as for me i only wanted to meet one person first abdinur whom i already have met. i guess the only other person i would want to meet from here is wiil-waal since he is my friend. that's all.

hey ppl thanx for the positive feedback from the latest nomads here, and i will try to see if i get an inspration for the sequal, it has to be better than the original so God help me. lol sol president i believe in the freedom of choice nothing needs to be begged for, simply what xena expressed was her decision to marry him, he would be lucky winning duh. again thanx to all the ppl that had responded.

well i guess there is story i had forgotten about because it's better to be forgotten about incident. anyhow, one day when i was off work and getting to take care of my bills and stuff, i get this call and this voice on the other side says "u lied to me" and they just hanged up. so i was like what the hell and just forgot about it, i thought it was a prank or something. late in the evening as i am reading my book the phone rings, and again it that's voice from earlier today. Now this time he asks for me by name and i am like this her speaking, and then he starts talking to me. and i was like who are you, and he is like stop pretending u know who this is and blah blah blah. Now this guy knew my name what city i was in and everything and supposedly i met him a chat room and gave him my home number, i was hell nah i barely say my location let alone my home number, but how did he know those stuff. then he says tell me ur deep thoughts and stuff, i am like yo i don't know u and better never call me again. well it turns out that another girl in my city ,whom i am a friend of her brother, chated with him and told him my info instead of hers i was pissed off and i said if she ever does that again i wasn't responsible for the consequence. never did it again, but that was freak accident of the cyper. he was a big time wacko

well folks something has been brought to my attention. It seems most of the people here don't know whether it is true or not. In fact it is neither, i didn't dream it nor has it happened yet to me or anyone else i know. What i simply wrote about came to me the nite before as clear vision like a deja vu, and the next day while waiting for a friend i had a sudden urge to write it down, i wasn't intending for it to end up anywhere i was just going to erase it but my friend liked it and suggested that i post here. So again to clearfy it is not something that has happened to me or was it a dream it's just a hope that is what the future holds, in terms of finding a soul mate. lol someone suggested a i make a sequal to this and i don't know if i said something whether u guyz will wonder if i did it too or not. but i still appricate all the input u guyz given me and keep on enjoying it. I just wrote what was i was in the mood for.

hm kool_kat well first of all i don't read black author novels, never did and never will. As if u asking do i read romance novels yes i do. And lastely i got it from my brains and my own words, so that we be clear on that. other than that thanx for reading and liking it.

hello nomads i hope u all doing well and in good health. i would like to take this opportunity to thank all of u that have given me such a positive response, and i am glad that u had all enjoyed it too. girls thanx a lot and filsa u need to stop barking too much like that. Jamaal 11, it means a lot to me that someone of ur calibre would be moved by what i wrote and i appricate u letting me know so and liking it too. Wiil-waal, u can say all the damn u want, and i thought u always said i had a romantic side well i guess friends do know best sometimes Lakkad and illmatic thanx to both of u for ur encourgment and lakkad being moved to tears is a big accomplisment knowing him and finally MMA next time u see our mutual friend u must thank them cause without them i wouldn't have posted this. that's all folks, thanx.

I am so tired, so glad that the day has ended for me and I am finally home. It was rainy day my favorite just makes me want to kick back and watch an old movie and have a hot cup of tea. That image motivated me to head toward the kitchen and for a second the thought of the house being so quiet went through my head but oh well. I put the water on to get heated and while that’s underway I open the cabinet to grape the sugar and that’s when the beginning and the end happened for me. The foot steps of someone coming down the stairs was a bit scary since I thought no one else was here beside me at home, but that thought too slipped my mind at the speed of light because as I turned around I beheld the image of everything and anything I known. My dreams, my goals, my passion, my desire, my hopes, my future, my past, my lust, my fear were all put together or embodied in this person that was standing right in front of me. “I wonder how long it took for me to breath that first time I saw him?” I thought maybe this what people were talking about when they say “sweet dreams” have they all experienced these types of dreams I wondered, but yet it was so real and I was awoke but a moment ago, could this really be true? As he came down the stairs he never broke eye contact with me and I couldn’t either even if my life had depended on it at that time. He was coming closer and my heartbeat was accelerating, I didn’t know whether it was anxiety or excitement and even if I cared. He kept staring into my eyes and the hair on the back of my neck raised and goose bumps ran all the way through my back, it was as if he was seeing into my soul there was nothing whether it be thoughts or feelings that I could have hidden or kept from him. His arm was coming up I could see it from the corner of my eyes yet I couldn’t move. I thought to myself this would be the easiest murder written about “the victim put No Resistance” oh well it wasn’t a bad vision to die with or take from this world. But then again his hands went past my neck as if he was trying to touch my cheek that thought alone had me curl my toes and a charge pass from my cheek to my feet and I thought, “It does happen in real life!” “What the hell?” something is blocking the view from my left eye side and then I focused and there before me he was holding the sugar container I was about to have reached for earlier and he was saying something so I had to pay attention: “Hi, I heard u come in and put the kettle on the fire, so I thought u would be needing this” “Who Are You?” “Oh didn’t mean to scare u I am sorry I guess they forgot to tell you someone was coming over to stay here for couple of months, I am a friend of your uncle, My name is Kamaal nice to meet u? Which of the sisters are you then” I moved my head from right to left and gave it a few minutes of thought and then I smiled “My name is Xena AND I AM YOUR FUTURE WIFE it’s about time u showed up” and took the sugar container and went about my business, he was still standing at the same spot when I was taking my tea and I looked back and said “One more thing, you have only got one month to get used to the idea that’s all, so start practicing” And that was the day I proposed to my SOUL MATE.

well wildcat i guess my wording was bit confusing sorry about that i wrote it quickly between classes before the thought escaped my mind u know. i guess what i was trying to ask or find out was whether cloning process takes away more from human evolution(the natural way it is meant), for things to change as time progress because we as humans/animals trying to adapt to our environment. i mean if they having an exact carbon capy of scorpion_sista or what not, wouldn't it be fair to assume that identical copy would have the same deficit and problems i have, so it wouldn't be easier for it to adapt and evolutionize in every other socity or environment it would be exposed to as would be an offspring of mine that is not identical to my only genetic make-up. and what also i was trying to say was wouldn't cloning be seen in another way where those whom are richer, stronger, higher intelligence(such as einstein etc) in socities would be those canadiates chosen to be cloned not the average me and you or those poor persons that have disablities or mentally handicaped? Like maybe creating a society that exziptes those traits and personalities that best suited(uthopian societies type of thing)to survive. so as a total point i was asking wether this technology we are using today would really be worth the price that we have to pay for it later, because to me with every large invention came a high price tag with it i just wanted to see whether u guyz thought the price is worth it or too high of us nomads?

yeah i did see that movie, but i didn't get that the whole point of the movie to use them for that. it seemed the question was do those artifical robot have feelings that need to be considered, can they be human enough???? as to my age lol i don't see the relefence to it. but thanx for ur points of view.

HEY MAN I AM SORRY TO BREAK IT TO YA, BUT RAPE CRIMES ISN'T ABOUT SEX OR THAT MEN THINK THERE IS SHORTAGE OF FEMALES, RAPE IS A CRIME ABOUT CONTROL NOT PASSION. DOMINATION, OVERPOWERING AND ETC.

lolololololol wiil-waal that was some funny shit. those blondes always getting picked-up all the time. but that was funny.

hm if i am not mistaken there is abundance of female or atleast each man with one female, in fact in some cournties the ratio of man to female is 3 women per one man, so i don't think that would be something logic or short in supplies rite now.

Natural selection has been a common knowledge or educational materials to most of us that attended schools in usa or soforth. To make it short, the concepts of natural selection process are: 1.organisms best adapted to society are more likely to survive and breed. 2.organisms that are less competitive will not pass on their genes. 3.change in environment can cause mix of traits in a population. Now enters coloning into our generations and it seems to be contradicting in some way to what darwanisim and natural selection has all been about. I mean aren't those coloned species inflected with the same genetic dificiency or physical disablities of original beings because they are just a copy of those individual genes? And if those ppl today that are mentally retard or had other genetic disablities were allowed to replicate a carbon-copy of themselves would they ever as such species survive without human coloning because they supposdely aren't strong and therefore cann't compete or cann't adapt to the society they in? A man by the name of Herbet Spencer became a contraverlist man when he suggested that a those who are mentally + physically inferior should not be allowed to reproduce so they wouldn't pass their weak genes to another generation. Isn't that contradicting to the idea of coloning, and whom to do u think the scientist would choice to clon i am sure it is not the poor guy sleeping on the streets and ridden with illness. I guess that coloning might be this generations version of natural selection, those that can afford can probably have immurtality, in the end it's probably those ppl that have strong genes, and the fittest in this society today, in another word THE RICH. so let me know what u guyz think about it, and if u for or against cloning or any of ur thoughts on this subject?

well prettyboy i did hear of that term"one nightstand" but it is sad that u would destroy a good friendship with someone just to get a quickie really. as to that younger of man desiring a woman that old is just simply sick and not too realistic, but i still think of him being her friend at that time why risk a good friendship.

i got a question for pretty boy, do u find urself attracted to every single female u have be friended because that's what i got from ur last comment? i think that all of us have standard of what the person we meant for or spend the rest of our lives with should be like and not every women or men can exzibit those traits therefore not everyone is meant for us romantically. i always see somali ppl saying that they love so and so even if they met them just then and they don't know them yet so "what the hell they like about that person?" i could understand sexual attractions, infatuation, liking someone, but always somali folks use love for emotional express, and i think that this behavioral attitude rubs on their friendship therefore created obsticals that really don't need to be there, because one can not be attracted to all of their opposite friends, it is not just possible. hey ameenah i know what u mean, but the older we tom-boys get the harder it is to mix with the fellas cause they always comparing u to other girls. oh look at the time, well anyways that's my 1 1/2 cents on this topic.

well MLI nice topic, i think actually it was similar to my first topic posted here when i joined about 5 months ago. yes i believe that there can be just simple friendship between men and women but in somali society that is bit difficult if not impossible not due to other ppl but due to what young generation somali consider friendship between opposite sex to mean. through out the last 4 yrs i have tried to have friendship with somali guyz, and of as today i have only succeded in having 4 friends. i think what i believe to have been the problem with others was that as soon as one liked my attitude or my personality they think why not just date her or something rather than just focusing on the friendship. As to my friendship with males i tried to have it be equal as to my female friendship because it all depends on how comfortable i feel around those ppl not what gender they are. One last thing, i believe that the root of all relationship is friendship, but not every frienship meant to be anything more than friendship. i guess that's my 1 1/2 cents on this topic.

well i guess i couldn't let it pass and not drop my 1 1/2 cents on this topic: my story started in the same place as everyone else it seems. i met this guy from uk and to be truthfull i didn't pay attention to our first conversation i was dillusioned by the whole lot of somali ppl in there u can say. anyways i guess i gave him my e-mail address cause next thing i remember he was e-mailing and he kept on even when i wasn't responding for more than 2 weeks at times. well anyways i began to enjoy our e-mails and became friends with him. exchanged phone # after 8 months and then he mailed me his pic and i mailed him my pic after a year. Two years later now he is one of my good friends and he is someone that has shown me sides of me i didn't know or whouldn't been if i have not known him. I appriciate him a lot and i guess that's my only good memory of that somalinet place . p.s. one thing i have absorved or i kept noticing was that the sexier voice guyz had the uglier they looked like, so be aware of sexy voices And hey abdinur what u talking about fake pic, i didn't send u a fake one duh i was meeting u anyways why

The beautiful secretary of the president of a bank goes on a sight-seeing tour with a very rich African king who was a very important client. The client out of the blue asks her to marry him. Naturally, the secretary is quite taken aback. However, she remembers what her boss told her, don't reject the guy outright. So, she tries to think of a way to dissuade the businessman from wanting to marry her. After a few minutes, the woman says to the man, "I will only marry you under three conditions. First, I want my engagement ring to be a 75-carat diamond ring with a matching 200-carat diamond tiara." The African king pauses for awhile. Then, he nods his head and says, "No problem! I have. I have." Realizing her first condition was too easy the woman says to the man, "I want you to build me a 100-room mansion in New York. As a vacation home, I want a chateau built in the middle of the best wine country in France." The African king pauses for awhile. He whips out his cellular phone and calls some brokers in New York and in France. He looks at the woman, nods his head and says, "Okay, okay. I build. I build." Realizing that she only has one last condition, the secretary knows that she'd better make this a good one. She takes her time to think and finally she gets an idea. A sure-to-work condition. She squints her eyes, looks at the man and says, rather coldly, "Since I like sex, I want the man I marry to have a 14-inch penis." The man seems a bit disturbed. He cups his face with his hands and rests his elbows on the table, all the while muttering in African dialect. Finally, after what seemed like forever, the king shakes his head, looking really sad, and says to the woman, "Okay, okay. I cut. I cut."

lolololololololol abdinuur that's really funny. at first u feel like saying to the guy "ohh behave" but after that last comment wonder why anyone marries, lol jk thanx again for the laugh.

loooooooooooooooooool shaqsii those rules gave me a good laugh. gosh they just so funny

well shaqsii it seems to me u got a lot of things on ur mind this past few days judging from ur new topics. but anyways to answer ur question,i cann't speak for all somali women but i can speak for somali women in my family, and u bettcha they support the men in our family. My grandmother supported and encourged my father to pursue heigher dreams for himself. My mother supported my dad when he wanted to get another degree and supported our family for the past 4yrs by herself. My aunts supported their brothers when they needed to establish themselves in foreign countries. So yeah in our somali women support and provide encourgment,but also a man must desire and want to achieve sucess from within him a woman but makes the road traveled worthwhile. that's my 1 1/2 cents on this topic.

this idea been running in my head for the last week but it seems u beat me to it. yeah it would be nice to meet everyone face to face, maybe a time should be scheduled and make it like a reunion type of get together. from the forum i met abdinuur in real life and it was great experience so yeah i am definetely looking forward to meeting the peepz from the forum and see how they in person. well that's 1 1/2 cents on this topic. peace

loooooooooool looooooooooooool dang it MMA that was some serious shit, ehehehehehe i just cann't stop laughing here, thanx a lot for posting this. p.s. nice to see u back again dude, peace.

a guy found himself unable to satisfy his wife in bed.He tried hundreds of methods but just wasn't able to give her an orgasm. He finally went to hi best friend and asked for advice. His friend told him not to worry because he knew a method that was 100% successful."hire a big strong black man to stand next to your bed and wave a huge towel over both of you while you are having sex. your wife is sure to have an orgasm". He hired the strong man, hopped into bed, and while the huge black guy waved the towel, he made hot monkey love to his wife. but all his efforts were in vain. No orgasm. He went back to his friend and told him what had happened. His friend suggested that the husband and the big guy switch places. "why dont you wave the towel while the big guy does the job in bed". The husband agreed and said he would do anythin to satisfy his wife. The husband hired the same guy again but this time they traded places.The strong guy made wild, hot, crazy love to the man's wife while the husband stood and waved the towel. Naturally, the man's wife had a divine orgasm. The husband leaned over to the black guy and said proudly "you see! that shows you how to wave the towel".

Lulu was a prost*tute, but she didn't want her grandma to know. One day, the police raided a whole group of prostitutes at a $ex party in a hotel, and Lulu was among them. The police took them outside and had all the prost*tutes lined up along the driveway when suddenly, Lulu's grandma came around the corner. Grandma asked, "Why are you standing in line here, dear?" Not willing to let her grandmother know the truth, Lulu told her grandmother that the policemen were there passing out free oranges and she was just lining up for some. "Wow, That's awfully nice of them. I think I'll get some for myself", and she proceeded to the back of the line. A policeman was going down the line asking for information from all of the prost*tutes. When he got to Grandma, he was bewildered and exclaimed, "Wow, still going at it at your age? How do you do it?" Grandma replied, "Oh, i! t's easy, dear. I just take my dentures out, rip the skin back and suck them dry."