RUDY APOLOGY ACCEPTED! NEXT TIME JUST KEEP THAT IN MIND. ORIGINALLY POSTED BY RUDY: how many sista's do u know in your city that live or r married to some white ole kook just cuz he can provide with material things!! and when hes away she be calling you! I CANT REALLY SPEAK FOR EVERY GAL THAT IS MARRIED TO A WHITE OR NONSOMALI GUY AND FOR WHAT REASON. BUT I WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT THERE GALS THAT MARRY THESE MEN BECAUSE THEY LOVE THEM AND ARE MORE COMPATIABLE WITH THAN WITH A SOMALI GUY. AND I PERSONALLY DONT BELIEVE THAT SOMALI GIRLS MARRY THEM BECAUSE THEY CAN PROVIDE THEM WITH MATERIAL THINGS.THEY CAN CALL WHOMEVER THEY WANT WHENEVER THEY PLEASE WHETHER THE GUY IS THERE OR NOT! ORIGINALLY POSTED BY RUDY: and also here is another about it does not matter about the muslim thing! why do arabians freak out when their sons wanna marry mali gals! yeah! r we muslims or helloooooo do u hear the word cabdaaa echoing in your damn head! I CANT SPEAK FOR THE WAY THAT CERTAIN PEOPLE FEEL ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE. BUT MY GUESS WOULD BE THAT THEY KNOW THAT SOMALI GALS ARE NOT THE SAME AS ARAB GIRLS AND THAT THEY CANT CONTROL THEM LIKE THEY DO THEIR OWN. BESIDES I THINK THEY FEEL THE WAY THEY DO FOR THE SAME REASON THAT SOMALI GUYS DO WHEN THEY SEE A SOMALI GIRL WITH A NONSOMALI GUY. *ANYONE WHO HAS ANY INPUT IN THIS PARTICULAR AREA-YOUR OPINIONS ARE APPRECIATED*

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY RUDY: one thing that amazes the most is why mali guys r obessed with sista!when sistas show them no respect and threat like dirt!! RUDY, :rolleyes: DONT GENERALIZE ALL SISTAS DONT LACK RESPECT FOR SOMALI BROS AND TREAT THEM LIKE DIRT BAGS. THEY SHOULD BE OBESSED WITH SOMALI SISTAS... I MEAN ITS ONLY NATURAL SINCE THEY ARE THEIR WOMEN (YOU GET MY DRIFT HERE). IF YOU ARE SPEAKING FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ITS UNDERSTANDABLE BUT AGAIN THAT SHOULDNT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO GENERALIZE-WHICH PUTS ALL THE SISTAS DOWN. TO SOMALSIJUI: YOU REALLY SHOULDNT WORRY ABOUT A SISTA AND WHO SHE IS WITH-THATS A WASTE OF TIME. IF SHE DECIDES TO BE WITH SOMEONE THATS HER CHOICE AND LETS NOT FORGET HOW MANY BROS OUT THERE ARE WITH NON SOMALI WOMEN. GETTING INTO OTHER PEOPLES BUSINESS CAN GET YOU INTO ALOT OF TROUBLE-ITS REALLY UNCALLED FOR. BESIDES IF THE GUY IS MUSLIM RACE SHOULD NOT MATTER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE.

saud i believe that a relationship soley based on physical attraction is not going to last in the long term and evidently if that is the case than both parties are wasting each others time. lets be honest attraction will wear off eventually but if the couple have other things in common than it is more likely to work out. originally posted by saud: Let say that ur going out with a someone and their ideas about life is completely different from yours. Can ur relationship still be worked out on the basis of ur strong attraction for each other? In another words can a relationship be based on mostly physical attractions? I just want know what ur take is on this NoMADS as you have stated ^^^^^ someone whose ideas about life are completely different from yours-the relationship between the two people has a slight chance of surviving and im being realistic here. whatever the case maybe a relationship based on attraction no matter how strong will come to an end sooner or later, it is inevitable. nevertheless you want a relationship with someone whom you can spend time with conversing about various things and different aspects of life. you have to have some sort of goals in life that are common and the rest can be compromised. if you honestly can not have a intellctual relationship it is a waste of time. remember it is always easier to get physical than it is to talk-emotionally. ***COMMUNICATION is KEY to a RELATIONSHIP of any SORT***

HEY DARMAN SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOUR HEART HAS BEEN BROKEN BEYOND WORDS, BUT THE ONLY MEDICINE THAT CAN HELP YOU HEAL IS TIME. I CANT REALLY GIVE ANSWERS AS TO WHAT TO DO BECAUSE AS PRINCESS_SEXY SAID YOU NEED TO DO THAT ON YOUR OWN. YOU NEED TO LOOK AT THE SITUATION BOTH IN THIS CASE AND ANALYZE IT THOROUGHLY. I BELIEVE THAT YOU DID WHAT YOU DID TO THAT POOR GIRL BECAUSE YOU FELT THAT IT WAS THE ONLY WAY FOR YOUR BROKEN HEART TO MEND,OBVIOUSLY YOU WERE WRONG. AND YOU COMMITTED YOURSELF TO A RELATIONSHIP YOU WERE NOT READY FOR, MORE LIKE A REBOUND RELATIONSHIP: YOU THOUGHT THAT IF YOU GOT INVOLVED AGAIN YOU WOULD FORGET ABOUT UR LOVE THAT HURT YOU THIS BADLY. ANYWAY THERE IS NO WAY AROUND THIS SITUATION; YOU CANT USE THAT TO JUSTIFY UR SITUATION. :eek: BUT NEVERTHELESS YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON. YOU SAID YOU ALREADY APOLOGIZED TO THE POOR GIRL; IF IT WAS SINCERE AND SHE SAW THAT THEN GIVE HER TIME TO COME AROUND FORGIVE YOU(ALTHOUGH THATS HIGHLY UNLIKELY) IF NOT THAN WHAT MORE CAN YOU DO. MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL HER THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT UR EX DID TO YOU AND THATS PARTIALLY THE REASON WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID TO HER. MAYBE THAN SHE CAN UNDERSTAND YOU AND YOUR SITUATION. :confused: AND TO UR EX I WOULD NOT STOOP TO HER LEVEL, ALTHOUGH YOU KINDA DID. HOWEVER, IF SHE TRULY WAS SMART SHE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO ACT THE WAY SHE DID AND SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT OUT THE SITUATION THOROUGHLY. SHE MAD QUICK JUDGEMENT :eek: BASED ON THE RUMOURS SOME PEOPLE TOLD HER, THAT SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY TELL YOU THAT SHE HAD DOUBTS TO BEGIN WITH:WHICH IS NOT GOOD FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP. IF THE RELATIONSHIP ISNT BASED ON 100% TRUST BOTH WAYS THAN ITS NOT WORTH PURSUING. ALL I CAN SAY IS MAY UR SORROWS AND PAIN HEAL(SOON) BECAUSE IF NOT THAN YOU MAY END UP DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN. ALTHOUGH I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE HANDLED THIS SITUATION MORE MATURELY AND LOGICALLY OF ALL THE PEOPLE I KNOW. BUT IN MATTERS OF THE HEART SOMETIMES SOME THINGS ARE INEVITABLE. ***HOPE THAT HELPS!SORRY I WROTE TOO LONG*** :confused:

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY THE CLOWN: Lucky, my Cali Girl, you're a wonderful human being and a Great friend of mine! i wish you all the best. P.S i'm sending my regards all the way from AFRICA! THANKS CLOWN...NOT EVERYBODY HERE CAN SAY THAT ABOUT ME. YOU HAVE BEEN A GREAT FRIEND TO ME AS WELL. ***LET ME KNOW WHO IT GOES IN AFRICA*** I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK...YOU MIGHT NEED IT.

JAZAKALLAH KHAYR Muna_muslimah222 I ENJOY READING UR POSTS, ALWAYS HELPFUL!

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY THE_PLEDGE WHY SOMALIANS GIRLS ARE ATTRACTED TO THOSE GUYS THAT HAVE NICE BODY?,YOU GIRLS ALL KNOW THAT SOMALIAN GUYS ARE VERY VERY SKINNY!,OR VERY VERY FATTY!!!,AND YOU GIRLS ALL KNOW THAT SOMALIAN GUYS WITH NICE BODY ARE PRACTICLY VERY VERY VERY VERY RARE!!!!!. AND LETS NOT FORGET IS NOT ALL ABOUT THA BODY,IS WHAT U HAVE IN YUR HEAD...! ANYWAYS TELL ME IF SOMALIAN BROTHERS NEED TO HIT THA GYM!! 1-SAME REASON SOMALI MEN ARE ATTRACTED TO A SOMALI GIRL THAT HAS A NICE BODY. AND YES SOMALI GUYS ARE NATURALLY SKINNY OR VERY FAT AS YOU SAID BUT NOT EVERYONE IS. 2-TRUE A SOMALI MAN WITH ALL THE DESIRED FEATURES ARE RARE-VERY-BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU CAN IMPROVE YOUR SITUATION. 3-NO SOMETIMES ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE BODY-BUT LETS BE HONEST...WHAT IS THE FIRST THING THAT COMES TO UR MIND WHEN U SEE A FINE SIS/BRO? OF COURSE YOU ARE GOING TO LOOK AT THEIR. 4-YES SOMALI BROTHERS NEED TO HIT THE GYM BIG TIME ESPECIALLY THEM SKINNY ONES-I ALMOST FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.*BUILT MEN CATCH A WOMANS EYE THAN A SKINNY ONE* ***WHY IS THAT THE MAJORITY OF SOMALI MEN DESIRE A SOMALI GIRL WITH A BIG A$$, NICE CHEST, TIGHT WAIST, BIG HIPS, AND LONG HAIR?( THIS DOESNT ENTIRELY GO FOR EVERYONE, BUT I THINK YOU GET THE POINT)***

JAZAKALLAH KHAYR Muna_muslimah222 VERY HELPFUL TO ME PERSONALLY.

JAZAKALAAH KHAYR Muna_muslimah222 IT WAS A GREAT REMINDER, NOT TO TAKE EVERYTHING FOR GRANTED...INSTEAD WE SHOULD BE THANKFUL. IM ACTUALLY GLAD I CAME ACROSS YOUR POST TODAY... COMPLAINING ABOUT THINGS. I WAS AND STILL TIRED OF (WISHIN I HAD DIED A LONG TIME AGO)THIS LIFE-THAN I REMEMBERED TO THANK ALLAH FOR I AM STILL BREATHING, HAVE ALL MY LIMBS INTACT, HAVING IMAN TO KEEP IN CHECK WHEN IM OUT OF LINE. ***With feet to take me where I'd go. With eyes to see the sunsets glow. With ears to hear what I'd know. Ya Allah, forgive me when I whine. I've been blessed indeed, the world is mine.*** ^^^AMIN^^^

WELCOME Carays TO SOL. I HOPE YOU ENJOY UR STAY AND MAKE SOME GOOD FRIENDS.

GOOD LUCK QUEEN AS WELL AS MYSELF--------> C/O '03 IM GONNA NEED IT FOR SOME OF THE FINAL EXAMS ARE STILL WAITING FOR ME. ONE WEEK AND HALF TO GO TILL I GRADUATE!!!

WELL MY LIST AS OF NOW CONSISTS OF THE FOLLOWING: HE IS THE ONLY PERSON WHO HAS MENTIONED ME SO FAR. CLOWN-HE HAS A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR, VERY WITTY AND NICE ALL AROUND IN THE SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME I HAVE GOTTEN TO KNOW HIM PERSONALLY. ORIGINALLY POSTED BY THE CLOWN: Damn *****, did you have to say that out loud? now all these Girls will think of me as a PIMP! so I see even my girl has a Crush on you now . THATS VERY FUNNY! ORIGINALLY POSTED BY SHYHEM: The class I and I miyaah, loOOL......When i hit San Fran i wanna c where u hide 'em latino ladies.With all the guys in San Fran been gay guys, dude u must be keeping all the ladies to u'rself. ISNT THAT THE TRUTH-WELL FOR MOST OF THEM ANYWAYS.

WELCOME ilhaan003sistah TO SOL AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY UR STAY HERE. ***SAY WHATS ON UR MIND AND FEEL LIKE AS LONG AS IT IS APPROPRIATE***

WELCOME ilhaan003sistah TO SOL AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY UR STAY HERE. ***SAY WHATS ON UR MIND AND FEEL LIKE AS LONG AS IT IS APPROPRIATE***

WELCOME ilhaan003sistah TO SOL AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY UR STAY HERE. ***SAY WHATS ON UR MIND AND FEEL LIKE AS LONG AS IT IS APPROPRIATE***

WELCOME ilhaan003sistah TO SOL AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY UR STAY HERE. ***SAY WHATS ON UR MIND AND FEEL LIKE AS LONG AS IT IS APPROPRIATE***

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY THE CLOWN: it's good to know Lucky that you got my back and i can't Love you enuff ! YOU CAN COUNT ON IT CLOWN!

JAZAKALLAH KHAYR SWEET_GAL IT WAS VERY INSIGHTFUL.A REMINDER TO KEEP US IN OUR PLACES AND TAKE PRAYING SERIOUSLY. MAY ALLAH LEAD US ALL IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION...STARTING WITH PERFECTING OUR PRAYERS.

FIRST OF ALL WELCOME TO SOL ManOfWisdom SINCE I SEE THAT U ARE NEW HERE. I GUESS I WOULD HAVE TO GO WITH CHOICE #7 POSTED BY OPINIONATED. PERSONALY I BELIEVE THAT THERE SHOULD NOT BE RESTRICTIONS U KNOW AS TO WHERE TO FIND A SOUL MATE.

AWWW...CLOWN ARE U FEELING LEFT OUT? IM SURE MANY NOMADS HERE WILL MISS U EVEN IF THEY DONT WANT TO ADMIT IT. I WOULD MISS UR CRAZY AND WEIRD SORT-OF SENSE OF HUMOUR. COMING UP WITH ALL THOSE CREATIVE SOMETIMES SILLY TOPICS...DONT GET ME WRONG SOME OF THEM ARE PRETTY GOOD AND WORTH READING.

FOUZIA_BELLA I KNOW IT SAYS GEMINIS BUT... IM A LIBRA!!!!!

JAZAKALLAH KHAYR JIDAAWY FOR THE INSIGHTFUL PIECE! I ALWAYS WONDER WHERE THE TIME WENT AND WHAT DID IN THAT GIVEN TIME...THAT NOW HAS BECOME WASTED. WE ALWAYS NEED A LITTLE REMINDER TO KEEP US ON OUR TOES...ITS APPRECIATED IT ANYTIME.(LIKE BATUULO STATED EARLIER)!

CLOWN WHAT COULD YOU POSSIBLY HAVE IN THAT FRIDGE OF YOURS THAT YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO TELL? HMMM...I WONDER!!! DHUUSAAYE I WILL HAVE TO GET BACK TO YOU ON THAT ONE...LIST IS TOO LONG RIGHT NOW. BUT IN THE MEAN TIME LOOK AROUND AND READ ANYTHING THAT SEEMS INTERESTING. ***AND IT REALLY DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN...INORDER FOR SOME CERTAIN TOPIC TO SEEM INTERESTING(OR WORTHWHILE TO READ) TO YOU OR A SPECIFIC PERSON***

CLOWN WHAT COULD YOU POSSIBLY HAVE IN THAT FRIDGE OF YOURS THAT YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO TELL? HMMM...I WONDER!!! DHUUSAAYE I WILL HAVE TO GET BACK TO YOU ON THAT ONE...LIST IS TOO LONG RIGHT NOW. BUT IN THE MEAN TIME LOOK AROUND AND READ ANYTHING THAT SEEMS INTERESTING. ***AND IT REALLY DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN...INORDER FOR SOME CERTAIN TOPIC TO SEEM INTERESTING(OR WORTHWHILE TO READ) TO YOU OR A SPECIFIC PERSON***

CLOWN WHAT COULD YOU POSSIBLY HAVE IN THAT FRIDGE OF YOURS THAT YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO TELL? HMMM...I WONDER!!! DHUUSAAYE I WILL HAVE TO GET BACK TO YOU ON THAT ONE...LIST IS TOO LONG RIGHT NOW. BUT IN THE MEAN TIME LOOK AROUND AND READ ANYTHING THAT SEEMS INTERESTING. ***AND IT REALLY DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN...INORDER FOR SOME CERTAIN TOPIC TO SEEM INTERESTING(OR WORTHWHILE TO READ) TO YOU OR A SPECIFIC PERSON***