Diamond in the rough kulahaa! Why are the sistas the ones to compromise? Besides there is much more to marriage than a degree or the lack thereof. I think people should quit obsessing about this topic of marriage. It happens if it is meant to be and if it does not then there are worse things than being educated, successful and single

Salama Bob, wonderful stuff as always. I admire your love of the motherland. God Bless

I stand corrected then

No wonder am always broke... no more Caribou coffee or Aquafina Well at least not untill this evening 10 little expenses that add up fast Do you wonder where your money goes, especially if you're not a big spender? It's surprisingly easy to blow thousands, a few dollars at a time. It's easy to fritter away money on little daily expenses. If you fall into these money traps, learn to avoid them and pocket the savings. Coffee: According to the National Coffee Association, the average price for a cup of brewed coffee is $1.38. There are roughly 260 weekdays per year, so buying one coffee every weekday morning costs almost $360 per year. Cigarettes: The Campaign for Tobacco-Free Kids reports that the average price for a pack of cigarettes in the United States is $4.54. Pack-a-day smokers fork out $1,650 a year. Weekend smoker? Buying a pack once a week adds up, too: $236. Alcohol: Drink prices vary based on the location. But assuming an average of $5 per beer including tip, buying two beers per day adds up to $3,650 per year. Figure twice that for two mixed drinks a day at the local bar. That's not chump change. Bottled water from convenience stores: A 20-ounce bottle of Aquafina bottled water costs about $1. One bottle of water per day costs $365 per year. It costs the environment plenty, too. Manicures: The Day Spa Magazine Price Survey of 2004 found that the average cost of a manicure is $20.53. A weekly manicure sets you back about $1,068 per year. Car washes: The average cost for a basic auto detailing package is $58, according to Costhelper.com. The tab for getting your car detailed every two months: $348 per year. Weekday lunches out: $9 will generally cover a decent lunch most workdays. If you buy, rather than pack, a lunch five days a week for one year, you shell out about $2,340 a year. Vending-machines snacks: The average vending machine snack costs $1. Buy a pack of cookies every afternoon at work and pay $260 per year. Interest charges on credit card bills: According to a survey released at the end of May, the median amount of credit card debt carried by Americans is $6,600. The average interest rate on a standard card is about 13%. Making the minimum payment each month, it will take 250 months (almost 21 years) to pay off the debt and cost $4,868 in interest. Ouch! Unused gym memberships: Costhelper.com reports that the monthly service fee at gyms averages between $35 and $40. At $40 per month, an unused gym membership runs $480 per year. Published Oct. 11, 2007

^^ wasn't that thread deleted?

North why talk of a nap when others are bored at work?

wareer Banadir aa? Duqa soonkaa haaya aan u malaynaa ee ka qaleeya Shah maya Tuujiye Shrimp see isku tihiin?

Wlc back Tuujiye, wareerkii aa hore ka bilowday Whatz with the sijui hating ppl and LOZ where are your manners? The word is Digaagad lol

^^ waayo maxaa dhiig karka kugu ridi maad bahal fadhi ku orod ohoo laga yaabo u keentid yarta, hadduu doono rent car ha ahaadee? Lease lee u soo qaadee

Originally posted by Nephthys: quote:Originally posted by Shyma: ^lol, waxaan kuugu duceeyey mid ku tiraa a qaloocda [@] sidee loo qora bal waraaqda kombuutarka ee email ka la iraa baa u dirayaa reerkiiye ^ L0L. Meshan waxaa buuxa kuwo dhaho: "war hadaadan baabuurkii kor ii qaadaayay [ 4X4 ] ii gadin, gaw maleh.." gaw maleh kulahaa JB Ramadankaaga ayay u soo dhigatay yartani

Ur welcome Farax, karibu It's true that lots of Americans are radically opposed to the government's policies. I wonder though, it's easy to oppose when you are on the sidelines but would many people really do things differently if they were in a position of power? Take the case of Somalia, post Siad Barre. It's easy to point fingers and say that things would've been all rosy if the coup had not happened. What might have been the other possible outcome of a civilian government led by an elite educated minority in a largely uneducated country with little in the way of resources? Would it have been a longer journey towards the self-destuction in Somalia that was hastened by the war?

source In 2003, Mattie Cox read about the arrival here of Hussein Issack and other refugees from Somalia's long-persecuted Bantu minority. Mr. Issack came from a subsistence-farming family and had never set foot in a factory. Nonetheless, Ms. Cox's first thought was to put him to work at the trailer maker where she is a human-resources manager. "He was a man with kids who was new here and needed work," she says. Four years later, Mr. Issack is still working at Kentucky Trailer, having learned on the job how to use industrial tools to make doors for Allied Van Lines Inc. and other moving companies. "Today, he's multiskilled," Ms. Cox says. Louisville's past was built on race horses, bourbon and baseball bats, but the city is staking its future on Somali Bantu and other immigrants flocking here from across the globe. As neighbors like Nashville join a national wave of cities drafting ordinances designed to repel many foreigners, Louisville's business and political leadership is working aggressively to absorb immigrants. O'Neil Arnold The Parade of Cultures, left, is part of WorldFest, an annual Louisville event celebrating the city's diversity. In speeches, Louisville Mayor Jerry Abramson champions the city's immigrants, whom he calls "internationals." In each of the past four years, he has handed out "international awards" to individuals, companies and organizations working to integrate and improve the lot of newcomers. "Communities that embrace diversity are going to be the most successful," says the mayor, who has been at the city's helm for most of the past two decades and avoids distinguishing between legal and illegal immigrants. The powerful mayor hasn't faced much opposition to his strategy, but at his monthly community forums, some city residents have questioned whether his policy might be robbing Americans of jobs. Louisville hasn't actively recruited the immigrants: Many of them are refugees who were randomly assigned here. Others ended up in Louisville because they heard that the housing was affordable and jobs were abundant. But among the new arrivals are many foreigners who first settled elsewhere in the U.S. "It's not that the city has a 'Let's go and find immigrants' approach," says Randy Capps, a senior research associate at the independent Urban Institute in Washington, D.C. "It hopes that by being a welcoming place, more immigrants will want to settle there." There's a practical reason for the city's openness: Like many other U.S. cities, Louisville faces an aging population and falling birth rates that are shrinking its work force. United Parcel Service Inc., General Electric Co. and other major companies with operations in Louisville say they need immigrants to keep thriving. "It's an economic imperative to attract immigrants at all levels, from factory workers to software engineers," says Omar Ayyash, a Palestinian from Jordan who runs the city's Office of International Affairs. Louisville isn't the only place eager to attract immigrants. But these towns are swimming against the tide. After the recent failure of the federal government to enact immigration reform, states and towns across the country have begun drafting their own laws to tackle illegal immigration. "Many states and local governments are getting back into the immigrant-bashing mode," says Mr. Capps, the immigration researcher. Mayor Abramson figures that immigrants are more likely to contribute to the community if they're integrated into it. "You can engage these folks or you can wait to deal with the liabilities," he says. "What I am trying to do aggressively is ensure they become assets." Louisville's approach has changed the composition of a 700,000-person city, which was once mainly white and African American. From 1990 to 2004, the city's foreign-born population jumped 388% -- far above the 73% increase in the national average -- as it absorbed thousands of Asians, Eastern Europeans, Africans fleeing persecution and Latin Americans in search of opportunity. Some 80 languages are spoken in its schools, and one apartment complex -- "Americana" -- houses families from 42 countries. All of the immigrant groups pose challenges, and perhaps none more than the Somali Bantu. While the overwhelming majority of Bantu men have jobs, their large families, illiteracy and limited skills can make self-sufficiency an elusive goal. Historically, the Bantu in Somalia have been treated as second-class citizens by the country's lighter-skinned dominant clan. When civil war erupted in 1991, thousands of Bantu were enslaved, tortured and murdered. The lucky ones managed to flee to the relative safety of refugee camps in Kenya. The U.S. agreed to resettle about 13,500 Bantu, and starting in 2003, the refugees were scattered across the country, from upstate New York and Florida to Idaho and Oregon. The first couple hundred Bantu arrived in Louisville in 2003 and 2004. But since then, the city has attracted hundreds more of the preliterate Muslim minority who were originally assigned to other U.S. cities. "People are nice, the rent is cheap and you don't need English to get a job," says Nahiyo Osman, a Bantu woman whose family moved to Louisville from Chicago six months ago. "The Bantu have plenty of life skills. But they have to learn from scratch basic things that we take for granted," says Katie Carman, director of Arcadia Community Center, which is attached to a large apartment complex and offers Bantu children an array of free services. A hive of Bantu-related activity, Arcadia relies on grants and volunteers to operate. In 2006, it got a $25,000 grant from the Louisville Community Foundation, a local nonprofit, to fund Bantu cultural classes, after-school programs and a summer camp. In May, employees from GE, which makes appliances here, renovated the center with a $5,000 grant from the company. Charnley Conway, a vice president of human resources at UPS, which plans to add 5,000 jobs at its Louisville hub over the next three years, says investing in immigrants like the Bantu is vital. He adds that UPS has enlisted mentors to work alongside Bantu and other foreign employees struggling with English. The company funds English-language programs and the work of resettlement agencies, such as Catholic Charities, which help new immigrants. Hussein Issack and his family -- two children at the time, but now four -- were among the first Bantu families to land in Louisville. Kentucky Trailer, which hired him, had already developed expertise in immigrant labor. The closely held firm had turned around its business by hiring Bosnians and Latin Americans in the late 1990s and translating its instruction and safety manuals into their languages. The Somali Bantu, who speak Maay Maay, have no written language. So Mr. Issack learned through observation how to drive screws and rivets, use an electric saw and mount doors on trucks. Despite everyone's efforts, the immigrant population is sometimes a financial burden on the city. A year ago, Mr. Issack moved into public housing because he couldn't afford a bigger apartment after his fourth child was born. But Tim Barry, the director of the Louisville Metro Housing Authority, says he isn't concerned. "This is the sacrificial generation," says Mr. Barry, who is convinced the next Bantu generation will be better off.

Why are they divorcing each other if they are apparently still attracted to each other? Dad wareersan badanaa aduunkaan

Good for her.It's always great seeing hard working sisters

congrats DD May Allah give you better prospects... Did you really lose a few pounds over the last few days? Talk about being bogged down by your job! lol

I knew I should have started cutting down on coffee! Ramadan Kareem ppl

InshaAllah this Ramadan will bring us all back to Quran and also to sharing our insights. Ramadan Mubarak

Originally posted by Baashi: Busy with adduunyo all the time. Excuses are plenty and I tell myself that I can't be bothered to do this for I gotta family to feed. One of these days one of these days Insha'Allah. Today is one of those days brother IA for who knows if tomorrow will come?

Life is really better when you are a parent and any one who says otherwise just hasn't been there

^^ in my ayeeyo's voice "waxaan la i tusin aabiga!!"

Nephtys Najis najis dhalay dheh waliba yuu ku mooday

May Allah make it easy for her to attain Janna and give her family patience and ajar

This is truly beautiful

MashaAllah Mabruk sister. Isn't it just the most amazing feeling seeing a little human that is a part of both of u? May Allah bless your son with great Iman and a wonderful productive life.

lol BOB that was fun to read the most adventure I can handle is eating all kinds of exotic food that my folks call bahalo...as for heights I wareer even looking at a tall building samada iska soo tuur iskaba daaye