Originally posted by Ilhaam: Mayam ... cute! She's always saying... "Mayam, baliiiiis ma ku raaci karaa?, I won't bother you, I pawamise Awwwwww, that is soooo cute! I wish if I had little sis's, actually any sisters for that matter....seriously, wiilal baa maxaa kaa galay iiga hor yimid...i'm afraid i've become one of them

waxaasaa reer guraa asli ah lagaa yidhaah :cool: I was born in hospital Madina in xamar cadeey, lived there till I was 9, moved to Ethiopia, then Denmark then Finally here...got one more final moving to do Insha'Allah and hopefully that should be it.

I feel sorry for the dude but i gotta say, If it took him that long to see what type of a girl she was...then maybe he's not such a bright faarax...ya know there is a reason why somalis say ruux aadan saacad ku baran sanad kuma baratid...it's unfortunate when brothers are blinded by looks iyo waxaan loo joogin and they simply don't see the essence of the person. But I have to give him a credit for the fancy break-up...at least he could think of something

MMA...if I wanted a normal name I would just keep mine...I was asking for your usual funny xamaraawi terms I never heard of before. Anyways, thanks, Istaahil is indeed a nice name

kaafi, I got you thinking eh, lol, besides...how come you never told us the meaning of your real name? Anyways, my real name is arabic and it means precious...someone actually mentioned it before

Nin Yaaban, I too sympathize with you, cuz niman badan ayuu qurbihii ka yara waalay, you're not alone! About polygamy, Allah gave you the right, if you can fulfill the conditions (note: not just financial) then go for it....GOOD LUCK !!!

Khayr, It's extremely sad that you're accusing sister modesty for making an "instant Fatwa" because she only stated what our deen holds about forced marriages and what every true Muslim should be aware of when it comes to Fiqh-al-Nikaah. So please, stop the sarcasm! In Islam, it's not permissble for a woman to be forced into a marriage that she doesn't agree to. It's one of our basic rights and no woman should ever be deprived of it. If you want the prove, The Prophet (scw) said that " A previously-married woman should not be married without being consulted and a virgin should not be married without asking her permission" (al-Bukhaari) Also, this was the answer by a Sheikh who was asked about the same sunject: ‘Aa’ishah reported that a girl came to her and said, “My father married me to his brother’s son in order to raise his social standing, and I did not want this marriage [i was forced into it].” ‘Aa’ishah said, “Sit here until the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) comes. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) came and she told him about the girl. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sent for her father, then he gave the girl the choice of what to do. She said, “O Messenger of Allaah, I have accepted what my father did, but I wanted to prove something to other women.” (Reported by al-Nisaa’i, 3217). Now sis Rashida, the other nomads have all given you good suggestions, I would like to add that you should talk with your mother...mothers are usually very compassionate about these matters. You should let her know how you feel. You're only 15 which is an extremely young age for one to be married. However, you're at the age where you know right from wrong. You can comply to your father's wishes and Allah will reward you for pleasing you father, or you can stand up for youself and refuse but do it in an acceptable manner. Insha'Allah, I will pray for you and all the other young girls who are in this horrible predicament, after all, Allah is the source of strength.

^^^^I know eh! Originally posted by MiZz_LeXuS: He would have to be the hottest Somalia guy I have ever seen. Sweetie, you've got to be joking! :rolleyes:

Subxanalah :rolleyes:

Since everyone is changing their nicks maybe I should experiment as well MMA...I suggest you take on XXX And since you're so creative in making up "pretty" names, think of one that suits me, but ii yara hagar bax ok Kaafi...I'm still :eek: at yours...what does it mean anyways?

Girls you don't even wanna know my rating cuz i'm so bad at this thing...ok I'll give myself 3/10 and I get that sad 3 just cuz my belly dancing is really good I have to say though....when those girls do it til they sweat in mixed weddings, that's some guts!! :eek: Tamina and hoodo...sign me into your classes wil ya...this girl needs some lessons badly...tamina, don't worry I'll pay the full price

Originally posted by Che-Guevara: I hope we find another somali son to unite Somalia! I have a gut feeling this time it will be a female!!

Girl...how come you didn't let me know...I would've thrown you like the best party ever Happy birthday sweetie!

Ilhaam...that was funny, we have weird ones here too...I always get into an argument with the owner, I just like to bother him cuz his english is soooo bad...to come to think of it, I think iney i xantaan qurumiinta xun xun Hey I heard they have theaters in the west...girl, you better take there lol. Filsan...I didn't know they watched it either...I always thought they didn't like jil jileeca hindida. Originally posted by nuune: so gabdhaha jaceel baa ku dhaco haday fiirsadaan filimaanta hindida I think we fall in love with the idea of love cuz we drift into a fantasy world for those 2 or 3hrs...but one should also realize that hindi movies are nothing but fairy tales!

Bachelor...bas hadaba waan kaa qaleeyay Guys, my little genetic theory was just a "joke" and I was hoping ppl would get it ...wouldn't it be nice though if there was one...cuz then all they would have to do is detect that gene, mutate it and wuala, you got perfect non-cheating men!...ok, maybe that's too much wishful thinking The truth is there is no one specific cause for this behaviour...many factors can play a role be it biological or social...and the best way to avoid it for both men and women is to stay close to Allah(swt) and away from shaydaan!!!

waterparks...wave pools, water slides, beaches...everything that has to do with water!

whenever you leave home say "Bismilaah Tawakaltu Calalah Walaa xawla walaa quwata Ilaah Bilaah" and you will have Allah's protection! Also, when you feel nervous/afraid, read Ayatul Kursi...and Insha'Allah nothing will come your way!

kaalay, meqaad mareysaana? Originally posted by Bachelor: When it comes to a relationship Are Men Born Cheaters? I think they're all born with the gene, it's just a matter of when or at what stage of their lives it gets activated...and very few clever ones learn how to suppress it Women? are we talking somali women?...masaakiinta mid beyba umaara la'yihiinee maxay cheat gareeyaan...honestly though, once they commit they're quite devoted to their partners...I think!

Walahi some of you are just disgustingly funny...subhanallah :rolleyes:

Patience is the key thing walaalo...I know it's easier said than done but have some faith, and Insha'Allah Allah will reward you for it!

Originally posted by MALAIKA: Nafisa..wish u was here galfriend ...next time hon . Thanks sweetie...maybe they'll have something "real" without jac kuleel during august when i'm there

I'm so jealous now I'm starting to think reer toronto suck cuz they never do this. Anyways, have fun everyone!

Waaryaadha he...ileen war baa idhaafay :eek: OG_Moti...I'am very happy for you walaalo, Congrats, both of ya! OG_girl...naa heedhe, where's my special invitation? I can't believe you forgot to invite the best belly dancer ever :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar: Maxaa igu sheegi weysay. Xamaraa kaaga soo qaadi lahaa iyagoo kartoon kartoon eh. The other day qof kalaa i lahaa if I knew inaad Xamar aadeysid waxaa kuu dirsan lahaa 'dhangaloow.' Isbaandhees isn't the way it used to taste or perhaps my taste buds had long forgotten it. I tried to eat it while I was there, and I couldn't even taste it--it was too bitter for me. Next time hadaba ogoow, kartonkeyga waan kaa sugayaa and while you're at it, add mircood as well, lol...what is dhangaloow by the way. How was xamar though?...could you recognize anywhere?

Scorpion...thanks girl, I already bought the CD before seeing the movie, so I'll definitely check it out