Thanks Asraa yes indeed it is scary.

WELL DONE S.U.N.S.E.T

M_J_D23 WELCOME SIS TO SOL. NICELY WORDED.

Asraa thanks sis. Isnt that ironic?

OG_GIRL my sis i think you and ASRAA had a miscommunication here. I personally dont see what you see but the way i perceived it Asraa said if you dont have anything good to say dont waste your time replying(im assumming she meant negative remarks). There is no need to get personal here.Please lets all keep an open and understanding mind here. ORIGINALLY POSTED BY ASRAA: salaama calaykum How many of us beleive in trure love is once in a life time? if i start with my self i beleive true love is once in a life time because i have my own expereince that it's not gonna come back no matter what. so let me hear what ya'll think and How could u describe a true love? i will leave it to you guys and please don't west ur time if don't got nothing to say ok . much love to ya'll

Once Again Thanks! But how is a naive teenager suppose to know whether their parents leverage is a tactic that they are using and not for real?Some parents whether sane or not will stop at no means,even when their daugthers say they will leave the house. Being afraid of Allah is not in question here because nonetheless he is the only one we will have to answer to in the end. But im talking about the labels females get for certain things and the males come out in the end as being "the man". For example: a girl i know gets called all the HEINOUS words in the world, and rumours about her are being spread-all which happen to inaccurate. They say because she has male friends that she is a "b!tch". I know that she is a good person and does not do those rotten things they claim she does-one they dont have proof and two-they dont know her.Aside from all that only Allah knows and will deal with these people.

Thanks Zakariye for your input. I am aware that a marriage is not valid unless both parties agree on it. However I was not talking about myself but rather some incidents that take place and stories i hear. But how can you ignore your parents wish when they make you choose between du'a and inkar(excuse my written somali it is terrible)? In that case it is not much of a choice but rather you are given an ultimatum. And the double standard im talking about is one being the fact that men get away with so many things that the women couldnt-not without being called names and labeled. I think you get my drift here!

^^^^^One being the fact that we like to instill dhaqan into our people because its so important and no one seems to put that same emphasizes on our religion. How about the inhumanely and cruel FGM that millions of our Somali girls face? How about the sick DOUBLE STANDARDS Somali women face? How about some of the things that Mizz-Hurricane mentioned? How about the arranged marriages that so called dhaqan to inforce? I could be wrong about some of the above mentioned, please feel free to correct me.

MIZZ-HURRICANE I AGREE WITH YOU, OUR DIIN IS ALOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN CULTURE/TRADITION-IT HAS SO MANY FAULTS THAT ITS NOT EVEN COMPARABLE TO OUR RELIGION ANY GIVEN DAY.

^^^^^ "One halimo serving up the whole neighborhood" real funny.

OG_MOTI what is with all this talk of females being EVIL and that this game is not fair cuz we told one another? I mean come on this topic has been posted since 27th.Its a fair play. ORIGINALLY POSTED BY OG_MOTI: Traduce - to make false statements, causing humiliation or disgrace Yen - Japanesse currency cant buy u $hit..also a chinesse female name means the one with hairy legs.. Besides as the game rules say you cant define two words. P.S. HEnce the time difference. We didnt post at the same time. :rolleyes:

^^^^^ :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :mad: :mad: :mad:

^^^^^ ISNT THAT WHAT I JUST STATED IN THE ABOVE POST. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

MURAAD THANKS FOR SHARING THIS ARTICLE. ISLAM INDEED IS A BEAUTIFUL RELIGION.

I FEEL FOR YOU FLYING-STILL. YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO SURE RIGHT?

FLYING-STILL i suggest you steer clear of him, two wives? Unless you are willing to share your man-than thats a different story!

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY MINDSTATE: hahah Lucky or wut ever u call your self i'll take your ADVICE becouse i ain't naive Laakin adiga qiil aa raadineesan dambi ma aha in lagu dhaho maa sugeesay i didnt come here to give you ADVICE, and whether you are NAIVE or not is your problem. FYI: NEXT TIME,I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE YOU TO READ AND FULLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I WROTE BEFORE YOU START YAPPING NONSENSE. I am not looking for an EXECUSE to listen to music.I have already acknowledge that music is danbi-GO BACK TO THE ORIGINAL POST AND RE-READ! :mad: FLYING-STILL THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING WHERE I WAS GOING WITH THIS. MIZZ-HURRICANE THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR CLEARIFYING THAT FOR ME. UNDERDOG THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT. THANK YOU ALL, YOUR INPUT IS VERY MUCH APPRECIATED! I WILL PUT THIS DOWN ONE MORE TIME FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO MISSED IT OR HAVE A DIFFICULITY UNDERSTANDING IT: FYI: IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING POSITIVE TO SAY, PLEASE DONT BOTHER LEAVING IRRELEVANT/ASININE REMARKS!

OG_GIRL WHATS WITH THIS GIRL? I DONT GET A PERSONAL INVITATION TO YOUR WEDDING? AND I THOUGHT WE WERE COOL! :confused: FLYING-STILL GOOD LUCK GIRL! I GUESS THEY R SCARED OF YOU FOR BEING SO OUT SPOKEN! WELL I TAKE THAT BACK I SEE BACHELOR #1 HAS ALREADY ARRIVED, MY BAD GIRL!

THANK MAGNOONA-GIRL. ORIGINALLLY POSTED BY MAGNOONA-GIRL: For one thing, the more you listen to music the more you become attached to the world. YOu become so rovolved around the passion that you have for music and your favorrite singer/group that you forget God. I DIDNT THINK THAT IT WOULD GO THAT FAR BUT UNDERSTOOD. I KNOW THAT TIME IS WELL SPENT WHEN YOU READ THE QU'RAN AND LEARN ABOUT OUR DIIN.

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY CLOWN: Lucky say no mo' if you know wha' i mean. i ain't sayin' no mo' period! ALL RIGHT I WONT SAY ANYMORE OR DRAG THIS ANY FURTHER THAN I HAVE TO.

ORIGINALLLY POSTED BY CLOWN: Lucky, your Secret is safe with me as his is safe with me na'mean now go and have a drink on my tap aight. . SECRET?WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? :confused: I WONT DRINK ON YOUR TAP.

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY CLOWN: with whom? wait lemme guess... Lucky......or.......Silent-Sister or Proudsis? come on you can tell me, is aight! . my Boy have fun na'mean? WAIT...PAUSE RIGHT. ME?WHEN DID I BECOME INVOLVED HUH?CLOWN WHAT DO U KNOW THAT IM NOT AWARE OF? :confused:

PROUDSISTA I DONT KNOW BUT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT AS WELL.

CLOWN I would say that is beyond embrassment! Wasnt she out of your league?

MINDSTATE I'D ADVISE YOU TO APPLY THAT SAME STATEMENT TO YOURSELF.