WELCOME HONEST GIRL...I HOPE U ENJOY UR STAY HERE. GOOD TO HAVE NEW NOMADS IN THE HOUSE.

HEY LULLA WHATS UP? I AM A THE TYPE OF FEMALE WHO GETS ALONG WITH EVERYONE BE IT MALE OR FEMALE...ITS JUST MY PERSONALITY AND HOW I AM. GIRL LET ME TELL U I HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY A LOT FEMALES IN MY LIFE BUT I DONT STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL AND LET THEM GET TO ME AND RUIN MY LIFE OR THE FRIENDSHIPS THAT I HAVE MADE.MY GREATEST FRIENDSHIPS ARE WITH MY GIRL FRIENDS BESIDES ITS JUST ONE OF THOSE THINGS SOME FEMALES DO: THEY HATE AND ENVY U OR WHAT U HAVE THEREFORE TRY AND RUIN IT FOR U; JUST TO MAKE UR LIFE MISERABLE.

WELCOME WHITESOMALI66 HOPE U ENJOY UR STAY HERE!

WELCOME WHITESOMALI66 HOPE U ENJOY UR STAY HERE!

WELCOME WHITESOMALI66 HOPE U ENJOY UR STAY HERE!

WELCOME WHITESOMALI66 HOPE U ENJOY UR STAY HERE!

hard to find:osama

teenagers:trouble

horny:provocative

HEY GIRL, LOOKS LIKE TO ME U DONE DIGGED URSELF A HOLE SO DEEP U MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO GET OUT OF IT, BUT ON THE OTHER HAND U MIGHT BE ABLE TO WITH SOME HELP AND SUGGESTIONS FROM THE NOMADS AND UR SELF. TO GUY X(NICE GUY) I AM NOT REALLY SURE HOW U CAN MAKE UP FOR THE PAIN U CAUSED HIM...BUT IF I WERE U I WOULD TRY TO TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM WHAT THE DEAL IS AND THAT UR LOVE DOESNT COST A THING-HENCE HE WAS TRYING TO LURE U IN-TO LIKE HIM BY SPENDING MONEY ON U;HE REALLY DID NOT NEED TO DO THAT:LET HIM KNOW IF U CAN OR WANT TO. AND MAYBE HE DOESNT WANT TO BE FRIENDS BECAUSE HIS FEELINGS FOR U ARE TOO STRONG AND HE IS REALLY HURT. LET HIM KNOW THAT IT WAS WRONG OF U TO LEAD HIM ON LIKE THAT (AND FOR SIX MONTHS! DAMN GIRL!) AND MAYBE IN TIME HE WILL UNDERSTAND, WHO KNOWS? AND ONE MORE THING-APOLOGIZE TO HIM-I MEAN DIRECTLY LET HIM U DID HIM WRONG AND U REALLY DIDNT WANT THINGS TO TURN OUT THE WAY THEY DID. SCENARIO NO NOs: WHAT U DID TO GUY X(NICE GUY) WAS NOT FAIR AND TO LEAD HIM LIKE THAT FOR SIX MONTHS-NOW THATS JUST CRUEL.YOU SHOULD'VE TOLD HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE(THATS JUST MY OPINION)AND MAYBE HE WOULD'VE STILL OFFERRED TO GIVE U RIDES-I MEAN THATS NOT A COMMITTMENT OR ANYTHING-IT DOES REQUIRE OR GURANTEE HIM A RELATIONSHIP WITH U-LOVE- IF HE GIVES U RIDES. THE GIFTS ARE A LITTLE TOO MUCH IF U ASK ME. LITTLE, INEXPENSIVE ARE OK BUT HE PROBABLY THOUGHT U WOULD COME AROUND IF HE KEPT BUYING U GIFTS. AS FOR GUY Y...HE FEELS HE DOESNT TRUST U AND ON SOME LEVEL I UNDERSTAND WHY HE FEELS THE WAY HE DOES BUT I GUESS IF U WERE HONEST WITH HIM MAYBE IT WOULD HAVE TURNED OUT DIFFERENTLY-BUT I GUESS WE CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT THAT NOW. GUY Y... ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT IT IS PROBABLY POSSIBLE FOR U GUYS TO WORK THINGS OUT BUT I DIDNT SEE ANYTHING THAT U DID THAT MADE U LOOK LIKE A MINOR OR IRRESPONSIBLE-MAYBE U GUYS ARENT COMPATIABLE. JUST TRY TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM MAYBE HE WILL SEE THAT U ARE NOT A LIAR OR IMMATURE. AND AS HE MADE IT CLEAR HE DOESNT WANT TO BE ANYTHING MORE THAN FRIENDS SO MAYBE U SHOULDNT TRY TO BE MORE THAN THAT-FOR THE TIME BEING.I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT PERSUE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY THATS OLDER THAN ME EIGHT YEARS AND THATS JUST ME AND I AM NOT SAYING THAT U SHOULDNT EITHER. THERE IS JUST A BIG GAP-IN EVERYTHING U KNOW.

YOU KNOW WHAT CHE? I AGREE WITH YOU, THIS IS IN FACT A SAD ORDEAL.BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW ELIMINATING INNOCENT BABY GIRLS IS GOING TO SOLVE THEIR OVERPOPULATION PROBLEM AND HOW BOYS ARE MORE VALUABLE THAN GIRLS-HENCE THEY ARE THE ONES WHO BEAR CHILDREN AND RAISE THE FAMILY WHILE THE MEN ARE OUT WORKING-IN SOME CASES.HOWEVER, THERE IS NOT MUCH THAT WE CAN DO TO PREVENT THIS BRUTAL PRACTICES FROM HAPPENING SINCE ITS PART OF WHAT THESE PEOPLE BELIEVE AND ITS BEEN PART OF THEIR CULTURE FOR SOME CENTURIES.ONE THING THEY COULD DO IS TO WAKE-UP AND REALIZE THE SEVERITY OF WHAT THEY ARE DOING TO THESE INNOCENT BABIES AND HOPEFULLY TAKE A STAND AGAINST THESE BRUTAL ACTIONS AND FROM THERE DEMOLISH THESE PRACTICES- I HIGHLY DOUBT IT-BUT I HOPE IT COMES TO AN END REAL SOON, FOR THE SAKE OF MANKIND. BUT THATS JUST MY OPINION!!! ONCE AGAIN THIS IS A SAD ORDEAL BUT HEY THIS IS LIFE FOR SOME PEOPLE!!!

MR.MILLENIUM THAT WAS FUNNY I TELL YA! I GUESS THAT BUSINESSMAN LEARNED(HIS LESSON)THAT A BEAUTIFUL GIRL CAN HAVE BOTH BRAINS AND BEAUTY...TOO BAD HE UNDERESTIMATED HER.(NOW WHO GETS THE LAST LAUGH?) *WHERE DID U GET THIS STORY? DID U MAKE IT UP?*

Welcome Aishah!!! How are you doing sis? Just wanted to let you know that whether you are new here or have been here for a while you will always be welcomed-its like a big family gathering here, you wont feel isolated. I hope you like your experience here, i know i do. take care now

WeLL, I See THaT THiS ToPiC HaS BRouGHT aLoT oF PeoPLe'S oPiNioN ouT iN THe oPeN aND SoMe WoRDS HaVe BeeN eXCHaNGeD THaT aRe uNNeCeSSaRY iF You aSK Me...BuT HeY THaT'S JuST My oPiNioN...Nee WaYZ 2 GeT 2 THe PoiNT; as far as i am concerned we all know and have learned the difference between right and wrong and this topic is a situation where you have to chose which path it is and i dont mean to preach but lets be honest here some of us do things that we know we are not suppose to be doing...call it weakness...call it ignorance...but whatever the case the bottom line is that we all have to face our consequences sooner or later and its with ALLAH as we all know. i personally agree with each and everyone of you to a certain extent but then again that's my opinion and mine only and so you all are entitled to your opinion BUT LET'S remember one thing: when our fellow nomads post a topic it is merely so that we can give them some feedback to help them to a better understand the that particular topic.

Hey Nomads! How are yOu guys doing? I have one topic that needs to be brought to attention. I hate the fact that when you have a party and you invite certain guests to a limited capacity, the whole town shows up. What i cant understand is why uninvited people show up and ruin the evening for everyone. I recently had a party and people i have never seen in my life where at my house and some did not even know how to dance and they ruined it for those who really wanted to enjoy themselves. And uh before i forget one more thing: why is that they do not have the decency to clean up after themselves? this really irritates me. anyways now that i have given you guys a dose of my experience, anyone in the house have any thing to add to or suggest some solution for this type of situation. I would really appreciate the input!!!

To Abdulraheem: i appreciate your honesty brother and i understand why you feel the way you do.but to be honest with you; if i did see a fine somali brother with a non-somali girl i would not be prejudice and say why is he with her and so on. remember though that being physically attractive plays a small part in a relationship of any sort, he maybe more compatiable with a non-somali girl than a somali girl. so i am not against inter-racial marriages so long as the person is muslim that is all that matters(in my opion)and not their skin color or racial background, because all that is going to be overlooked when our time comes, our fate is all that is going to matter like sister LATEAFHA.

hey nomads thanks for all of your replies. i personally brought this topic into discussion because i know some people that are in this type of situation and i thought "why not share it with the rest of the nomads here?" so basically i just wanted to get some insight and feedback from you nomads out there.(EvErYoNe Is EnTiTlEd To ThEiR oPiNiOn!) peace!!!

to Tamina: i like your quote, that is very true. and if only some of us would take the time to review what we have learned through our religion we would not stand where we are today. and our religion very well says not to judge or prejudice against any of allah's creatures, but than again some of us that stubborn or ignornant and don't want any changes. peace

to Oday: hey um aren't you being prejudice and at the same time judgemental? i don't find a somalian woman that's married to a chinese and or cosavan guy weird as long as he is muslim, that comes first. if she loves him, by all means go ahead and marry him, ain't nothing wrong with that. in my perspective, marrying outside somalian race is all right with me because frankly it is not my decision and i am not going to judge someone because their spouse is a different race. allah said that all his creatures (including humans) are all the same in his eyes, so why should we see it any different?

to Scorpion_Sista and Nice: i like your insights. its real cool to know that some of us are open minded and want to experience different things. thanks for your replies!

you know what i agree and understand with all of your replies. i mean if you don't ask questions like i did, then it is hard to see and fully understand what the other person's opinion on a certain situation is. i have seen and i know people who married outside somalian race. and i just wanted to find out how you guys responded. people around them act weird and they make it obvious. and i personally am a very open minded person so i like to ask questions and get feedbacks on them, so that i might gain some new knowledge. thanks for your time and your replies they were very thoughtful and reasonable peace!!!

hey nomads, i just want to get your opinion on interracil relationships such marriage and/or dating. i have come across some(somali)people that do not respect a somalian man or woman's spouse that is from another racial background.they treat them as if though they are dirty and not as the true muslims that they are. and guys remember i am only talking about my experiences and that i am not generalizing all somalian people out there as haters towards other racial groups. what do you guys think.do you support interracial relationships or do you oppose it and state your reason.