I AM NOT TRYING TO DISCRIMINATE YOU BUT MOST SOMALI GIRLS KEEP THEIR VIRGINITY BECAUSE ITS AGAINST OUR RELIGION TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, AND SECONDLY HAVIING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE MAKES U FEEL DIRTY AND SOULESS. SUSTAINING YOUR VIRGINITY TILL YOU ARE MARRIED AND HAVING SEX WITH YOUR HUSBAND FOR THE FIRST TIME SHOULD BE VERY SPECIAL AND HEART WARMING. ANOTHER ADVICE FROM YOU QUESTION I'M GUESSING THAT YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN IF YOU ARE MY BAD IF YOU AREN'T WATCH OUT AND ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS.