c-batchelor, intee ku cuncuneeso adiga. Anyway, to me I am not gonna deny, looks do matter to me, but not as much as diin. u know qof la fiirin karo ha ahaado. peace.

loool@c-bachelor i wasnt talking about you. U asked me if the guy proposed to me and i was answering you, looooooooooool. why would I think u proposed tome. ahah. peace.

Salams to all. I didnt have the chance to read some of ya's writing, am pretty sure it is full of good stuff, but hey sorry specially to continental bachelor. I caught one question from c-bachelor and it was if he asked me to marry him, I didnt mention that anywhere in my posts. Besides, whats wrong with not like a person? I mean u people do have feelings you know, ther are people you just cant see urself with. God, I feel like I have to defend maself,lol. Anyway, I think a LOT of ppl jumped to the conclusion that I was rude to the guy and offered me the suggestion, "What goes saround comes around" I think I mentioned it b4, I am not that kind of person and I believe i have also metiioned that I was only rude to the guy when he wouldnt respect ma wish which am pretty sure ya'all are familiar with by now. peace

Listen Qac Qac, the thing is I know that what goes around comes around and I believe I mentioned b4 that I was never harsh with him in the beginning. I only got harsh when he wouldnt stop asking me why I dont like him and I just had to tell the truth straight up. AND trust me aboowe, the part about men getting married back home, that dont bother me and anyone I know of, for starters, I dont wanna brag, but I am young and I have a lot of time insha'Allah to shop around and find me a husband, so get that through your head okeeey. besides qof walbo wuxuu Allah u qoro inbuu heli!!!!!! and when I talked about guys going back to marry, I was refering to the fact that IT is easier for them to marry someone they dont luv. Oh yeah, looks shouldnt be "that" important, but I believe (am not sure) I heard somewhere in the religion that looks should also be one of the qualities to choose when looking for someone to marry, I dont know if this only applies to when choosing a wife, so for you guys who love to run to correct me, I said am not sure of it. Asaaaaaaaaaaaalamu Aleykum!!!!

lol@moti, I aint got time to talk about ur issues. Anyway, everybody else, I think it is easier for a guy to be with someone he doesnt love, look at the majority of men who go back home and marry. Now I know Moti is gonna start talking about how our parents married and how they came to love each other and all, but the thing is they didnt have the choice to marry whoever they wanted, but we do. and as Safialuul said, u gotta feel excitement when you see the person you love. Thanks Bee, you are right about that. Peace.

thx girl, u are right about that.

It sure was cold yesterday, acuudu. On top of that, I had to take ma driver license exam yesterday, I FAILED it :mad: . that was kinda sad. anyway, good luck with the snow all mn ppl. I wont get out of ma house until the 20th insha'allah, am I glad school is out. Asalaamu aleykum.

Nafta, if u must know yeah, me is in that kinda situation. Anyway, it is just that I have no desire no interst like I said b4 for this guy, war hedhe I told him many times, aint nuting ever gonne BE between us. A few months later he is back asking me the same question and the funny thing is that I have told him straight out that "I aint attracted to you, let alone have a future with you" How harsh can I be? He keeps repeating, that he will just wait for me to change ma mind someday and the question is, when will that be? coz I am pretty sure I aint gonna change ma mind anytime soon. Anyay, xiddig, I agree with you, but friends are different, I mean you see you had time to get to know them thats why it is not that hard. asalaamu aleykum!!!

thx both of ya for ur inputs. I guess I would probably feel sorry for them, but that wouldnt mean I would start something wit them out of sympathy. Anyway, peace.

Asalaamu aleykum What if there was a person who loves you dearly, who is educated,and is willing to go an extra mile for you............. > > > ...........but you had no interest whatsoever in them, how would you deal with that? How would you folks out there deal with these kinda situations?, I mean sometimes it is usually easy to say no thanks, but what good would it do if the person keeps insisting that maybe in time you will grow to luv them. anyway, hope to hear ur opinions on this!!!! Asalaamu aleykum.....

go to africa in the summer insha'alllah and see ma hooyo, cant wait. For now, get better grades in ma 1st year of uni. Get closer to Allah and I went back to dugsi so I am hoping i wont stop going there Insha;allah. Asalaamu aleykum.

Eid-ul-fitr a day spent with family a muslim thing for sure for a friend of mine it was another day to endure just till the partying starts 30 days of ajir lost it all in one night like a flier at the masjid with a message so important not a lot of people had the courage to read it so easy to drop and leave for the truth does hurt "are you going to waste 30 days of ajir for just one night" That was the message on the flier but sure enough, the next night many were dancing the night away!!!

Asalaamu aleykum, I havent replayed for so long, but I had to today, cuz I really liked your poem. It was worth replaying to anyway. keep it up. Ramadan Kariim.

I usually drink Mello-Yello. I drink it everyday, kinda addicted now to the point everybody calls me Miss Mello. I try not to drink it, but it is usually tap water or Mello-yello. peace.

Sure, I wouldn't mind, but it wouldnt make any differnce cuz i will still be young when am done wit college.

najmah_03>>>>>Maryan

lol@mma. I think she meant it as in year 11 in H.School or a junior. Anyway, abaay cagaha wax kaday. Dhiskastin ish. Tell her to fack off, n what do u mean u was cool wit it. Tell her to never come close to u or else......u will beat her up, say whatever u want, just make sure she dont come close to u again.

....thats nice. good 4 him, hope he continues on this path insha'allah. that kinda made me cry, cuz i realize there are a lot out there wit the same story, only they dont really get better like he did. illah kuligood ha ugargaaro!!! peace.

"I am going to kill you No no am just khidding" loooool.

I go to Shaafic Mosques, Cedar, Minneapolis. Usually has nice maxaadarooyin and I luv it on Ramadan, tahajudka. peace.

yeah it feels better after. but u shoulda seen how it happened, afka dhaxdiisa aa lagaa gubi, and me tryna to eat, not a good combination!!! But then Iam thinking dalqada part must be painful. peace.

:mad: DHISKASTIN

loooooool thats funy and so true flying...

I had ma qanjiro burned cuz they used to hurt like hell and dang, I was in critical condition after I had it burned. I remember I vomited blood for a whole day cuz i drank cold water when i ran out of hot water That was some crazy stuff. But ma qanjiro stopped hurting after the burns. Funny stuff :eek: peace.

26- Ar-Raoof THE COMPASSIONATE ~~~~~ Allah is Compassionate because He is full of kindness and mercy. One should try to be pure in thought and in action, and it is only through the kindness of Allah that purity will remain spotless, because He hears all prayers and knows all temptations we as humans have to face. It is a beautiful name.