loooooool Ameenah those who don't remember the tweety days might not get the joke...But nonetheless it's was funny. Now let me see, I have never been in love. But there was a guy i had a crush on about 2 yrs ago..We actually are still good friends, and that's really cool. I don't and never had regreted having feelings for him as i did, because it was an awsome ride and it was worth it to feel as i did, even if it was for short period of time. I wouldn't have been the woman I am today if I didn't know him or he wasn't part of my life. So since I am happy with myself at this moment i am happy with my past...Experiences are what we make of them not how good or bad they were...Bee bye for now.

I didn't intend to get involved with this topic but after 2 pages of non-decision among couple of girls just got me grinding my teeth...So let me tell ya how girls night out is done... 1. U dress how ever you want to dress like..GO WILD 2. Decorate the whole besement or rented area... 3. Get drinks and order Pizza 4. Have mix tapes--> Indian, R&B, Raggie, hip-hop and Arabic 5. Make a lot of sweets--> Cream-caramel, strawberry cheescake, and a cakes...No guys to worry about finishing our food :mad: :mad: 6. Trash guys just for the fun of it.. 7. Have a lot of caffeine...Need the energy and craziness 8. LET THE PARTY BEGIN.. Hopefully that would end this debate about the party...Cause i hope you all can have fun without guyz...Because it's so much fun.

looooool glad that you liked it....

loooooooooool lovely me i got to say u picked a very suitable avator, a person that continues to hammer on non-stop....But u know what they say curiosity killed the Cat so watch out... Anyways let me see about ur questions: Why do you think people cheat and have the need to get attention or sex elsewhere? Because they want to and can it's that simple... have you ever been unfaithful? :eek: Nope how did you feel? Nothing have you ever been cheated on...? Nah :mad: how did you feel? loool nothing what did you do? well let me think.....NOTHING did you go or did you stay? Now if i was cheated on then i am leaving no questions about it....My friend actually gave me a nick name "Goodbye you are the weakest link" lady...I guess cause i don't give second chances...hmmm I am proud of that title..

I know i ain't a fella but This is not a topic ....That's my 1/2 cents on this rubbish...

Here is another one which i am very fond of to this day....Actually it as might as well be one of the reason i joined this website...BTW underdog i thought it went well with ur call 911 joke...So u might enjoy this one too. Bee bye.

looooool this is one of my favorite jokes so i thought i would bring it back up....Still cracks me up...Hopefully you all will enjoy it, espically Underdog

looool that's funny but the boy needs his mouth watched with soap....He is too young for those words....U know what i was looking around in my e-mail and found this joke and i thought why waste space and post it under a new topic...So here it is hope u enjoy it...It's called Elderly Dating: At the Senior Citizen's luncheon, an elderly gentleman and an elderly lady struck up a conversation and discovered that they both loved to fish. Since both of them were widowed, they decided to go fishing together the next day. The gentleman picked the lady up, and they headed to the river to his fishing boat and started out on their adventure. They were riding down the river when there was a fork in the river, and the gentleman asked the lady, "Do you want to go up or down?" All of a sudden the lady stripped off her shirt and pants and made mad passionate love to the man right there in the boat! When he finished, the man couldn't believe what had just happened, but he had just experienced the best sex that he'd had in years. They fished for a while and continued on down the river, when soon they came upon another fork in the river. He asked the lady, "Up or Down?" There she went again, stripped off her clothes, and made wild passionate love to him again. This really impressed the elderly gentleman, so he asked her to go fishing again the next day. She said yes. There they were the next day, riding in the boat when they came upon the fork in the river, and the elderly gentleman asked, "Up or Down?" The woman replied, "Down." A little puzzled, the gentleman drove the boat down the river when he came upon another fork in the river and he asked the lady, "Up or Down?" She replied "Up." This really confused the gentleman, so he asked, "What's the deal? Yesterday, every time I asked you if you wanted to go up or down, you made mad passionate love to me. Now today, "nothing!" She replied, "Well yesterday I wasn't wearing my hearing aid and I thought the choices were 'F*** or DROWN'.

hmmmm First of all it seems this is more complicated than it seems. And I do believe that your age shoud be a factor in the decision that you would have to make. Personally my advice to you is if you feel he is the guy for you and would like to spend the rest of your life with then just have patience. Try to work on your parents first of all, that might take a time, which in term i think well be good for ya...See what objections your family might have to him besides his qabiil and if that is the only thing they got against him then work on that...After a period of time when u feel they might be softening then try to introduce him to your family and see how it goes from there. Again I don't advice or even believe you need to run away or marry this guy against your family wishes, because those kind of marriages that don't have the approval of the parents don't succeed and really create this rift between people, that's my personal opinion. So what's my overall message, be patient with your family and try not to give up on them...And just give yourself time, maybe this is your guys test...To see how true your love is and how much it can withstand...Sorry if i rambled on for too long...bee bye for now.

looooool actually i used to be a fast typest before, but lost it kind after high school. But actually i been getting back to trying to write faster again by playing this games, where i type and at the same thinking out load what i am writing and doing all that while keeping my eyes on the tv. I am getting better again, but no way near where i need to be....Anywyas, the kids are around 10 yrs old so i don't think it would be a big deal and it's really this nice lake so beautiful...But again maybe u can take pictures and post them here for those of us that don't attend ur trip....bee bye.

well i went and found the list and here it goes u be the judge if it is the same or 99% close: We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note... these are them, posted by Xafsa: 1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.. 1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for. 1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor. 1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days. 1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. 1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one. 1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself. 1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials. 1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that. 1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle. 1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. 1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really. 1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks. Bee bye....

looooooooooooooooool i finally figured out who u used to be....Hiding out ha mr. leamante...Shame on you, joining the name changing revolution ha...well i got you name now busta and it's going to be in my black book for a while now...

hmmmm i wouldn't be able to join this adventure, cause i wouldn't know if i would survive my skydiving experience...But you know what this a good idea maybe i will see if my friends want to try this around our area gosh we can even involve the kids in it too. Dang it that reminds i got to write down "consent forums" u know parents this days......So modern and up and up on everything.....But wish u and the rest all the best and have too much fun alright....bee bye.

hmmmm there are those days i feel like 2002 looks like 2003 and there is no difference between each day of mine. But then i scrab myself from the bottom of the barrel and i write this reflection pieces, like every 5 months or a year, to see what have i accomplished in that time. Be it anything, get to know someone, helping a friend or someone else, just anything small or large that have altered my life in somewhat. After that i usually don't feel a useless person....But i guess once i finish this school insha allah i am planning to be jumping off an airplane hopefully that would get my blood pumping.... hmmm that got me thinking i got to write my will too well i guess i got save my stuffs now...

looooool what can i do C_L woman it's just hormonal talk a girl gots to release energy somehow....

I do remember couple of days someone else posted this list, except if i am not mistaken the top one wasn't included, so i am assuming u added to it or they didn't copy it. Anyways, i remembered a funny thread i read a long time "Topic: Would you use this Pre-relationship agreement?" Maybe u want to check it out.....Although it required a signature and full knowledge of what's one being involved in....bee bye.

loooool looks like you and Mad-Scientist were thinking the same thing or got the same e-mail, cause he posted this in general section. But it's funny............

You know what a friend of mine recently showed me this website called S.......com and i was looking around at some of the pictures posted there. Not long into it, i see a pictures of Indhadeeq and Nin-dheer, but with other persons profiles. What's up with people using someone's else picture or stealing pictures? What's the problem with someone just being themselves? Well i thought it was worried and i felt i wanted it out of my chest.....till next time, bee bye.

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe Now if that's what one guy considers a slow day, i wonder what for him would be a fast day...

SHYHEM COME OVER HERE LET ME CHECK YOUR TEMPERATURE.....R U OKAY DUDE? HMMMM I EXPECTED A BIT MORE HEAT OR FIRE :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: WELL THAT'S OKAY I GUESS, EVEN U GOT TO BE NICE SOMEDAYS...THANX FOR THE EFFORT THOUGH....BEE BYE.

looool Mango, well since when intimate ideas been considered dirty....What can i say, i am a very passionate woman....

Brown_Sugah..I was sure u would catch the mistake soon enough but it seems your pm might have been hit with some people wondering what u were talking about...Anyways thanx for giving ur input in this topic... Hey Baashi i had nothing against your answer, in my opinion that is the answer I have arrived at myself. I just wanted to clearfy few things about this topic. I wasn't asking people to give me a definite answers or anything like that, i just wanted to see how people reason out with questions such as these. And maybe for those who wonder about those questions, they would seek "Ulmmah" for answers...I just didn't want to be by myself wondering and finding out the answer but to have even at least 2 other people wonder and seek answer too maybe then i did my duty as a Muslim person....So in the end "Ulmma don't seek one but one must seek them to find out the truth...But if one doesn't wonder about things how shall they feel they need to find answers to them...and in terms the truth." Anyways, i did pm the admin. about deleting this topic, now the rest is up to them.... U know what they say Che-Guevara, great minds think alike

S.O.S. DO YOU WANT TO DO IT TOGETHER I THINK HANGING IS TOO SLOW...

to Nafisa and MALAIKA: Your recents statements in regards to Che_Guevara and myself have really sort of not went well with me. To me it seems you guyz are yelling "GET A ROOM" just cause we are having a conversation together. NO one forced either one of you to keep returing to this thread, because let's face it, the original topic has been dead for while now, and i don't believe it's because of us. And if that was the case, the author of this topic I am assuming would have mentioned to stop using his space anymore...So again since it seems the conversation between Che-Guevara and I are making you guyz uncomfortable we will remove ourselves from this thread.... And to the hindi actors, you know what, u guyz like whomever you want to like and I respect that. but neither of you expected or needs to really understand why i like Akshay more than any other actor, it is my choice. And as i do respect ur choices i would like the same curtsey from both of you too... And P.S. I am not mad at you guyz for real...

“Sis this kind of philosophical question that may cast doubt in our hearts should not be posted (just opinion).” It seemed to you earlier I was being deep but now I am doubt caster? You know I have been a member of this site a year now, and through it all, I been surprised by some people, but I can say today for the first time I have been disappointed by someone I respected and admired here… Someone from my childhood once told me when I became of age, “that I have the right to choose my religion and what I make of myself from today on,” and I have never taken that lightly. I am a Muslim person today, not because my parents and their parents were, but because I have faith in Islam and have made it to be my destiny. I have always thought one cannot just have faith in heart but must also have faith in mind. Therefore I have always questioned and questioned again, not because I doubt in my heart the words or the wisdom of Allah, but because I believed with logic it strengths my faith and make me see the wisdom more. Do you think if earlier Muslims didn’t question their own faith, worshipping stones or Saanib, which they created themselves, would they have became Muslims? A blind man can’t lead and a blind man can’t follow unassisted. Our children will ask us questions because they want to know why something is done and to strengthen their faiths it is our responsibilities to question ourselves so that we strengthen our believe first. Not just tell them “that’s how things are.” Because tomorrow Kaafiir will ask them about their religion and they would be asked to analysis or explain, and if they are unprepared then in their hearts will arise doubts. You know what I am asked everyday why I wear Hiijab or why I don’t drink or why I don’t this and that, and if I don’t have a back-up or logical (philosophical) arguments to support the wisdom of Allah then…I haven’t done my job as Muslim person…When one is told someone worships a cow and automatically it is asked “why?” Or we need logical arguments provided to us for starting war in Iraq, it is accepted questions. I wish we don’t run and hide from questions that digs into our roots of faith, because a tree without strong roots cannot withstand time or strong winds…I would like to say thanks to those of you who have given me some insights and hopefully this topic in a good way made someone think..And that is my opinion..