damn that ice cream truck

I was reading this column yesterday about a guy who was a 29 years old dating a woman who is the same age for the past 3 or 4 months…She has never allowed him to kiss in that time, yet they have had sex several times. He said that the girlfriend was petrified of kissing because it’s so intimate and that he should be patient with her. The last guy she dated for two years and they never kissed so he was I don’t think I could wait that long. Why Somali people don’t kiss in public? As this story demonstrates, some people (might seem strange) feel kissing is a very intimate act sometimes even more so that the actual mating part. Therefore they don’t like to do it in public but more in private setting. Why Somali people don’t French kiss? I think its two part answer…First It depends on the attitude of one person toward kissing…They could think it’s just extra-fluffing and not really important to what sex is meant for aka procreation…Second part is related to the person’s first experience with French kissing, for example if the person tried it and they really had an awful teacher then of course they aren’t going to be interested in trying it again…No one likes to do something they don’t enjoy and usually bad experience stay in the mind longer…And vise versa if the person gets a good teacher that allows them to explore and try different methods and find their own pleasure in it they are more likely to try it later on. That’s my input, bee bye

loooooool this was so hillarious thank you for letting me know about it...I got to watch it again like now...Bee bye

Hear no evil, see no evil, and speak no evil...So appropriate it seems

how did it go!

Be-Happy My day is going great thank you for asking...When I woke up I felt rested and aced my exam afterward...And outside it is gorgeous not even being at work would put me down...thank you for asking How has been your day!

I don't know what you mean, but before the good old USA, I was egyptian not hindi

Zola, Yeah they go nuts with subtitles, sometimes it is not accurate, or the worst I have seen was Bhaag Bham (Govinda and akshays's film) where the words all mushed together...I only watch them in subtitles because my sister hasn't mastered the language yet, and it is hard to explain at the same time of watching. I have seen Race already and I had enjoyed it very much...I actually watched it on bollysaga.com another good site...My favorite film of all time is Aaina, have you ever seen it? Be-happy no I have never been to pakistan, have you?

Hayam Yeah youtube's copy wasn't bad, but afterward I went to Eros entertainment and bought the movie online...Now I can watch it whenever I want, and it's better watching it on tv than on computer screen...I just finished watching "U ME UR HUM" on www.vipdesi.com and it was a good movie Zola, I do hate Kareena's acting most of the time, but in this movie the character required someone to be overacting so I guess it worked for her...And she and Shahid had a good chemistry, although it was in this movie, they in real life broke up...Karen definitely acts in a feminine way, but I don't know if he is definitely gay or not. Ram gomal varma films are definitely interesting and they do have female characters that are different than those seen in bollywood cinema...As I mentioned your sister should definitely check out "Naach" and if you want more suggestions let me know. Yeah I have learned Hindi from watching all those films, still though sometimes I don't get certain words, but I can understand a movie without subtitles...Now I am trying to speak Hindi(urdu) in my head to continue learning it better, for when I visit India Insha-Allah

I think the results of the study says it all...Less attractive male with beautiful woman take pride in their woman's look and say to the other male population "look here she is beautiful and she is with me" Where as men, who are good looking, tend to be all about themselves...Even in our culture, if a guy is good looking he gets the girls attention without any effort therefore he has less appreciation for women's need...There is always going to be another girl waiting around the corner I think maybe if a guy is less attractive, he figures out other ways to attract females, like developing a great sense of humor/good personality/attentive etc...Maybe ugly men make beautiful woman desired for more than just their looks bee bye

Nothing greater than taking a nap in the middle of the day, after work, or after school

Sounds very interesting and worth $10 to watch it...Often homelessness is viewed in a negative way, like they did something to be there, where as good people through difficult time and just having a bad luck can easily lose their homes...I think about this woman working two jobs and trying to raise her children and how back home most of the people worked like 30 hours a week, owned their homes, and had a whole neighborhoods if not close relatives helping them with their children's upbringing...It would be great for Somali communities around the world to create some assistance funds for situations like not having money for rent or car insurance, to help those in needs during certain times...I know some communities have funds for funeral costs and what not...Sorry if I rambled on, bee bye Khadra

I have recently noticed two people who I know have children with Autism and both of those children are male, and it just made me thing about it...So I wanted to know if that was just me or whether this was an issue in Somali Communities around the world...It is sad to see parents behaving in such manner and in the long run the child is not helped...I am definitely looking to educate myself on this topic, and want to get involved in training for how to deal with autism children, so I wanted to know. There is a co-worker of mine, who is from ukraine, he talked about how they have special schools for children with special needs and they don't allow integration...So when he substitudes in american schools, he would be like they shouldn't be here...To me it isn't about the school sepration, it is about providing teachers with the qualification to teach both types of student...And there are some students with special needs who need to be taught seprartely than the rest of the group, because they can be disruptive to other students learning...If we just get passed the stigma, and just see those children for how capable and wonderful they are, but just that their minds and bodies work differently it would be a wonderful world. bee bye

loool Nephthys, you can sneak it in-between, as long as you cleanse before hand there shouldn't be a problem...Maybe those who opt for it, delay their wedding night to afterward, it is more to share an spiritual connection...Bee bye

The stuff people do to children and to each other, animals are kinder than us

Well see if Somali people are this way about pretend love imagine how guarded they would be toward true love...Personally speaking, when I experienced "love" the first time it was exhilarated and exciting, and despite how it ended I wouldn't have changed it for anything...As a matter of fact It made me look forward to really falling in love...Bee bye

Cool looking forward to it

Oh this a great step, I would definitely check the web page afterward, I am current at work...R you working for an aid organization? if yes which one?...bee bye You know speaking about children with disabilities, are the number of Somali children being diagnosed with Autism increasing?

Originally posted by Cadaan: ^LOL For sure, but you gotta realize that girls dry-humping each other in an aroos or ruwayad video is much different from a married couple kissing. Reading this statement I couldn't help decide between reacting like this :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: or laughing my *** off...So I did both Not clear on the question of this topic is it 1. Do Somali couples French kiss? or 2. Why don't Somali people express passion publicly? bee bye

Originally posted by Yaabka-Yaabkiis: quote: Often people are afraid to experience love because they don't want to get hurt I doubt somaliz do that? Hmm I disagree with you, but why would you say somali aren't afraid to experience love? I mean the true sense of the word "love" not just the infatuation or the pretend love!!!

loool Zola well thank you and it's good to see people enjoying the movies, maybe not as much as me, but to certain degree...I hope you enjoy those movies and looking forward to your thoughts...I have definitely watched KWK it's a fun show and you get to see the stars being perosonable, how about you? Hungari, I have already mentioned couple of new releases in previous replies so check those out if any of them interest you...As for Sharukh Khan, his last two films were "Chak De India" which I would recommend to watch and "OM SHANTI OM" released last year which was total bollywood entertainer if you know what I mean... Hayam, the guy she ended up with at the end is called Farid Shooqy or Shooky can't be sure of spelling...Very famous movie star and passed away I believe but daughter is in the movies and series now...She is not bad...As for Ash I believe she did a de-glamorized movie called "RAIN COAT" with Ajay devgan and it wasn't bad film and she got good reviews for it...The director of the sequel for sarkar is Ram Gopal Varma he tends to make his ladies gritty and not so dolled up Legend of Zu, ah dream girl how didn't love her if you would like to see her in a mature role you should check out family drama called "BAGHBAN" very good film and she is co-staring with Amitabh

Zafir, why no more bollywood yaar!!! Hayam, the sequel to sarkar is coming out this year, and it's going to have aishwar as a mobster and I am totally looking forward to it...The brother is really a good actor, I had seen him recently in couple of movies...Would you believe me I own a copy of Goz Maraty, I like Sabah very much...Ps. best of lucks with exams and essays Alright Adam, let me know whenever you get a chance, I am curious to see it from a man's perspective...bee bye

Since Sol had couple of topics in regards to discrepencies in education between couples in last few days, if they like Hindi films they should check out this film... Tara Rum Pum, deals with highly educated woman and midely educated man falling in love and their journey...bee bye

Heck Yeah As long as he is muslim and practicing one, he is welcome...Honestly, looking at the type of guys I found attractive, I would say I am partial to white males

Originally posted by rudy-Diiriye: cajiib xalimos talking about wilds things!! must be end of the world. dabo qalooc..u 2! lool. everytime i see a xalimo, the room is dark... it takes me 5 min to find her! and all that work... and all that nubaro to take care for the next week!! Are xalimos wearing nite vision googles like marcus's these days! me personelly, i prefer blk sista...there waa la islakee dacaa! bac bac bac...! i dont have to do no work. (blame this on jb). Dabo qalooc, I assume that’s me right!!! Rudy tsk tsk what wild things are you talking about I was tame compared to your statement. Now let me show you mildly wild Number 1: Rudy haven’t I taught you anything, faraax and Xalimo are allowed to get frisky in dim lighted place if it is the movie theater…And maybe in parking lot…Not the bedroom, please turn on the light Number 2: If memory serves me correct, you talked a lot even though u never used to make sense to me back in the days, so why aren’t you using your communication skills in the bedroom!!!…If the girl doesn’t want light, you should have created a romantic setting by using candle light…And when it was time, you can keep some of the candle burning while still allowing enough darkness to be there for her to be comfortable…Win/Win situation… Ps. I must still encourage you to not engage in pre-marital sex it is not good for you Number 3: A bit of work isn’t bad for a man, although being “ride me” kind of guy seems to be your preference, it’s all good As to this topic , honestly it isn’t about the man being unhappy with their sizes, it’s obviously about the perception that these Indian man fall below the “International Average size” therefore they feel ashamed to ask for the appropriate size…It is the ego being deflated based on the high standards set out by other men around the world…Leading to unhealthy and dangerous sex practices…I used to work in a place that sold condoms before and majority of the buyers tended to be women; if men came to purchase them, they usually spoke in hushed voices and their eyes bugged out when I used to ask “banana/orange flavor or strawberry/banana flavor?”…Usually the answer was “whatever”…We only carried one size at the time, imagine if we carried different sizes, I am sure like the Indian men they would have chosen a bigger condom than they needed...If no one asked they would probably get the right size for themselves, it's the asking that causes the boosting bee bye