Personaly...i weight 342pounds and goddang i look good enuuff to eat..you talk of being lazy..naah seriously i aint'. Actually quiet the opposite. This isnt a joking manner..just because one or two individual's you all seen are lazy doesnt mount out to the rest of us. I speak of my weight cuz am confident not to display it as a form of comdiain. N please get tha word 'fat' out of ya'll vocab's...we got emotional issues as same as you do so try and minimize tha wont cha...and besides aint everyone beautiful in his and her own ways? I'm big boned and tha's all i got in sayin....wun

CHEATING IS THE ULTIMATE CROSS LINE....SO IF HE WANTS TO STAISTIFY HIS MR.MOJO ELSE WHERE...NO REASON WHY HE CANT BE THERE PERMENTALY AND IF FOR SOME ODD REASON HE SAYS ;OH BABY AM SORRY...U KNOW I LUV YOU' A BIG SMACK DOWN WILL HAPPEN...ADMIT WHATCHA DID DONT TRYNA OUT SMART ME. AND IF HE STEPS A FOOT INTO WHERE I LIVE..OH LORDY LORD THERE WILL BE SOME CHOPPIN GOIN ON IF YOU KNOW WHA I MEAN :eek: :eek:

Inshallah in due time when i grasp a hold of my bachelor's degree then we can start thinking of marriage but before tha..aint even hesitatin. But i did say proabably around 25...perfect age..finished with school...work for a yr n do my graduate school in the evening...but oh well that's only in the fantasy world rite...all i can say is whenevah n whomevah ALLAH s.w.t premits me then i shall. wun

MALAIKA ON A SCALE OF 1 TO 10 ..I RATE MY NIIKO 9 ...I CANT RATE MYSLEF 10 ..COZ I KNOW A LOT OF U OUT THERE R BETTER AT IT....AND AMEENAH...I DO MINE WITH CLASS 2 GALFRIEND.. ....YOU>? gurl...how long have i been gone?...god dang!- heheh kiddin.!--! Honestly my niiko'...is terrible...its like my hips are attached to a huge stone..lol can't go side to side smoothly lol...! SDn 1010 (somali_dance)....i'd be the 1st to sign. Wun

CUZ HE IS IN NEED OF A WIFE..SIMPLE..ATTENTION SEEKER !/ NO OFFENSE BUT THATS the truth!

1.Tall 2.Gotta be build... 3.style...classic...sophisticated..Sean-john (lay back) 4.Smell...gotta smell good 5.understandin...gotta listen n respond 6.sweet-heart... 7.thoughtful.. 8.friendly... 9.loyal..nothin sexier then that 10.ROMANTIC

lEXUS- SORRY HE AINT HOT..JUST YOUR TYPICAL FARAX'...I DID WISH I COULD PUT ON SOMEONE'S PIX TO SHOW YA'LL BUT I WONT DO THA TO HIM... WUN

I dont care what ya'll say...i like reality-tv shows..its funny walaahi..with em new twist and ish. My ultimate fav. onces are by far *For the love or money- (waitin to see if Erin has new twisters unda her sleeve..playette l ) *Paradise Hotel (i watch it for Alex..any1 feel me on this...) lol

Khayr- if you only knew ..if you only knew !

I'm genuinely sorry for those inncoicent souls that didnt even have a fighting chance in life. Abortion is wrong regardless of what presepective your look among. Given the fact that we SOMALIS lack in teaching our children the different aspects of having 'sex' because of the 'uncomfortness' in talkin about it. Its not ashame in teachin whats wrong and right..there is more to havin sex then puttin the penis in the virgina (we're all adults..so keep a stright mind..its not a jokin manner). There are dieases that come with..down side to it the ultimate being getting HIV but we somalis dont see that but being 'pregrent' more of a big deal (of course this goes to non-married onces) because of family repretation. God damn..yes your family name will be known..cuz we somalis know every one and anyone. But the embrassment will go away in due time...but HIV wont. I know a lot of females are like 'i might as well die ' nothin left for me..but walaahi takin your life or childs is double the sin. You've already sinned so why double it? We're human's.we make mistakes..some more extreme then others but we're not perfect..if you're alive you have your whole life to remorse to allah..-after all whose to say allah wont take in your prayers' and that he will.? Its unknown..no one knows the power ALLAH holds...eitha be the power to heal, the power to forgive or the power to knowdgde his slaves? We're somalis..n its our pride tha stands in our way...walaahi if its not gonna benefit you or anyone let it down..be real' no need to act hard. ONE OF THE HUGE PROBLEM IS THAT TEENAGERS ARE BROUGHT TO THIS COUNTRY WITH A RELATIVE RATHER THEN A FATHER AND A MOTHER..NO ONE TO CARE FOR EM' AND AFTA THEY ARE OLD ENUFF THEY MOVE' THINKIN YOU AINT MY PARENT' SO WHY I SHOULD I LIVE WITH YOU AND GO WILD. MALES ARE JUST AT COST AS FEMALES...DONT PUT THE EMPHASIS FEMALES ALONE !...CUZ AM TIED OF THIS MENTALITY OF' OH SHE OPEN HER LEGS SHE DESERVES IT'...WHA THE MAN IS THE ONE WHO SUCKED IT IN AINT HE...HECK'..ANYWHO BE REALISTIC IGHT...THATS ALL I ASK'. Somalis+Pride=outragious outcome...but somalis-pride=realistically input. Personally i've worked in HCMC not far ago and majoritity of the time i seen gurls which seem to be 22 n up but in reality younger sittin tryna covah their face so their wont be seen..and i used to wonder whats wrong? Why you tryna hide from me..am your sistah but it was the embrassment of me knowing her face and somewha her family tha push her else where..whatcha do is whatcha do but acknowgdge the fact that wha is you plan on is wrong.-you dont need someone to tell yah that...and shout ALTERNATE INSTEAD OF ABORTION...HAVE THAT CHILD AND GIVE IT TO A ADOPTION AGENCY...YOU DID THE CRIME BUT AT LEAST YOU AINT COMMENT MORE SIN. The facts of abortion and lettin someone to adopt your child. ADOPTION You will be free to pursue your goals and dreams that you had before you were pregnant. You will not have to care for a baby before you are ready. You will not have the financial burden of caring for a child. You will not have to worry about finding a sitter, missing out on the fun with your friends and being tied down. When you think of your baby, you will think of him or her as happy and loved by a mommy and daddy. You will have precious memories of your baby’s face, fingers, toes, eyes and smile. You will know you gave the greatest gift of all - a child, to a couple whose hope and dream was a baby to love. ABORTION You will be free to pursue your goals and dreams that you had before you were pregnant. You will not have to care for a baby before you are ready. You will not have the financial burden of caring for a child. You will not have to worry about finding a sitter, missing out on the fun with your friends and being tied down. There is no baby to think of; no smile, no little fingers or toes to remember. You have only the memory that you ended your baby’s life. Instead of feeling good about how your pregnancy ended, you may feel sad and empty. But you can never go back and give that child life! The back of this card has questions and answers about adoption. Please take a moment to read them before you make the most important decision of your life. Decisions ... some are small and some are very big. Some don’t affect your life at all . Others have consequences you must deal with the rest of your life. AM DEEPLY HURT TO HEAR OR SEE SUCH ACTS AGAINST CHILDREN LIKE THA..WALAAHI MAY ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON EM INNOCIENT SOULS.

Captivating_SouL, Very cute!...blaming it on me now huh...lol...jk. It was awhile ago when replied a topic, in which I was talking about your name being...unique and creative..didnt know it was u!... Kaafi who me...lol thats my cousins name so its easy to remember ya dig.. 1

quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by Captivating_SouL: Listen here no where does it say or hint of how somali man are to be hitting their wifes..their sisters..their children ..their mother..etc..and as far as traditions go..SCREW THAT.. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Screw the culture? You'd be saying screw religion next. I am not suprised at all Listen here Ninkawiisyo..if you're going to cut and paste things make sure you get the whole information...if am not mistaken i said "screw the tradition cuz whenevah man are doing somethin they shouldnt be..they make a connection with the tradition and relgion and i have seen that used ovah n ovah again and quiet frankly its ridicious. You wanna go ahead and beat on women..and say the tradition to beat your wife each n everytime an argument rises? Then i feel for yah..truely. There is nothin more disgustin then a man takin his strength against his "wife" forget bout brotha's hittin their sistah..cuz siblings fight..but still it aint rite eitha way. Cut a long story short...if i were to see a man lay his hand on his wife as am strollin by..walaahi biallah i'd join the fight n he'd be facing against 2 instead of the one. Yah thats how freakin serious i am..wheather i know tha gurl or not..cuz it aint relvent. But Nin yaban..answer this' if the culture/tradition for some odd reason or anotha told you to kill a brotha each n everytime he fights you..would you or wont you?- N think of each n everytime you take your hand against a women..remmeber your mom.. would you be rising your hand aganist her? If no then that should fit into each n every women there is. wun

Oh lord have mercy..we have another Darman in the house...hiya whats new? emailika tricks again lol..anywho...Og- did Darman teach you...if so DARMAN WE GOT BEEF>>>YOU'RE SUPPOSE TO PAST THA DOWN MY WAY.... WUN

Kaafi..n Nuune appreciate it. So ya'll agree with the terms why people change their nicks i hope...besides aint like am tryna run-away from peeps cuz i still left my originial nick at the bottom....UNLIKE SOMEONE PEEPS KAAFI.LOL KIDDIN... WUN

Run-a-Virgin...& Opinioined apprecaite the votes ladies.. But by far RUDY HAS THE BEST AVATOR...its cute walaahi..makes me smile or laugh each n every time....but sup.. i aint seein my nick postin around lol..ya'll know i got one of the wickest ones...lol wun

loooooooooooooool...nafta..lol n opinioned

Nafta i was in a some what infatuated with someone but not quiet 'Hung up" but for a lil bit i was like heck..why aint i give it a shot but for some odd reason or anotha i didnt give a second into the damn thing and afta it ended it felt more like i lost lol then hurt..but then i couldnt really tell the difference na'mean...it was selfish of me but hey...i was younger ya dig..not make tha as a excuse but walaahi now i got the luv of my life...and damn proud of it na'mean..so glad to say it was in the past.

One thing i hate the most is..how we nevah let thigs go..what happens happens..like my two sistah's said above..no reason to bring something as shocking as tha into here...i feel sorry for her n him..makes me sad just by thinking about it walaahi..but thats not even a valid of a point to what you are tryna to state is it now? i would understand if it was a attempt but this ish really happen n families are still dealing with it(so be respectful of the unsaid...) But a side from that....honestly Ruala mad props hun.. To answer you Q: why are men then allowed to have 4 wives?(w/islamic conditions). There are so many reasons that can make one become involved with a married man..However, Iam not suggesting that one CHEATS, ofcourse a taboo religiously every female and male are as different as the day that pasts..nevah is the exact same..hence why its a 'new day' each n everyday...so you cant assume everyone fits or majority fits into that catergory. Besides..nowadays perhaps one of the reason can be that "man are lyin to the females...as to them not havin a wife so he can attract her and once he does marry or screw her god knows what (nothin seems to shock me) then she finds out bout it and .//is that luv still there YES will she continue n stay married to hime..UNKNOWN..n will she be overly reacted and go bliztic? YES... so with the lies and betryal and twist of fate these mug's are playin..wont be of a shock really if it were to happen...

What the f*ck...i know my eyes are playing tricks on me...did you just what i thought you said.. Listen here no where does it say or hence of how somali man are to be hitting their wifes..their sisters..their children ..their mother..etc..and as far as traditions go..SCREW THAT..you got low life motha*****h's that think "just cuz what they are doin isnt rite...they make a connection with it to our tradition and relgion" dont try and fix things around so you can be the good person. I hate that man...walaahi if any guy were to lay his hand on me..best believe those fingers along with that arm be cut off..how dare yah..besides self defense is no haram....

Yah definetly...at first before i saw the movie..i made a false judgment on the previews and how did it turn around...but come to my liking i did like it alot. Somthing bout tha Irish accent...it was adorable..i felt like sayin.. "where are my lukcy charms" lool wun

I hate insecure people (makes me feel bad and ish..dang let me enjoy a cup of tea for once) I hate narrow-minded people (world doesnt revolve around yah lil mini-dinky town ) I hate gossip starters ( they live for tha sh1t..nasty as heck)//get a life ! :mad: I hate people who can't distinguish btw being proud and being overly conceited n flashin (need i add side inputs on this) I hate to be put on predicument where i got see if you are a true friend or not (why even gotta get there...cuz true friends wont put you in any predicument where as you have to disguish if they are faithfull n loyal...) I HATE THAT... so much hate i feel bad...so IIIII LOOOOVVVVEEE YYYYOOOOOUUUUU AAAAALLLLLL

LOOL..NO DUBLIN..ITS NOT WRONG FOR YOU TO ASK... PERSONALY I WAS KNOWN AS BROWN_SUGAH BEFORE I CHANGED IT TO CAPTIVATING_SOUL...SIMPLY BECAUSE I FELT THAT IT WAS OFTEN DUPLICATED AND I DID LIKE TO BE A ORIGNIATOR RATHER THEN FOLLOW YA DIG..LOL AND BESIDES DONT CHA THINK CAPTIVATING_SOUL SUITS ME BETTAH? (even thou some of the nomads cant pronounce it LOOOL..) WUN

This by all means nothing will it change...everyone will be nationlist of their sub-clan and detest whats isnt to their liking. We can either prolong this foolishness or come to terms and respect one another. We done said it over and over again how this nonesense will not be benefitical and yet although we recognize that fact we still stumble ovah the same thing.... After so long walaahi you wonder,,,whats the point..somalis will always be hatred of one another and sadly even though i did like to detest against that...i see it no other way..that changes will not happen until we come to terms of anotha in the sense of islamiania...union under the name of allah and all shall hatred n disbelieve will disappear.... SO PLEASE I ASK OF YOU TO BE RESPECTFUL OF YOUR PEOPLE..BAD MOUTHIN AND ALL WILL NO JUSTICE TO NO ONE.. WITH THAT SAID ...THIS IS MY ULTIMATE LAST POSTING UNDER ANY WHAT SO EVER POLITICAL VIEWS THRED I DID RATHER NOT READ WHATS TO COME N HAVE THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT THAT MY SOMALI PEOPLE WILL FORLONG THIS AND HOPEFULLY HAVE SOME CHANGES COME TO ABOUT THEN READING THE NONESENSE WHICH I HAVE READ PAST COUPLE OF DAYS AND FEEL ASHAMED..SADDEN N QUIT PISTED ...THE EQUAL LANDER IS NO OTHER THEN ALLAH...LET HE BE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE EQUATION...N BOTH SIDES WILL BALANCE. WUN

Quite -Storm Quiet honestly as i clicked onto this thread i had a feelin it did be a tug of war ovah tribe issues..n lets just say my hypothesis was on the dot. Honestly somalialand means nothing to me apart from some far up north location in somalia.just as the rest of somali groups locations are any more or less important...i seen no superiority varis where am from and vise versa.....and truely for all of you somalilanders tha think "whatevah of me..i care less. You speak of people lettin go ovah BAD MOUTHING somalilanders but yet you bring it ovah n ovah..if you want to segragate from somali..hey whatevah rocks your boat..as long as you are happy..then best witchu but dont try and rub on everyones face..be proud i aint hating..but if you keep rubbin ish on my face as to how you are bettah...best believe am reflect of some of mine..whatcha think the rest of somali arent proud of wha they are who they are.....well in case your mind is assumes god knows whaa..I AM A PROUD SOAMLI...TO THE FULLEST..I CAN GO AHEAD AND ADD THE PART OF WHERE IN SOMALI AM BOUT BUT I SEE NO REASON TO..AM SOMALI AND THATS THAT.. so you want people to get off somaliland..eitha miniminze that concietedness you so carry QUITE STORM..whatevah i have said am referring to you..because i rather not slope down and generalize every somalilander..cuz i do have friends whom are from there..so as a respect to em and respect to my somali peeps..i wont..i believe i have said what i had to..with tha said..paece And as far as Soccer game...it was wrong on both sides..whoevah started n whoevah continued on with the sharid...but pin pointing aint rite..n neither is followin... I hardly post anythin as far as qabil are at stick but one can only take so far...i see no reason to gebrish n bad mouth one anotha..but if thats wha you want to reflect quite-storm...then be my guest..i aint mad or pist just irraited ovah the facts tha we keep coming back to square one day afta day... we all need to put the past what happen n whatevah is to come deal with it as is.. Wun

Silent...loved both of those poems..took a tone on me...apprecaite it.