moti, u dont like the joke about the teacher duuuuuuuuuh because YOU is a teacher

^^^^^^it is pure torture

nice advise girls, most of us have different metabolism, so what works for heblaayo might not work for you. the key is be persistant and try to fit in upto an hour exercise each day. personally, i have not seen inside a gym since high school and i dont think i will go there whilst am still sane but this i found helpful, swimming, girls it really helps tone yr body. once or twice a week can really make a different. i also found walking really good, try to get off the train or bus, two stops before work/school and walk, you will be suprised at how energatic you will become. keep drinking girls, water water water, cut the coke and fizzy drinks, morning OJ helps yr digestive system. nafta, the body brushing is great, keep the dead skin off, and moistarise before bed and after shower. xafza, congrats on your baby girl, i would say give yourself time, do not push your body. walking with yr baby is wonderful way of getting fit. exercise lightly sis. now how do u get rid of fat bellies? and oversized bum :confused:

^^^ dont give up so easily. find nomads who live near you, contact them and give them possible dates, you will be suprised it is always easier to start arranging a meet up with few pple, depending on the reaction and of course the outcome,,,,,meesha ka sii wad

^^^^^^^^ agree, kindness and respect is best policy. treat them like strangers and all you recieve will be hostility

nice link baashi and wlc back yaaqey, we miss goows caqliyeedkaadi

^^^^ quuq makaseee truely funky, i cant wait next episode, j11 joke sheegaa kumalahoo :confused: ps, nuune waa wacdiyaa lakin luuqyaha

allah, hibo balaayo ma qabto, mushakal sidey iskugu wadey yaa labadi daamood barareen she has indeed too many friends, and has been receiving offers left n right. marka waxba yaan loo jixin jixin, meeshi lagu arko haraanti halaga dabo geeeyo i agree with animal farm, weed does wonders, few puffs and the world is yr oyser :rolleyes: anyone,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i got a spare joint!

sister, as WOL said, pray to allah. personally i wont advise you to break yr promise, remember balan la aan waa diin la aan . marriage wont stop you earning your degree and fulfulling your ambitions. if he promises to help you all the way, then go for it. it is DOABLE. goodluck sis. marriage itself is blessing.

sa wr wb, yes brother there are control freak mothers, mothers who cant let go of their sons/daughter and feel that they have lost the grip they had on their child's life. this of course is natural reaction, and one should respond towards the parent(waalid) with sensitivity, and show them kindness. i think the best way to deal with them is to get them involved. ask their opinion, show them respect, dont see her as a mother-in-law, bt see her what she actually is A Mother . a great friend of mine once told me, how she dealt with her mother in law, she said i made sure she knew i was her daughter too, by making my home, her home too and now her mother in law is her best ally and friend. dhib la aan bay ku dhashay, marka ha dhibsan waa hooyadaa oo kale eh

Fidel..that was good of you. quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I wonder where the edit/delete happy moderators have all gone off to. They are usually very prompt in making sure everyone follows the rules and all -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- why haven't sol rules been upheld so far? Unless one set of rules apply to some and a total set are reserved for others, of course -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Intresting though, that other topics are immidiately edited at the hint of an attack, but this one has been left in tact. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Such petty digs are neither clever nor useful. The Mods have lives outside of SOL. Clearly, we can't be here all the time. I really don’t see how fidel’s remarks are good job, and dawaco's referred as pettyful. One stated fact, the other tried to create an argument. Call a spade spade and let the ‘dhago hadal’ stop here and now. We all have lives outside sol and this is neither productive nor good picture of our characters. And you fidel, dawaco is more than your match, so I wont even bother with your likes. Clearly you get a kick out of making things worse, and starting yet another war of words.

:rolleyes: walee indhaha wacwac, waligey ma maqlin eraygaan, marka wax baa laga kororsan. suaalyar, tuujiye muxuu ku keenay, nuunase maxaa barey :confused:

^^^^^^yes for every penny, or bloody benefit cheque he has :rolleyes: ka adkaaw gacantaada saaxiib! btw, moti u have nice eyez

^^^^^^^^ you look lovely when u smile sis! sorry about the get away holiday

indeed i rise nice poem sis

^^^^^^^^walee iskuma kaa tataabto me like my lil naf. ps hibo sorry for logging off babes, u know meel ma fadhi kari, marka warka igu boob before aan kaa buubin

leeeeeeeeeee, waraa maxaa waaye beefkaan, ani dhan hada beef igu dhacay cause i am veggie but on serious note, beefkaa kala ah, beef bilaa maraq, beef with milix, which one is it aniga koleyba, beefkaan meel uga soo dhacay ma ogi, cant remember how it started, bt somehow my rebelling old ways aa ii keenay nooh :mad: if i giggled and did the right nacam nacam nacam, i would have been best friend ever nooh, tho it is never too late for some mmmmm. naftaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, meest dromen zijn bedrog, maar als ik wekker werd naast jouw dan droom ik nog, ik voel je adam ik zie je gezicht. shumiskaan badan dhaaf yarta. tuujiska xaaji yaa kaa xanaajiyay abaaba, hibo miyaana, mise dawo aa babis kugu garaacdey :rolleyes:

^^^^^^^^^sanbuus village ka waran?

labo qof la isku diro, rufiyaanimo, iyo war kala qaad, walee wax idinka soo galaa aa iska yar.i say this place (sol) is big enuff to house all kind and sorts. raac qofki dabeecadada kugu darto. af daboolan dahab

salaams all, i think this topic started with the best of intentions, ukhti muslimah, og-girl, rayaana and haddad all posted what islam says about dating. it is HARAM, we all know that. pure and simple. please dont rationalise our human-weaknesses, may allah forgive us for our sins. we not angels, we make mistakes, sometimes unintentionally. i was saddened to see og-girl and hibo disagreeing, and all in public, gabdho u better than that, hibo u are wrong to say what u said bt i accept it was misunderstanding and u did not mean it. glad u apologised and og girl accepted it. alxamdulilah. may allah show us the right path, cafis iyo masaabax, iska naara shaydaanka

^^^ in ideal world, qabiil shont matter, bt when u tell yr family u are about to get hitched first thing they ask is naa ninku waa kuma? meaning reerka uu ka dhashay, i say qabiil shont be ugly, bt it is indeed ugly. hibo i say good job, lakin i am worried the bit about the confidentiality ?

congrats duke, may allah bless yr new home aameen

^^^^^^^^^^you killed another dooli(rat) did u not? :rolleyes:

happy 200 posts animal farm before u know u will be pushing the 2000 post, yaaqey enjoy nooh

quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by dawoco: Achetlijk bilaa achterlijk iga dheh. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Of course you know this means war! To those who can't be bothered googling, "achterlijk" means backward jaahil. Funny though how Fidel jumped to the conclusion that it was refering to him and no one else. Sounds like nin wax isku og. For future reference, please practise what you preach and refrain from adressing me, for I don't like wasting comments on childish, attention-seeking individuals. ps: This time I have decided to be civil, but make sure there isn't a next time...