this a question i always wanted 2 know does anyone on this site fully somali belive that they dont look somali? whether its a personal belief or comments made by ppl just say so and what country do u look like u come from?. i personally use to think i looked somali until when i reached a certain age(teenage) i was doubted by many people including somalis. british people that havent travelled say i am asian (suprise suprise any muslim wearing a scarf is asian)and for those that travel say i look like like an arab. i even had a argument with an asian man.i screamed 'i am not asian' and he was like yesss u rrr. i got a headache truthfully. many arabs say i look like an arab (black arab)how many arabs i told i dont understand their language god knows.hehehe then theirs the whole mixed race issue. and last of all my people i remember they always use to speak to me in english and i found it intimidating then i found out why. people always are shocked when i tell them.and then they say 'oh my god' u dont look like it. anyways the whole point of this topic r u proud that u look somali or different?. i am happy with my self because the tend to b many somali girls that tend to say the snide comments. and the look on their face when they find out somali is golrious. hehehehe ppl reply

yes you are right....but i neva do anythin beyond talkin and neither do they r respectable muslim brothers . i recognise how precious my body is to me....and even talkin is seen as wrong(in lonely places) i do happen to b aware of my religion and try to practise it with the best of my ability. i pray 5x a day and try 2 attend friday prayer and i neva missed one day of ramdan on purpose.but there does come a time when i will have to get married and i will like to have the choice to find myself husband because no one understands my needs but me. so plz haddad do not pre-judge others so hastly as u did 2 me because i found it quiet upsetting to be labelled as a 'wrong-doer' . but thank you anwaysfor contributing and continue preaching

hey guy and gals..im new here i didn wanna jus pop up frm no where na'mean..i would like to be recognised if its not to much to ask. so i like to get 2 know u n all. anways since im on the women section i'll to say hi 2 the gals and state my problem guys feel free to join in too.errmm basically i am having troubles in my personal life(love)4 guys are interested in me and i dont know which 2 choose. one i use to go out stated he loves me but i recently found out his heart was set on other gal,his friend has feelings for me. and the third guy was introduced to me by my friend and the fourth i got 2 know him on the internet. i dont want 2 string these guys along because 3 will get hurt in the process not just 1. i dont wanna be a pimpette like my friend who has many options available that some girls go out b/fless becoz of her. u'll probably tell me 2 choose the 1 i've known the longest but i cant becoz he lies and his also has a temper. i dont knw wat i feel at the moment i am all confused. if i do get it together should i go along with my heart or brain? thnks for reading