moti, thnx for making my life easier, due to the fact u just compared all women-being to children and their happiness to a candy. iam feeling bit leaning to choosing the one that is most dependable and have high regard on womenly feelings

^^^^^^^ aamiin to that! key word is listen to her,,,,damn it :mad: . it does not take a rocket scientist to work a woman out. she asks you to do no more than what she did for you. BE THERE. DONT JUST TAKE AND TAKE, TILL U BLEED HER DRY! sorry for the outburst iam normally peace-loving

moti, war maxaad tiri? women are easy to manipulate, and control aaah? is that what u doing now? are u playing a game? shujui, u dont have to take anything with a pinch of salt, all u have to do is be what u should be a wholesome man! wind-talker,,,i do agree with u, upto certain extend! maybe women like what is not good for them. maybe once we actually use our mind and think of the long term instead of momentry happiness, then that is when we will achieve all we thrive for!

ok, i never attacked a person before, but darman, first u link my name to avarage, then u tell story of my life. ok, no more, chocolate fuelled, deep going conversations with u! what was the Q again, oooops sorry. i blame the coffie

caku ciil badanaa,,,,,,ciil badanaa,,,,,calafkey xumaadayeeeeeeeeeee . man, brother, insha allah, it will be okeey, depending on how u actually feel about her! no distance too long, no mountain too high , ala dont mind me, waa la i hayaa aniganeeee.

hahahahahhaha, i went bck to somalia, first time in long time, and i saw 2 guyz, one having his arm around the others shoulders! i swear to god, i freaked. i totally forgot that bck home men hug, not kiss, but give each other big, warm bear-like hugs :rolleyes:

sa wr wb, oooh OG-Girl, sweety, i know what is it like, being there . apart from the advice i will be telling u 1-0-1, i think u should talk to yr parents calmly and tell them why u dont want their choice, listen to them as well. putting yrself in their shoes is always good idea, after all (i know it sounds cliche) they brought u to this world, they know u the best, and they have yr best interest at heart! mmmm sweety. ps. as last measure, remember the choice is yrs, but with their blessing it will be even more blessed union!

kkkkkkkkkkkkkk kkkkkkkkkkkk that was qosol grrrrrr by da way! liqaaye,,,,,no3 is basically the dream, all u want in man, but he aint in it, as he is too young, so eliminate him. one and two, are perfect, only problem,,,,,no1 is perfect gentleman, only her heart does not go boom boom boom for him. whereas no2 is kind of not sensitive enough for her liking. now u brought no4, suppose he posesses all that no 1 and 2 missing. he comes to visit. the point is not showing up at her door steps, it is about being there, and showing u share her anguish. the Q comes back,,,,is there such thing as a whole package, or should a woman take the closest thing to perfection, if the answer is the affirmitive, i guess, man no1 is the

thnx all for the response. yes many of yous, specially the ladies gave quite impressive analysis of the Qs, which i do indeed agree with it mizz,,,,,thnx sis,,,u absolutely right, but my gran used to say there are 2 types of men mid la guursado iyo mid la shukansado . the point is, do u want someone u can depend on, who is pillar of strength, and always there for u, forever loyal and committed......OR do u want a man whom u inlove with, but lacks most of those mentioned above, mainly being there when he knows he wont gain a thing????? moti, i think the whole thing sounds too familiar for u :rolleyes: . and iam sure u want to know who she choice at the end. ps,,,,, the tie is between man no1 and 2,,,,remember no3 is the dream.

kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk i did not even know ignore list existed. sthlm, u my fav, and i love u,,,,,does that count :rolleyes: :rolleyes: rudy,,,,,i would say samething,,,but iam scared inaad jac igu dhajiso

ramadan kariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim. yes yes yes, i want (buufin and firinbi) no excuses reer SOL! and no oooh i forgot. gosh dont u love the Eid? i simply love lasagna, loads of cheese and different mixed sauses for each layer. anyone tried that??????? yammyyyyyyyy.

darman, mmmmmm, i will let u know when i solve the puzzle! lucky (emphasis on correct spelling) macda, i guess u got a point. malikah, lol hence my advance apology of any confusion 'sue'. u simply too honest, i guess things tend to get boring when there is no spice. inosence,,,,totally agree, when that feeling of boom, boom, boom fades, what really makes a relationship worth the trouble is having commitment, loyalty and companionship. ask any couple with happy marriage and they tell u that is the recipe. but when u young, surely u want to experience the whole package? is wanting all, actually being selfish? does not a lady who has everything to offer deserve (forgive the arrogance )the world at her feet???????

SA WR WB, here is something i would like to share,,,lemme know what u really really really think! one girl, 3 men in her life, all play different roles, till recently, she was confused on what counts most. what is relationship all about? is it love, loyalty and companionship? or is it inlove, in lust and others .it was not till recently that this lady came to test it after being diognised with an illness. man no1. her ex, educated, smart, good job, good family, allah-fearing, protective, loyal, and committed. he was inlove, she loved him but not inlove and felt that he was controlling. therefore she thought it was unfair to him, and they broke up but remained friends. man no2, educated, smart, fun to be with. again inlove with her, she felt the same and was always there for him whenever he needed. man no3, smart, caring, loyal and so sweeet. this was pure friendship.she met him after he lost him mom, was there for him. and he never forgot the favour then the girl fell sick, man no1, would call, even if she did not want to speak to him, daily, offer help, take 'bog off' comments and tantrums, yet he kept coming and being there,,,,just incase u need me sweety he said. man no2, ofcourse felt sorry for her, said i will be there, maybe i should give u space. sometimes complained her lack of interest in his life and why why he was not getting this n that. man no3, though he is only half no 1 and 2's age, and still riding bike to high school,,,,each morning dropped a note, not even ringing the bell,,,,small notes with smile drawn on it 'how do u feel this morning'. will drop in the afternoon,,,,,saying i wont bother u,,,just will sit and watch telly. now the irony is? - why do we 'women' want what we can not have? - why do we like those who dont do us justice? - why do we not appreciate those who threat us like princesses? - is being inlove all that counts? - is it enough if he is inlove with u? - can relationship work, based on trust,loyalty, commitment, but without yr heart going boom, boom, boom ? finally,,,,,,,,who do u think is the future, man no1 or 2? and do u agree no3 is every girl's dream ? if u get confused,,,advance apology

sa wr wb, 'sue' u right,,,,i felt sick, as i read this in the 6pm news, first i doubted he was even somali, then i saw pictures of concealed relatives dressed like us. horrifying. this was actually a high profile case, being second case on GBH related HIV, the previous being a scotish case and will probably be used as precedence. i think he will probably end up with 7 yr old sentence, same as manslaughter, eventhough they could give life, as the judge was not reluctance to name the life-expectancy of the women involved to 10 years tops. whatever he gets, he surely tainted our nation's name, gaal or muslim, no one deserves such a heartless and calculated punishment. alow ceeb astur, kuweeni habaabana soo hanuuni!

any good library store what we call here a summary of books,,,,,it is upto 1500 words and summs up the characters and give other references or books which might provide good back up for arguments,,,,,i will check it 2morrow for u,,,,meantime goodluck.

sa wr wb. seems i have been gone a while, first thing first. hibo walaaley ku soo dhawaaw SOL. yaa rabi, anigiiba somali qorayee bal suga, walaashiis, topic fiican, lakin, lakin, lakin. what the heck, as the sisters explained to you, many pple did not have the means nor the opportunity to learn how to write.however as u said,,,u got a point, many including myself know how to write it ( iam old dee), but due to pure laziness and being out of practice write english. here in SOL, english is common used language as many pple again do not write somali. so, walaashiis adoo raali ah (being cautious as iam peace-loving) dadka tartiib aa wax loogu sheegaa, adigoon afka goosan, ama aan qalad ka fahmin lucy,,,,,i think u doing great sistah, and no u can not be blamed,,,effort is everything, insha allah yr somali will improve as time goes by,,,,practice practice. war moti, habo, sow inagii waayeelo isla aheen, waa maxay jacburka aad soo qortay, walee maba ogeen intasba inaad taqaan. waa la dhuumatay, ma waxad is tiri yaysan suuqa kugu soo iibin :rolleyes:

well,,,,,,i think education is important. but as they something/someone got to give,,,,as in to suffer. so unless u find balance either the children suffer or the woman suffers lack of education. so how about,,,,taking a career break once a child comes along,,,,,,and going back gradually, like working part-time or when yr husband is off work like weekends or afternoon. as i said with good planning and careful thinking there is no reason why we can not have it all

darman it would be wonderful, if u and the other nomads could go n see him,,,,aduunka walaalo lagu yahay. malaika sistah,,give our heartfelt tacsiyaden pls if u talk to him.

samir iyo iimaan shyham. marxuumkana janadi fardowsa. aamiin

happy birthday lucky, may all yr wishes come true.

just gonna say this, lakkad, ma fiicna qasab inaan isku kaa baro, iam a SIS, last time i checked atleast one morething, iam not a joiner, but a humble leader :rolleyes:

^^^^^ my idea exactly. i dont know what is wrong with this family, but as dawaco i dont care for money much, as long as he does not start spending what is mine, i will leave his alone. lemme be realistic :confused: , i want everything that STHLM lady wanted. except for, i dont want a man that talks much, or or laughts much. i dont want a man that is full of himself. all he needs is to xifdis the following must-haves. - YES MA'AM - U RIGHT MA'AM - NATURALLY, WHATEVER U WISH MA'AM. african, see iam not demanding, so start with the simple requests. OG-MOTO, waa i kan, xaa i wacaysana

^^^^^ my idea exactly. i dont know what is wrong with this family, but as dawaco i dont care for money much, as long as he does not start spending what is mine, i will leave his alone. lemme be realistic :confused: , i want everything that STHLM lady wanted. except for, i dont want a man that talks much, or or laughts much. i dont want a man that is full of himself. all he needs is to xifdis the following must-haves. - YES MA'AM - U RIGHT MA'AM - NATURALLY, WHATEVER U WISH MA'AM. african, see iam not demanding, so start with the simple requests. OG-MOTO, waa i kan, xaa i wacaysana

flying finally u ask something iam qualified to respond to.........flickering through her fuundi notes. before picking any furniture,,,,first rule is,,,,how does the house look like, show rooms are designed to bring the best out of the furniture they advertising. second, see how the house is decorated, ie,,,,colour of the painting,,,,,,,,MISMATCH ISKA ILAALI. third,,,,,sweety, keep it simple, less is more those days now about those furniture u displayed,,,they absolutely, nice,,,,,however u need to consider how the family is likely to function,,,ie,,kids,,,,,kids and glassed tables dont work, samething for white or cream interior. finally the first set of living room is gorgeous and not over-the-top, on-yr-face furniture, it is natural colour and likely to fit in nicely. the living room,,,,,nuuuuuuuuh,,,,seems a uniform italian, ordinary set,,,,,,,,almost every woman i know has it! cost about £380. i can not fault the bedroom,,,,,,though u might want to personalise it and make it less clinical and more ACTIONNNNNNNNNN.ie,,,make it wild! ok, waa noogey, will be back for more NP, the price is way reasonable,,,,,,,bedroom and dining room only cost here almost £1000

i know number3 is four wedding and a funeral