yah happy birthday..enjoy it while you still can!

NAAH SECTION..IT AINT JUST YOU LOL.. SECTION...IS IT ME OR DO WE HAVE SAME AMOUNT OF POSTS? [ June 10, 2003, 08:40 PM: Message edited by: Captivating_SouL ]

RULE #7.. IF YOU HAVE A SLIDE CHANCE THAT HE MAY BE THE PLAYA TYPE...NEVAH FALL IN LOVE So with that said'...then eh drop him ...the best way to forget about one is to go with anotha..he's playin you...shout dont give him the upper hand and satisfication of you feelin like ish..BUT UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE..OF HOW MUCH YOU WANNA GET BACK AT HIM..DONT' THEN HE THINKS YOU STILL AFTA HIM AND THAT LEADS TO SATISFICATION..SO EH AM A TRUE BELIEVER OF CHRISMA..WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND..WHAT MUST GO UP WILL EVENTUALLY COME DOWN... 1

Did you just say "is it eva okay to hit a women"? What planet are you on>..its the mans part to walk away while the sistah yapps and tries to get up in yah face but takin some strength against her is abousltely NO NO NO..would you eva hit your motha..grandmotha..the women that brought you to this earth?..that went thru all tha trouble for you...no i presume then why do tha to someone's daughter..or mother? it takes a stronger man to walk away from hittin or arugin even with a lady...

Truth be told i must say em brotha's would love to be with a freak/slut day lite then come home to well bred sistah w/ a good repitation..aint that rite fella's..? lol ..play sum n chill sum.. ...if am wrong let me knoe... 2..3 peace

huh? They varie..so you can't generalize all of em in one and secondly if you cant take the heat...get out of the kitchen..meaning if' your feed up bounce out then... 1

CONGRADULATIONS..........LONG AWAITED JOURNEY!

I hear you sistah..its in the male genetic..always straving for a challenge. Honestly saying to someone that you love em and you dont mean it is bit of dishonesty..matta fact its trafflin. Personally people go out with others for couple of reasons..one may be to find tha speacial one..one maybe someone to kick time with etc..varies. I've often be called and stated that i have "guys menatilty". Simply because i have a hard time tryin to open up emotionally..as though i have fences up and matter fact i do...just to protect myself na'mean. I have lots of brotha's and cousins that speak bullshits like you stated silent sistah and one way or anotha they influenced me..i already know what a brotha is thinkin or plannin on doing before he even does it and leave him hangin..( am not cold blooded aight) am just lookin at all the signs...someone doesnt just rob a bank without robbing your wallet first rite?..same goes there. Oh just to clarfy, a lot of people jump to the conclusion that a sistah is tryna be hard because she has been hurt in her previous escapades not true..its just that am tryna be focused school wise and tryna live this wonderful life allah s.w.t has given me..so no drama's..no stressin..call me a pimp but eh remember am a muslim sistah..so erase whateva assumptions you may have genereted. With that all said and done.....1

Adopting a kid is just as much responsiblity as though you had one of your own so just because one has skipped the pregency..the bloating..the headaches..shouldnt justify you of other tasks. Personally i would adopt a kid if i were not to have any of mine own...probably adopt a somali kid ..sponsor him/her at the age range of 4-7 because they'll have a slient idea that you're not their mother nor father...and for adopted parents to say to the kids that am your "motha or father" is haram..the child should be injusticed to their real parents..just like they cant have your last name. Nevertheless, i'll be benefiting for it as well as helping an lonely child..so there has to be some sort of ahjiir rite. 1

We talk simply because you "men" dont ...only to open the gates to your understandin and trust afta so long and we hint that the key isnt turning eitha way..it will disappear.. P.s yusuf...if you're having a problem with for instance your wife...expressin to one anotha that is...you stated somethin along the lines of "am tired when she wants to talk and vise versa" have you thought of caring a time where you both can have a conversation dealin with tha specific problem?...its best you speak and appraoch the problem if you love her then do nothin about it. And be sides...isnt marriage on the function of trust..communication...and patience? think about it... 1

First lady....i' dont wanna sound redundunt but as a sisterly advice...i suggest you come to terms with yourself. With all do respect i had the vibe as thou "the thought of not gettin married" or "lust" might be a case here. Correct me if am wrong but majority of us dont really know the person we wanna be with the rest of our lives..of course you'll know the genereal but the truth comes out when and if you do get married..gloves off n nothin but realness not to give you a doubt or anythin but what makes you think he'll be as you expected? It's a chance..and if worst comes to shove...you're left alone ...and definetly family disappointment strikes in yah head if you were not to speak of your plans to em...sorry to be uneuthesitc but thats what i grabbed out of your piece.. But remmeber..if school is your ultimate goal..no reason why he or you can't wait until you/ both are done...do you plan on takin welfare..havin kids and so forth...not to say you 'll be too old for schoolin..which is false..its neva late to educate oneselve but think twice...n if you do wanna be with this person' go ahead and follow the steps and advices my fellow nomads have suggested... thats my share... 1

I personally would like to have a decent..nice wedding but if tha means spendin a lil bit here or there then am re-think that but honestly am not too much concerned of what people will say of my husband nor the wedding the next day or yrs to come for that matter..its just a preferrence of mine..am not goin to be unreasonable and demand a huge weddin if its not in my significant otha's financail reach that would be ridicious of me but if he could and able to why not.... am sure each and every one of us would love to have a wonderful wedding regards it be mix or not... 1...

eh yo shego band its the jump off right here man, it's maryolle and we’re about to make it happen…. [Verse 1] I been gone for a minute now I’m back at the jump off… Popo in the club in case 13 starts the jump off Seen sunny siders with em nite mouth cravers to pump it off Ali yow its in the graveyard where you get dumped off If you step up with em colorful maxamuse n speak of slangs of “ eh yow eh yow “ All i wanna do is party And by brotha’s at side starin like a hockey Black ajouso dressed in nothing but……. OW.. I'm tryna leave with fuad So farhan sorry but your fin fin finiiiiish Spread love thats what a real ma do Keep it qaxotii style look out for her people I'm the crazy chick of the east ya betta keep em naggy friend/ or acquainces aside keep the cash stack Or out come the shit [Hook] This is for my peeps with the Camry the Cherokee the Hundai Genetic Escalade 1 and 1/3 inch rims Jumpin out the mercury wit the gims Keep you're bread up And live good East coast West coast worldwide All my farah’s in the hood stay high And if you cabin weekends let me hear you say right {right} [Verse 2] It's Captivating Soul shit ya drawers out Special delivery from you and yours If you hide from yo hood then make some noise I got my eye on this brotha’s w/ soul- Let me show you what im all about How i make a 10 pound of helib areer dissapear in my mouth {WOO} Shake up the house throw down ya pride Bet it all playa **** the price Money is everythin consume it like oxy.. Aint seen much of the world tryna pop sumin once Shine my shoes Hang on my money Gimme some new n step with the gas You know what we about mothers tribes and gossip [Hook] This is for my peeps with the Camry the Cherokee the Hundai Genetic Escalade 1 and 1/3 inch rims Jumpin out the mercury wit the gims Keep you're bread up And live good East coast West coast worldwide All my playas in the hood stay high And if you cabin weekends let me hear you say right {right}

About time..we females need to be recognized more often. Although i dont consider golf a game i'm still proud she and other females are takin their peeks. Nevertheless grant given man have more physical capability...that doesnt mean tha includes each and every male out there. This may be off the topix but more guys judged me more on my physical apparence..naah not like tha stay with me here..am talkin more as they saw me as "girlie girlie" whenever i went to court with my brotha's and afta few minutes they're impression changes...not sayin am the next lisa lopez but i do got some talent. Anywho the moral of the story is' --- its not more of how an individual apparence'..and definetly not eva male is betta then us female just like we're nor betta or worst.... 1

Yeah same here...sad to hear that walaahi..

AngelDust- re- read what you wrote.! What is this Puntland??? And who are these people that Dantay is boosting about>? Please enlighten, on the other hand dont bother as am sure they have of little relevance to us because they exist not in our knowledge. I think the subject matter is Somaliland aka blessland my brother stay on the subject. I can tolerate people diff opinion on the state of Somaliland but what I find amasing is this odacity to be little Somaliland and yet Somalis are proud of the turmoil they are in. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. Somaliland is going place. I dont hear no mentioning of the rest of Somalis praises in the media --do you? I hear of foriegners trying to put you **** together, never a decent Somali with vision or honour standing up for thier country. Yet you all have the face to even talk. If I was you I would bury myself head first*lol* Usually am not the type of person to even posts anything in political threads simply because i'd like to think my somali people have more decent respect for themselves as well as the rest of us. But AngelDust What is this Puntland??? you asked...Well do you want me to elobarte on what it is..cuz i got all the time in the world. am sure they have of little relevance to us because they exist not in our knowledge Again something ignorant person would only state. I think the subject matter is Somaliland aka blessland my brother stay on the subject. [/b] step down from your ralm...its good to be proud and confidant of your peeps but callin it blessland that i have a problem. Somaliland is going place. I dont hear no mentioning of the rest of Somalis praises in the media --do you If you werent so wrapped in your own lil world, perhaps you would of either heard from it or seen it. But yes i have... never a decent Somali with vision or honour standing up for thier country. Yet you all have the face to even talk. If I was you I would bury myself head first*lol There are hundreds of somalis with the vision to change its people and its country...but that may seem nothing to you..And yeah i do have the face in talking..where as you bad moutherd..trash talked am only statin my opinion directly to you and how ignorant and childish of you to even have such thoughts. AngelDust like the last part of your nic stays...am dust that off cuz i did like to think we are all somalis unless you're tryna create your own country and peeps.

crazy/funny/loud/sweet/ n cut you off if you double cross me lool..scary..so run..run i tell ya ! 1...2..ciao

WHAT MADE ME LAUGH TODAY WAS THE "IN DA'CLUB REMIX..SOMALI STYLE" IN THE GENEARAL FORUM... 1..2.. CIAO

2REAL I KNOW THEY'RE DISSIN US LADIES BUT EH ON THE REAL THOU AM DIGGIN THIS VERSION...NOT THE MEAING BEHIND IT BUT ITS JUST HIALARIOUS WALAAHI LOL.+ 1..2...CIAO

EXDANE AM SORRY BUT AM NOR IGNORANT OR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE BUT PERSONAL PREFEREBCE I WOULD SAY NAAH SINCE ME, MYSELF AND I DONT OWE THE COUNTRY I THINK IT DID BE WRONG FOR ME TO SAY BUT IF YES THE CORRECT TERM IS SOMALI BUT I PERSONALLY WOULD CARE TOO MUCH IF SOME... NON-SOMALI WOULD TO ASK ME WHERE ARE YOU FROM? ...I WOULD SAY SOMALIA SO WHEN SOMEONE SAYS WHAT ARE YOU? ....SOMALI...OR AT TIMES SOMALIAN AND WHEN THEY ASK WHAT LANGUAGE DO YOU SPEAK? ....SOMALI SO GIVEN THAT..I AM NOT TRYNA BE SOMETHING AM NOT..BUT GRAMMARLY IF ONE TO ASK ITSELF THEY DID COME UP WITH THE SAME...OR IN CLOSE PREMIESES. AND IT HAS NO CONNECTION WITH HOW THE WESTERN WORLDS ARE INFLUENENCING US..AND TRUST I KNOW MY HISTROY OF SOMALIA SO DONT TAKE IT AS THOUGH I JUST OPEN MY EYES. 1..2.. CIAO

P. A . R. E. N. T. S BY FAR HAVE THE INFLUENTICAL CHARACTERSTIC THEIR CHILD HOLDS...IT STARTS WHEN THEY ARE ATTORLANCE TO THEIR PRE-TEENS AND UNFORUNTELY AFTER THAT...OF COURSE THE PARENTS STILL HAVE A SAY IN WHAT THEY'RE CHILD IS ALLOWED AND WHAT THEY ARENT...BUT THATS THE BEYOND THE POINT BECAUSE AT THAT AGE GROUP THEY WILL BE LESS TOLERANT IN LISTENING AND OBEYING THEIR PARENTS REGULATIONS. SO GIVEN THAT, I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY SOMALIAN PARENTS TAKE THEIR CHILDREN TO SOMALI OR PAKISTIAIN FOR THAT INSTANCE...AS THOUGH TAKING THEM TO FAR LAND COUNTRY WILL DISCLIMD THE KIDS...IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW YOU TEACH THEM WITHIN YOUR HOME NOT WHAT THEIR PEERS OR GOD KNOWS HAVE IMPACT ON EM. 1...2...CIAO

Duniya...thats a shame and a half...obviously you're underminded lil kid whose straving to eitha get attention or irraited people up in here...god forbid that you have tha and if you do its not a joke joke manner..some people do have that diease//and they didnt ask for it so recheck your motivation..and if it is that you're eurging for help then do it in more mannerly way then this childish acts... 1 ... 2 ...ciao

Mujahid i do believe my dream job is in my eyes and allah's as well and of course you're going to have some bricks stand in your way but if you're determination and presistance is there ...trust you'll get somewhere...am not saying i have my dream job ..matter fact am far from it..but i did come close to it..and when reality hit that i may be doing this for the rest of my life then eh i got a check and dip out of it...but inshallah with due time..if i do want to do the procedure i'll make sure other people's destriction doesnt have effect on me. 1 ... 2... ciao

khayr & positive well said but to add my dime and four nickles i must say that being intellectual isnt having the attitude as though you are mentality wiser than your other..grant given that you withhold a knowldgable head but that shouldnt be an excuse for one to lower the self-esteem of the next person or challenge someone of their abilities. Its knowing and having the confidance, helping if needed and overly positive person, because what you give back today you might have received from someone long before..so in other words gratitude,self-determined,highly educated...and by that i should add being educated nor does it only come from attending school and there are a lot of us that arent fit for school..either be personally or they just feed up with it but that doesnt decline them of their intellectuality. 1..2...ciao

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool@shujui that was sick and a half but it was funny..mad funny lol. anywho keep us enetertain *2