By the far, that was MALIKAHS post above

Finding out about your significant others certain "negative habits" after committing to them...

looooooooooooooooooooool@pix.. Walaahi i wasnt even expectin tha..' but anywho eh yow darman, you and me have to sit down so you can teach me those tricks..matta fact you need a partner in crime.walaahi am in a mission in gettin someone too lool..so get at me ight 1

loooooooool@opinioned..nevah say nevah..true dat But most definetly beyond the obvious I would nevah be the ******controlling type ****** -nevah bare my whole being (atleast not until i see a ring on this lil' finger ) - HONESTLY nowadays digitz are unpredictable lol..if i dont watch out for myself' you think i'm expect him to. ? ****** nevah believe gossip of him (but approach him bout it first) then i can act on my moodz -------------------------- just keepin it real...n tworlin sumthin sumthin with it to...ahhhhhhhhhhh peace 1

Biggest fear is to be manipulated, lied to....

I'm puzzled walaahi, mashallah...thanx alot for the input hon, it defintely added some motivation in my book... and inshallah with allah s.w.t help she will get far... if anyone knows her... give her my late but a fullfilling congraduation....

Ilhaam chances are good that i might be there..so i'll check ya out inshallah if evah come thru... 1

DID PROBABLY BE *TAKING MY PARENTS AND MYSELF TO THE HAJIKA WHILE WE STILL GOT OUR HEALTH INSHALLAH.

OG_Moti curiousity brought me here..wondering what the brotha's had to say and my hypothesis was rite....what do guys like talkin about the most....GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS...JIGGAH MAN.LOL OG- hon am gettin this feeling like you're pulling up fances...dont worry there's always tomorrow and not everyone is the same..dont focus/dwell on what happen..try and learn from it n by generalizing everyone' you just eliminated a possiblity...in life there are choices and there are circumstances of action....YOUR PICK 1

Ilhaam am not sure its just soccer week because i heard the basketball teams were coming down as well n otha entertainers..so i figured since it wasnt just the soccer that it did be somali week...correct me if am wrong thou... 1

Come on ladies'- am sure we all done and said lies but where will it get us'..its like each and every time you make somethin obvious and yet seem not to be rude' they think everythin is str8..? So get to the point-- Here's two scenrio's which one do you prefer? 1. You tell a brotha a lie' as in "eh saxiib am NOT ready for a relationship" or we'll take flying-still line " need to concentrate on my books eitha way'- if you see someone you are merely attracted to physically..and you wanna get to knoe this person...you'll need to in actuallty go on a date rite..ight now just say the guy you lied to call him X see's you n tha hot fella Y on date...and they knoe one anotha..eitha be brotha's..cousins..best friends..family friend..acquantants etc (you knoe how we somalis are lol).. how you gonna feel?..drama' drama..n shout it might even ruin thingz btw you n Y..even thou X may not speak to him of tha' your guilt will kick in..and its a motha*****h wallaahi..n you feel like ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzz dosin off lol. O. R 2. Tell him "i respect you as a friend n that's all the reason why i dont wanna give you a line or lie bout somethin cuz that aint in me...you see' you and me aren't connecting on that level..i dont wanna sound too cheesy but i just prefer we'll be bettah off as being friends.. ( you see' you pulled everythin on the table..you didnt lie..you were smooth and he just might take you on that offer of being friends without any heart feelings...) N LADIES..REMEMBER BE SMART BOUT HOW YOU END THINGS..BE RESPECTABLE..N STR8 TO THE T . CUZ NOWADAYS BROTHA'S BE TALKIN..AH HUH...JUST LIKE TLC GIRLS TALK BOUT .........INDEED THE BROTHA'S TOO..SO MAKE SURE YOU GOT YOUR BACK...CUZ MAN CAN BE SOOO WHAA :EMOTIONAL WHEN IT COMES TO REJECTION..THAT'S MORAL OF THE STORY N BY BAD MOUTHIN..OR TELLIN LIES TO THEIR BOYZ OF HOW THEY DUMPED YOU.or HOW BLAH BLAH..BUT IF YOU KEEP EM AS FRIENDS THEY WONT TALK....HOW DID THAT SAYING GO.........UMMMM KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENIEMIES CLOSER RITE...EXACTLY' NOW LET THAT SEAK N SOOO LONG 1 2 3 .................

TRUTH-SHALL-SET-U-FREE Even though it says "somali week" its actually longer then a week...starts July 1st thru the 13th..so that's almost two weeks there na'mean...but where abouts in t.dot it will be' wish i could say but i dont even knoe myself walaahi..i'm tryna get more information as well here lool... KoolKat- T.dot aint nothing to be tempt with' forget minni lol am withchu here lol. Hope to see yaah there.. .1

what i mean of someone being ugly is....... ugly adj 1. lacking appealing physical features, especially facial ones 2. characterized by anger or hostility 3. threatening or involving violence 4. generally unpleasant 5. discourteous or rude Silent_Sitah..well done maajo DONT HAVE GOOD LOOK, OR DONT HAVE GOOD CHARACTER,? Well both of em are accociated with one anotha.. you can't merely take one without the otha.-- It is the physical qualities that attract one anotha...but its the character/personality that makes the person tongue tied. maajo ANYONE MAY SEEM UGLY OR CUTE.. BUT AFTER SOMEDAYS U DONT CARE ABOUT UGLY OR CUTE WHY? of course...just as Silent Sistah stated..In situations as such..of course if the person has a personality..you long for get that..but REMEMBER' ONCE YOU GET YOURSELF IN THAT COMFORT ZONE..AS IN YOU'RE TRYNNA BE MORE OF A FRIENDLY FRIEND TYPE OF THING' THEN TRUST YOU CANT REVERSE BACK AND HOLLA..SO MAKE YAH MOVE AND MAKE IT SHARP OR SIMPLY TAKE THE FRIENDSHIP APPROACH AND THAT ONLY WITHOUT ANY MOTIVATIONS IN CHANGING THAT...THATS THE MOST NASTIEST THING TO ME..ONCE YOU SAY "HEY I'D RATHER BE FRIENDS THEN DATING' BROTHA'S WILL UP THEIR GAME AND THINKIN THEY HAVE A CHANCE..DANG SINCE WHEN DID "NO" BECOME "YES"...UFF' IF YOU ARE OFFERED A FRIEND POSITION..OR YOU GIVEN..DONT TRY AND MULIPULATE THEIR MINDS... 1

Hijabified Sista Its an event where of course " all the somalis" gather...there are all sorts of things to do' eitha be' watch the soccer tournment/ basketball tournment...somali musicians ...everything from the old to the new..i'm not sure if there will be any basketball tournments this yr but we'll see...if am not mistaken two yrs ago' the basketball tournment was held in minneapolis- ..The rule of tumb is' to play versing one anotha..not an mpls v.s mpls but more of mpls v.s ottawa for instance..or toronto v.s mpls etc..everyone comes down with their teams to win the victory..and of course the nite life' the jamin n all tha doesnt hurt..lol Hope i have given you enuff..1

I was just curious whose all going to T.dot this up coming July for the Somali Week? Am sure majority of the guys that can will but am more curious of the girls..dont be shy am a girl too lol...aint gonna knock atcha door lol.? So Eh ...Eh EH all my Canadains rep rep..represent your city.

KoolKat ahhhhh Indho uroone loool walaahi that killed me by far BUT ON THE REAL' NIN YABAAN FIRST OFF WELCOME TO THE FORUM IF I HAVENT SAID IT SO..AND SECONDLY WHY START A THREAD WITH SOMEONE'S PICTURE..OR IS THAT SOME FORM OF WAY OF GETTING OUR ATTENTION...CUZ QUIET HONESTLY IT AINT HARD..POST A TOPIX WHERE YOU THINK PEOPLE WILL UNDERSTAND/FEEL/N RESPOND..SIMPLE.. Jawahiir There is no need to create enemies, i call a truce... WELL SAID...NO NEED/..

LOOL@CLOWN..SAXIIB I THOUGHT YOU WERE GONE BY NOW ? SUP LOL KIDDING...BUT ANYWHO SILENT..I WOULD DEFINETLY CHOOSE OVER WEIGHT IF I HAD A CHOICE ..SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU CAN GET RIDE OF IT EASIER ..HIT THE GYM 4X A WEEK AND YOU'LL BE SET..BUT BEING UNDER..I DONT KNOE WALAAHI..ALL I KNOE IS YOU MUST BE ABLE TO GRUSH LIL SOMETHIN SOMETHIN EVERY HOUR NA'MEAN...DANG YOU GONNA HATE EATIN LOL.. BUT AS FOR YOUR FRIEND..DONT BE FREAKED OUT..AS LONG AS SHE LOOKS HEALTHY..DONT STRESS AND ADD MORE HEADACHE INTO HER..IF SHE ALREADY DOESNT HAVE IT NA'MEAN..BE A FRIEND..FEED HER..LOL NAAH JUST SUGGEST GOIN EATIN EVERYDAY NA'MEAN..AND IF YOU GAIN WEIGHT..ITS COOL' YOU CAN ALWAYS LOSE YA FEEL ME?...THAT'S MY INTAKE ON IT.. 1

CARAYS...WELCOME TO THE NOMADZ LAND..MAKE YOURSELF AT COMFORT..N REMEMBER TO ADD YOUR VIEWS TO OUR COLLECTION...ONCE AGAIN WLC

Just seein me is happy enuff for him ...spending quiality times togatha etc..not too much of dinning n finning then again we;re students rite..tutions..rental....lool :rolleyes: EH just keep it real na'mean..speak the truth when its needed....lol

Minnesotah Toronto (most definetly) CARIBANA CARIBANA CARIBANA CARIBANA CARIBANA C A R I B A N A ( 1 of out of these three ) Atlanta Washington D.C New York

SIMPLE... THIS IS YOUR TYPICAL SOMALI GUY... ...THEY GO CRAZY..BUCK WILD..DO DRUGS..SLEEP AROUND...CHEAT ETC..THEN AFTA A LONG DAY THEY WANT A RESPECTABLE WIFE AND HOME..ITS GIVEN SO IN WAYS OR ANOTHA YAH ITS HARD TO FIND A GOOD SOMALI GUY NOWADAYS..SPEACIALLY IN THE WESTERN WORLDS..CUZ AS MY SISTAH'S STATED ABOVE..THEY LOOSE THEIR VIRGINITY AT A EARLY AGE..AND FOLLOWS GOD KNOWS WHAT AFTA WORDS. AS FAR AS CHEATING GO..I CONCLUDE THAT FOR ANY GUY..SOMALI GUYS ARENT WORST OR BETTAH WHEN IT COMES TO THA..CUZ REGARDLESS IF YOU'RE ASIAN..BLACK..SOMALI..BRAZLIAN..ETC THEY ALL HANG FROM THE SAME TREE... AS FOR GOSSOPIN THOU..THA I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH SOMALI BROTHA'S...THEY TALK TRASH' JUST CUZ A SISTAH AINT FEELIN YOU' YOU GONE N TALK SHIT..AINT RITE..JUST ACCEPT AND MOVE ALONG' BUT ALL IN ALL...I THINK WE SOMALI SISTAH'S STAND STRONG TO THESE BROATH'S CUZ YOU DONT SEE US SLEEPIN AROUND..CHEATIN ON AND ALL THA'..WE'RE GROUND AND IF YA'LL BROTHA'S STAYED HOME A DAY OR TWO' MAYBE ALL THOSE LECTURES YA POPS N MOM'S BE SWINGIN..MIGHT HIT YA IN THE HEAD... CIAO...

RULES 1.DO NOT VIOLATE MY PERSONAL SPACE 2.IF I DONT RESPOND BY YOU LOOKIN' EVEN FACE/BODY GESTURE..DONT STEP UP.-- 3.EYE CONTACT ISN'T A VALID OF A REASON FOR YOU TO APPROACH 4.BE FUNNY...BUT ONLY IF YOU'RE CUTE...(UGLY GUY N CORNYNESS DOESNT WORK OUT FOR ME..MAKES ME WANNA VOMIT MATTAH FACT) 5.IF YOU'RE GOOD LOOKIN AND I RESPONSD...BETTAH BE ABLE TO COME UP WITH SOMETHIN BETTAH THEN "HEY SEXY" 6.CUTE GUYS BUT BRAINLESS..BAD COMBINATION..EVEN WORST THEN "THE UGLY GUY W/ BAD HUMOR" 7.WACK LINES DOESNT WORK ON ME..BE ORIGINAL 8.BE CONFIDENT AND QUIT SOUNDING INSECURE 9. BE ADVENTUREOUS..NO ONE WANTS A BORE 10.BE FUNNY...AFTA A LONG DAY THA CAN COME HANDY IF SAID THE RITE TIME 11. BE INDEPENDENT...AND TRUST 12. DONT BE SO CLICHED 13.THERE ARE TIMES WHEN A WOMEN NEEDS HER SPACE...! 14. LEARN HOW TO STOP ARGUIN BY AGREEIN LOL LOL J/K 15.DONT BE A GOSSIPOR..YACK HATE THAT..( A MAN WHO TALKS WORST THEN FEMALES..) 16.HAVE YOUR OWN FRIENDS..DONT JUST SAY LETS HANG..YOU N THE GIRLS..(SPACE ISSUE AGAIN) LOL 17.LASTLY...ITS WANT YOU SAY IN THAT FIRST FEW MINUTE THAT MAKE YOU SEEM TO BE CUTE EDUCATED..INTERESTING...AND OR CUTE BUT A BORE. --THAT IS ALL I HAVE TO SAY' OR SO TO SAY MAJORITY OF THE FEMALES GO BY..." LEAST THE MODERN ONCES. LOL HAA

Raxil- no its just you Is it me or did Raxil just flip the stript to "inform us" something we already know?

HornAfrique ---Darman Since both of you share this tremendous idea...why is that i grab this lets just say HUNCH..ya'll aint speakin the truth? Come on' am sure there is someone you know that somehow..somewhere got you onto somaliaonline?..let it be family or not..but yah i do have several people on this damn thing' more than ya'll can count lol..but they know who there are and if i say their names i wont be true my game...so again' whats the reason for this thread..you knoe everyone will hesistate...so unless the creator..sits it off..sorry to say but there will be no followers ... 1

Its cause its rare..! Its given...just like a stright hair person would love to have natural curly onces..and just as every brunette wants to be blonde by nature...fact is we all want what we cant have and when reality kicks in' we to minipulate ..duplicate..n prefect "this thing" we long for... MORAL OF THE STORY IS'' WE SEE A LOT OF SKINNY FARAH'S...AND WE DONT WANT TO..SO WE TRY TO MAKE YA'LL GAIN WEIGHT THEN HIT THE GYM..LOL ya follow? --LESSON NUMBER 1 DONT HIT THE GYM WHEN YOU GAIN LESS THEN 110..YES YES WE KNOE YOU'RE TALL BUT COME ON' WEARING BAGGY JEANS DOESNT SAY MUCH OF YOUR SIZE..SO ITS A NO NO YOU WILL ONLY LOSS MORE WEIGHT THEN GAIN..AND THA WILL LOOK UNNATURAL..SO EAT EAT EAT..BEANS FOR BREAKFAST..LUNCH AND DINNER..THEN CHECK THE WEIGHT SCALE...IF YOU GAIN EVEN A TAD BIT' RUN ...RUN I TELL YAH ...TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THE GYM OLOL 1 .so the bettah you are build wise..the bettah you will appear to the ladies eyes.