Originally posted by bartender: Qoute Young Somali girls feel as though they are doing the right thing. Partying is part of maintaining a social structure. The society they live in allows them to do so. Freedom has entered their brains causing them to hallucinate. ^^ are You born being negative, or does it make You feel better for putting or generalising some of your own gender down, and You call Yourself a somali women! I am not born to be negative. I was not generalising nor do I enjoy putting down Somali girls. What I said previously is true.

Three years ago, a vote was casted throughout Somaliaonline allowing to vote for whoever appeared the most to you. My choice would have not been Mr Mickey Mouse ---> The reason why I call him Mickey Mouse is because of his wide smile. However this guy had the most votes. Kafaaxiye, Why mislead people? I would advice you to find yourself another avator. I remember once using a guys picture as my avator. Was I told off or what.

Originally posted by bartender: ^^ I have a obsession with Dirac? I do have a collection, though I don't think its a form of obsession. Heck, let them whether it anywhere. >> so You collect them to do what with them? thats if its not ur standards of islamic dress according to U? However its not a proper Islamic clothing so therefore its not God given. It's impossible for me to speak to Somali's worldwide in relation to their Dirac's. >>> So now wearing dirac is forbidden? and me thought it was somali womens pride to showcase their heritage of aquistic taste for fine unique garments!.........Dirac on a fine A$$ Xalima is top notch me thinks anyway I have a very colourful dirac collection in my cupboard. Mostly wore indoors. I believe its not of a Islamic standard. Wearing dirac is not forbidden, it cannot be banned. It comes with the Somali culture. You think Somali girls wearing dirac "...is top notch". Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Run aways, plenty in Australia. Young Somali girls feel as though they are doing the right thing. Partying is part of maintaining a social structure. The society they live in allows them to do so. Freedom has entered their brains causing them to hallucinate. It's depressing to hear stories of young girls dropping out of high school running away with a guy. Why run? Is it necessary to be running away? Why not bring the guy home? People speak of role models? But do you truly need them? I never in my life had a role model nor do I have one today. Not once did I run away or think of running away. People need to think for themselves and should be able to distinguish the difference of what our culture and religion accepts. It's important people to learn from their mistakes and avoid it next time.

Originally posted by sweet_gal: Castro somali women do try to learn the language. I don't know what makes u think u have the right to generalize. Lexus, why are u so stuck on the dirac. Are u like trying to deny somali women their god given right to wear it where every they want even in the supermarket. I am sure the last thing they need you to tell them is to go back home with their dirac. They'll go back when they want, I don't see why they would listen to you.... As if you would even ever say that to a somali lady's face. I have a obsession with Dirac? I do have a collection, though I don't think its a form of obsession. Heck, let them whether it anywhere. However its not a proper Islamic clothing so therefore its not God given. It's impossible for me to speak to Somali's worldwide in relation to their Dirac's. Sweet-gal, You seem very annoyed at my comment. Do you wear dirac besides at home and weddings? You have raised a good question; Why would they listen to me? Because I am right.

Castro, Your comment regarding Somali women is mostly true. Somali women stupidly believe they are more superior then those women who are able to speak the language. They walk around in their dirac to supermarkets as they struggle with the English language. Many of these women have the ability to leave Western countries but choose not to. Not all Somali are gunning one another down. Ladies; pick up your Dirac's and head home.

Originally posted by makalajabti: quote:Originally posted by The Flipmode: quote: Originally posted by Yahoo_UK: Originally posted by ALexus.: you will be a "Grandpa/Grandma of lots of kids from all ethnic tribes of the world. [/i] Some Jamaicans and Nigerians also.. Racist [/b]I don't believe those comments to be racist, he probably intended to demonstrate the desire some Somali girls have for Jamaicans and Nigerians, etc.

Originally posted by The Flipmode: quote:Originally posted by ALexus.: Circumcision is not compulsory, it's Sunaah. The zipment part is a Somali culture, in order for the zipped young woman to remain untouched. This is more so a good explanation of my points.I think we don't need to "Cut/slice" our girls as someone said here but "still" make sure you give them proper "Sexual and Islamic" teaching about XXX failure to which you may have so many "Wacel" generations after you..and rest assured that you will be a "Grandpa/Grandma of lots of kids from all ethnic tribes of the world. Some Jamaicans and Nigerians also.. I am not encouraging the "full circumcision". Perhaps awareness of sexual behaviour in relation to Islam should be explored by the younger individuals. Flip you are right, too many wacel kids. Those major sinners should be repenting for their deadly outcome. Conceiving a baby out of wedlock shouldn't be taken lightly. Whoever ignores the teachings of Islam should face their punishment. Flip, Jamaicans, Nigerians, Kenyati, etc.

Circumcision is not compulsory, it's Sunaah. The zipment part is a Somali culture, in order for the zipped young woman to remain untouched.

Originally posted by Mr. Jibis: They look like Indian movie stars? LOOOOOOOOL Even Indian movie stars are ugly......... I agree.

Originally posted by The Flipmode: quote: The problem sadly is is that our people are delusional. I think That is why? you will find many E's and D+ in schools, still hoping to find a respectable Faarax to hook up.. However, There are some Xaliimos who do better with Faarax than school Flip, I know of many sisters who received UG's throughout high school, Uni etc, and they are married to respectable, educated brothers. Care to explain why this is happening?

Rahima, Flirting and maintaining an education, nothing wrong with that. Obviously those sisters wish to reproduce and continue their studies, unlike others. Perhaps they wish to stay away from sinning, whatever the reason, my thumb goes up to those sisters for least they are continuing their education and establishing a career, unlike those who circle around 5/6 years in University only to accomplish nothing. No marriage and no degree. Disappointing their parents. Why haven't they completed their degrees? Because throughout those 4/5 years in University they only hum the words "I'm getting married; the end of this year", year goes by then another.

Originally posted by Yahoo_UK: P.S Alexus... before u throw u fone .. can i have the handset please ... tanak you fery much Send me your address and you have yourself a brand new Motorola V3 (Silver one). Bye phone, bye

Originally posted by Mr. Jibis: quote:Originally posted by Pucca: 4- fridge; oh what a wonderous invention! being without it would be absolute torture. This reminds me of something my wife told me when she was a new qaxooti in Canada........She landed in Niagara Falls in the middle of winter, so she settled in Dixon and saw all the snow everywhere and asked "Why do they use fridges in Canada when they could just leave their food in the snow?" Jibis, Good point your wife made. I would have made the same point if I was FOB (Fresh of the Boat)

Definitely my mobile phone. In two weeks time I plan to throw away my phone, along with my sim card. Dreadful thinking about it.

Originally posted by Kafaaxiye: quote: BOB: Don’t date because you’re desperate don’t marry just because all your friends got married don’t have kids just cause you think your genes are superior don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder remember only fools Rush in. thanks for summarizing the topic.

Juba I understand where you are coming from however I came here when I was a youngster, yet I'm still in place. I don't easily subject to the Western way of life nor can I be influenced. Where in the states are you located? How can these girls enjoy freedom when they belong to such countries? Maybe they might find freedom in Somalia. They might even feel complete in Somalia. The Western ideology certain has gone to their heads.

Originally posted by AbdulNoor: Is this happening often? And if so, what is the Somali community at Australia doing to help these girls find a better solution. It's the new trend. Before it was running away. Clearly the Australian Somali community cannot do anything. No one is willing to speak up. Before anyone can speak up, its impportant for the girls to identity their problem and acknowledge it. We have never been a culture that easily speaks about probleming issues. Its always hidden underneath the rag. Silence is the only solution for many.

Originally posted by The Flipmode: Coz I love your questions ..Is that serious.. And I love those who love my questions. Do I sound serious, Shadow?

Originally posted by Kooleey: quote: Are there any hadith encouraging women to attend Friday pray's? So I can prove to this not so intelligent person they are wrong. If there is a hadith proving you wrong, would you admit your 'not so intelligent'? I believe that the friday prayer benefits everyone, men & women because one learns and gains alot from the kutbah. However its only obligatory on the men to attend and volantary on the woman's part. Your beliefs are not wanted. Support it with a hadith otherwise it's not of any worthy. Obviously, attending the Mosques benefits all Muslims. However, I wanted to know whether it was compulsory for women. My question has already been answered. Thanks for trying to help.

Originally posted by BOB: Originally posted by ALexus.: [qb]Marriage in means of escape Don’t date because you’re desperate don’t marry just because all your friends got married don’t have kids just cause you think your genes are superior don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder remember only fools Rush in. [/b] I will not marry because my friends are married. I will not have kids just because I believe my genes are superior. I will not hurt my future kids because loving them is harder. Indeed, fools do rush in.

Originally posted by Kafaaxiye: ^are contributors your shadow I wish not to hear only your comments, brother Kafaaxiye.

Marriage in means of escape From my observation Somali girls ranging from 17 to 22 are marrying in means of escaping their terrible ordeals at home. However many are not necessarily facing major problems but feel the need to marry in order to gain freedom and avoid parents or siblings. The many girls, from my opinion, are lacking the knowledge of their parenting wanting the best for them. Afterall, paradise is underneath the feet of your mother. Many girls have explained how their lack of freedom has forced them to be involved in a loveless marriage allowing them to achieve control of their lives and future. Such ideas are planted into young minds, who can achieve anything and everything, upon completion of high school. I have known many of these young rebels. My advice to them has always been; Stay with your parents, acquire their blessings before rushing to anything. These misunderstood young ladies have always had me puzzled. At first I believed they were marrying because of pressure, later finding out otherwise. Is this "Escape syndrome" becoming more popular? Or is it only the girls in Australia?

Originally posted by ALexus.: quote:Originally posted by The Flipmode: Good girl, You must be HAPPY.. or so I suppose Answered... Do u got another Question.. My next question has nothing to do with religion. The question is why are you always following me around? What are you? My shadow? Make it two shadows; Flip and Kafaaxiye

Originally posted by Northerner: ALexus, you are right. It feels great to be right, Northerner.