looooooooooool Tagane i have grown on ya ha now that you defending me. Thanx a lot for the gester, but i am made of tougher skin than that. As to Brotha_Man and S.O.S to each person their own opinion and their own sense of humor.

looool guys glad that you enjoyed. Che_Guevara maybe i would one day write a story in the country. But re-read what legend of Zu said because it hadn't anything to do with country side. P_S Well i am glad to hear that. Because love is a beautiful thing. And who knows what's out there for ya. As to this hobby nah i don't think i can make it into career. I have only written these pieces and another story a month ago. It's just a mood stuff and i can't be having a career in writing based on mood swings. But i just wanted to say, you shouldn't constrict yourself to something in regards to love, be spontaneous, either you go after it or it come after you, what matters that it's there Xafsa and C_L glad that you guys enjoyed it too although it was long one. You better let me know C_L i wouldn't want to miss that

looool Tagane i see. I got to say one thing, i am a tomboy so maybe i experience a lot of conflict between testestrones and estrogen hormones but you see sometimes i have this periods of time where everything someone says i take into sexual context at time But can't do anything about it and it's not contagious

nothing here too...

hmmmm well if "most" of men know how to treat their women, why not in term think that "most" of women know how to treat their husbands ha ha. No need for lists like this for us right......... by the way, sorry if i took ur first statement in wrong context. Blame it on hormonal issue

I didn't know we had blind members here.

hmmmmm if it isn't one of reasons mentioned above i guess i would say that maybe her sister was her "twin" sister and she didn't want competition

fair enough Kool_Kat loooooooooooooool Legend of Zu, i thought the same thing first when i read her list he he C_L you know i got mad love for ya LooooL Tagane, well what can i say.........

looooooool don't tell me Tagane you are trying to avoid something here :eek: :eek: . Ther are other stuffs outside of the bedroom one needs to do to please their wives. So let's big Mom spread the message to the fellaz too......go on

Well since it's time "Either me or you" here is my list of people i would trade: 1. Kool Kat--i hate shopping. 2. Mr. Millenium--in an island along with investigation officer isn't a stress i need at that time. 3. Cute-LiLGirl--sorry but talks too much. 4. Da-Beast--need i say anything 5. The Rock's-chick--did i mention i despise shopping. 6. Laziegirl--too angry and that's not a good combination with isolation of an island. 7. The Clown--the guy is hitting puperty for godsakes.... 8. MMA--i can't even begin to explain 9. OG-Mati--can you imagine what he would cook for us, hell naaah 10. Barwaaqo--wouldn't let us eat the burgers we trade everyone else for so she gots to go..... That's my list for now.

looool Che_Guevara nah that you aren't buddy. But i hope that if the opportunity arrives for us, we wouldn't be too affraid of the risk to take it

hmm i read this before in someone's web site, and if i am not mistaken there is a list of what men should do to please their wives. I would suggest you put that one also here, as it to be equal since the guyz are already reading this. bee bye.

:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:you sold me ha woman, well don't think i am just going to be happy that i am the last one you would get rid off and for what an ice cream? it better be vanilla or i would seriously be upset. R u sure this wouldn't start hostility between people, who might not take it as a joke?????????? P.s. I will be back with my list after class.

hmmm there are so many each year, but there are ones i will never get sick of hearing them. 1. beacause you loved me: Celine Dion 2. Sensual Healing. 3. Heartbreak hotel and What you think if i told you: both my Whitney houston 4. Satisfaction: Eve 5. baby if u give it to me: new jam by busta ryhems and mariah. 6. Get busy: shawn paul 7. caught: by shaggy 8. a song by faith even an karl thomas i guess those that come to mind right now. of course it doesn't include the arabic and indian songs i really like. bee bye.

looooooool "support" well i am a one to hold people to their words, so if you sure........ thanx for everything, it was amuzing bartering with ya.... P.s. Scorpion only bites when provoked, so don't be afraid as long as you aren't on my bad side

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: DANG i don't know how i am going to get that image out of my head now. Oh god, see one must know everything before they make a decision

Looks like the adminstration is going to let your statements pass by. So i guess this is all i got to say "I am sorry to suggest for you to try to be friends with girls, i had no idea that u were hitting puperty age and had hormonal issues at this time. I would suggest maybe u try again in maybe 5 years. By then i am assuming you to be more mature. I do also hope for u to get out of this puperty stage diseaseless!!!" That's my 1 1/2 cents on your reply.

Well Qaxwo, if u give me some Xaalwo I might be persuaded to spill the beans I could say later that i was sort making u feel welcome and they shouldn't call me a tell taller

heheheheheheheheheh loooooooooool you wicked man. Trying to be smart ASS i see ha. Watch out though, i never just stick with hurting one spot, i run through everything!!!!!!!!

loooooooool Che_Guevara i guess u beat me to the punch line. I was going to try to clearify your statement and stop making everyone think you were a poor stray dog But u right i know what u meant. Usually i just say "I believe in love, but i don't believe in love for me"

loooool No problemos Exdane, but still seems u acting like moderater ha Hey Abdo i am glad that u benefited something from reading this topic. And Ameenah although after reading ur first response at first, it might feel like that, i never thought u were attacking me. And i did ask for others opinion and i do that because it allows me to see things from another view points by people points i didn't see or didn't even think about it. And for that i am appriciative for your input Ameenah, it definitely makes me think that even maybe with the best intentions one can go wrong about it. And to make sure i word my statements more accurtely next time bee bye.

FIRST OF ALL, NICE TO SEE U HERE EXDANE AND THANX FOR THE INPUT. "I think that your making the assumption that ppl with disabilities.. need the 'able' ppl to speak for them and defend them." I re-read what i said again, and in no shape was that implied or stated to be my main goal for this topic. Even those of us that have no physical or mental disabilites have hard time expressing ourselves to other people. What i expect us to defend them against is other people trying to dissociate them from being involved in any activities or even in their communities based on them being disabled, that's what i feel we need to speak with them rather than really against them. "Take your cousin, he is in a wheelchair.. that doesn't make him an invalid... He is capable of speaking up for himselve. And by getting angry over the whole affair you are in a sense insulting his intelligence. I am sure, the brother is capable of educatin the ppl himself." What i said i was going to get angry about was that despite everything he has done and worked hard for, a lot of people will see not his accomplisment but his wheelchair and pass judgements on him, and that's what would make me upset. Trust me he does speak for himself, but he only gained that confidence and opportunity to do so because he has lived in Eruopean country, and they didn't view him as worthless person just cause he couldn't walk. It is why i mentioned him, because if we just give somali kids with disabilities a chance, they can achieve a lot, even more than the so called "normal" people. Which again reflects back on the young woman i mentioned, it seemed that her parents didn't even feel she deserved to have a say in her life, but just passed her off. I hope this clearfies what i was stating and sorry if i implied in anyway that "we need to be speaking for disabled persons"

looooool if i knew u were out there and wanting to be educated i would have told my health education teachers and nurses to hold the class till you got there. Alas since u got my joke i am assuming that u picked couple of pointers along the road, i hope not though literally "you know scorpion sista, you driving me crazy with your style changes" Now explain urself, because i know u ain't talking about my hair now :mad: just kidding.

when i first read this i was like :eek: :eek: i couldn't possibly see them as couple. But then...........anything is possible. Sorry though i can't sing in somali. looooooool sorry KAP didn't mean to i just got up, my brain isn't function too well.

heheheheheheheh loooooooooooooooooooooooooooool who's the dirty minded or imaginative now :eek: :eek: :eek: well it's was not my fault, gosh since the time i have arrived in this country they been bumbaring me with sexual stuffs so it was unintentional "going off to curve" sort of thing.