sa wr wb. I accept whoever is capable of bringing a lasting peace to dadka somaliyeed. sadly, the prediction does not look good. i just hope that people realise the nation is tired of the fighting, the hunger and the lack of proper functioning government. when is enough, really enough?

Ngonge, i merely commented on the fact that the men's part of the marriage break up is never discussed. it is always the women who become the 'garoob' it is the women who has stigma attached to her. wherever she goes, pple whisper and she is made to feel like she has failied herself, her family and her future. now, all iam saying is, if there is '***** ' i think its the man who cant keep his family together. and who at the first sign of trouble seeks the simple way out. i still think divorce shower is bad idea!

sa wr wb. its probably not good idea for me to respond to this topic cause it gets my blood cooking. bt i feel i have to for the sake of humanity first of all, our sis who asked for the advice. i dont think its good idea to give her a divorce shower, it will be like celebrating her failure. good or bad, no woman want her marriage to end up in divorce. you see this is one thing somali men get it totally wrong. we pride ourselves with a marriage and hate when it ends in divorce. so to give her a party, will be like putting her on the spot. she will feel uncomfortable and maybe ashamed that her pain and suffering is now public knowledge. so i think you and your other friends should by all means cheer her up. the idea of sending her to her mother is great. maasha allah, boook her spa, and lift her spirit, stay with her or let her stay with you. anything that takes her mind of the divorce. now back to the person who commented on NACASNIMADA. if anyone should be ashamed inuu reerkiisa dumo, it is the man. yes i know what iam saying. its his responsibility to keep his family together. i admit that some women deserve the death penalty, bt nonetheless he should be a MAN and keep it together. ***** waxa ah ninki hal naag dhaqi waayay :mad: i remember this song haduu reer gabagaboobo, gundhigiisana xumaado, waxa gabay aabahood . so my point is, i totally detaste the men meesha afkooda lasoo taagaya wixi xunba xaawa leh. . warhooy, it takes two to tango. adiga iska bilow, what have u done wrong? why has your marriage broken down? instead of passing the buck! yaa rabi cafis, i hope it never happens to you but to those it happens, may allah grant you iimaan and put you thro this harrowing experience. qofki dacwo qaba, ha isoo aado :rolleyes:

sa wr wb, even tho i did not see the original post of garisa, from what i assume is that somalis tend to be xaasid. they put down their fellow country men and women, why i wonder? everyday, at work i see that happen. at the beginning it used to get me angry. when a somali man or woman comes in, and assumes iam a secretary or receptionist. when they request to see an assistance bt they refuse my help tho iam qualified to deal with them. now it does not bother me, i even suggest they make an appointment so that an interpreter can be arranged. sometimes my boss asks me if i can deal with them, bt depending of the attitude of the person infront of me, i say, i can not do it. immigration aint my thing. bt if it is nice person then i do. u see there are advantages of having your own pple working places of interest. for example when u go to indian lawyer, he spends 15 minutes on drafting yr case, a somali will spend a whole day, cause they dont wanna fail you. so why cant we promote each other? why cant we encourage each other? we are minority this county and we must make our mark. honestly, if it was my position, and there was a somali person, who is qualified, and had the necessary skills, i would hire them on the spot and help them gain the expecience they need. everyone does it. why cant we?

sa wr wb, OG moti, u dont need a visa to enter Syria if u posses somali passport, take $30 cash with you, just incase safar salaaama, and goodluck to the thing(woman) u gonna get hitch to. do not worry my brother, once u say I DO, all that fear will disappear, woooooooooosh Og-girl, before he comes to kuweit he gotta bring the bride. comeon girl, open your indho and uri the coffie bean. :rolleyes: goodluck mate, i will make sure to collect wedding gifts from the nomads and send it thro OG-girl be on yr way, shoo shoo

i aint laughing! waxaas ma foorjaa, fajo haku galeee. geedyahoy guudka waynleh, nagala tag laameernimada oo hanagu fiiqin fartaada iyo ciridkaaga faruuran

^^^^^^^^^ and there is no comfort in truth but as said before truth will set u free sxb. fear not, gacan xernaanshaha dhib maleh, remember 4 aa kuu banaane :rolleyes: unless u already aware and took full advantage of yr rights :confused:

i was gonna say maahmaah, lakin way ii gooysay, so am gonna come bck with it after consulting odayaasha waaween feebaro waranbal, i heard you abducted with single mom, astaamaha policeka loo sheegay waxa ka mid ahaa, van 7seater ah yay wadatay, inkastoo 7kids saarnaayeen, feebaro wuxu la fariistay cunuga shirka ku xerxernaa(da baby yacni) so u escaped and u want inaad arabitaro ka noqoto aniga iyo dawoco dhexdeena :rolleyes: :rolleyes: namood, qaati bilaah iyo qadyaan hanagu noqone, idam ale, another van ku dafyay, oo habar kilkilo wayn ku faro xumaysay and loooool@aboo maku sii dhaweeyaa. this oday was at my work, asking why his immigration papers was taking so long. ofcourse i could not tell him, we did not bother to file an appeal, cause his case is on legal aid, nor could we tell him that his whole file has been lost. markas dhahay adeer, telkada reeb waan kusoo wacayaaye, wuxu dhahay, why adeer ii dhahee, abaayo ma anaa wax saas ah kaa ween.5gu hada u bato :eek: ooooh, waxan loo joogin aa sheegid u galay damn :confused: :confused: oh yes, macawista, i cant wait the day our men start wearing macawis and walking jidka and the girls will wear guntiino

and i hate ^^^^^^^^^ over and over again i never loved ya and yr stuck up ways i hate yr me me me attitude i hate your contstant moaning your i deserve everythin on silver plate the fact that u took over the house i hate yr aviator simply hate hate hate oooooooooooops we are in public sorry all :eek: :eek:

- i love macawis wearing guyz - i love somalis been proud and religious - i love those who love to be different - i love challenges - i love what i cant have - i hate raga warka badan - i hate smelly men and women - i hate those who want to be what they not (fake) - i hate women who put down other women-beings - i hate useless competitions - i hate u and u and u and yes YOU - i hated yesterday, dispased today and dread 2morrow

sa wr wb, good Qs sister. control? well a healthy relationship must have a balance, but i agree with you most relationship tend to have one partner having the upper hand over the other. when i say upper hand, i dont mean getting dictated or dominated, i mean, mostly one partner agrees or gives into either the ideas or in extreme cases the demands of the other. ps, most women, myself included do not like a walk-over man(nacamle) . that is just a tip. i would rather prefer as silent sistah said a man who can put me into my place(yareey yac) the age, mmmmmmmm. that is hot spot. younger guys have advantage, they easier to shape older one's mostly come with lugguages, some are emotionally damaged? oooh did i forget, most of older guys have history, if u know what i mean :rolleyes: so i would say, i dont know, each cases must be judged on its merits and no, saqiir tuujis kuma talinayo

sa wr wb, i asked around, bt what exactly are u seeking? any somali written books or specific somali science books? its good thing anyway, insha allah you will find them. i can offer help! how about if i slap Qacqaac for you wash wash :mad: i bet now he is AWAKE :rolleyes:

^^^^^^^^wlc to Mutakalam's fan-club. may you learn many new words and may the dictionary be your most cherished novel iam a fan, iam a fan, iam a fan see this is what i learned, FAN :confused:

subxanalah! :eek: shoobaro waxba ma dhicin, adaa ku danbeeyay macawistee soo badal ps, macawis, i mean the similar, aviator. not the change of the nick, tho i applaud it

subxanalah, ilaahay sharteeda hana agmariyo. what saddens me, is that she can not see that the kufaar is using her. they dont give a toss about her. and this party which she is a memeber of, just wants the publicity. LST, u right, ilaahhabaar waalid naguma rido. tan oo kale waa lagu jano tagayaa

i do not belong any of the above mentioned groups. i have always been a loner. oooh, i think mutakalam is doing damn fine job at resisting the majority. keep it up sxb

sa wr wb, looooooooooooool shoobaro, walee alow noogu celi aa tahay feebaro, qandhadi aa faruuryaha bushbush kaa galisay, lakin kaaro inuu ku dhaxmaray lagu moodaa damn. qacbaro kkkkkkkkkkkkk@how do u kiss it? waraa lick it :rolleyes: if u try to swallow, u might inaad ku margato damn :eek: gediid is good looking huh . lakin shoobaro, AS aa arkatay koow. so waa first come first served, ninka stamp yaa forheadka ka saaran TAKEN :confused:

^^^^^^^^^ i agree. public toilets totally scare me. if u really have to go, then clean before u use it. if not hold it. best thing is to go before u leave home and weesaqaado.

s wr wb, i was told about this site by an old friend. i checked out couple of times and still did not like it much. i though it was quite boring then few months later at the persistence of the same friend(alaha u naxariistee), i tried again and was hooked thnx you Og-Moti. that was the only good deed you have done for me

^^^^^^^^^^^ can i borrow it pls, waxyar bes wareeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeer badanaaaaaa :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

sa wr wb, wali far ku fiiqow maan wadnaa, lemme join hade Ibaro. barasho wanaagsan wlc to the gang may u rule always :confused: yes, that is me, total motherly, i even ask u of yr hooyo and ayeeyo, and those lil kids who live next door see i been cursed with caring attitude. i think yr description was on da spot. boolbaro. pple cant figure you huh. i can only say this. he is all you never imagined him to be :rolleyes: qacqaac. wali malagu keeni layahay :confused: shall i have a go hade

bachelor has proclaimed his treasure(OG_GIRL) lakin now he must change his status weenin badanaa OG girl. ma lafteeda aa booday :eek: . some pple i just cant imagine them :confused: what is happening to me?

sa wr wb, just wanted to comment on the suggestions of send her away? to her relatives :rolleyes: :rolleyes: i dont get it. who is the father of the baby? you are? who is the husband? you are? marka yaa dhibka iskaga dhigaysaa? comeon, dhexdo xero and be a MAN qacbaro, your Qs are good, but i really dont see what the big deal is. waxan dhan named shaqo guri does not take more than 2 hrs and yes that includes even vocuuming the entire bloody house.

baranbaro thnx for the lovely tips abaayo, mixin mayo with whatever wwwwwww :rolleyes: that is amazin. the smell is alright for some, but i and my likes cant tolerate such a stench

looooooooool@baranbaro, ishaa ka tuurtay. your accuracy scares me. i could really use some braiding. my hair is dry and damaged by all the bleashing. infact the other day, i saw AMEENAH and she suggested that there was this exercise that i could benefit from. i always a chubby child. i say its in my genes (ugly duckling) i think baranbaro is like 5'9, tall, creamy skinned, dark hair and nice long legs. stylish girl. ooooh oooooh i think she is the kind of person who knows her worth and never makes the mistake of letting the others forget that she is all that