well the thing is, everybody is like that, when u first meet some one u introduce them to ur friends so u can't really say afterwards, well hey girls/boys this is hebel/heblaayo but i dont want u to say anything about him/her cuz it aint none of ur business. It dont work like that, cuz obviously u introduce the person first to them and making it them business, you know involving them. And haven't u guys never been to ur friends for advice or anything when u just had a fight with ur boo...so u cant really say, why the hell did u go and visit them and tell them about ur boy and whatnot...so that's the way it was/is for me, dont know about what u do...but thank you for u opinions

me personally would like the biggest wedding that eva happened and i already got a list sumwhere of who to invite and it's growing as i'm getting to know more ppl everyday...dam! Anyway mine would have to be outdoors cuz i cant stand those indoor halls, make me sweat...definitly not good...well for that to happen though gotta start savin now aint it!

istaqfurulaah!!! Alla kaas ilahey lugta haa u dhigow... Allah said that u can hit ur wife if u tried everything and I repeat everything to make her lsiten to u, and then there is a way to hit her and that is to give her a pat on her arm/upper arm, but never beating. It's an outrage and disgusting for a man to beat his wife and claim it upon his culture or bliefs. Uff, he should be shot and killed and what is that woman still doing with him, call me a feminist but she should be packin her bags and leaving that ******* , and take her kids too. No man deserves a second look if he dares showing his strength to his wife, the one he promised to love and take care off...uff Dabaalka haa la iga horkeeno walahi diintisa iyo culture kiisa ayaan narta u dhigi laha....kufo hanaa kacin, ilahey waxaan ugu rajeenaya ina dhagaha lago waso...abe wasaha....akhas caleykii ...i hate man like that

does marriage has to bbe involved for two people to feel loved?? Yeh true ppl have to be attracted at first but to actually marry one and another they have to love eachother, or it won't work...well to me it is like that

well i have to reply to this...!! U will know gal by the way u feel when he/she looks at you, getting all soft in ur head. Or thinking about him/her when ur not with him. When he/she is the first thing in ur mind when u wake up and the last thing when u go to sleep. When he/she kisses u and u feel like ur having breathing difficulties, or when u get mad at urself for thinking like this cuz u think it's ****** because u neva experienced it before! Well if all these symptoms occur then u know U'VE GOT IT BAD!!

ma labo farood dhan aa...waaww wey badan tahaye!!! Walaal, dang...neva eva tell a girl u wanna stick ur two fingers in her "apple pie"...cuz u will only get slapped if not worse...Say things like, i like the way u smell, which shampoo do u use?? lolz that will definitly not get u slapped. I once slapped a guy but it was because he made a comment bout my mama but it was great letting him have it upfront and in his face, with spit on my hand like The Rock always does!!! Anyway i'm out and truly feel sorry for ya...(damm two fingers in ur apple pie he said :eek: :eek: )

first and foremost walaalayaal thank you for ur opinions and some harsh words...hint hint ----> ZULU & rudy . I have some things i wanna add myself now. Proudsista, i have thought about going back to him but wouldnt that just leave us with the problems we left behind, it would be like kick starting off where we left it. An believe me girl i am not a person to step up to a guy and ask if he will take me back..uh uh i'd rather get shot and beheaded b4 doing that :eek: But u know in the end i've always worked it out and i will...guess now i know what love really feels like. And ZULU, if he was THE ONE then we might meet up again...Cuz hadey qurnantahay jidkeena wuu isku soo leexandoona...hmm sounds very philosophically...is dis another symptom of heart ache??? :confused:

This topic may be posted in the women's department...but it's unisex SO ....let me get started, well a while ago and i'm talking about a whole lot of that ago, i got it together with this guy. We clicked and had really nice open talks, and i felt comfortable with him even though i didnt know him that well. Well after a while when he made it clear he wanted it to be more than just a casual here-and-then meet-ups or dates i got cold feet. At that time a lot was going on and some friends of mine didnt want me to see hooking up with him, they thought he was a what u call a "playa", but i felt i had him under control. Anyhow to make a long story short, i started to not show up on any date and that kinda thing...believe me sumtimes i couldnt make it for real, cuz of work or family but when you start making excuses once, it all will look the same. So when we finally stopped seeing each other (after a really big argument) I started getting hung up on the guy. Since then i've been in different types of relationships some good, some bad, but everytime i get out of one, i realise i still have feelings for the other guy. It isn't like i wanna get back with him, because i know it wouldnt work out cuz too much has passed for that happen. But it's like having this sense of having unfinished work where you keep wondering, whether u should've done this or said that...Whether he is thinking the same thing now...Is this just me or have any of you got experience in this department. This has neva happened to me before i met this guy, and i had found it easily to forgot about any other guy i dated before or after...Does this mean something :confused: ?? Besides i have been told that he was quite serious about me, but hello it was way after it was over, what good will that do . Well that's it for my sob story, feel free to comment on it whether your telling me i'm disgracing the sisterhood for getting hung up on a guy or whether ur telling me to do something about it.....(where are my choccies and luther vandross CD??)

Hey ppl, first of all i just wanna say that my cousin got married last friday after having a very tough year with her mum passing away and all...luv her dearly and wish her and her man all the best! Her wedding was done beautifull and she was wearing hidiyo dhaqan clothes. I would love for my wedding to be as organised as hers....have any of u ppl got a idea of how u wanna do ur weddings?? Would it be inside or outside, lot of ppl or very private, dj or a radio??Have a wedding Planner??? Post all ur ideas here...... wat would ur perfect wedding be like??

ilahey haa u naxariisto amiin

liked the first one the best....but the others are good as well...keep em coming!!

hahahahaha well funni this one, keep it up!

thanx sectioner, glad to see sum ppl havent lost their sense of humor!

A friend of mine sent me this one and honestly i was crackin up on the floor!! Ingredients: 4 Laughing eyes 4 Well-shaped legs 4 Loving arms 2 Firm milk containers 2 Nuts 1 Fur-lined mixing bowl 1 Firm banana Directions: 1. Look into laughing eyes. 2. Spread well-shaped legs with loving arms. 3. Squeeze and massage milk containers very gently. 4. Gently add firm banana to mixing bowl, working in and out until well creamed. For best results. Continue to knead milk containers. 5. As heat rises, plunge banana deep into mixing bowl and cover with nuts, leave to soak (preferably NOT overnight). 6. The cake is done when banana is soft. If banana does not soften, repeat steps 3-5 or change mixing bowls. Notes: 1. If you are in an unfamiliar kitchen, wash utensils carefully before and after use. 2. Do not lick mixing bowl after use. 3. If cake rises, leave town.

hahahahh dayumm, got me crashin from da chair!!

yeh it was, cuz obviously sum ppl were not so willing to give money "so he vent and cut it off!"

No Baby gal, don't get me wrong, it's for ur FAVE TUNE OF ALL TIME, it don't necessarly has to be that particlular categories, u see it was just sum examples to give u sum ideas maybe? So just share wit us fellow nomads!! Dee haa iska dhigina inaad xishooneysin, ha la shido meesha!!!!

The suitcases. A customs agent stopped Sam, an elderly Jewish man who had just immigrated to Israel and asked him to open his two suitcases. In the first suitcase, the agent found over 1 million pounds in £10 notes. "Excuse me, sir" he asked Sam, "where did you get all this money?" "Vell, I'll tell you," Sam began, "I love Israel. For many years I travelled all around the world and stopped off at all of the public toilets in all the major cities; I vent to New York, I vent to London, I vent to Madrid, to Prague, to Paris, everywhere. As soon as I arrived, I vent into all the cubicles where the men were peeing and I say to them, "Give me £10 for Israel or I'll cut off your testicles vit my knife." "That's quite a story," the customs agent said, "what's in the second suitcase?" "Vell, you know," said Sam, shaking his head, "not everyone likes to give..."

hahahaha, walahi this one killed me, dayumm, tru say though, wonder wat'll happen when he gets in prison! would't be too hard to make a choice

What is ur fav R&B, Hip Hop, Rap, Reggae tune of all time, old or new??? I'll start off wit mine I actually got three not one 1.Back at one-Brian Mcknight 2.Your home is in my Heart-Boyz II Men 3.Holla-Ginuwine Actually i could've gone on, but gotta restrain mahself!! Once i start i get carried away, but hey jot down sum of ur favs aight "Repeat steps one to three"

hahahaha walahi this is a good topic well mine spelled backwards would be--->ATFAN

i'd have to say "Wow" by Brandy cuz i'm lovin life!! Neva felt better before!!! And everytime i hear this song it just lifts me up

Driving to the office this morning on the motorway, I looked over to my right and there was a woman in a brand new BMW doing 90 miles per hour with her face up close to her rear view mirror putting on her eyeliner! I looked away for a couple of seconds and when I looked back she was halfway over in my lane still working on that makeup!! It scared me ( I'm a man ) so much that I dropped my electric shaver, which, knocked the bacon roll out of my other hand. In all the confusion of trying to straighten out the car using my knees against the steering wheel,it knocked my mobile from my ear, which fell into the coffee between my legs, causing it to splash and burn BIG JIM AND THE ROUND TWINS, causing me to scream, which made me drop the cigarette out of my mouth, ruined my shirt and disconnected an important call! F****NG WOMEN DRIVERS !!!! This one had me cracking for hours

got more of these jokes u guys wanna share wit me as well??