Juxa

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  1. Ayoub, think of minimum of 21 year in jail, is xaliimo really worth throwing your life away? now walk away from the buris/hammer and 3deeda maqashii
  2. well demand dufanta inagana wax naga soo gaarsii bal since aan kuu duceyno endlessly hi norf with camal, bal ii waran?
  3. JB i hope it is promotion. Faheema yes, buluug monday kulahaa, just the one? aniga gees dhan roob iga da'ay but alhamdulilah
  4. morning lady Faheema, wax cusub malahan except raxmad alle and roobkii aduunka how is you? did you get in ok
  5. ^^ being a faarax you probably wont be able to;) you see it is within your genes to disappoint (kidding) if you bring the dosh waa iney iyaduna digsi bariis ah oo saliid badan, designed to elevate your cholestrol, dhiigkar and send you to an early grave kuu walaaqdaa. khalaas
  6. subxanallah, wife-killing way ku soo badatay somalida dhexdeeda. malika i heard that story, is it in your town? did the lady leave family, kids anything? so sad
  7. I doubt many would write here and claim waxaan ahay jaad-cune ( at least i hope not) let me pain you a picture of typical jaad-cune in the UK, a smelly male, with no teeth (or worse rotten teeth) uu jirkuusa tixri kudhashay and if he walks past you aad moodo inuu 10 years windowless jail kasoo baxay. He would probably approach you early in the morning and demand that you give him £2 for the bus fare! carry on balse i hope you find away to kick that horrible addiction
  8. Yes blessed hadii aad guri council soo dhacsan laheyd saacadan ijaar baad gashan laheyd and the rest:) I think it is even good for the marriage inuu qofkasta masuuliyadiisa kasoo baxo, subixi la shaqo tago ama iskool la aado. not to mention good for caruurta developmentigooda as hooyo screams less.
  9. lol@blessed, glad i am not the only one feeling bitterness towards the scroungers. Ever been to a gathering or aroos where you are branded doqon having being in this country for years and not secured council house. or looking skinny and unsighty because you are too doqon inaad iska qabowsatid oo ceyrtaada qaadatid. UK will benefit no ceyr system unless you had very young kids, or were elder widow, pensioner or disabled. Our community need to restore sharafteena
  10. KK and Malika aniga koleyba kuma jiro sheekadas! Only yesterday during a training baa (aniga iyo mid kurdi ah) loo digey about dadka qaarkood willing to make you accomplice about fraudalant claims and odaygii basada cadaa kept repeating it is your practising certificate ee iska jir dadkaa, i wonder why uu anaga uun noo soo fiirinayay sheemaha
  11. greedy so and so, hadii aad baahantahay there is the kitchen but you will need to earn £££ to buy the grocery with
  12. xaaraanta laguma naaxo contrary to public belief! qaac iyo kuleyl baa laga qaadaa and the shame of being caught! horta somalidu badankood 4 been ah isma daba dhigi karaan, xasuus la aan daradeed iyaga uunbaa kala hadlaya
  13. Bob malika warka ey qortay sifiican u aqri...more than the eye meets waaye what i said was actually what the reasonable Me would say, that mode off haduu waxkarin yaqaano ma shahaado sharaf baan siiyaa, isaga bey ufiicantahay. ps: just ate an assortment of cakes and pastries:)
  14. Bob if i may inaan kugu darsado, from what i have seen there is massive lack of male presence in our community. dhaliishu ma ahan towards the fathers only but also to abtiyo, adeero and cousins. Boys above age 14 cant be expected iney guri ku xernaadaan and need more than hooyo's macaan is able to give
  15. Bob well said. there is glimmer of hope tho. waxkasta doom and gloom maaha, nin tuur lehna siduu useexda isaga yaqaan, marka oday walba islaantiisa wuu dhaqan if he wants to remain married balse is-afgarawaaga waxa keenay waa inability to be honest to one another and to explain what you expect from each other. now let me start I Xaliimo wish you faarax to be able to have the following basic things: - A job and income (regardless of my own income) - Able to sustain the family and get us out of the humiliating Ceyr - Be present and make regular contribution to the family life ( ie active involvement with the kids, attendance in parents evening etc. - Be attentive to me and not take me for granted - Communicate, i am not your biibito friend or your ina adeer (Make effort and find interest in whatever the hell i am interested in that month) i reiterate what Bob said, Love is being married to Aboowe Macaan.
  16. Breathe bobby breathe! i agree with you. caruurtii gaajo iyo pocket money la aan baa iskugu darsantay, but lets not deny the few good parents. har iyo habeen iskuulki iyo dugsi quraanka taagan
  17. hon we do have our share of reer north america, fleeing the lack of lacag. be it reer canada oo lacag badsad ah, iyo reer america oo shaqo ka carar ah
  18. lol@showqi somalidu uma arkaan beenta loo sheegayo according to them GAALKA iney danbi tahay.
  19. ^^ you lot are asking for the moon markaa
  20. Abtigiies, the reasonable me accepts that there were victims of rape in the civil war, i have seen one where a medical expert gave horrific account after examining her in immigration tribunal, so i belief there are victims lakin intooda kale, lets say they are the reasons i would never do immigration law, yacni sixun irsaaqad laguma doono specially when it is not necessary. as for benefit cheats, i feel sorry for them, many are capable of shaqo, war hadaad jidka soo xaaqdo you shall earn more than ceyrta ku siiso per week. the only issue i can think of is guryaha oo qaali ah, but once you get council house, you can get to work and earn, set good example for your kids
  21. I agree with GD. in the west waa inla qaataa the habit of helping one another, be it in the house or outside. Men and women should make equal contribution to the family life. contribution ma ahan lacag kaliya. having a stay-in wife taking care of the children and the home is also great sacrifice. men should accept and respect that their guri-joogto wife is working around the clock, taking care of his 10kids. If a lady is able she too should have a JOB, part time or full time, if you have kids try to work on weekends even for one day a week. If she does not have kids, then she should work, maxay guriga ka qabaneysaa? I dont like dumarka qeyliya har iyo habeen, there are other effective methods marka employ it. In my opinion if men want WHATEVER the hell they want, then they should roll their sleeves and be the men their fathers and grandfathers were. iska dhaaf isku haleenta and assume your Responsibility, accept that the responsibility of providing for the family is yours and yours alone. Ha batnaato, ha yaraato, bring in the bread, ka adkaaw caruurta dharkooda iyo cunadooda Everything else waa barako, so if your wife studies, works or is in business she is doing to support you, appreaciate it Calaacal is so off-putting, get on with it waryaaaaaaaaaaaa And us women of course should be supporting, encouraging and when he is feeling childish we should beat him with the babis for the baby he is.
  22. wsalaam and bisinka to your sheeko. bal isjir oo dagaalka badan iska dhaaf
  23. Each and everyone of us knows atleast dozen that move from other European country and do is-dhiibid here. Very unnecessary most of the time. you could easily stay over with your own sharci and collect whatever ceyr is going legally. this double or triple is dhiibid is nothing but iimaan-la-aan. i feel sorry for the children.