Missing out on last slice of lemon drizzle cake! Indeed it was serenity's calaf to eat it

Congrats yaaqey waan maqley the good news iyo inlaguu magacabey wasiir Bal ha isku cunin xoolo qaran

it is very much straight forward, balse why prenup? prenup is useful on two occassion, if you earn so much now that you want to limit his entitlement to your current or future earnings or if he is expected to earn alot in the future and you want slice of his cake otherwise waa uun madax xanuun

waa islaan dulmi badan runtii, kute she wants the life she provides horaa loo yiri xoolo dumar dhurwaaga haduu ogaan lahaa ma cuneen! so true

^hou op oo ka xishoo dadka kaa waaweyn:) Malika you grinned because you were caught off-guard, you dont expect a woman to make such confessions right?

Oxymoron waxaa ah qofkii idin guursata ee naga tag! in fact iga gaarsii heblaayo fariin yar oo ah iney labada jilbood kasha heylka kaga garaacdo grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, i am off to hum myself gabaryahay gob baad tahay bilaa caleek

Abtigiis Malika is saying what has been said over past 100s of years. She is not wrong, society excuses men's falfalxumo Malika, waa runtaa, qof nool lama ilaalin karo, the same goes guur labaad ama sedexaad lama qarin karo. Waqtigan la joogo where people work away from home etc waaba waalaneysaa if you try to find out where he is 24/7 marka qof weyn wadkiis waa yaqaan, wherever uu tago halkan uun buu kusoo laaban:) Anyways, the root of the problem is that people refuse to acknowledge qof walba can be replaced. how is a husband/wife supposed to appreciate what they got unless they knew the real possibility that they could lose it all Of course one needs a bargaining tool. See this from logical point of view, if farax knew he got a diamond of a wife and dahab of children and he cont replace them, he would think twice before calling number qalad ah (aaheey) the argument is moot if one person is entirely dependant on the other (mostly the woman) then faarax can do as he pleases.

malika yaaaaaaaaaaaah he is anyone's markuu banaanka joogo miyaa? i like that

No Malika he did not get me thinking ee my ayeeyo nature is worried for the wellbeing of wiilasheena:) Blessed looooooooool waa istaahishaa inla dhaho saas

I think inlaguu soo direy inaad buufis nagu ridid ninyow if you ever visit london, i will schedule you with a free appointment with a marriage counsellor/psychologist, your views on marriage and relationships are somewhat disturbing full of distrust. shaki iyo wiswis baad dadka ku beertaa, marka waa inlaga salgaaro waxa kaa dhigey belo-sheeg/hoog/sheeg! let me earn my keep now, it is such a nice sunny day, qoraxdoo ifeysa and pay day:)

lol so alpha balaayo ugama horeyn meeting you lot! you ruined his creative juices and now he feels he owes you as you cant be truthful about someone aad shaah wada cabteen ps: i miss my girls CL and Ibti, hargeysa dad wanaagsan baa iga jira

Abtigiis, I REFUSE TO LIVE THAT WAY! it is not social or moral codes, i dont go thorough other people's things. it is one thing to catch glimps of something such as an open page on FB etc but it is totally different thing to investigate. and why on earth would you answer someone else's phone unless lagu dhaho hebelooow ii qabo............. i am not trying to turn blind eye or suggest you to do it but it all depends,maybe certain people you expect them to stray from fakfaktooda badan. being married does not give you a reason to be morally corrupt individual. i wont want to live a life of shame and regret ps: if your partner was cheating, you would know and women always know

salaam aleykum sayid you should worry when both announce they want to go to harardhere

I dont agree with checking your wife/husband's phone. I was brought up with the notion of digsi d*a*d*a*n* waligaa ha fiiran unless you have the permission of the cook to me going through pockets, bank statements, telephone bills waa tuuganimo, i consider it theft, violation of basic privacy walahi. it would never cross my mind to look, i simply refuse to live that way. dadoow qofkii raba inuu tago lama celin karo, what somali people men or women refuse to acknowledge is that relationships need to be worked on constantly. your interest in your husband/wife should not stop the moment you say i do. taking one another for granted na waa disaster waiting to happen. Blessed i dont think young divorced women should live life of loneliness but sometimes women jump into ill considered marriage and the children suffer.

Welcome me? Ma su'aal baa? Ma order? Ma request? Ma suggestion? Announcing PL thing won't make you popular, at least be ilbax and mention the tuulo you hail from and allow us to guess Welcome indeed to a site that would cater for your daily needs

aawww poor you first of all, dont feel bad, since she lives in somali, write clear and concise words. dont assume just because she lives in Somalia she cant read, write or speak English, many people do. Now as Narniah said dont trust pictures, if you like this girl genuinely then we will help you. Find out if she speaks english, if not, explain to her your written somali is not that good (misunderstanding cleared) and take it from there dont forget to give us halwa when the day comes insha allah ps: why is this topic in jokes section, ma kaftan baa wuxu

Wyre maasha allah very commendable to support your family! i think Norf and i heard of people getting waxbarasho in sacuudiga

hey norf Wyre waa yaryarkii loogu soo direy waxbarashada!

For first time ever, i did understand and agree with most of the things you said (yes i know i need inquraan la isaaro) I do appreciate the financial aspect of staying in an unhappy marriage. I furthermore understand the sacrifices some women and some men make for the wellbeing of their children (yes some men stay in a bad marriage with a bad woman for the sake of the kids) however in the long run sometimes the children suffer more with feuding parents, angry mother who is sometimes obsessed with the other woman she neglects the kids anyway. I do believe that once you have children their needs should take precedent but if life becomes unbearable for the parents then the kids are better off with divorced parents who care deeply for them and happy elsewhere. ps: i always felt that women of certain age with certain x,y, z kids should not remarry but caruurtooda ay korsadaan or at least wait until caruurta are certain age, comfortable, well adjusted etc before remarrying

Abtigiis taa waa runtaa, and at times i think you should be applauded for bringing this matter to goobta so it can be discussed. Somalideena waa inaan labo kala saarnaa, first waa cheating and second was marrying for a second or third time. Personally cheating is unnecessary headache as ngonge already said, it is better to just leave. As for marrying second time, again it is allowed and it goes wrong when the man cheats by lying about it. I think women should be told and given an option to either stay or leave. if she decides to leave (which i highly recommend for her sanity and personal wellbeing) then waa inloo fududeeyaa without added pressure from family and friends). Forcing a woman to accept and stay causes alot of harm runtii Ps: whilst the adults consider entertainmaintkaan yaa u maqan caruurtii. Health checks should be made compulsary for every couple marrying

I dont understand what the big deal is. If a man gets bored or a woman for that matter, there is no point holding them to randsom just because of marriage People should be free to pursue their own happiness, of course that should not be at the cost of the woman in most cases. Maxaa loo dhibayaa maskiinka, let him roam free, let him enjoy his life, as long as it is away from me Anigu reeraha xitaa uma waceen. I bet cheating would loose its appeal if you removed the excitement of hiding

aamiin blessed Met a somali lady with 6 kids and infected with HIV by her husband, who still lives with her and the children (dumarka qaaarkood wax aan ku tilmaamo ma aqaan)

nuh, i rather move to somalia runtii carabaha majecli sideedaba

where in sucuudi? I would have loved to but i go where kasband goes soomaha? hopefully the dream is afrikada, where saxanka canjeelada will be shared with others insha allah! noloshan europe barako malahan ninyow