Queen A, please dont rush yourself about marriage and stop being so nice. being a bridemaid should be reserved for very very close family (siblings) and friends. your time will come and the farax that would end up disappointing you is ever so close insha allah kheyr

CH you are missing the point hon, it is not matter of being stingy, it is whose responsibility is it? as i said a lady is free contribute if she wishes, but waa odayga howshiisa magaratay? you dont want your husband to say xaliimo you ate nuskilo bariis ah yesterday marka soo £10 soo bood do you? lol@resistance

hello ibti, hope you having little bit of fun, take besbaas for the stalker.

ninyow adigu isku taag ookiyaal my point is, if both husband and wife work, cooking shont be an issue qofkii soo hormarta haku tuurto, otherwise take aways will do sounds fair to me no ps: every woman likes to spoil her husband, it is a choice not an obligation magaratay.

why that is the somali obligatory diet no? in your case it would be dusty sabayad and chewy hilib geel

Val usheeg gabdhan suuraha la bararsan. it is important for a wife to keep respect for her hubby, traditionally husband pays for the bills, grocery shopping etc keep the balance healthy ladies, hadii kale confuse ka dhig ninka hadhowna complain

morningggggggggggggggggggggggggggg. i miss ibti, my co-cakelover. feel excited bal aan lily email kutuuro

malika and CH yaab leedihin joint account for WHAT? and why secracy bal? there is one rule to sustain the structure of happy somali family. the family uses and survives on whatever the husband earns. the wife's earning is for the extras oo kaliya. i can understand malika's calool jilec being her sujuiness lakin CH, runtii

budget maaloo baahanyahay? the whole idea of budgeting waa idhaaftay aniga earn and spend:)

eeh prepare for may exams:( it is only 2 wednesdays so will probably sleep

malika and CH, cooking rubac baasto ah really is not the issue but as you have outlines above, couples must decide what family model they should follow. if wife is at home, cooking, cleaning, ironing waxay uga dhex bixi within 2 hours, plenty of time for her fav tv-show etc or even looking after the kids lakin she does 50 hours and i want 4 course meal. war orod aabahaa hakuu soo gado jaariyad :mad:

hello aaliyah and lily. did you know many of uk somali community have mental health problems, well at least that is what their medical records say. once it is in the system, it will follow you around, not really worth it if your reasons are to get a council house or to get out of signing. just found it is easter break, 2 weeks no classes yippieeeeeeee

i will assume this is all is-tus-tus. will wait for the married ladies to response lakin waxan idin dhihi lahaa alle kuuma keenin adunkan inad jiko kujirto 24/7 and if both husband and wife work, sometimes take away soo qabo wey dhici. obviously if he can afford it and you can stay home all day, the least you can do is cook him bariis qarax ah and suugo saliid badan

well next time i go anywhere waamo/southall baan soo firin. if you can bear the pain you can sue him you know:) and close him down although islaamaha jinku kuwado jiro eyku dili doonan.

not sure if it is correct but nin aan kuu furidoonin yuusan kuu rarin. for ngonge's understanding dont listen to che, he wants you to join the dhaxan-qaaday brigade

not sure whether run mise been the infamous wadaad is none other than cumar dhuule's son. che...xabadna ee xaa heysaa adiga ma ii raydaa?

lool malika meelahas oo kale danbi baaba laga qaadaya, that wadaad is asking for trouble legally runtii. choking someone or beating them with sticks oh well. hello val, hello che

malike no what happened? i know wadaad baa dagan dadka garaaca or even choke in his attempt to get the jinns out. anigu waxaas qurafad baan u arkaa, if you see qof isku buuqa, they have too much time in their hands, simply getting a job will help maybe i should keep this to myself, it lost me a dear friend cause i found it hard to believe the jinns dictate her life to the point guriga isku soo xerto boodhshit

you must resist the illegal occupation of sheydaan in your qalbi sxb. hadii kale faqi buraale halaga tumo.

and only ngonge would know about it morning folks, bal warama?

i would lakin meelkasta quful bey saareen

ni99a & Gone-Gay :eek: bisinka

hello GG ngonge aniga iyo cagta jamac 3 beynu kala tirsanaa:) for the life of me i dont know how to af-jilcis or casriyeyn it maybe you could expand the amount of xarfo you know.

lol@malika Ngonge either adigaa wax kaa qaldan yihin or i am mad. Apart from being southerner i speak pure somali. marka waxad soo wado iyo wabiga yaa weyn.

any somali speakers? ngonge makuu sheegayo cagmadhige soo weydii