mujahid loooooool,,,,,true that only cowards hide behind the screen flying still,,,,,u rights sis,,,,,,,nomads who are getting this aggro should ignore cause alot of us appreciate them.

moti,,,,,,,when i wrote this u were one of the many nomads i had in mind, your posts have been missed, i did notice that u hardly post nowaday cause of those who ka dabo qaadasho u. u are one hell of talended dude, plz keep up STHLM-lady,,,,,,,,i totally agree with u,,,,,,,those who try to come over as all-that, wild, and interesting by harrasing other nomads are ****** and everytime they do act harshly or nastly we do lose respect for them. phil,,,,,u can be interesting and stimulating discusions or frictions as u called it,,,,without getting personal, no one will stop u from been different,,,,,but do it in a way that is becoming of gentleman/lady

salaam all, u have probably heard what iam about to say 1000x, however bear with me one more time, because i do believe the situation has come to crisis point! there is alot of discomfort, bad vibe and nomads complaining, not let me rephrase it, nomads been bullied upto the point they stop posting in order to avoid those ugly, narrow-minded, attention-seeking, others, who got nothing to add to this community but tint its name and stop us all enjoying wonderful posts and the experiencing a worthwhile discussion from many fine minds. batuulo wrote about respect, so this is what i will like to add! - STOP, ka dabo qaadashada - if u dont like what someone posts, ignore it - if u got nothing to add to a topic, keep yr bloody mouth shut - if u dont like a nomad's comments or critics on yr opinion,tell them in a nice and civilised manner. - if u want simple attention, ask for it, many nomads will be happy to provide for it,,for free - one last thing, NO one will pick on you, unless u start it first, it is shame that u start,getting negative on someone and when they retaliate, u cry abuse. STOP THE BULLYING, cause u messing things up for all of us! it is bad enough we have to share cities, least we can enjoy this forum in a nice, respectable, grown-up wise way. take the time to read before u post 'always good idea'

magnoona, maasha allah sis,,,,,,good Qs there is this saying,,,,,,,,guri furan lama galee waji furan aa la galaa! it means people are coming to see you and not the house, so basically you have to welcome your family and show them happy face. secondly u got to understand this, it is not compulsory for girls to sit with men guests,,,,just say salaam and leave,,,,even back home girls did not sit with raga,,,,it is ceeb. however boys can,,,,just as we women can sit with the lady guests. so i hope that answers your question and u show u got respect and love for your father's somali relatives,,,just wlc them and show them in,,,if u close the door in their face cause your dad is not in,,,,that will hurt their feelings,,,,after all they only came out of love for u and yr family salaaam

dawaco,,,i do agree,,,,,,however the problem should not be entirely on the parents. some kids cirkaa laga soo riday, dhago adeeg, no matter how hard the parents try,,,,,,it is to no vail,,,nothing works,,,,belo ha qaadee seriously,,,,,this is a problem with great concern, there is no magic remedy to it,,,,but lets try basic adjustments. my list includes: - take time to be with the kids, hear them out, dont condemn or throw dacas at them,,,,just listen - do your islamic duty,,,,allah will xisabtan with u,,,,it is your responsibility,,,,,parents are strong enough to send their kids to school for 5 days,,,,but not school for quraan. teach them,,,take them to learn the religion as often as u can,,,or do it at home. - take the time to explain why your children have to do certain things,,,,many kids do not understand why they are different,,,,ie,,,why they got to wear xijab, or why the boys have to attend the mosque for friday prayals. EXPLAIN. - make them feel special,,,,,we are different cause we are special,,,make them proud,,,,,,bring them up in such a way that they cherish the dhaqan and are proud of been muslim to be cont.......

w/s w/r w/b wlc to SOL walalo, we discuss all and everything, as long as it is useful and respectful.

sorry to burst yr bubble, but aaaaaah, ami missing something? :confused: truely what are u trying to advertice? ok i admit the lady is pretty, maasha allah. so are many, correction most somali girls however i can not understand what is yr message, somali girls are pretty, so they should go half naked and parade their cowro in paris fashion shows. are u saying leave marriage and family, so that u could keep yr beauty and become fashion model? plz dont get mixed up, u free to say some women waa kala daadaatan after marriage and having kids, but this is behaviour we should condemn and not encourage our girls to follow. where is diinteeni? where is nin yaaban and dhaqankii when u need them :rolleyes:

happy birthday sis, many happy returns, and sanadkaan sanadkiisa, samo iyo sucaado, aamiin aamiin

dowry is affordable gift to your would-be wife, affordable means something u can give and happy with and not kalif. remember 'kalif' is haram. it is upto the woman to say how and what her dowry would be, and men should be aware of their capabilities of providing that gift, once agreed it will become a must or duty. it is better to pay the dowry upfront before consuming the marriage, so igu lahow is total NO-NO. one more thing the woman should be reasonable while naming her dowry personally, i would rather follow a tradition, set by my grand-mom, her dowry was 4 faataxo, 1 holly book and a toothbrush. in return all the women in my family got over 30+ yrs of happy and fulfilled marriages

wow,,,,,,,this is deep to be truthful physical attraction is important element at the start of every relationship,,,,,there got to be something yummy about the person. however in reality that kind of attraction fizzles out or does cool down, specially when farax stops wearing that nice aftershave or xaliimo puts on another 25kg just kidding shaqsii,,,,,,u asked online attraction,,,,,i think basic thing is,,,,,,same assencial factor as in real life,,,,,,someone to talk to, easy to understand yr needs and you of his,,,,,,,someone with diin and hopefully iimaan is a must,,,,,,,i think those are things that can be seen on/offline personally,,,,,,,i find common decency, morals & values attractive. the rest waa la iska qeyraa,,,,,,,any guy aa la jajafan karaa

mindstate,,,,,,,quite a character, never boring, smart and outspoken,,,,,,,,hush now dalqada yaan kaa goyne

elvis, UB40,,,,i can't help falling inlove,,,,,,,, why why why? why Q it to begin with? love is life itself,,,,,,without u wont have been here with madaxaaga wayn, it is define, it keeps the world revolve,,,,,i absolutely adore falling inlove ami fool? i dare ya dont!

olivia,,,,,,,,,,,,where is sandy? did she dump john...........ala back to reality,,,,,,,, wlc to SOL,,,,ha is martiyeen, SOL is how u made it to be,,,,,,,feel free to join our extended family!

mindstate,,,,,,,,,,through tick and thin,,,,,ups and down,,,,,,how iam happy to have my lil-tuure back u make my blood boil,,,,,,but lurve ya anyway

stay on the game,,,,i like it describe qofka kaa horeysa kaliya :mad: <<<<guulwade flyingstill,,,,,,too fast, too funky, very feminine, love her off-fly topics

walee kuli waa la habaabay, yaaqey gabdhaheena hala caleemo saaro,,,,,,the topic is flav of the month! mindstate,,can we nominate a bro toooo? ayeeyo,,,,,,is all good,,,,lakin intii aadan beer qofkale leeyahay jafin, ask around who is who,,,,,,who belongs to juxa keep nominatingggggggggggggg!!!!!!

flying,,,,,,,masugto aa igu noqotay,,,,,,,i was gonna vote for u in a real special way,,,,,waa kaas hee duulduul aa qabtaa,,,,,,, oh my heavens,,mindstate,,,,,u are my lost bro,,,,,yr picture,,,,,waryaa hooyo maa soo wacdid! ayeeyo,,,,,,,lady, i love my somali sisters,,,but u keep durdurin my turf,,,,,first u call my moti duq,,,,,now u plaster my bro's pic all over the SOL,,,,chill plz. mindstate,,,,,,,all yr fault waraa,,,,,,why have it as aviotar? aduunka waxa jira waa ogtahee! all peace and plz concentrate on the subject,,,,,,vote for deserving sister

got to thnx my bros jamaal, and hotknock,,,,,,as i can not vote for a guy my vote goes to barwaaqo, such beuaty mind, intellegent being can i vote for wildcat too,,,,,,,damn she is wild,,,in a good way,,,,,those eyez, that mouth,,,,,ala bes,,,,,,what a sport. btw count me in your football team,,,,,,i got to find a fitting gorgorod,,,mashaqo gabaryaheey!

kkkkkkkkkkkkk GOD BLESS THE QUEEN!!!!!!!! lakin how come go-girl did not start with me! i dont like been added up after og-moti asked,,,,like jug iyo garab la igu siiyay nooooh :eek: anyway,,,,,,,as economic is the heart of the nation,,,,,,,i will have to admit that iam not qualified economist,,,,,,but iam good qabqable and wonderful in kala qabaynta,,,,how about a spin doctor,,,,,,a better one then Alastair campwell ofcourse my first job will be to cut the amount of money and energy we spend on men!

wlccccccccccccc SUE dahling. ok, since u were gone, iam one of those refugees granted temporary status in NOMAD-LAND. iam glad we got one more lady on the ever-increasing-on-the-roll-man-domintated-SOL

salaaaaam, MiSs_lexus,,,that is truely scary, all i can say is all of ya ladies,,,isku celi, dont drink when travelling,,,,,alaha na mootiyo shartooda, plz be careful! moti,,,,,,,reer UK are fat aaah,,,,,,u only seen me, why the attack, u swore u loved ma fatness,,,since when u into skinny axxxxxrse ladies waryaa. :mad:

INDHO ADAG AROOSKEEDA AY KA BOODAA heedhe ma anagaan yaabin, ayeeyo, as u claim to be a new nomad, let me dulmar the rule, what gets this juxa going,,,,,iam as laid back as someone who is been on DEtamol for yrs,,,,,but whatever u do,,,,,NEVER,,,, EVER, even in yr dreams call me NAYAA :mad: :mad: hate that word and this i say as nicely as my fake smile goes. mmmmmm got it off my chest,,,,,,about moti, unless u seen him,,,,,u dont know,,,,he is one of the few remaining gems,,,,,but i wont overdo the compliments,,,,his head is big as it is. moti,,,,,,i should not get u back,,,,,cause dadka dhan aa dhiigkar ku ridee

salaam all, rudy,,,,, u got the right to ask, but again u got to accept the answers u get. u might not like some forums, however some pple enjoy it, the idea behind having different forums, is so that pple can exchange ideas, qofki qaldana la saxo. nin yaaban,,,,,again samething applies, qof walba waa dooqiisa, outright attack on women forums and teens not gonna help a bit. u suggest those forums get replaced by dhaqan ones,,,,,,did u ever bother reading the women forum,,,,that is what sisters are trying to do,,,,,,to help others learn about our dhaqan and diin, and help them stay on the right path while asking any Q they may have and getting hepp from both men and women nomad. marka walaalow bit of help and encouragement would be nice as u one of the ugaasyada SOL my dahling girls,,,,,,,never get angry,,,,,get even, anagoo waxba xanaaqin tartiib wax ugu sheegno raga! zakariye,,,,,,,walalo u right,,,,,,,,,maybe the men feel left out, nonetheless,,,,,attacking the women folk aint gonna help, so why not use it to get the message accross, positively

reer north america maseeeeeeer miyaa waxas!kkkkkkk u will all be wlcomed in similar fashion, ofcourse now we know, dont start chatting with jamaal till u eat yr bariis. man the guy came between me and my food, allah knows iam a food person, madaxaaga allaha ka shubo jamaal shaqsii,,,,,,,,after all the warmth and fake smiles how come u did not match me yet :mad: . a good match maker knows, first in first out,,,so elder sisters go first,,,,but not shujui, he is too sweet for me,,,,,koo indhaha igala baxaaya plz flying, talk is indeed cheap, i hearby revoke my invite u kind of ungrateful, so we take u to restaurant, anigana waxan islahaa gabadha meel personal touch leh gee,,,adigana geeso yaaba la soo baxday

salaam ya all, LSA,,,,,,, ilaahey maku nabad geeyay, qeyr waaye lol, and u wlc bro, u lucky this time i was on my best behaviour, u were so shy and sweet that me and barwaaqo felt bad to misbehave and play that joke on ya shujui,,,,,,,,,kkkkkkkkkkkk spilling the drink was oooops fun, u lucky it was not sticky frubishino, but u were absolutely good sport,,,,imagine if it was wildcat spilling her drink,,,,walee casho lama cuneen Rookie,,,,,,,man u really were rookie, ninkaa hadal badan dhaxal awoowgaa kugu qadi, hope next time u will say few words. flying still, macda, what do u mean will u get a wlc! naa anoo nool miyad wlc mahelaa leedahay, forget ocean restaurant, subixi saan jiko u galo, i will stay there till midnight preparing all yr fav dishes, just give me a list. barwaaqo, i see ya soon, next meeting is my back-yard, habeenki cuntadi waaba laqi waayay jamaal was too much distraction,,,and wildcat too beautiful,,,,,kkkkkkk not to mention suuban(dawaco) and salma.this time i cook, and give plastic cup to shujui, u bring the spare macawis kkkkkkk. honestly dahlings,,,,,,,,,,,it was fun.