subxanalah, i know that salon! ameenah, plans changed, we definetly not going near finsbury park. seriously, we all try to do bits and pieces, help nature and try to bring the best out of ourselves! qurux dukaan ay taal bilaash looma dhihin! u may have natural good looks, bt u can enhance it. everything hurts to a degree! plucking eyebrows, bakini wax, hair dye,u name it,it is ouch that lady has a good case! it even look like GBH. emotional distress though it wont be same as the hillbrough case. she has inflicted on herself. so maybe contributory negligence. onething for sure, claim direct rip pple off. get a normal KHAN solicitor

MMA, thank u ever so much for reminding us. its indeed sad. we have forgotten, we act as the true refugees we are, pride is lost.

sa wr wb, shujui, may i add, naive bt such a cutie DA,finding suspicious text or email can be devastating, and definetly undermine the trust in your relationship. hurt and betrayal are commonly felt by cyber victims. now the question is how do u confront? . most of yous will say calmly bt the majority will frantically open all of the cyper cheater's emails. now that will be qalad qalad ku sax. dont u think? Ngonge, to be honest i was refering to pple already in commited relationships. and when i said safe i meant that there was no actual physical aspect involved. most cheaters will rationalise their behaviour on this basis! 508,,,i await yr answer :rolleyes:

guilty secrets online infidelity has been a factor that is being cited in many divorce cases. now lets is look at what it actually is! now alot of peaple are confused if there is such thing as online relationships. what is the attraction? and what should you do if you suspect your partner (husbands) is a cyper love rat ? well, the attraction of this sort of relationship is that its safe, because you are in control. its like looking through a one-way mirror. u can pretend to be some1 you are not! ANYONE the other big attraction is that u can keep yr illicit messages hidden from your partner, Easy . now question is? should you keep your online pals secret? hw do u stop online thing cross the boundries? what do u do if u find suspicious text/email?

ala wildkat! heedhe i heard inaad meel meeshan tafta taagtay. hollywood aan kaa raadinaayay, last time i heard u become inspiring stratford ladette. good to have ya bck, muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah with dhareer cause it lingers ^^^^^^ sunshine,,,,,,we on for dinner, who is barwaaqo, dont know, cant remember,,,,,,,,we oooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnn babes

sa wr wb, does love exist? YES was i ever inlove? YES, he broke my heart, i broke his! waa kala qabnaa will i ever be inlove? NO, i dont believe in it! u love once, u lose once, u let go forever. now i believe fair exchange of time and money! as bro xisbi said (hate to agree with him, note my objection) love fades, love waa xiiso. respect, honestly, loyalty remains waa jiraa jaceeeeelkaa,,,,,,jilbuhuu jajabshaa btw xisbi, suuxe i understand yr issue, its control thing, dont worry u share with all macawisleey. love equals losing control. u cant handle that, thus u chose not to love. damn u deep! cajuuso has left her mudul

^^^^^^^^^ reminds me of the Equal pay Act. comparing like work. instead of men/women. anyhow,,,,,,,,,ani dhiigkar igu kacaa hadan umadaan u jawaabo. bt sis, u aint mad,,,,,,,,u make perfect sense to me

majority of the pple have managed to understand or read the whole postings of those smart enough to separate the issues in discussion. i dont blame those who have failed to recognise the difference between undermining or putting down their somali sisters and the need for proper and well-balanced family life. some of the brothers have made good points, i call it common sense . so all i wanted to say have already been said. what i want to add is to each their own, meaning qofwalba tii u roon isagaa yaqaan, as long as women dont neglect their kids and they can achieve their potential, be a career or being a full-time mother. a good man once said to me, if my wife thinks she can do better, earn more, i dont mind staying home. i think he lived happily ever after ok dont jump at me, bt my point is alot of women would have prefer to stay home if they could, and work only to help their family, and secure good future for their kids. waxa loo kacaa, loo kufaa,,,,,,,,,waa adinka. so stop being bloody big headed, encourage and celebrate your women, be happy, be proud inay ku garab taagantahay

^^^^^^^^ u are just contradicting yourself. listen to what u saying, u call yrself women right activist, duuuuuh u not, on the other hand u claim women lose their dignity and honour simply by wanting to be somebody and want a life of their own. u must understand there is no competition . have u even seen a woman denying her husband's role. NO. yet the man is quick to deny her basic life ambition which is wanting more than to serve a man day and night, and born him many sons. u see, somali men, specially this generation would like us to believe that they have moved on with times. that they appreciate women's capabilities of doing both. family and career. yet i think they even worse then last generation, atleast those men were brave they come out what they believed, which was, guriga ii joog, serve me, have my kids. i think this is all about some men feeling they are inadequate, their raganimo in question. well dont take it that far. look at it simply. imagine gacalo waa gacmo is dhaafsan or far kaliya fool madhaqdo . imagine the wellbeing of your family, economically, and mentally. think all u can achieve when u secure. after all i think what we women want is basically to make our family 'husband+kids' comfortable and secure our kids future. tell me this why and for whom are we doing what we doing. when we can simply sit on our fat mateeko, wait for u to do all. women wanting a career aint a reflection of a man's shortcomings . capiche?

most pple wonder where (somalis) went wrong! well wonder no more, cause its because of the thinking of those ^^^^^^^^^^^^ who claim to be educated, though i have not seen any prove :confused: . how can we ever be something, develop and produce next generation. if all our men think or believe as 508 said, that a woman should be educated for their convenience. what is the point of struggling, learning, if you are not valued, if the man u are sharing life with considers you nothing but a trophy. oh yeah she is educated, oh yeah she is smart, just so that she can look good on my arms. well i say 'hus', that man who is man enough to respect his wife's ideas, ambitions, and appreciates her and all she stands for, is OUT there. i intend to find him. the rest i think, it aint Q of family interest, it is a FEAR. that their women will be ahead, accomplish more, achieve the impossible. conclusion men are XAASID , xaasidna ilaahay ma garabgalo. :rolleyes:

jamaaloos, jiroo joog, jiinkaada la dheel! u have already proved that u are a man of many means. it will take me gu iyo labo xagaa, to summarise all u stand for, however this summs HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAMAAAAAAAAAAAAAL hope u have wonderful day, btw keep cad doolsho ah 4 me. chocolate pls

^^^^^^ i agree with u 100%. we should not demean the role of a mother who makes her kids first priority. its all about a choice. i think whichever way, the kids and their needs should come first. having family means facing responsibility.

well what a good Q. i think i would not mind staying home if that was a necessary thing to do. for example i believe if a woman has a child, she should be with that child first 2 yrs of his/her life. alternatively she could work when her husband has the day off. this ofcouse requires both partners agreeing into some kind of compromise. 2 income is better than one, working wife is also good for the marriage, as bro rudy mentioned, woman need to be stimulated mentally, specially if she is educated and enjoys working, i see no reason why she should not. provided her home, husband and kids dont suffer. so ideally for me, i wont like to give up working, whoever makes most ££££ works most days. so if he works 4days i can do 3. or he does 5 and i do the weekends. when a woman is out of the house, she is more productive when she is back to the house. boredom and repetitive and mundane work such as cookin, cleaning and lookin after kids aint healthy for a woman who had a career before. so if i can have both. will be good now, to mr508. i think u should not reply to this topic, maybe if some1 posted a topic with the title of what do you understand as thou shall not cheat that will be interesting thing. you my dear 508, should try to understand human emotion or the concept if u get caught put yr hands up and say sorry untill yr eyez go green. finally remember always that woman talk. get them together and yr A_Z will be hang like macawis on sunshine. oh oops, sorry, this is not exactly staying on the topic. women have feeling, ambitions, goals. most if not all can do whatever a man can, if not better. so maybe its time for change, and change wont come unless the attitude of our men become more positive. if they allow their women to have all they want for themselves. marriage, home and kids is always a couple effort. read my lips it takes 2

^^^^^^^^ u just mentioned my 3 mottos in life. gee thnx. get ready for shar, qeyr is the bonus

...hadii silac iyo dhib gaaro, samaanteed iyo xumaanteed, warhooy,,,somalia ,,somaali baa leh! i actually hope one day somalia will become somali-wayn again. and our bro/sis in ******ia will win their xarbi against the amxaaro. with every somali's help ofcource amxaaro nama ciisheen. OG_girl, babe always know, regarless of which flag u fly.....maanta jidka waa iga soo qabanee,,,,,that makes u a somali. garab tuujiye, impressive, somalia ha noolaato

i suggest u go to british colombia,,,,,,u got the whole combination, sun, sea, lakes and fantaastiko mountains.

lol at checkmate and garab tuujiye. are u ashamed at yr own failure to act and do something? to protect from the something? iska dhaafa geesi god hoostiis aa la geeyee. j11,,,,,,the truth about u and dawaco :confused: bt its nice so nice, touching, so touching. if only dad aan ogahay could learn a leaf from yr book.

i had no idea, moti was nin-cad my Q is how come every1 else knew? damn its my job to know more than the rest? this does not, i repeat do my rep a justice. HEADS WILL ROLL FOR THIS.bt i be careful of nin cad, since iam thinking of what u think iam not thinking

^^^^^^^^thnx u baby sis. rudy,,,,,,,aamiin aamiin, what a gent, thnx walaalkiis. darman,,,,,,,hahahahahaha mayee sheekada waa taxane, goodthings lagama dhargo, did they not teach u that?there is more, this story will end when some1 we know is back to being among us. meantime i will be full of sabar and wait and wait and wait. damn the future does not look bright. but loveeee,,,,loveeeeee

darman, dont u think u said exactly same thing last year! checkmate + garab tuujiye buhleaaaaaaaase dont rain on my prade. this is not the time to go bck to our ceel-gaab days. have a cake and chill. ina jalaato saying over & out

oooooooooooooh am choking, holding crocodile tear. honestly thnx u all, i really appreciate it.

ouch ouch, ala if only jac could hurt! i guess no need for calaacal.

OG_girl sis, u are so right. thnx 4 teaching me a lesson. u see we must set an example. one rotten apple should mess the whole orchard. so lemme try. qacqaac. bro sorry. iam natural sarcy, bt i will try to contain my excitement. OG,,,,,,thnx babe, again

^^^^^^^^^^ u see walaalkiis, i would never even mention yr name if u left mine alone, so sheekadaaada igala tag inaad dhahdo, is really needless, i didnot bring it to you. adaa soo doonatay. one morething, there is a name for raga haweenka la tirsada. if u cant take it, dont come looking for it. that is friendly advice. moi, marka horaba dadka iskuma taagto.

hihihihihihihihiihh ala jecliyaaaaaa,,,,,checkmate n garab tuujiye on each other's throats. tell me tell me, yaa la rifay? btw dameer iyo doc ka yeerba waa la daan dhabaa that is how it goes