salaamu calaykum. Althought the statement is true but somalian ppl has been through a lot 4 last 12 yrs and when they came to the quba most ppl who had wonderful life at back home has to start from scratch. Those men who are the bread winner and educated has to learn new language and culture etc etc.. So most of men , they choose factory work or unskill jobs as they left their families back home and they need to support them. Also most of western countries support women and children but do n't support the men. For exmaple in the UK, women and children gets income support and child support and house. While men or young women have to sing in every 2 weeks and they get less support from the government. It is hard to work and study at the same time. Anyway that is what I think others may have different opinions. salaam.

salaamu calaykum I think film was rafaad iyo raaxo. And the 2nd one may be cilm iyo caado although I am not sure if cilmi iyo caado was made as film as well. I known cilm iyo caado was rewaayad. salaam

salaamu calaykum. Shaqsii thanks bro that means lot to me u have accepted my apology. thanks again. looooooooooooooool mujahid! I have no problem sharing with another sisters since u fr B/Place and I am fr 10 Downing St. BUT how came I am not the 1st. Sorry bro I do not want to the 3nd so I think u should think again. While u can as there pentily fishes in the sea. loooooooooooooool salaamu calaykum.

SALAAMU CALAYKUM. I just want to apologse to C/-cutie. M/Deeq, Lakkad, Shaqsii, Q/Storm and Taqwa, for mathing to f 2 f and m 2 m.soooooooooooooooooooooooooooorrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyy Sorry guys I was in rush so I ONLY math the names that came to my mind. I was busy so I didn't the time to apoloyzice. Anyway I hope u expected my deepest apology. Cushtic_Cutie ------- Lakkad Maandeeq --------- Taqwa Shaqsii ----------- mag/girl Q storm ----------- sthlm lady

salaamu calaykum. well, I am already British citizen, the reason i obtain the passport is to travel as u do n't required visa most of the other counties. also for education and work as they give btitish citizens priority. If Somalia rebuild again insha allah, I will retured the citizenship and the passport. however I will always be somalia citizen no matter what passport I have. Still when I am fill forms and they ask what is u nationality? I answer Somali, I never answer that I am british citizen. SALAAMU CALAYKUM.

salaamu calaykum warax matullahi wabarkaatuhu. In the name of ALLLAH The most Beneficent, The most Merciful. Always fear Allah; he knows what is in men’s Hearts. Be kind to those who are under you and treat them well. Give brief directions; directions that are longer are likely to be forgotten. Improve your own conduct before asking others to improve theirs. Honour the enemy’s envoy Maintain the secrecy of your plans. Always speak the truth, so that you get the right advise Consult your men when you are free to do so; this will develop participation. Take suitable measures to keep a watch on the army. Be sincere to all with whom you deal Give up cowardice and dishonesty. Give up bad company salaamu calaykum.

salaamu calaykum all! I went 2 East Bershire College, Langley UK, Major Health and social care. That was 2 yrs ago. Now I am plaining 2 go to King's College London, Major Bsc degree Nursing which 3 yrs course. insha allah. salaam.

salaamu calaykum all! I went 2 East Bershire College, Langley UK, Major Health and social care. That was 2 yrs ago. Now I am plaining 2 go to King's College London, Major Bsc degree Nursing which 3 yrs course. insha allah. salaam.

salaamu calaykum warax matullahi wabarakaatuhu. my favourites islamic web sites are: www.Al-muslim.org www.my-muslim network.net www.alqurbaa.com www.boqolsoon.com www.thetruereligion.org www.islamcity.com www.islamway.com www.islam.com salaamu calaykum.

well, my list are as following: someone match me with mujhadi looooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOl. I wonder why??????????? Ladyfaduma will wall MCC San yare Lulla Jamaal 11 maandeeq cushtic runaway v yacquub alisomali indgdeeq shaqsii quite s x play exdane mobb d rock's chic taqwa lakkad mataan ilhaam college g miskiim macruuf hibo cilmi ameenah farah petite drromatic.

ok shaqsii, loooooooooool setup! :cool: who do u have in mind then? can we have yr list that u think we will match? salaam.

adting!well, we all know that dating is forbidden but so as so many other things. as u said in the western world they promote and ecourage dating or mixing of males and females. but ppl used dated back home, many ppl only date because they want 2 find out more @ this person as they want 2 settle and have good married life although it does not happen like that. i have dated so many times and my family knew @ although they did n't like. it has so many different effect either pos or neg. but that depent on u date; when u young and there are peer presure u may end up comminting sin. but as u grow up ur more able to stop u self comminting sin. althought is difficult as our Prophet SCW said " meesha ay nin & naag ay kali kunoqdaan waxaa wahaliya shaydaan". now i don't date, any guy who want 2 relationship must came 2 house and talk 2 me there with the present of my mum or brother, as i am trying to follow rules of our diin. and it is working very well. al xamdu lilaah. salaam.

well og-moti, anything is possible in this life, so it happens nowdays ppl finding love throught the net. some do end up getting married, others do n't get that far. some ppl get very bad experiences other do not. as u know nothing as 100% safe in this world. athena, most ppl who use the net do n't plan to find a love throught the net, it is only few % that intenting to find throught the net. however ppl do find love on the net whether they plan or not. some ppl meet realy nice ppl others do not. and whether they live happy or not depents on the couple, the way they understand, respect, communicate, trust, love and support each other. salaam.

salaamu calaykum. Scorpion_Sister, all i can say is AFKAAGA CAANO LAGU QABAY, u said all. Manasha allah sis. well, naaris, it takes 2 to tango, if u men support ur wives and rise u kids with them. then we are able to express our education and skills. but while u are either chewing or standing around donor shops, internet cafes or chatting @ polcities or qabiils then we are not be able to use our skills. as u alot became HOLGAB, so men get ur ass togther and support u wives and kids. As their ur responsibilties, and allah will asked u how u spent ur time, money. SALAAM.

salaam. ist i can't live without practiciny my diin e.g praying, reading quran etc. 2nd my family, my 2 mums, brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and my counis. also my best friends. my family and friends are the most important aspects in my life. life would not be the same without them, however u would learn to move on, learn 2 live without them. my dad past away few months ago and when he deseaced was worst of my life and it hurts soo badly and still does hurt, there are no days past which i don't think @ him. but life goes on and have 2 follow what allah says every soul will have a taste of death ( surah Ali-Imran 185) so it hard to live without them but if u have good faith allah will guard u to overcame ur sadness. salaam!

salaam. thanks walaalo, very interest article and that is wonderfull idea. salaamu calaykum.

salaam calaykum. well, i would be loyal & follow what Allah says in His book. But there are conditions: 1. he must meet my needs and our kids needs if there are any kids. there is no point him getting marriage if he did n't meet his wife rights and did n't provide 4 his kids. 2. he must tell me that we want 2 getting min yaro, as i think honest is important key 2 relationship. there is nothing worst getting phone call that u husband is getting married or got married few days ago. 3. he must follow Allah rules and regelation regarding having more than 2 wives. he must treat us both equaly. salaam.

Asalaamu calaykum sis! Shukri who do u feel @ this guy? Do u have feels 4 him? Are u have relationship with? 1st u should not listen what u friends are saying. 2nd u should follow u heart and U want. Not what u friends gone said etc etc. If they are true friends they should respect ur choose and support whenever u need them. Another thing FAQASH = Darood, Darood are human that Allah has created as He created Hawiya and Isaaq. It should matter what qabil u are as long as u muslim and u love each other. No matter how u try to statisfy ur family or ur friends u will not be able to do when it cames to qabil thing. So what u need to find out is whather is u who is having second thought @ this guys as u do not to be with DAROOD guy, who HAPPEN TO LIVE IN XAMAR. Or u shame to get marriage to his guy because u so called friends are racist and do not like darood and they gone call u Faqash's wife. Come on girl get u act together and once in u live choose who u want 2 be. Sorry if i been hard on u sis, qabil thing has destroy our land, killed so many ppl. And still effect the young gerenation even thought we do not live in our land. So u want go back the past or do want to move forward. beacuse if the qabil thing still isues to then u will never moving forward. salaamu calaykum sis.

A salaamu calaykum waraxmatullahi warakaatuhu. I have q 2 all normad's users if u can asks that would be greatfull. My q is: IF u where studing Islamic Laws, which subject would u like 2 studing 4 more indepth? and why? I would like to study islamic laws regarding Marriage beacuse I find very interest and also marriage is such an important step that our Blessed Prophet (SCW)spoke of marriage as being 'half of his religion; therefore let him fear Allah in the other half!1'(Bayhaqi). salaamu calaykum.

Salaamu all. Well, I always wished to get married at the age of 30 yrs, although my family disagree they want me to settled when I was 16 -19 yrs. They still on the back and praying to be soon. ( expect my mum + brother) as they both want me 2 finished my education. My dad used said it is up 2 u when u want 2 get married, as long as u married a muslim man who practice his diin. As my bro says " Yartan yari may naga hor dhaqaaqdo" Now their dream came truse as I am getting married Aug insha Allah. By the time I am 30 yrs I may have few (2-3 kids) running around the house Insha Allah. salaamu calaykum.

Asalaamu calaykum waraxmatullahi warakaatuhu. That is WONDERFULL Poem, thanks for sharing with us. salaamu calaykum

Asalaamu calaykum. It is very important to pray the 5 daily prayers on time. Every Muslim will testify tp prayer being the cornerstone of religion, for he knows in his heart that it is the most important pillar of the faith. Indeed, it is this factor which divides Islam from non-Islam. As such it is of Supreme value to Allah. The Prophet said that on the Day of Judgement the 1st thing that the servant of Allah would be called to account for would be prayer. If he had prayed sedulously and in the true spirit of piety, then his deeds must have been good; if not, his deeds must have been bad. The performance of prayers is one of the greatest tokens of faith, the most significant of religious ceremonies, & the surest way of thanking Allah for His boundless favours. To neglect it is to be separated from Allah. It is to be deprived of His mercy, the abundance of His favours, & the plenitude of His generosity. It is to be refused of His kindness and blessings. Earnest prayer is the remedy for the ills which beset the heart & corrupt the soul. It is the light which dispels the darkness of evil & sin. According to Abu Hurayra, the Prophet said, "Look, if any one of u had a river at his door and bathed in it 5 times a day, would any of his dirt be left?" They replied, "None of his dirt would be left." He said, "This is like the 5 prayers by which Allah washes away our sins." (A Simple Guide to Muslim Prayers by Muhammad Mahmud Al-sawwaf) salaamu claykum.

Asalaamu calaykum Mujahid w/c bother 2 nomad's land. Very interest Q , I heard as most of the prophets came from isreal's except prophets ciisa pbuh and mohamed scw. Palestine: A Historical Chronology. 3000 BC: Canaanities are the original people of palestine. 2500 BC: Canaanities settle around jerusalem, which is established by the jebusites, a Canaanite tribe. 2000 BC: Prophet Ibrahim pbuh miggrates to the land of Palestine/jeesusalem. 1842 BC: First mention of jerusalem discovered in a text (Egypitian). 1700-1500 BC: The rules of Egypt called Hyksos invade jerusalem. 1350 BC: First mention of jerusalem as acity-state discovered in an Egypitian latter called the Tel Amama letter. 1250 BC: Prophet Musa pbuh leads his ppl out of Egypt. 1200 BC: A ppl fr Greece called the Philistines occupy the Land of Canaan & most probably jerusalem & rule it 4 only 40 yrs. 1200-1020 BC: Jebusites rule the city of jerusalem. 1020 BC: Prophet Dawud pbuh fights a battle with the Phiilistines, destroys them & establishes Ancient Isreal. 965 BC: Prophet Sulayman pbuh succeeds Dawud pbuh as the king of isreal. 922 BC: After Sulayman ppbuh death the kingdon of isreal is split; judea with jerusalem as its capital & isreal destroyed by the Bbylonians. salaamu

Asalaamu calaykum waraxmatullahi waramatuhu. I was read this book call how to win yr husband heart and like this quote. An old woman whose face was shining with joy and beaty was asked: What sort of make up do you use? " I use for my lips the truth, for my voice remembrace of Allah, for my eyes lowering my gaze, for my hand performance of good deeds, for my body sincerity and straightness, for my heart the love of Allah, for my mind wisdom, for my soul obedience of Allah and my desire the faith". salaamu calaykum.

Asalaamu calaykum waraxmatullahi warakaatuhu. In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful. A Wife A lecture by Sheikh Abdullah Adhami By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend. She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you; when you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give you the best advice. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for some time she is not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul; when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams. In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world. The best description that I personally have ever read describing the closeness of the spouses to each other is the Qur'anic verse which says: "They are your garments and you are their garments." (Surah Al Baqarah 2:187). Indeed, spouses are like garments to each other because they provide one another with the protection, the comfort, the cover, the support, and the adornment that garments provide to humans. Just imagine a journey in the winter of Alaska without garments! Our spouses provide us with the same level of comfort, protection, cover, and support in the journey of our lives on this earth as garments would do in the Alaskan journey. The relationship between the spouses is the most amazing of all human relations: the amount of love and affection, intimacy and closeness, mercy and compassion, peace and tranquillity that fills the hearts of the spouses is simply inexplicable. The only rational explanation for these most amazing of all human feelings is that: it is an act of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, "And Allah has made for you Mates (and Companions of your own nature ..." (Surah Al Nahl 16:72) Only our Almighty Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala in His Infinite Power, Boundless Mercy, and Great Wisdom can create and ingrain these amazing and blessed feelings in the hearts of the spouses. In fact Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is reminding those who search for His signs in the universe that these feelings in the hearts of the spouses are among the signs that should guide humans to His existence as He says in the Qur'an, "And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may dwell in tranquillity with them and He has put love and mercy between your hearts: verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Surah Al Rum 30:21) But Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows that the human heart is not a static entity, it is sometimes weak and at times dynamic. Feelings can and do change with time. Love may wither and fade away. The marital bond might weaken if not properly cared for. Happiness in marriage cannot be taken for granted; continuous happiness requires constant giving from both sides. For the tree of marital love to remain alive and keep growing, the soil has to be sustained, maintained, watered and nurtured. Remember that our Prophet Muhammad Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam had found the time to go out to the desert and race with his wife Aisha. She outran him but later after she had gained some weight, he outran her. Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam took his wife to watch the young Ethiopians playing and dancing their folk dances. The show of emotions is necessary to keep the marital bond away from rusting and disintegrating. Remember that you will be rewarded by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala for any emotions you show to your wife as the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam said "One would be rewarded for anything that he does seeking the pleasure of Allah even the food that he puts in the mouth of his wife" Never underestimate the importance of seemingly little things as putting food in your wife's mouth, opening the car door for her, etc. Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam used to extend his knee to his wife to assist her up to ride the camel. Try to always find some time for both of you to pray together. Strengthening the bond between you and Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is the best guarantee that your own marital bond would always remain strong. Having peace with Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala will always result in having more peace at home. Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam gave glad tidings for those couples who wake up at night to pray together. The Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam even urged the spouse who rises up first to wake the other spouse up, even by splashing cold water on his/her face. Always try your best to be good to your wife by words and by deeds. Talk to her, smile to her, seek her advice, ask for her opinion, spend quality time with her and always remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam said, "The best of you are those who are best to their wives" Finally, it is common that spouses vow to love and honor their spouses until death do them part. I do believe that this vow is good or even great, but not enough! It is not enough that you love your wife. You have to love what she loves as well. Her family, her loved ones must also become your loved ones. Don't be like my colleague who was unhappy about his wife's parents coming to visit for few weeks. He candidly said to her "I don't like your parents." Naturally she angrily looked at him straight in the eye and said, "I don't like yours either." Also, it is not enough that you love her until death do you part. Love should never end and we do believe there is life after death where those who did righteousness in this world will be joined by their spouses (Surah Al Zukhruf 43:70) and offsprings. The best example in this regard is the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam whose love for Khadija, his wife of 25 years, extended to include all those she loved; this love of his continued even after her death. It was many years after her death and he never forgot her and whenever a goat was slaughtered in his house he would send portions of it to Khadija's family and friends and whenever he felt that the visitor at the door might be Khadija's sister Hala, he would pray saying, "O Allah let it be Hala." salaamu calaykum.