Bismillah, The problem is an old one.. It is the fact that immigrants are always looked at in a different way. It is not necessarily true that Immigrants or Somalis for that matter are a burden on the so-called system. However what we see is that there is an increasing negative attitude among European-Americans or Europeans towards immigrants by large in the aftermath of Spetember 11. In conclusion it appears that the western media make use of weeping generalisations as far as immigrants are concerned. Peace!

Asslamu Alaikum all, I think we have to distinguish between two things, namely: Whether it is wron or right to date with a younger/older person respectively, or what we find about that. Simply put there is nothing wrong with that according to our beloved Koran and Sunnah. What we find about that is rather not of much importance if we are true moslims. However no one is forced to date with older or younger person. Thank Allah we have the freedom to CHOOSE..maashaa Allah. Wassalaam.