- I Wake up my wife for Fajr. - I teach my wife, and I do all it takes for her to learn Islam. - I talk to my family about the example of the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhewa sallam and I strive to emulate his example as a husband. - I know it is my responsibility to help with housework and I give my wife days off and do the work she would normally do. - I assist my wife in the care of our children. - I am patient with my wife and I show her love and affection. - I speak to my wife in a kind, respectful and gentle manner. - I sit with my family and present topics for discussion. - I ask my wife for advice and I accept and appreciate getting constructive criticism from her. - I take my wife out for recreation and exercise.

My dearest Husband, Here are a few tips on how to be a successful Muslim Husband! May Allah Ta’ala give you the wisdom to understand the difference. Whatever truth is in it, is from Allah and His messenger (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) and whatever mistakes are from the Shaytaan and you. So to be a successful husband here are the tips from your wife. Dress up for your wife. Look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like you want me to look nice for you, I also want you to dress up for me. Remember that Rasullullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) would always start with Miswaak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smell. High time you should use the cutest names for your wife. Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her and avoid using names that hurt her feelings. Don’t treat her like a fly - You never think about a fly in your daily lives until it "bugs" you. Similarly, I will do well all day - which brings no attention from you - until I do something to "bug" you. Don’t treat me like this, recognise all the good I do for you and focus on that. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment. This is one of the ways Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (Radiallaahu Anhum) It is a technique that you as a Muslim have to master. When last did you smile at me, can you remember? So smile, smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with me constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those ahadith when Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) would kiss his wife before leaving for salaah, even if he was fasting. You must thank me for all the things I do for you. Then you must thank me again! Take for example a dinner at home. I make the food, clean the home, and carry out a dozen other tasks. And sometimes the only acknowledgement I receive is that there needed to be more salt in the food. Don’t let that be. Thank me! Salt is always on the table for you to use. Ask me to write down the last ten things you did for me that made me happy. Then you must go and do them again. It may be hard to recognise what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life. Don’t belittle my desires, comfort me. Sometimes you may look down upon the requests of your wife . Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) set the example for all in an incident when Safiyah (Radiallaahu Anha) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her and brought her the camel. Be humorous and play games with your wife, you are never too old to do anything, it’s the way we think. Look at how Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) would race his wife Aisha (Radiallaahu Anha) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that? You are all busy in the bakery from Monday to Sunday and have no time for me. If I say (sic) you let’s walk on the beach you say "No!". That is not right. You are getting old before your time. Life is very short so enjoy your life while you can enjoy. Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) "The best of you are those who treat their wives the best." - Try to be the best! In Conclusion Never forget to make Dua to Allah -azza-wa-jall to make your marriage successful. And Allah Ta’ala Knows Best. I hope you read this letter very, very carefully and remember and practise what is written in it. (The Poem) I love filling your life with joy And your pain, I’ll alleviate it. But just a simple "thank you" would also show how much you appreciated me. As alamu alaykum From your loving wife, BiG mOm

A/alaykum wrhmtulahi wbrkt Maasha Allaah Hafsa thank You for sharing this I love for the sake of allaah the person who remind us the good words and a good things to do ,, May Allah Bless You sis..

Asalaama Alaykum my dear sis thnk you very much, this is realy true

Thank you bro & Sis, But it's not seems Like a True Story.. Sheeko Hariiro-- Like Dhagdheer,

poem from islamic sites I like to share it with my sisters.. thnk you for your time! We are the honorable women of Islam! We don't sell our bodies for people to sell their products; You won't find us advertising for stuff like new trucks. We don't dress up on the streets as if were some sort of merchandise, Keep your dirty hands to yourself, or, with Allah, you will pay the price. We are the honorable women of Islam! Oh you men, keep your eyes to your self; we're not products on display, Throw your pickup lines away; we don't wanna hear what you have to say. We're not like other women; they sleep all around town, And to that despicable level, we will never come down. We are the honorable women of Islam! Yes, we wear the hijab; its our badge of honor from Al-Mu'eez. We don't dress like other women; we are free from their immodest disease. We don't sell out and put our selves on billboards, We have dignity, and from Allah, we will have our rewards. We are the honorable women of Islam! You won't find us in parties, getting drunk and disgraced, What a shame! Women like that have had their honor erased. We don't dress like other women; we're not giving every man a cheap thrill, We don't dress like the prostitutes that are out just chasing the dollar bill. We are the honorable women of Islam! Don't come to us looking for some dirty one night stand! You better turn away from us, and get yourself a different plan. We aren't messing around; we're busy raising up our nation, That's right, were busy taking Islam to the next generation. We are the honorable women of Islam! We are the ones who raise the ummah and strive to make it great, If we didn't do our part, then for the ummah, what would be its fate? From babies to leaders, we are the ones who make them what they are. We are the honorable women of Islam, without us this ummah won't go far! By Masood

asalama alaykum jazzaki alaah khair sister:- nice 1.. Isxisabi Intan lagu xissabin.. masha allaah..

Asalama alaykum masha allaah my allah reward you for the nice post.. keep it up sister!

masha allah they was real women.. Go'i waa barbaareey Gobi waxay ku dhaqantaa Garab waxay ka dhigataa gallad waxay ku dheeftaa Samo waxay ku gaadhaa Gololadda haweenkee hiddaheena gaarka ah Hablihii gabowgiyo geerida ku sugi jiray but now hmm. I got a sunshine but the outside is cloudy

looool "Right, that's why we invented African roulette, would you like to play?"

Asalama alaykum ------------------- Walaaheyga sharafta lahow waxan akhristay maqal aad u dheer oo ka hadlaya qiso aan aad uga naxo, ma runbaa ma beenbaa Allaahu Aclam, hadaad jeclaataan inaad akhrisataan gala sitekan riix halkan hadaan soo koobana Waa xaas netka ku fasaaday oo ninkeedi nin kale ka raacday ka dibna la faraxumeeyey waa sideey u soo qoreena, ka dibna dhimatay Waxaan ku iri waa inaadan aad u fogaan ma doonayo inaan guriga in badan ka maqnaado. Wuxuu iigu jawaabay Xoogaa waan soo daahaynaa maxaa yeelay marna si fudud kugu sii dayn mayo waxaa kaliya oon doonayaa inaan xoogaa waqtiya adiga kula qaato ishana kaa buuxsado waxa laga yaabaa inaadan mardanbe ii ogolaan inaan dib kuu arko. Saaas ayay sheekadaydii ku bilaabatay inkastoo walwalkaygu uu sii badanayay saasoo tahay naftaydu waxay sii jeclaysanaysay marwalba inaan la sii joogo. Sheekadeennii waxay bilowday inay u waajahsato xagga romansiga Jacayl, ma garanayo inta saac oon isla joognay xattaa ma dareemin jidka aan hayno iyo meeshaan u soconno toona. Waxaan ku baraarugay anoo jooga meel aanan garanayn, mugdi ah una eg beer lagu nasto, waxaan bilaabay inaan ku qayliyo waa maxay meeshaan aan joogno?! Xaggeena ii wadaa??.. sakanno duduhood gaarigii waa gaarigii oo istaagay iyo nin kale oo albaabka gaariga furaya iigana soo bixinaya gaariga si xoog ah.......waxaad moodaa wax walba inay sidii biriq u dhacayaa yacni dhaqsaha ........... waad sii dhameysan kartaan hadaad waqti u heysaan iney dhimatay beeyna ku soo gabo gabeeyeen { Innaa Lillaahi Wa'Inna Ileyhi Rajicun}balse mexey idinla tahay gabdhoow qisadaan naxdinta leh ??? Allaah hanaga badbaadiyo fitanta Aduunka aamiin

A/alakum Allah's love for His slave and the slave's love for his Lord. To have love for someone for the sake of Allah's pleasure is also a grand act for which much merit and many rewards have been promised. "To love for the sake of Allah" means loving someone, not for worldly gain, but because he is more religious and pious or he is very learned in din or is busy in serving the cause of din or because loving him or her is commanded by Allah, e.g. one's parents. Such a love has been called "love for Allah" in ahadith. One hadith says, " Allah shall ask on the Day of Judgement, ' Where are those who loved for the sake of my Greatness? Today when there is no shade save Mine, I shall have them in My Shade.'" (Sahih Muslim: Kitab al Birr wa al Silah) peace

masha allaah let us write then! afkeena hooyo ee qaaliga ah , yaanan iloobin somalia Online 99% luqad qalaad baan wax ku qornaa sida dad aan luqad qabin, ama leheenba kor u qaada luqadeena :cool:

hehehehehe! Old aunts huh

asalamu calaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu very funny

Allaah ha soo hanuuniyo

Now I ask you my fellow Somalis which one of these do you see as the solution to our problems? ???? koran wa sunnah

hmm

Asalaama alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatu Allaahu aclam

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asalama alaykum hibo i said golden age !

asalama alykum wa rahmtullahi wa barakatuhu MAASHA ALLAAH NICE ONE! 4 NAAGLOOW AMAR BAA KU HEYSTA! KEEP IT UP .. THNK YOU BROTHER -- FOR THIS

asalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu buubto nice jump lol