as bad as u can be.....cuz when u get to college u really gonna have to study and do real homework.....damn i hate it...!!! Wish u the best luck sweetie...!! Salaamz

Lord.......this is the first time i see a topic like this bein' debated in this really sweet manner......!!! Personally i prefer somali men more than any other race....!!! For many reasons some of them bein' i share language, look, and culture with a somali man....!!! Of course its xalaal to go for a Muslim fella....but nowadayz thats not how it goes......how many somali sistaz and somali brothaz r with non muslim partners....!!! And most of u have seen the out comes.....how many somali men have kids with non muslim women, what is thier children's fate...cuz most of those men dont last with the non muslim women...!! When u see a somali sistah with a non muslim man, to me her case is a little bit better.....why....cuz if she ever has kids they're gonna be like her....what if she gives touba oneday....her kids will end up with her and she has the chance to raise them as Muslims....!!! Salaamz

I dont care if he flirts with every woman on this earth but i just luuuuuuuuuuv flirty guys........with a style of course.......not too much of it too.....!!!! Like some1 said up there.......just cuz he flirts with u does not mean he luvs u......or just cuz he flirts with the lady next door he's gonna go to bed with her...it's all about the trust u got for the brotha....!!! Somehow when a guy i dont even know flirts with me, i feel like we're allready friends........it dont mean that i have to do what he asks for....like the kiss and da dance......lord have mercy....!!! Salaamz

Ameenah......loooool.....damn i remember that one too.........and do u remember this one.......kaan fi safiina safiina safiina...kaan fiiha fiil fiil fiil....abu dam ti'iil iil iil....ultilo tacaala tacaala tacaala....ali mush xagi, mush xagi mush xagi.....ultulo la baaba la baaba la baaba...idaani irsh......!!! Aakhir waaxid idaalo BOX....!! Remember what BOX meant....lol...!! Anywayz.......i cant believe they think u're gaalo.......i remember my cousin came from syria couple of months ago....her son is like 8 years old.....he spoke arabic so cutely.......every time he heard kids speakin' in english he'd say allah khaaltu ittalaci....hadooli kafara.....cam biyicbudu issheytaan....!!! Baydan.........abaayo...ileen yariiseey hooyo wali way kuu heestaa......no wonder u still remember all those songs......lol.....!!! Soco suxuur kari aan ku dhahay hees caruureed joojiyee.... ...!! Salaamz

Ameenah....suju waaxid........yaad ugu heeyseeysaa.......ur students at school....lol.....they dont know somali.....but anywayz.......i remember this one my mom ay heesi jirtay...!!! Huuwa ya huuwa.....huuwa ---- huuwa....hooyadaadi way baxday....kabaheedi qaadatay.....halkay aaday ma ogi.....goorme imaanee ma ogi.....!!! & Gabar yahay shafcaano....maro guduudan huwato....magacaaga iisheeg....magaceeygu waa sharaf....sharaf xaaji weeyi.....allow yaa usheega......dhagaha ka jiida....saaxibadeed caasho....caashaq baa dilay.....!! --- naayaa zam zameey...sabaax nuureey.....----- Ma wadi kari ani........ya dhameestiraaya....hadaan qalad usheegayna isaxaaya....!!! In arabic i remember those 3... Mama, zamaanhaa gayya, gayya, bacdi shuwaya, gayba macaaha xagaat....gaayba, macaahaa shanta, fiiha, batta wi wazza, bit uul wak wak wak...wak wiii....!!! & Lacbiini wa laacbik, wa kassar sawaabcid, sawaabic illuulu, illuulu illuulu....maama gabatlii koob xaalib, koob xaaliib, nawamatni ca siriir, ca siriir, wi siriir tawaax tawaax, may khali xadi yarawax, illa Saalix wi miraatu......wal ba iya fi xayaatu....!!! & Iddax iddax in bu....iddi ilwaad la buu....ya ceeni ilwaad biy cayat....sheel ilwad mil ard.....!! Irmi ilwaad wa abuu....lol...!! Salaamz...

Baydaaaaanoooos.....whats up girl.......here i am sistah........i kinda like this place......i'm afraid i might get addicted again walaahi....i'll try not to....and if i do.........i guess its aight maha....!!! Salaamz and Much luv ya'll.,.!!!