allowing a man inuu ku qariyo waxa ka roon inaad isduugto adoo nool he should be honored and delighted to be seen within 10miles radius of your presence, but then again every rule has its exceptions (abtigiis & xaashi)

well sofar your deeqsinimo to help him seek a bride isagoo sida u falfalxun maadan explain gareyn, which makes me wonder if he is a member uu kugu waalay kaalay iraac or worse you went along as a bet. now is it kaniini mise cirbad? or combination of both

malika i will not be suprised ninka waalan haduu meeshan ka tirsanyahay this place is heaving with wax kaniini kuwada socda

hadal haan ma buuxshee inteenan meesha soo tuban maxaan ka yeelnaa? there should be an sol-pot to help others no?

^^ waraa dont be xaasid humming, now you sit sidii martii sharaf leh and wait for that shaah to come along any day! where is kabalyeerigiii meelaha ordayay?

Faheema, the mere mention of insurance company dhiiga igu karaa now! waa vultures dhiigyo cab ah, aniga iyo iyaga dagaalkii aduunka naga dhaxeeya, they can take your money but ahem not provide services. oh well Malika, i have recently went to mother of dirac stores, and waxa socda wax qafiif ah oo aad moodo xuub-caaro (see-thro) with thousands of shimmery kuulo. alternatively waxa socda bac-weyn aad ku dhax dhacayso oo aad moodo jalfo-jalfo with xariir garbasaaro! can you not raid your bags and wear vintage instead, will save you £££

lol 2010 was good year for you ngonge, you finally managed to tell apart iyada from isaga. Blessed wasaqa inla siiyo gabar maba aheyn, waxase taa ka daran Ngonge being his best mate

i got it now, blessed baa iisheegtay, it was lost in lahjad ya'know, ma goodh saayis baan waligey maqlay! oh well lets leave it wuxu waa wasaq! by the way maxaa loo waayay afar xaasle happy ah oo aan raadineyn place to sleep every so often?

i did not get that! you mean he commented on the size of the bride? iyo waliba shafkeeda? wasaq dheh

Of course you are not serious, just tad qafiif here and there wont do any harm would it? statistically speaking, xaliimo tends to be more good looking then faarax? then why is that faarax lagu ibtileeyay indho wareegbadan this is matter of iimaan no? iimaanka allaha noo sugo aamin dheh

Abtigiis meeshan booto ku hayaa, men like him wala yaqaan ee iga dhaaf, yacni waa baari dhago nugul, sadly he is here to fulfil his bravado antics iley guriga inuu caano madaadsho noqdaa laga rabaye instead of calool xumo why not find qalanjo qoor dheer to begin with and spare xaliimo xuux (that is if qalanjo would like to be snapped anywhere near you)? waves@blessed

loool, your quraan saar is on me, waa dhamaatay bes!! ps: when it comes to sisters saaxiib i am highly qualified (limited beel) unlike you oo dumarkoo dhan u arka mindless hilib geed saaran! qado time

not true yaa sheikh absolutely not true! in the sense hadii reerku yahay normal in my world sisters want the best for one another, i would be overjoyed if my sister netted bigger and better fish. waa xay jealousyga aad sheegaysid. in fact a sister would go 1000 miles to make sure her younger/older sister even has bigger/better wedding. why would you want your sister nin ey xitaa maalin fiirisay? mise sheekadii rag somali wala wayay baad wadaaa oo inta joogta hala kumi kumiyeysto?

raga dont know us women walee.........sisters normally are very protective over each other and very critical of each others choice of husband. marka waa natural ineysanba ka helin futurue husbandka lala soo shirtagay. i am baffled you lot suggesting iney eye-gareyneyso but all is fair in Abtigiis's world

yaa ku dhahay ta yar is always more appealing? and why do the marriages you mentioned have shelf-lives of 3-4 years unless i am missing something? can we conclude ta yar qeyr malahan since guurkeedu 4jir uusan daafin?

I can imagine the family saying ta weyn waa iney guursataa first and asking the younger one to wait lakin macquul ilama aha offering the guy ta weyn! comeon somalidu dhaqankooda sharaf baa ku jirta iyo the usual isla-weyni

soo dhaaf walaashiis

Ismalura, you can prepare as much as you like and date (get to know a person as much as you like) but believe me things change for good or worse once you get married sister. i am only trying to be honest with you here by all means finish your education, get healthy bank balance etc ( i would even recommend it ) but the challenges remain there and the obstacles come one after another. as blessed said with patience and determination waxkasta waala hagaajin karaa. marka my little darling sisters, dont focus on the negatives, i promise being married would not be a hinderance as long as you are a wholesome person and know what you want to do with your life, husband, children. having said that, i would personally like my own sister to finish her education, get a job, do bit of travelling before settling down. certain things should be done with so a lady can concentrate with important things such as rearing children. aaheey bal qeyr allaha ka dhigo gabdho. i hope you find your dream man insha allah and once you do shackle him to the kitchen

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there is only so much preparation you can do before getting married. the issue here is, when you meet a person, fall in love with him/her, you will normally see their best bits. the real knowing is after marriage hadaad runta rabtaan, insha allah ilaah balaayo idinma tuso balse no amount of prep and contingency plans will prepare you, you just take each day as it comes with alot of niyad wanaagsan, determination and faith in allah and in each other. responsbilitiga is sidi qof walba lagu abaabiyo oo sometimes you see 50 year old with caqli lixsaac ah. the success or doom of a marriage is not pre-determined based on factors such as education, well paid jobs etc. it all depends on what the couple mean to achieve with their lives. anigu koleyba sidaa bey ila tahay. if two people are not in for long haul hade simple and trivial things can cause a break down.

lol@blessed. ma maqashay yow sheega ya ogeysiiya alla yow sheega With all the planning and prioritising.....one must know tii alle qore uunbaa socon. be 17 or 37, relationships is hard work. Guurka iyo shaqada iyo shahaadada maxaa isku xeray? i know people who are more committed to their careers now whilst married then they were at 22. I know mother of 7 with a 3 day demandful job and very happy. Point i am trying to make is, whether you marry ready or rushed, there comes a time you feel getting your bags, there comes massive arguments but also many blessings and jacayl. Marriage is what it is a marriage, no more no less and depands how two people manage their affairs. I strongly believe marriage is not a hinderance but rather helpful tool to succeed aduun iyo aaqiraba. caveat emptor applies here...indhahaada oo shanta ah guurso and be ready for all the suprises it comes with, hadii kale iska dhaafoo dantaada ka raaco.

salaam aleykum all, bal warama? ma hurdaa lagu kala maqanyahay. I really like working during the holidays, waa soo quite shhhhhhhhsh

i cant help but think if only A & T's energy was diverted to.......... carry on bal, anigu next to blessed baan dhigtay ganbarta

happy new year all and JB

i think it is unfair sayid inuu baacbaacsado ngonge i mean the guy haduu af-barad yahay give him a chance. Malika, maraq ari oo liin iyo filfil leh sameyso