YOU TELL THEM GIRL...WHATS ON YOUR MIND. but i guess society made it ok for men to do things and they get props for and if the girl does the same there goes the naming game. yes it does affect us somalis big time as you all know what im talking about.

girl that is so sad...i thought i had it bad. as for me i am trying to find something that works for me but i havent just yet anyway.i have tried filfil/milk,habadsoda/tea, honey/tea, advil, tylenol but i am not much of a medicine person. and a heating pad eases the pain a bit. as for marriage i dont know but i would like to know if any sis here are married and if it changes or whatnot.

YEP...YOU CATCH ME WITHOUT MY LIPGLOSS AND YOULL SEE ME IN THE BATHROOM EVERY FIVE MINUTES WETTING MY LIPS WITH WATER. AND MY FIRST BREAK IM HEADING TO THE STORE TO BUY A NEW ONE. PEOPLE LOOK AT ME LIKE IM CRAZY CUZ I FINISH MY LIPGLOSS IN NO TIME. :rolleyes: FLYING-STILL GIRL IM NATURALLY OIL BUT I DONT USE POWDER...DOES THAT HELP? :confused:

RUDY U ARE A STRANGE LITTLE FELLA AINT YOU? :confused:

TAGANE: THATS SOME SICKENING ARTICLE :eek: ...ITS QUITE DISGUSTING BUT THEN AGAIN THATS REALITY. I HAVE HEARD ABOUT GAY SOMALI MEN BUT TRANS-SEXUALS :confused: :mad: :rolleyes: MAY ALLAH HELP US! THAT IS BEYOND ME...I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND.

^^^^^I DIDNT KNOW I WAS FUNNY. NO PROBLEMO WITH PEEKING :confused: YOU GUYS VIEW AND POST IN THE WOMENS FORUM I JUST DONT SEE WHATS WITH THE HIGH SECURITY...I MEAN WE'RE HARMLESS :confused:

THANKS FOR THE TIP FLYING-STILL. IM NOT A MEDICINE PERSON I ONLY TAKE MEDICINE WHEN I FEEL LIKE IM DYING OF THE PAIN OTHERWISE I WINE AND CRY. AND I HAVE BEEN VOMITING TOO JUST LIKE UR SIS BUT I HAVE LEARNED NOT TO EAT WHEN I FEEL THE CRAMPS BECAUSE U CANT THROW UP WITH AN EMPTY STOMACHE.

MAGNOONA-GIRL THANKS FOR THE WISE WORDS...INDEED AN EYE-OPENER!

WELCOME MIZZ_FABOLOUS & I HOPE U ENJOY UR STAY HERE

GUYS IF A MENS FORUM IS GONNA MAKE YOU HAPPY...BY ALL MEANS WHY NOT? TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT! ID LIKE TO KNOW WHY THERE IS NO WOMEN ALLOWED TO VIEW OR POST IN A MENS FORUM(IF ESTABLISHED)? :confused: ORIGINALLY POSTED BY SECTION6ER: Originally posted by Ilhaam: Kir waryaa! Waa xoog badantahay ma is tiri. :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: SECTION6ER BY THAT EXPRESSION I GUESS YOU DIDNT UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE SAID TO YOU!

MOST OF YOU SAID WHAT I WANTED TO SAY. ORIGINALLY POSTED BY FLYING-STILL: Ok...heres another angle....Do you see yourself raising your kids the same way you were raised? I think we raise our kids the only way we know how...which is taught to us by our parents. There will always be those major things that you will change but the basic structure of your parenting skills will be similar to that of your parents. I, for example, don't believe in trying to be friends with your children while they are young. I think that there should be boundries and that they need to understand this is a parent-child relationship. I'm not saying that you shouldn;t ever be friends with them...I just think you should wait until they are old enough to take Responsibility for their actions. Thats probably one thing I would change from my parents method of raising children.I could be wrong...but then again parenting is trial and error. FOR THE MOST PART YES I WOULD LIKE TO RAISE MY KIDS THE SAME WAY I WAS BROUGHT UP, HOWEVER I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE SOME CHANGES. MY PARENTS INSTILLED IN ME MORALS, RELIGION, MANNERS, RESPECT MYSELF/OTHERS AND TO HAVE DIGNITY AND PRIDE AND TO NEVER TO LOOK DOWN ON MYSELF...I WOULDNT CHANGE THAT FOR THE WORLD FOR IT HELPED SHAPE THE PERSON I AM TODAY. MY MOM AND I ARE ALIKE AND DIFFERENT IN MANY WAYS. I WOULDNT MIND MY DAUGHTER MAKING THE SAME MISTAKES I HAVE BECAUSE THEY ARENT MISTAKES THAT I AM ASHAMED OF, SO I THINK ALL IN ALL THAT IT WOULD HELP HER BECOME A BETTER PERSON.

GIRLS I HAVE TRIED THE FILFIL/MILK, HABADSODA/TEA,HONEY/TEA,HEATING PAD, TYNOL, ADVIL...YOU NAME IT. BUT SOMETIMES NONE OF THE ABOVE RELIEVES THE PAIN-IM SERIOUS. :mad: SEEN A DOCTOR PERSCRIBED THE BIRTH CONTROL PILL...YEAH RIGHT AS IF! :rolleyes: SO I GO TO BED, GET UNDER THE BLANKET AND SLEEP STOMACH FLAT AND SOMETIMES CRY TO SLEEP LIKE A BABY. ANY OTHER SUGGESTIONS? :confused:

FLYING-STILL, EXPECTIONAL_BY_NATURE, AMEENAH AND AVENGING_ANGEL: YOU GUYS SAID WHAT I WANTED TO, NO NEED FOR REPITIION.

MY LIPGLOSS OR CHAPSTICK...A MUST HAVE OR ELSE!

FIRST OF ALL WELCOME TO SOL! ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR YOUR GIRL FRIEND TELL HER TO DROP THIS GUY LIKE NOBODYS BUSINESS. FOR HER OWN GOOD BEFORE HE INFECTS HER WITH GOD KNOWS WHAT. :rolleyes: I WOULDNT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH A GAY GUY LET ALONE MARRY HIM. :mad: AND IS HE IN HIS RIGHT MIND, I MEAN MUSLIM MEN ARE NOT TO BE GAY OR ANYTHING OF THAT LIKE :confused: :confused: BESIDES SHE HAS EVIDENCE NO NEED TO GET INTO DETAILS AND WHO CARES ABOUT HIS FEELINGS IF HE IS DOING SUCH DIM-WITTED THINGS. HE HAS HURT HER IN MORE WAYS THAN IMAGINABLE. :eek:

FLYING-STILL IM WITH YOU GIRL. AND TO NOT RECOGNIZE THE SAME SURVEY THAT I DID ONCE BEFORE IS PATHETIC...I THINK :rolleyes: BUT THAT WAS FUNNY !

SOMEONE DID INFACT PLAGIARIZE. NOW THE QUESTION IS WHO...BUT I DONT CARE AND WE SHOULDNT JUDGE AND EXPLOIT PEOPLE LIKE THAT! :rolleyes:

SECTION6ER:WOOW... :rolleyes:

NUR THANKS FOR SHARING THAT WITH US, VERY INSIGHTFUL.

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY FLYING-STILL: How many people do we have for that Aqeedah class? Just me and Tamina? YOU CAN COUNT ME IN IF THATS ALL RIGHT!I WOULD LIKE TO LEARN MORE AS WELL.

GIRL ALL I CAN SAY IS BE HER FRIEND AND BE THERE FOR HER LIKE YOU ALWAYS HAVE BEEN(ASSUMING THATS WHAT FRIENDS DO)WHEN SHE IS HAVING A ROUGH TIME. THIS IS A TIME SHE NEEDS YOU THE MOST...I REALLY THINK THAT SHE IS HURTING INSIDE AND TRYING TO ACT AS IF NOTHIN HAPPENED...SOONER OR LATER SHE IS GONNA HAVE TO FACE REALITY-WHICH CAN BE A SLAP IN THE FACE. THE FRIENDSHIP AND TRUST AMONG THE TWO OF YOU SHOULD NOT BE IN JEOPARDY BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE DID. WHATS DONE IS DONE...NOW ALL YOU CAN DO IS TALK TO HER AND LEND HER A COMFORTING SHOULDER TO CRY ON. TELL HER NOT TO DO SUCH AN INANE THING LIKE THAT AGAIN. ONLY ALLAH CAN HELP HER THROUGH THIS ORDEAL. TELL HER TO SEEK REPENTANCE FROM ALLAH BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WILL FORGIVE HER. AND WHAT OTHERS SAY OR THINK ABOUT HER SHOULD NOT MATTER BECAUSE THEY ARE ONLY ADDING MORE DANBI TO THEIR BOOK. HOPE THAT HELPED A LITTLE

WELCOME TO SOL FLAMBOYANT ! OG_GIRL WHATS UP? I HAVENT HEARD FROM. GOOD TO SEE YA SIS

INSTINCT-POET THANKS FOR THE PICTURES...EVERY TIME I LOOK AT HOW OUR PEOPLE ARE LIVING BACK HOME AND HOW SOME OF US IN THE U.S. ARE CARELESS AND WASTE FOOD IT BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES. MAY ALLAH HELP THEM THROUGH THERE TRAGIC AND HORRIBLE TIMES.

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY CLOWN: "Get off ma back, you nasty, fake haired, fake nailed, fake gap jeaned(like the jeaned part?)borrowed bling bling, fake everything NAAYAA" and leave the party for good as she ruined your nice evening" now girls surely you must agree with me on this otherwise you're a biast. now i will go to the market and buy some caano baraawe when i come back, i will tell you who the NAAYAA i am talking about is. WHERE DO YOU MEET THESE GIRLS? :confused: ARE YOU BACK FROM THE MARKET TO FILL US IN JUST YET?

I COULDNT HAVE SAID IT BETTER. SOME OF THEM ARE HILARIOUS BUT SO TRUE!