God natt oba

lool okay My mom had three, had her first at age 34 and balanced family and career perfectly, so I'm open to that too. But I still think it'll only be 1-2 for me lol.

oba hiloowlow;952437 wrote: Me young? are you kidding im almost 33 inaar thanks for the compliment tho... Inaar having kids is more important than career remember tolka waa inaad badisaa otherwise the future clan of Habar Safferz will be a Laangaab :eek: :eek: 33! I thought we were similar in age oba So you have a son huh? I didn't say I won't have kids, just that 1-2 is enough for me because I have a lot of goals for myself and I don't think my life should be defined by my ability to procreate. Deal with it

lool well I suppose you could be telling the truth, but I thought you were a young college student so I still think you're messing with me about the kid thing And one, maybe two, is enough kids for me... I won't be old in that time either, 29-30 seems perfect for a baby and I'll be done with school then too. Having a career is more important to me than having a bunch of kids.

I don't believe you oba :mad: And yes, 5-7 years, and only one!

I prefer Axmed Biif! He has a beautiful tone to his voice, and I like his lower key.

oba hiloowlow;952429 wrote: lol hey have i told you i got a son its his 3d birthday next week.. Kids are great saffz :mad: lool I don't believe anything you tell me anymore, oba I don't hate kids, I just don't think I'll be ready for my own for at least another 5-7 years lol.

So my friend's newborn was adorable, but the four hours I spent with them was another confirmation that I don't want kids anytime soon lol.

I have a road trip to Philly planned in late August, going to the Made In America festival But I want to do a long one sometime, while I'm still living in the US.

Tallaabo;952294 wrote: Your cultural and moral guardian;) lol I appreciate that Tallaabo but I don't need a guardian, and I certainly don't need ten hell spawn Road trip where SP? Fun!

Tallaabo;952284 wrote: NO LESS THEN TEN. Got it? NO! One! Horta who are you to make my reproductive decisions for me? :mad: lol

But I am a career woman dee Okay maybe two, if I have a husband who contributes evenly to child rearing (a non-negotiable for me when I decide to settle down)

Tallaabo;952269 wrote: Safferz, if all our Somali mothers were as educated and high class as you are, I am sure the Somali society today would be in a better shape;) Haha thanks Tallaabo, that's very sweet of you! Someday I'll be a mom, but not for at least five more years lol. And even then, I think I can only handle one

Hope you guys are all having a relaxing Sunday! I'm going to meet my best friend's baby girl this afternoon :D Missed the baby shower and everything while I was in Boston, so I'm going to bring dinner over and what would have been my shower gift (a basket of all my favourite baby books, like Dr. Seuss)

SomaliPhilosopher;952142 wrote: My views towards May 18 are conflicted Me too. Elaborate SP...

oba hiloowlow;952138 wrote: my 18th may present for landers http://vocaroo.com/i/s0MblO3P7EC0 Hahaha oba I loved that :D

lol fair enough. I went through life not knowing too many Somali people besides immediate relatives since I grew up in the suburbs, so I get excited to meet people

oba hiloowlow;952105 wrote: :( it would be great story to tell your kids in the future sow maaha haha yes, and it didn't seem unrealistic to me because I've found close relatives in the strangest of places It's important to know your hoyo's abtiris too, so you can find your relatives on both sides

lol I believed you guys

oba hiloowlow;952094 wrote: Saffz kinda weird yeah i know but i actually found the other day SP is my 4th cousin :eek: Amazing Did you find out if your families know each other?

lool are you guys actually related though?

Khadafi;952079 wrote: That safferz interview contained many errors safferz. The BBC team will probably correct it. Before SYL, the organisation was called Hamar Youth Club and the chair man was Maxamed Cismaan maayow. The interviewed, the doctor says that the chair man of HYC was Garad Makhtal. I think he made a mistake here, HYC later changed it name to SYL and nationalism spread on to all corners of Somalia, including the british controlled Soomali-Galbeed. Garad Makhtal daahir (alle ha u naxaaristo) was the first to open a office their in jiggjiga and become its chairman... I believe he was talking about the leadership of SYL's branch in the @gaden when he said that. But he's correct that it was called the Somali Youth Club before changing their name to the Somali Youth League in 1947.

lool I would have guessed engineering ama wax science related, Somalis don't really pursue the humanities/social sciences Speaking of history, Beyonce released "Crazy In Love" 10 years ago today and blessed us with a solo career. Yay Bey! " frameborder="0" allowfullscreen>

History How about you?

I remember when I first started and got my student card, it said "valid until 2018" lol